Mysterious Scorpio Woman

I met a beautiful and intriguing Scorpio (also Scorpio Venus and Mercury) woman while performing with my band. We hired some girls from a college dance team to fill out the large theater stage and we instantly had sparks. Since the footage shot at the show was put in a music video I had to obtain a release form with her autograph so we met at a coffee shop. We had an intriguing conversation and then she got up to leave and turned to me and said "I guess I'll be seeing you soon."

About a month later I'm driving through her hometown and I hit an owl with my car (incidentally my totem animal) I pulled over and there was a bar so I thought a shot of Tequila might help. Suddenly I had a strange feeling she was there. I walk to the last upstairs room of the bar and there she is! She draws me in with the legendary Scorpionic love gaze and we have this magical conversation where it's like time stops. The next day my psychic friend called me and told me I had met a Soulmate from previous lives.

So we started texting (she thinks talking on the phone is a waste of time). I moved to another state and we stayed in contact for a year. She's an aloof texter but really intriguing and I can never predict her response times. But she always eventually gets back to me.

So a few weeks ago I found myself back in her hometown and I texted her and she met me at a bar with a girlfriend in tow. There was a lot of attraction and we couldn't keep our hands off each other (hugging, handholding, and dirty dancing). Then her friend left and we had another deep conversation. She really opened up (rare cause she's normally secretive) and told me about how her dad died when she was young and she's never been in love. She thinks it's a "once in a lifetime event" but she was glad because she'd never been hurt. I told her being hurt can be worth the risk because being in love makes you feel so alive. She gave me this really vulnerable look and then kind of pulled back. I thought about kissing her but then her friend reappeared.

She and her friend dropped me off at my hotel at the end of the night and we held hands some more. As I walked through the door I turned and she put her hand against the window of her car as she drove off and gave me a really haunting look.

So the next week we did some flirty texting and I asked her out for a drink the next night. She didn't reply until the night of at 8 and said "are you out." Since I hadn't heard from her I made other plans so I waited until the next day and we did some more flirty texting the next week. I asked her out to dinner and she didn't reply again so I've held off on texting her until she responds. Three days ago. In the mean time I can tell that her and her friends are stalking my facebook profile (I know a few tricks).

Is this a test? Is she playing hard to get? I'm used to Taurus women who never act this way. Maybe I should add I'm 31 and she's 23 (she has since graduated) and she says she prefers to date more mature guys my age. How should I proceed. I'm thinking I should just play it cool for a while. In our latest text conversation before this I asked her rising sign and she wouldn't tell me as she said it "might make her vulnerable."

Thoughts?

I've heard if a Scorpio know they have you and you act like you like them too much they lose interest. That you should make them chase you a little. Is this true?

I'm a 6'4 Sag man. I haven't fallen this hard in years. She is just immensely intriguing and the chemistry is off the charts. I'm thinking she might be a playette as she's very attractive and seems to be adept at mind games.

Yeah she seems to have major abandonment issues because her dad died when she was like 12 and they were very close. Is there a way to get them to let that guard down? Is it about winning their trust?

I think you just hit the nail on the head damagedcurls.

When we were dancing it's was like our bodies fit together like a yin yang. I read her palms and she has so many lines on it you can't even do an accurate reading (I've heard this means old soul). I feel like we're kind of psychically linked. Crazy as that sounds. I think I'll just be patiently persistent. It seems like whenever we break through to a new level she gets kind of aloof for a little while afterwards.

What's with the not replying when I ask her out a couple days in advance thing? Is this a test or is she keeping her options open? The only way I can get her out is if I text her the day of and entice her to come out in the moment but that's hard to pull off all the time because I live two hours away.

Posted by SagMagick
Yeah she seems to have major abandonment issues because her dad died when she was like 12 and they were very close. Is there a way to get them to let that guard down? Is it about winning their trust?

