Letting go scorpios!!!

im sure alot of you have read my past post dilemas. long story short:-

i was wi scorp for 16months 1st love, we split about 8 months ago, been with my Saggy 2 months nearly, scorpio asked me back about month and a half ago, (after me trying for 6 months to get back with her, but she didnt want to) last night i told my sag i loved her which i do, but as soon as i did i started crying and said although i feel it i dont think im ready to let go of my ex, what does it mean? i know i want to be with my sag shes amazing but im finding it so hard to let go of my scorp!—

Anyone?

What do you want us to say?
Only you can decide whether you want to be with her or not..I believe in second chances but that strongly depends on the reasons for split first time..First Scorpio love (not to sound arrogant), is very hard to shake off, been there myself..If you still feel that strongly for her, just go for it..or else you'll be left wondering all your life..and thats hardly fair on the Sag is it..

Good luck

Miss Morals,

we split cos she said i wasnt good enough for her, but when she asked me back abit ago she was apologising for saying all the things she did saying it was wrong of her! i know i will be left wondering but if i break it off with the sag and it doesnt work with the scorp i will regret that, so i dont know what to do? the sag makes me feel so great and i do love her but im finding it hard to let go of scorp!!!

Ami 😢

Well its early days with the Sag..so whether its actually love or not who knows...but at least talk to the Scorp and find out what it is that she wants..don't start acting all helplessly in love or anything..just give her the "couldn't give a damn" attitude..you will only know by talking to her..

Frankly if someone said "you aren't good enough for me" I would kick them to the kerb..regardless of why they said it in the first place..we can say some awful things when we are emotionally confused though..some which we don't actually mean..I wonder why she wants you back? ask her..did something not work out with whoever she was dating..and your suddenly appealing cos of security etc?

Thank you all for you posts very interesting, i think the reason i didnt take my ex the scorp back is because i know that she cant say the things to me that she did and then expect to get back when i have moved on! i think deep down i didnt trust what she was saying and i knew i do have something special with my sag which i do shes great! when i started crying after i told her that she went home but she is very understanding about my feelings for my ex or atleast what they were but i do love my sag its great! but i do love my scorp but sadly i wont be getting back with her she had her chance! and sadly im not willing to go back on it! the only thing is i always want her to be apart or my life and that is one thing that my sag will need to understand, i just hope the scorp is willign to have be as a friend because she always used to say with us its "ALL OR NOTHING" but it was her birthday on monday got her the alien Quadrilogy, nightmare before xmas dvd and cuddly toys! Ami xxxx

It usually is all or nothing...We can't be friends with someone we might have feelings for...

No we can't...LOL..if we pursue you, count yourself as being above everything else!..

Hey Cappydoodledee...how are you

LOL..Cappydoodledee is something i've just made up..you know when you rise early in the morning in a foreign land and the first thing you hear is a cockrel making that noise...never mind..I can see this going on and on..LOL..

So another Scorp on your back?..woohoo..time to party!!!!..I reckon your meant to end up with a Scorp you know..you seem to attract them..they SEEK you out with their radar..

cap.. I think the question is.. Do you like him?

Maybe he told the Gem, cos he felt ready to talk to him about you...Who knows..maybe if you guys hang around more with each other..you may begin to like him...

Your a woman in demand!..good for you...I am having the opposing effect on mine...he's acting very weird lately..going through some turmoil no doubt...blows hot and cold soooooooooo often..I am leaving him to it..can't be bothered with headaches...

We haven't a label for this relationship I am telling you...its a weird one..and he hasn't got me..yet..he's very special to me being the first..and equally its the same for him towards me..but as to where its going or how it began..thats all a bit of a mystery..Sometimes we are like two ships passing at night..But I am not going to think about it too much as I am not sure myself what the hell its all about..If anything, friendship and patience is required should we want it to develop..

LOL PM..yes its easier said than done..If freedom is what he wants, then freedom is what he shall get..But he's definitely going through some phase at the moment..since his birthday..so just as I was saying I am going through that phase of not knowing where to go next, reflection & introspection..he's no doubt doing the same..

We came together for a reason, I am sure he and I are both trying to fathom what that reason is exactly..but let nature take its course..

Dare I ask, but what is your situation with Aqua? Happy?

Cap yes, loyality, honesty and respect....soooooooooo important!..

