Open Relationship with a Scorpio

hello peeps,

tis me and i'm back with a few questions for you scorpio's. dunno if you guys can remember me but i got dumped by my scorpio guy because he thought i started a rumour about our private life in school, which was soooo not true but he refused to believe me. so the whole trust thing went for a toss. i wanted to get back with him but he said he didnt want a girlfriend cuz he doesn't want to be tied down etc etc. i was sooo heart-broken cuz he really is the love of my life and 'the one' for me.

anyhow, yesterday (when i was in town with my friend) i saw him at work in the cafe he works at ( he didn't see me tho) and i decided to go in pretending like i didn't know he was there. i saw him and he saw me. we spoke to each for a bit, asked how each other was etc. he seemed to be really friendly, which was really suprising for me cuz i expected the total opposite. he was also kept looking at me in that same exact way that he did the first time he saw me.

so later that evening i texted him and apologised for coming into the cafe and 'how if i had only known he was in there i wouldnt have gone in' crap. complete bull but hey i needed to start the ball rolling. he replied after like 5 hours sayin that it was alrite, and how i looked different + older. we ended up flirting really badly and then i asked him if there was any1 in his life rite now. he said that he doesn't want a gf and i suggested an open relationship. all of a sudden he got really excited and said how he'd love to see me again and how hot i looked etc.

now, as i said before i really love this guy and would do anything to be with him, even if this means being in a open relationship. Now my question to you scorps is how do i make him fall in love with me, instead of just wanting to have sex and how do i win back his trust? basically, how am i meant to go about with things this time round?

chances are you're going to get annoyed at my answer bc it's not going to be what you want to hear...but if you told the truth and you tried to proove it , and he still doesn't believe you....that might be more of an excuse to back up his "reasoning" of why he doesn't want a girlfriend...Just think what you can handle (be honest with yourself) ......



You're having sex with him....and you know theres another girl involved or other girls, even though on the outside you can play it cool..are you going to be heartbroken on the inside? I'm only saying this bc you love him, but think about you for a second and not him....

ps i'm a gemini so i know exactly where you are comming from... hi =)

Gemini_Gal it is plain & simple ---> Be honest, Be yourself, and go with the flow........

for a gemini it's hard to go with the flow when you want something badly...you'll do whatever it takes, surprise...lol

ha, juicy, gal u r soooo rite. i cudn't agree wit u more on this one. when i want something or someone i would do pretty much anything to get it, even tho it mite not be rite for me. nd its also really hard for me to change my mind once its made up unless, of course, i get bored Lol.

Exactly sweetstuff...it becomes an obsession lol

If you want something serious to develop then I would suggest not giving up the goods..But if your willing to be used and abused..go for it..Don't assume the latter option will have him bagged..it won't...SIL is correct in what she said.

tell him you love him. break into his place and leave your photos all over his bedroom walls. follow him around at a distance, but let him know you're there. wait for him outside his work, his classes, his home... call him and hang up several times an hour. tell him there's nobody else in the world for you, and he knows that you are the only one for him. cut yourself and scar his name in your stomach... threaten his friends and family. guys love this stuff and he'll be eating out of your hand in no time.

fiddlesticks,this could work with Leo but not with us.

clearly you haven't met the right stalker

lmao @ fiddle sticks..

We'll just murder you, dig up a grave by the shed at the bottom of the garden and dump your ass in there for pestering us!..A scorpio needs his downtime..gawd sakes..

gotta love fiddlesticks.. 🙂

LOL @ EM-GEM...those gemini's....lil schemers!

...those gemini's....lil schemers!


looks like so...but isn't an open relationship risky --- he might think that you would be like that to any one who interests you .. is it wise — how would you feeel when he starts taking you as a free one not worthy of his respect and love —


and dear Fiddlesticks, that is a BIG no-no as regards scorps.....you may succeed with some other signs---------but NEVER a true Scorpio.

"and dear Fiddlesticks, that is a BIG no-no as regards scorps.....you may succeed with some other signs---------but NEVER a true Scorpio."

A scorpio is NEVER true.

