Observed by a Scorpio

I've been observed by the Scorpio I love for the past eight weeks. He tests me, studies me, and observes me, willing to let me be hurt in his pursuit of discovering my soul.

I feel like a lab rat and I hate how powerless I feel here. I also like it because it means he likes me. But, I feel like I'm being unraveled and that he cares so much about understanding me completely that he is willing to hurt me in the process.

I'm angry and excited. I'm scared but exhilarated.

I don't know how to proceed.

How do you know he's observing you?If a scorpio was doing that he wouldn't make it so obvious.Forgive me asking,,but howexactly did you know about this?

Posted by Udylaw
How do you know he's observing you?If a scorpio was doing that he wouldn't make it so obvious.Forgive me asking,,but howexactly did you know about this?

I'm extremely intuitive and observant. I have strong Pluto aspects, a shit ton of Gemini, and my sun is in Cancer.

Posted by Impulsv
How is he hurting u?

His fear controls him. But recently, not so much. He's starting to try really hard to get past it.

Posted by MIIeFisk
You and stihl would make great lunch buddies.

I was thinking the same thing.

Posted by Koniuchaa
He is hurting you and you are happy about this? Sounds disturbing.

It does. It is. But, when one is overwhelmed with a negative feeling sun as fear, they can only be self-centered.

It is not out of malice, and I've tried to stop being drawn in. But I love him, care deeply for him, and want to know him too much to forget him. I can give you the full story in another postC

Give the full story in this post because without it the rest doesn't make sense

Posted by MIIeFisk
You and stihl would make great lunch buddies.

Who is Stihl?

Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Give the full story in this post because without it the rest doesn't make sense

I will when I have both the brainpower and time to do so.

So this is based on intuition not Facts?sometimes Scorpios are like a mirror,maybe you have a crush on him...do you?If he's truly observing you like you say,what and watch he'll approach you.Don't make the first move

This is the Cancer who is in lala land over a straight Scorpio man. But obviously 20 year old cancer boy here knows better, his chosen Scorpio love is merely hiding in the closet, sending him longing looks or whatever.

Look, Gothic romance may be the IN thing at the moment, but that's not how the world works Emily Bronte. He doesn't like you in that way. HE TOLD YOU THAT.

And then you promptly ignored it because "signs" that he was a closeted homosexual who is interested in you. "Signs" from your nebulous intuition. You're stalking the guy, writing poetry, and mooning like a Pisces.

NO really does mean, NO. NO WAY. HELL NAH. NEVER GONNA HAPPEN. NOT IN THIS LIFE. NO.

This is why cancers annoy aquas.

Posted by Gennie
This is the Cancer who is in lala land over a straight Scorpio man. But obviously 20 year old cancer boy here knows better, his chosen Scorpio love is merely hiding in the closet, sending him longing looks or whatever.

Look, Gothic romance may be the IN thing at the moment, but that's not how the world works Emily Bronte. He doesn't like you in that way. HE TOLD YOU THAT.

And then you promptly ignored it because "signs" that he was a closeted homosexual who is interested in you. "Signs" from your nebulous intuition. You're stalking the guy, writing poetry, and mooning like a Pisces.

NO really does mean, NO. NO WAY. HELL NAH. NEVER GONNA HAPPEN. NOT IN THIS LIFE. NO.

This is why cancers annoy aquas.

Oh my...

Dude, as somebody else already pointed out, he is straight.

I would do my best to wash those feelings away if I were you, the sooner the better. You are probably making him uncomfortable, and I think a lot of people wouldn't know how to handle someone of the same sex crushing on them. Especially if they are a friend, coworker, classmate, etc, someone they can't really avoid.

If you are "in love" with him as you say, you are probably observing him all the time and he knows it, so he catches you doing it and doesn't know what to do and would prefer it if you just stopped. If he is blushing it's not returning your feelings it's that he doesn't know how to respond and he doesn't like it.

I really don't understand how people develop such feelings for those who are impossible for them.

Posted by GuardianAnu
Dude, as somebody else already pointed out, he is straight.

I would do my best to wash those feelings away if I were you, the sooner the better. You are probably making him uncomfortable, and I think a lot of people wouldn't know how to handle someone of the same sex crushing on them. Especially if they are a friend, coworker, classmate, etc, someone they can't really avoid.

If you are "in love" with him as you say, you are probably observing him all the time and he knows it, so he catches you doing it and doesn't know what to do and would prefer it if you just stopped. If he is blushing it's not returning your feelings it's that he doesn't know how to respond and he doesn't like it.

I really don't understand how people develop such feelings for those who are impossible for them.

The straight guy probably is clueless about what to do because he doesn't want to look like a homophobic bigot, but Cancer boy here is just gonna keep pushing in on his space.

Posted by Gennie

Posted by GuardianAnu
Dude, as somebody else already pointed out, he is straight.

I would do my best to wash those feelings away if I were you, the sooner the better. You are probably making him uncomfortable, and I think a lot of people wouldn't know how to handle someone of the same sex crushing on them. Especially if they are a friend, coworker, classmate, etc, someone they can't really avoid.

If you are "in love" with him as you say, you are probably observing him all the time and he knows it, so he catches you doing it and doesn't know what to do and would prefer it if you just stopped. If he is blushing it's not returning your feelings it's that he doesn't know how to respond and he doesn't like it.

I really don't understand how people develop such feelings for those who are impossible for them.

The straight guy probably is clueless about what to do because he doesn't want to look like a homophobic bigot, but Cancer boy here is just gonna keep pushing in on his space.

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Agreed.