LOL @ Conversation...Aww..

Our conversations are mostly along the lines off..you git, you cow..go to sleep and stop pestering me..fine if thats what you think i am doing!..LOL..Hmmm

LOL..yes I guess we've been there before..its the kind of relationship where your not afraid to speak your mind and you know the other person won't be hurt by it..cos you know them so well etc..No matter how much we hate each other we'll always end up together again..

Your aqua sounds cool..sounds like a good laugh actually..

Well if its meant to be it will somehow materialise..I am sure he's treading carefully as much as you are...

Eeeeeeeeek..must be awful...my life is a bloody minefield

LOL!..Awww cute...Well I am sure this dinner will bring some clarification on the situation..

My cappy friend does Salsa..can't say I am a big fan..too close proximity for my liking..

Blimey!..your going for 15 days..wow..then you'll certainly either come back attached or completely detached..LOL..I guess you understand him better him being Aqua and you having a moon in Aqua..they are a bit aloof for my liking when it comes to emotions..

Lucky coincidence...Hmmmm..weird indeed...

Scorpish Aqua...please do elaborate..as I might be feeling you on that one!..hahaha..

Apparantly the rising sign has a big impact on the personality..so if he has a scorpio rising..Hmmm..

My one has a libra rising..

Yep Scorps do start early...They are smart kids...I want a Scorp child...

I have no other Scorp siblings..I am a loner..But I have a lot of scorpio friends and we always tend to cause havoc wherever we go..leave an impression to say the least..

I remember when I first re-united with the Scorp and he went on a drinking binge..the next day (feeling a bit delicate) I am speaking to him on msn and he goes "can you come to bed please hunni, and hold my hand, hows xx is he asleep?..So I am like "who the hells xx?" and he goes "my son..where is he, is he ok"..LOL..I was like erm, the last time I checked I had no son, so please don't confuse me with any of your other floozies!..hahaha..He was picturing the perfect family together..

Boy has that changed now!..LOL..

Hahahah...Don't you just hate it when they do that!..
Yesterday Scorp comes online, I am in such a foul mood, starts the conversation with "Hi sexy bum"..so I go back with "oh you remembered who I was then" and he goes "Oooops sorry wrong window, hello miss"

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr..Then the whole weekends mood unleashed on him..after that he disappeared..LOL..

Why has this suddenly turned into "compare your scorpio stories"

LOL..I think people must be feeling sick somewhere..

Yes it is...

But right now, no new stories, he's done the disappearance act..was a bit funny yesterday..he had an argument with one of his drinking buddies..hasn't been online since yesterday..I called him during the day yesterday, he was fine then, was imagining himself waking up on my sofa and going to my fridge and finding nothing to eat!..LOL..I did laugh at that..but it was a different story altogether that evening..very vacant and distant..god knows whats going on with him..so I just let him be..no phone calls no chasing..can't be arsed..

Where you going?

Wow Mexico..you lucky thang..LOL..Yeah I didn't get around to going on holiday my Cap friend but I am sure I will get away as soon as he moves to London..he's a sweetheart really...and yes I can imagine all the finer details being taken care of...Actually I haven't been away at all this year..no wonder I feel shit..My friend is here from New York so having lunch with her tomorrow, she wants me to visit her in December and spend new years there..so I might do that..Finances are shit this year..

Next year, defo either Thailand, India or Dubai..

I do worry about Scorps drinking habits..especially what he's like when he is drunk..very very emotional...But I have been through that stage myself..I know he won't stay there so its fine..Theres not a lot I can do about it..I scold him sometimes about it..but don't want to sound like his mother..

Well the original topic died ages ago..so no worries...

Oooh Scorp has signed into msn..but I signed out..he doesn't deserve to talk to me..not today

why can't men lt go of their ex's. well i read that if you want to be invloved for the rest of your life, be with a scorpio, because this water sign will bounce in and out of your life forever and whenever he or she wants to. we'll i also read that when a man feels he has invested his time into a relationship, prime example, your two years, it's hard for him to get over such time invested. Well i say this, see who's best for you, and go from there but don't walk around saying you got feelings for your ex , unless it's true. you don't want to be expressing confused feelings. just make sure your decision is right whatever you do. Maybe the sag isn't all that great and or the scorpios is! which one is it, you call the shots?