not sure about this scorpio, help?

Sorry for long post:

I flew across the country to Cali to go to my buddys bachelor party. We ended up at this bar, and as wasted as I was, I caught this girl making eye contact with me and felt this immediate magnetism. At that point, I knew this girl was a Scorp but didn't want to do anything since I was taken at the time. My friends went out for a pot sesh, so I went out there with them. Low and behold, that scorp and another guy she was with went outside to chill (but not smoke, odd since it's the smoking area of the bar). Anyway, I bought way too much weed for the trip, and had to smoke it all before the flight the next day so I ended up rolling two fat blunts. I immediately offered to the folks around me, and then offered it to the guy she was with. My friends gay-dar went off and they were pretty sure he wasn't her boyfriend. He ended up requesting my IG which I provided and both were extremely friendly towards me as we smoked and chatted. Forced to leave since my friend wanted to dip, I jokingly told them that if they ever flew out to NY, they should reach out to me somehow. I ended up leaving and going back to NY the next day.

Back home, after a week or so, the Leo I dated and I decided it was best to not be romantically involved since we're in a band together and didn't want to complicate matters. It was mutual and totally okay. At that point, I was extremely disappointed that I didn't try to get Scorp's number or anything and regretted that I didn't make any effort but loyalty won that day.

The next day, I woke up to her liking my most recent photo and following me on IG. Somehow she found me (probably went through her guy friend). I commented on her photo and told her it was nice meeting, to which she immediately replied that she wants to take me up on my offer. She DM'd me her number, and we've been texting over the weekend and she also found me on FB. Turns out she is a Scorp, and her friend is her BFF.

I haven't been involved with a Scorp in some time, but the last couple I was involved with started hot and then disappeared. It's hard to gauge if she's actually interested or just friendly, the issue is she lives all the way out in Cali. She's flying here with her BFF in May, and she wants to catch my band play. I invited her to see Kendrick Lamar and SZA (she's a big fan) and I had tix, but only two for her and I to which she was fine with but I'm not sure what her BFF is gonna do during that time? Anyway, is this worth pursuing? Is she into me? How should I approach this? I haven't really taken the flirting approach, but have thrown in some slight compliments here and there. She's friggin awesome and I don't wanna screw it up.

she's definitely into you if she searched for you lol all indicates good things, just go for it

that taurus + scorpio magnetism.... so you guys feel it too? I felt like that when I met my ex, it was instant. he has the same placements as you actually

Posted by earlorg16
She's flying here with her BFF in May, and she wants to catch my band play. I invited her to see Kendrick Lamar and SZA (she's a big fan) and I had tix, but only two for her and I to which she was fine with but I'm not sure what her BFF is gonna do during that time?

Gay bff will be getting drilled by some ny grinder dick. Just focus on connecting with her. Maybe take them both out for breakfast the following day. Never hurts to get in good with the bff.

Posted by wildflower
that taurus + scorpio magnetism.... so you guys feel it too? I felt like that when I met my ex, it was instant. he has the same placements as you actually

I mean, I can only speak on my behalf and say I most certainly felt it (Kinda what gave away that she was a scorpio to me, it only happens with them). Considering all we have is text and phone convos, it's hard for me to gauge body language and all that to get an idea of whether she's actually into me or if she's just being super friendly. She seems really popular from what I can tell so I don't wanna jump the gun but from the brief time we did meet in person, we really hit it off. I'm more stunned that she took me on my offer to fly out.

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Posted by earlorg16
She's flying here with her BFF in May, and she wants to catch my band play. I invited her to see Kendrick Lamar and SZA (she's a big fan) and I had tix, but only two for her and I to which she was fine with but I'm not sure what her BFF is gonna do during that time?

Gay bff will be getting drilled by some ny grinder dick. Just focus on connecting with her. Maybe take them both out for breakfast the following day. Never hurts to get in good with the bff.

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Yeah I'm sure I can find someone for her BFF too if I need a wingman. She asked if he could come initially but I told her I only had two tix... Hoping grinder pays off.

Posted by wildflower
she's definitely into you if she searched for you lol all indicates good things, just go for it

How should I approach it though from here? I don't wanna be overbearing but I can't help but want to text her. Don't want to smother.

Posted by earlorg16
Sorry for long post:

I flew across the country to Cali to go to my buddys bachelor party. We ended up at this bar, and as wasted as I was, I caught this girl making eye contact with me and felt this immediate magnetism. At that point, I knew this girl was a Scorp but didn't want to do anything since I was taken at the time. My friends went out for a pot sesh, so I went out there with them. Low and behold, that scorp and another guy she was with went outside to chill (but not smoke, odd since it's the smoking area of the bar). Anyway, I bought way too much weed for the trip, and had to smoke it all before the flight the next day so I ended up rolling two fat blunts. I immediately offered to the folks around me, and then offered it to the guy she was with. My friends gay-dar went off and they were pretty sure he wasn't her boyfriend. He ended up requesting my IG which I provided and both were extremely friendly towards me as we smoked and chatted. Forced to leave since my friend wanted to dip, I jokingly told them that if they ever flew out to NY, they should reach out to me somehow. I ended up leaving and going back to NY the next day.