::yawn::

Hi Mizz....I know itz getting monotonous with ur scorp man. Try sth genuine.

How was the day ?

"I would want commitment immediately"

And whatz the worth of that ?

Yeah day was ok..tiring..

I was yawning at your constant rant on Scorps..

yeah that kind of stalking would make a scorpio run farther...youll never catch him

"Yeah day was ok..tiring.."

Hmmm...mine was generally ok...but am getting cornered...gradually.
Watz with work btw ?


"I was yawning at your constant rant on Scorps.."

I know...I hope I manage to annoy a few...U guyz are so thick skinned otherwise.

::sigh::

I remember those days...Sitting in Geography...

::dreams::

I wonder what star sign Lee was...

LOL @ AM and I would want commitment immediately...dream on...

Guarav..Yep plenty of layers on me...

gemini girl, hate to say it but you're setting yourself up to be hurt. if you get into an 'open relationship' while having hopes and expectations you're going to be constantly disappointed (think about how you're going to feel when he says he can't be with you on certain nights, and you're going to be wondering who he's with - you'll drive yourself nuts!).

if you go into this thinking about the potential, rather than what it actually is, it will never measure up.

giving a man sex isn't going to make him love you. he either will love you or he won't, but sex alone won't do it...and neither will dishonesty and manipulation.

agree with SIL - your best bet is just to get to know each other better, cultivate a friendship. maybe something honest and real will develop from there. (and save your sanity!)

"Dream on about what? I am in a commited relationship at the moment. So because you are single and miserable and can't find commitment then that means no one else can?"

Now I am confused ? Who is more sensitive and stings more ? and that too at an unintentionally made normal comment !!

Whose is it ...the sting --Gem ??/ Cancer —

play nice lovelys.

Atlantic is out there to strangulate the scoprs.

Calm down Xena...we need this playground.

AM: "Dream on about what? I am in a commited relationship at the moment. So because you are single and miserable". Committed relationship..what all of 1 month?..wow...my apologies for thinking commitment was something a bit more solid than that..

What gives you the idea that I am single and miserable? Or have you just dreamed that all up in your little head

And please, I don't stoop to your kind of level on these boards..put that little tongue away theres a girl...

LOL....Mizz I never thought U wud retaliate.

Good Morning Pluto ..Mizz.

"the MM n G duel going on still...lol"

U still havent opened Ur eyes ehh ?

Cap ...U done with Ur siesta ?

Toazwoman - 😉

Sometimes you just have to laugh at stupidity...It happens..

Anyways..Morning lovelies...

"Sometimes you just have to laugh at stupidity...It happens.."

Things dint go that way ....exactly.
But Atlantic did manage to unsettle the coterie for a while.

Itz morning here Cap....Howz U BTW ?...U werent chirpy yesterday ?

"im feelin sleeeeeeepyyyyyyyyy....
-_-"

Indian "beti" having excessive booze.

"Things dint go that way ....exactly.
But Atlantic did manage to unsettle the coterie for a while."

Who you referring to as coterie?

Cap: "Am not good at all...every thing is a mess here...2

Whats up?

"im in control of myself...
its just the late night official parties that r draining me....:/
"

Haa Haa...I think U shud post it on the "oxymorons" thread for more applause.
Booze consumed officially is wholesome...yeah. 😛

"Who you referring to as coterie? "

LOL...U lead the band ..Dont U ?

"ya right...i guess my watch is showing diffrent time..need to get it checked"

Smart N Sarcastic. I like that.

What happened ?...Watz wrong at work today ?

Oh dear..you poor thing..I am sure it will work out..Today is the deadline?

G: I don't lead anything..Its all in your head..

Hmmm....U can get it from the institute itself...If U have anybody ?

"G: I don't lead anything..Its all in your head.."

I know ...Why do U miss the point always ?

"I know ...Why do U miss the point always ?"

Maybe because your pointless

hehe...nahi capji ....aapki taareef mei to main tah-e-dil se kar sakta hun.

"Maybe because your pointless"

This is smart again. Atlantic fever ?

She should be so lucky...