@suncancer
8 Years
Do Scorpios like to be chased? Often yes, but usually only when the chasing looks like real interest—not pressure. In real situations, many Scorpios respond better to someone who stays engaged, keeps the conversation going, and shows confidence without overdoing it. If it feels forced or needy, they often pull back instead of leaning in.
Oh dear, some scorpio please answer this
Compliments are nice..taking an interest in what I like is even better.
Not gonna lie..I like a little push and pull.
I prefer men who are discerning about partners so they don't jump into relationships quickly. In other words, I prefer men who want to get to know a woman a bit first to see if there is potential compatibility aside from physical attraction before making any statements or gestures that are romantic. That's how it has been with all of the men I've had close relationships with. In most cases, there was a good friendship established before anything romantic happened.
I don't like the term "chase" because to me that implies that someone is running away, and/or there is manipulation. I don't have a preference about who should show interest first. I've initiated a lot and it's worked well for me. But, after initiation, I like equal input with effort and stating intentions, not one person doing most of the work.
Also, I prefer a straight forward approach with stating intentions. Don't make me guess. All of the men I've been close to have been very honest, fortunately, even to the point of being very tactless at times (lots of Sag sun and Sag moon men).
wouldnt it depend on their mars?
and in the end for a man it's his venus and moon.
for women it's their sun and mars (and jupiter for their man)
if a man has his mars in air...
Mars in AIR SIGNS: Gemini/Libra/Aquarius
Suitors with Mars in AIR Signs act these ways to ATTAIN love...
* woo with words...calls, poems, letters, declarations, want ads
* persuasive...pursue by persuading you with eloquence and reason
* interactive...get you involved in banter, discussion, and debate
* rational...act logical and unemotional, but often rationalize.
Mars in GEMINI acts like the...
* sweet-talker...has a way with words; can twist words to win you
* wit...is a clever conversationalist; loves banter and innuendo
* writer...writes notes, poems or long letters; even sends faxes
* reader...loves to share books or articles, then discuss them
* talker...loves long intimate conversations and true confessions
* phone-mate...loves long romantic calls; may enjoy Internet romances or "phone sex".
Mars in LIBRA acts...
* pleasing...acts gracious, charming, considerate, accomodating
* the partner...wants to do everything as your partner, not alone
* the listener...loves to hear you talk of events/feelings/ideas
* romantic...woos in tender, sweet, sensitive ways; sends flowers
* intimate...prefers to be alone with you, and concentrate on you
* understanding...makes you feel only s/he really understands you.
Mars in AQUARIUS acts...
* original...unique, delightfully different, inventive; shocking
* unconventional...does things in unorthodox ways; experiments
* the individual...sets own style ; encourages you to "be yourself"
* nonconforming...rebels against the system, standards, or rules
* free-spirited...seeks an unrestricted, free, open life style
* coolly detached...appears aloof, intellectual, or unemotional
©2001 by Michael Star, astrology /researcher.
infact the astrologer is really good at describing all the air sign descriptions...and it seems all the air signs are very similar.
Hard stalking will do nothing more than prove your undeclared love for me
Chase me down in a horse drawn carriage and I’ll know it’s real 😘😘
lots of conflicting responses here. haha
i love it. chase me, woo me, compliment me
but also don't be docile or a doormat.
dont be crazy
don't talk about marriage, kids or anything THAT serious
don't be fake
but I like being pursued, it makes me feel more secure to want to get to know you
also be willing to invest time getting to know me, I need that time
I need my space
If you don't hear anything for a few hours or a day, don't fret. Its much needed space. If its more than 4-5 days is not good though
Im a romantic, i love flowers/songs/poetry/food/goodmorning+goodnight msgs
tell me about YOU
be vulnerable
but not a crybaby or whiny
like you can share your good and bad, we wont judge
I love adventure
lets go somewhere cool and talk about life
make me laugh
and never ever ever ever text more than 3 times
you can double text but not more than that
if I want, I will get back to you
be patient, you'll need it lol
Accept the sass and difficulty in the beginning, the mush/sweetness/devotion comes later.
IT does come
prove you are loyal and stand by your word
we are observant
and last... do not, I repeat do not get caught wooing other girls
you WILL be X'd
Posted by suncancer
Flattery and compliments? Being chased and wooed?
I think chasing sets the stage for an unequal union. Engage me in a stimulating way, that is genuine and you're fine.
Imagine the other person is someone you physically feel VERY drawn to and you think the conversations with him/her are fascinating.
But at the same moment the interest is expressed very clearly and quickly by that person. Is the latter a turn off for you? Do you need pretty much warm-up time to fall in love?
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Huh?
It's not really a one size fits all. With the right person "quick" may be "just right". In general, I would prefer a partner that has taken the time to get to know me. I don't care how attracted he is to me or how stimulating the conversation is, if you don't really know me, I am not sure how you could love me. And vice versa.
Posted by Whorpio
Chase me down in a horse drawn carriage and I’ll know it’s real 😘😘
Where do I sit?
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Thanks God! 🙏🏻
Posted by Whorpio
Chase me down in a horse drawn carriage and I’ll know it’s real 😘😘Where do I sit?
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On my face, you sexy European f.r.e.a.k. 😜😜
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Sure that's different for men and women...
But just state what you like. Flattery and compliments? Being chased and wooed?
Imagine the other person is someone you physically feel VERY drawn to and you think the conversations with him/her are fascinating.
But at the same moment the interest is expressed very clearly and quickly by that person. Is the latter a turn off for you? Do you need pretty much warm-up time to fall in love?