Back home, after a week or so, the Leo I dated and I decided it was best to not be romantically involved since we're in a band together and didn't want to complicate matters. It was mutual and totally okay. At that point, I was extremely disappointed that I didn't try to get Scorp's number or anything and regretted that I didn't make any effort but loyalty won that day.

The next day, I woke up to her liking my most recent photo and following me on IG. Somehow she found me (probably went through her guy friend). I commented on her photo and told her it was nice meeting, to which she immediately replied that she wants to take me up on my offer. She DM'd me her number, and we've been texting over the weekend and she also found me on FB. Turns out she is a Scorp, and her friend is her BFF.

I haven't been involved with a Scorp in some time, but the last couple I was involved with started hot and then disappeared. It's hard to gauge if she's actually interested or just friendly, the issue is she lives all the way out in Cali. She's flying here with her BFF in May, and she wants to catch my band play. I invited her to see Kendrick Lamar and SZA (she's a big fan) and I had tix, but only two for her and I to which she was fine with but I'm not sure what her BFF is gonna do during that time? Anyway, is this worth pursuing? Is she into me? How should I approach this? I haven't really taken the flirting approach, but have thrown in some slight compliments here and there. She's friggin awesome and I don't wanna screw it up.

A Taurean male asking for advice....who would have thunk? 🤔

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I’m excited for you bruh!!! She’s throwing positive vibes left and right. Good luck 🙂

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Posted by earlorg16
Sorry for long post:

I flew across the country to Cali to go to my buddys bachelor party. We ended up at this bar, and as wasted as I was, I caught this girl making eye contact with me and felt this immediate magnetism. At that point, I knew this girl was a Scorp but didn't want to do anything since I was taken at the time. My friends went out for a pot sesh, so I went out there with them. Low and behold, that scorp and another guy she was with went outside to chill (but not smoke, odd since it's the smoking area of the bar). Anyway, I bought way too much weed for the trip, and had to smoke it all before the flight the next day so I ended up rolling two fat blunts. I immediately offered to the folks around me, and then offered it to the guy she was with. My friends gay-dar went off and they were pretty sure he wasn't her boyfriend. He ended up requesting my IG which I provided and both were extremely friendly towards me as we smoked and chatted. Forced to leave since my friend wanted to dip, I jokingly told them that if they ever flew out to NY, they should reach out to me somehow. I ended up leaving and going back to NY the next day.

Back home, after a week or so, the Leo I dated and I decided it was best to not be romantically involved since we're in a band together and didn't want to complicate matters. It was mutual and totally okay. At that point, I was extremely disappointed that I didn't try to get Scorp's number or anything and regretted that I didn't make any effort but loyalty won that day.

The next day, I woke up to her liking my most recent photo and following me on IG. Somehow she found me (probably went through her guy friend). I commented on her photo and told her it was nice meeting, to which she immediately replied that she wants to take me up on my offer. She DM'd me her number, and we've been texting over the weekend and she also found me on FB. Turns out she is a Scorp, and her friend is her BFF.

I haven't been involved with a Scorp in some time, but the last couple I was involved with started hot and then disappeared. It's hard to gauge if she's actually interested or just friendly, the issue is she lives all the way out in Cali. She's flying here with her BFF in May, and she wants to catch my band play. I invited her to see Kendrick Lamar and SZA (she's a big fan) and I had tix, but only two for her and I to which she was fine with but I'm not sure what her BFF is gonna do during that time? Anyway, is this worth pursuing? Is she into me? How should I approach this? I haven't really taken the flirting approach, but have thrown in some slight compliments here and there. She's friggin awesome and I don't wanna screw it up.

A Taurean male asking for advice....who would have thunk? 🤔

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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When it comes to Scorpios, I need all the help I can get! Lol

lol pursue her without restrictions, she's into you.

Let me put it this way, I don't care for many people

Im selective

If I met a rando guy who invited me out to SF and I felt whatever about him

I wouldn't REACH out, I definitely would not take his offer to FLY out lol and see him

example: some dude and I were hitting it off and offered to show me around his hometown, thanks for the offer but since I wasn't really into him, I haven't taken him up on it

no need to

not interested

IG and the amount of effort to search for you is a dead giveaway

I would not do that or someone that is irrelevant to me no matter what they offer

example, been living with my roommate 3-4 months, barely started following him on IG lol

just be consistent

and be sure that if you do pursue this you are ready... you just got out of something...so keep in mind that by pursuing her, you will give her the impression you want more. Which you do it seems like. Just don't overpromise is all im saying, I will remember each promise you make

Posted by Ellygant
She definitely likes you. And it’s conpletely sweet how careful you are being. I wish I knew her chart so i could help more confidently lol.