If this is a genuine desire, you won't get an answer from us. Earning one's trust isn't like doing the two-step.

once and for all, you dont GET a scorp to do anything. what they choose to do is entirely up to them. and you dont WIN trust. we either decide to give it to you or we dont. the more pushy you are, the more she's gonna see thru it and hold up her guard.

i was with 3 sags and NONE of them got the point that i am my own person. sags are control freaks but refuse to see that in themselves. nothing they tried worked with me. we only ended up parting ways with them being in pursuit of me in the end until they got the point that i wasnt coming back. YOU dont decide when and if we let guards down. only we do. get it through your head.

you dont try to control scorp. let scorp do its thing and he/she will open up naturally when they feel the time is right. they arent going to sway your way just cos you want them to. you'll only end up getting left behind. and if you dare try pulling the 'do as i say or i'll leave' card, you'll find yourself on the opposite side of the door, trying to get back in. chill and let shit unfold naturally. geez.

and no, im not being mean when i say this. im saying cold hard truth. maybe she doesnt feel that whole 'love makes you feel alive' thing. it is what it is. scorps dont like being hurt; and infatuation isnt real love in our eyes. we dont believe 'giving love is worth being hurt in the end, but at least you felt love' type of garbage. we play for keeps. our time is precious, not worthy for jerks or game players. so if she's going to come to you and be with you, it has to be on her terms, not yours.

Thanks Sasori. You're right Sags can be a little controlling. You can't control a Scorp Lol. She did text me to meet for a drink last night but I was in a different town so I couldn't quite make it. I'm gonna be in her city next week though so I might get to have another sequel.

I'm not gonna worry too much about getting a relationship going I'm just gonna have fun with her. (We have a blast together).

I think she doesn't like to plan ahead too much and likes to live in the moment so I think I'll just text her when I'm there. (I've had success with this technique before with her) It's kind of fun just relinquishing control and letting things unfold.

It's like playing russian roulette though I feel as if could be iced at any moment but I made it this far and she seems to vibe me when we're together.

It occurred to me that she may be doing a seduction technique on me I heard about once called "The Ghost and the Flame" where you're really passionate and engaged in person but aloof when you're apart. I have to admit it's intriguing. Is this a Scorpio specialty?

I'm a little bit worried about this Mercury retrograde for the next three weeks but I wonder if it will affect as I met her a year ago?

very good then. as long as you have fun together and respect one another, the whole astrology business shouldnt affect you guys' time. as for the ghost and flame thing, it depends on the person. if im wild about someone, im wild about them no matter if we are together or apart.

Some of things already mentioned is what I would of said so I wish you luck in your union.
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I just wanted to say I wish you good luck with your situation! =)

Hey Impulsv we hung out a few times and the chemistry was intense and we had some really epic times and it does feel like we're soulmates (she even said something to that effect) but we don't live in the same city and she kind of has a boyfriend right now so we just held hands but I found out she's moving to the city I'm gonna be at for an apprenticeship in January so I'm going to make my move then.

She's a little bit gamey over text (what girl isn't nowadays) but in person she gives me all the right signals. In addition to astrology I do the playing card system developed by the Magi and incidentally my card is her venus card starting around the time she moves and then she'll be on my turf as well so I'm just going to be patient until then. The sorta boyfriend is not following her out there.

We were dancing and it got so intense we almost started making out so I think our time will come. The second time we hung out the other guy she's been dating since feb actually ran into us and got really mad and left and it was really awkward. It was the mercury retro (when old lovers seem to surface) so I didn't press the issue and I haven't been in her city again since then.

Posted by Sasori701
once and for all, you dont GET a scorp to do anything. what they choose to do is entirely up to them. and you dont WIN trust. we either decide to give it to you or we dont. the more pushy you are, the more she's gonna see thru it and hold up her guard.

i was with 3 sags and NONE of them got the point that i am my own person. sags are control freaks but refuse to see that in themselves. nothing they tried worked with me. we only ended up parting ways with them being in pursuit of me in the end until they got the point that i wasnt coming back. YOU dont decide when and if we let guards down. only we do. get it through your head.

you dont try to control scorp. let scorp do its thing and he/she will open up naturally when they feel the time is right. they arent going to sway your way just cos you want them to. you'll only end up getting left behind. and if you dare try pulling the 'do as i say or i'll leave' card, you'll find yourself on the opposite side of the door, trying to get back in. chill and let shit unfold naturally. geez.