Just keep the flow. You wanna text her? Text her. When you have something to talk about bring it up. Flirting is good and all, but if you’re looking into the long play, conversation and building a deeper connection will help carry you, even with factoring in the distance.

Thanks for the advice! That's kinda what I'm trying to find out myself. I'm really curious how her chart looks! If I ever get there, I'll definitely post it haha. It's been a lot of fun and she's absolutely gorgeous. I cannot fathom how this is even happening. I miss Cali 😢

Posted by wildflower
lol pursue her without restrictions, she's into you.

Let me put it this way, I don't care for many people

Im selective

If I met a rando guy who invited me out to SF and I felt whatever about him

I wouldn't REACH out, I definitely would not take his offer to FLY out lol and see him

example: some dude and I were hitting it off and offered to show me around his hometown, thanks for the offer but since I wasn't really into him, I haven't taken him up on it

no need to

not interested

IG and the amount of effort to search for you is a dead giveaway

I would not do that or someone that is irrelevant to me no matter what they offer

example, been living with my roommate 3-4 months, barely started following him on IG lol

just be consistent

and be sure that if you do pursue this you are ready... you just got out of something...so keep in mind that by pursuing her, you will give her the impression you want more. Which you do it seems like. Just don't overpromise is all im saying, I will remember each promise you make

I guess it's more that I thought it was all too good to be true? I was thinking about her all week and then this happens. Yeah, and it's not even like LA to SF, it's friggin LA to NY! I can't even. Thanks for the words!

Posted by Toti
Taurus Scorpio connection is praised a lot, but after being married to a taurus, I wouldn't go there. It's a constant battle. Yes, there is magnetism present, but Scorpio and taurus clash on so many levels. Long term can be very draining. Of course it depends on the rest of your charts as well. Always be direct and honest with a Scorpio. That's the only thing you need to know. Good luck!

My best friends are Scorpios, I mean I get along with them for sure. I don't wanna think too far ahead about long term stuff quite yet, just more curious if this is even worth pursuing this early on due to distance and straight up confusion.

Posted by Ellygant
She definitely likes you. And it’s conpletely sweet how careful you are being. I wish I knew her chart so i could help more confidently lol.

Just keep the flow. You wanna text her? Text her. When you have something to talk about bring it up. Flirting is good and all, but if you’re looking into the long play, conversation and building a deeper connection will help carry you, even with factoring in the distance.

Heres her chart 🙂

Posted by Ellygant

Posted by earlorg16

Posted by Ellygant
She definitely likes you. And it’s conpletely sweet how careful you are being. I wish I knew her chart so i could help more confidently lol.

Just keep the flow. You wanna text her? Text her. When you have something to talk about bring it up. Flirting is good and all, but if you’re looking into the long play, conversation and building a deeper connection will help carry you, even with factoring in the distance.

Heres her chart 🙂

Omg! It’s me but with a Taurus moon! Holy crap!

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Haha what does that mean and what’s your moon??

Posted by Impulsv
me too but with Taurus moon

What’s your moon? Thanks for the encouragement 🙂

Posted by ellesbelles
This is a very sweet thread ❤

she's a very sweet gal 🙂

Posted by Taniwha
Be sure to thank the BFF for putting in the ground work for you, I guarantee that he was sitting beside her egging her on to talk to you.

You know, I was thinking that the other day. At first I thought maybe HE was the one interested in me, since he talked to me a bunch that night and asked for the follow. But she hasn't acknowledged that he's gay yet either. I asked if they were dating and she was like, "definitely not, it's not that type of relationship and i don't think it ever will be." Either way he's a solid dude, and I also can't wait to chill with him as well. I'll thank him when I see him, but also hope that he's not secretly in love with her and hates me

when is it too long to not hear from a scorp? i haven't heard from her in like 3 days and i don't wanna text her too much until i hear back but she bought her tix to come see me in may. i asked her what her dating situation was like, then haven't heard anything since! not liking where this is going but she said she was gonna be hosting her friends all weekend so im giving her space, but it's just bizarre to not hear from her at all. that didn't happen at first even when she was busy.

Wait a little longer, sounds like she may have had a busy weekend.. what was the exact last thing you said?

Posted by wildflower
Wait a little longer, sounds like she may have had a busy weekend.. what was the exact last thing you said?

She got back finally and apologized but it's been slower than usual lately. I gotta use my Taurean patience...