And that isn't controlling LOL

Posted by SagMagick
she kind of has a boyfriend right now so we just held hands

She sounds super trustworthy nice pick!

Haha I'm actually not looking for just sex. She is super hot and we have volcanic chemistry but I really enjoy our intriguing conversations more than anything else.

As for the kinda boyfriend thing she says they've been dating for a few months hut "aren't together" or exclusive. I'm thinking the commitment issues may be coming from his end as he's 37 and kind of a player from what I've heard. I didn't have any illusions about her being completely single because she's one of the most gorgeous girls I've ever seen and incredibly seductive (as only Scorp gals can be). Those kind of girls always have some "orbiters" or former boyfriends that are still in the picture.

Definitely some red flags but she hasn't really cheated on him or anything, the hand holding we did was pretty innocent (a segue from reading her palm) and like my buddy in college used to say "boyfriends are speed bumps not stop signs."

She does seem to enjoy playing mind games (mainly over text) but I kinda do as well. I like the chase and most girls just cave in to me way too quickly.

She might be bit of a femme fatale (what Scorpio woman isn't?) but I'm somewhat of a Don Juan so it's kind of like I've met my match. I've been backing off a little lately because In January we'll both be in the same city and the other dude isn't moving there with her. Seems like that's the time to escalate into a possible dating situation.

I know isn't it? It's french for "woman to die for."

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Posted by SagMagick
she kind of has a boyfriend right now so we just held hands

She sounds super trustworthy nice pick!

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Haha no joke!

She says they're dating but not exclusive. My understanding with Scorpio women is they play the field until they fall in love. Kind of like Sag dudes. I'm pretty good at locking down playettes and getting total devotion out of them.

She has Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Scorpio. Mars in Gemini, moon in Pisces. My Mars Virgo and her Venus Scorpio seem to synergize well.

So... It's okay for her to just waste her time with someone whose supposedly a player... You know just to get her coochy wet or w/e cause "that's what Scorps do right? Ooh Awww!! Big bad femme fatale Scorpio goes for what she wants but secretly she just wants true love " While she waits for Mr.Right(aka you) to come along...

Haha isn't that pretty much women in a nutshell? She's 23 and this dude is 37 loaded and pretty smooth. I live in a different city and we have a deep connection when we're lucky enough to be in the same room together but I don't expect her to sit home and be a chaste little nun, I'm certainly not. We're not in a relationship. We're both dating other people but when the time is right and we're both living in the same city it would be intriguing to take it further.

Well yes waiting for Mr.Right would be all women, well "everyone", but they don't all date men who they feel are not Mr.Right just cause *insert reason*

I throw my hands up.

I guess if you down fo dat kinda spice more power to ya.

Yeah it seems like girls wait for Mr. Right but are willing to go out with Mr. Right Now if he's willing to take them shopping haha.

Posted by SagMagick
I can tell that her and her friends are stalking my facebook profile (I know a few tricks).

LOL - Scorpios know tricks too. Probably she has 3 FB profiles with fake names for extended investigation. If the profiles that hit your FB are legit her friends, its a PISCES girl who is a complete psychopath with several profiles.

Posted by SagMagick

I'm 31 and she's 23 (she has since graduated) and she says she prefers to date more mature guys my age.

Can you not see that she's either a LEO rising or a professional escort? Either way, this will be expensive. ( The LEO girls ... I swear sometimes you can feel them near and it's like there is nobody else in the world when you're with them ... )

Posted by SagMagick

In our latest text conversation before this I asked her rising sign and she wouldn't tell me as she said it "might make her vulnerable."

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It's LEO ... and this is about attention for her and it will backfire.
There is a PISCES involved ... a friend of hers who thinks you're a creeper.
The PISCES is a psychopath who fills her head with nonsense - bad stuff about you - so that she can control the Scorpio ( through her LEO insecurities ).

Seriously.

I have a strong feeling she's a Leo rising as well. Good call!

I just read Leo rising. It's her to a T, charismatic, a performer, she even kind of resembles a Lion and said she wanted to be one for Halloween!