@flipatl21
19 Years
Help Me My Fellow Scorps.......
It`s nothing to so with signs.If you want my advise,get over it,just say next and move on,remember Scorpio is about regeneration.She treated you bad and that is enough for you to forget her,i know we are Scorpios have tendecy for thinking about our Exs no matter what they do to us but that because we are so emottinal.Anyway it`s a good thing that you haven`t done what a typicall Scorpio would do,i mean revenge,so my advise again is to forget her and get on with your life,you will get a lot of opportunities believe me.
notso07 ---> "I would assume you are no older than 18."
Actually I am 22 years old... And oh yeah! I am keeping my options open, just in case this doesn't work out.... I kinda of have my eye on my friend's friend....
Actually I am 22 years old... And oh yeah! I am keeping my options open, just in case this doesn't work out.... I kinda of have my eye on my friend's friend....
"I am keeping my options open" - LOL in the TRUE scorpion spirit..
I don't really know what to suggest. All I can say is if she treated you like that the first time, maybe she's not mature enough to consider a serious relationship. There must be a reason her ex treated her like that. Give it time..You've said your piece, now go out and enjoy yourself and if its meant to happen it will somehow materalise..A long way to go till Feb 14th
I don't really know what to suggest. All I can say is if she treated you like that the first time, maybe she's not mature enough to consider a serious relationship. There must be a reason her ex treated her like that. Give it time..You've said your piece, now go out and enjoy yourself and if its meant to happen it will somehow materalise..A long way to go till Feb 14th
"know we are Scorpios have tendecy for thinking about our Exs no matter what they do to us but that because we are so emottinal"
Cult Statement.
Cult Statement.
LOL @ Bling..don't encourage the boy
"i know we are Scorpios have tendecy for thinking about our Exs no matter what they do to us "
Wow...I must not be a scorpio...because I never think about the ex's..well there was only one after the first..once I am done, thats it..I think its just the guys..
Wow...I must not be a scorpio...because I never think about the ex's..well there was only one after the first..once I am done, thats it..I think its just the guys..
Not your first?
Well the first..you know the one you lose it to..I can't stand the term "first love"..sounds so mills and boons..
So you went back with the one you shagged? I don't understand what you wrote 😢
So you went back with the one you shagged? I don't understand what you wrote 😢
Oh I got it...yeah the all consuming experience does have an effect..
Are you still with her?
Are you still with her?
LOL!..
::rolls eyes::
::rolls eyes::
lmao
You didn't for a minute think he was a sweet innocent thang did you!..jesus..you poor child..
"I'm spilling my guts and you just roll your eyes —"
Right...and the world just populated itself like..
"I'm spilling my guts and you just roll your eyes —"
Right...and the world just populated itself like..
Antibling ---> "Don't you want revenge or anything flipatl —
Might aswell while you're young...."
ME: Actually, Karma did the revenge part for me.... She got BURNED!
Might aswell while you're young...."
ME: Actually, Karma did the revenge part for me.... She got BURNED!
welcome to the boards flip
cap girl here ...also dating a scorp.
if you decide to continue pursuing this capricious cap...
how to woo a cap ex-lover who's just one week out of a relationship... you've started out well, flip... offered yourself to lean on. cap was fickle the first round huh? she had her reasons to doubt and was skiddish perhaps? happens to me, so i understand what being fickle is like. working hard to understand why and make myself more vulnerable, i think a lot about this stuff. speaking for myself and i know this goes for many a fellow cap as well.. male/female... we are sensible people... actions speak louder than words. back your words up, man. nothing touches my heart more than someone who communicates what they feel for me through not only their words, but even more importantly! their actions. just offering your listening ear and advice might not be enough. its nice, but its like you're chucking the basketball at her gut and just complacently waiting for her to throw it back. hate to say it, but she may need to see you do more in order for her to come around cuz talk is easy. give it some time first. check in later. i'm tempted to suggest that you may want to pry into her because we caps are shelled beings when unsure, and she seems to be unsure about you. the reason why i hesitate to make that suggestion is because we are hard to predict... sometimes pushing is good, but it can also be bad. you'd have to be sensitive enough to her to know when to and when not to. though at the same time we do long for someone who can penetrate our walls in such a way that our walls melt away for that person. use your instincts and if all senses say it's ok and good... dont give up an impulse to do something nice once or twice
caps like a solid, decided, committed lover ...at the beginning (even the second beginning) of a relationship that could be a lot to ask for... dont let her catch wind that you're keeping your options open, she wont believe that you're serious and there go all your brownie points
be a steady, loving, caring friend right now ...thats a no pressure situation for her and she'll be easy minded about you which will give her room to look at you and notice the qualities she's looking for in a guy. 🙂 and remember... she has to see that you mean what you feel ...that goes for always, not just in the initial woo-ing.
if you choose to heed any of this i hope it helps, and good luck!
cap girl here ...also dating a scorp.
if you decide to continue pursuing this capricious cap...
how to woo a cap ex-lover who's just one week out of a relationship... you've started out well, flip... offered yourself to lean on. cap was fickle the first round huh? she had her reasons to doubt and was skiddish perhaps? happens to me, so i understand what being fickle is like. working hard to understand why and make myself more vulnerable, i think a lot about this stuff. speaking for myself and i know this goes for many a fellow cap as well.. male/female... we are sensible people... actions speak louder than words. back your words up, man. nothing touches my heart more than someone who communicates what they feel for me through not only their words, but even more importantly! their actions. just offering your listening ear and advice might not be enough. its nice, but its like you're chucking the basketball at her gut and just complacently waiting for her to throw it back. hate to say it, but she may need to see you do more in order for her to come around cuz talk is easy. give it some time first. check in later. i'm tempted to suggest that you may want to pry into her because we caps are shelled beings when unsure, and she seems to be unsure about you. the reason why i hesitate to make that suggestion is because we are hard to predict... sometimes pushing is good, but it can also be bad. you'd have to be sensitive enough to her to know when to and when not to. though at the same time we do long for someone who can penetrate our walls in such a way that our walls melt away for that person. use your instincts and if all senses say it's ok and good... dont give up an impulse to do something nice once or twice
caps like a solid, decided, committed lover ...at the beginning (even the second beginning) of a relationship that could be a lot to ask for... dont let her catch wind that you're keeping your options open, she wont believe that you're serious and there go all your brownie points
be a steady, loving, caring friend right now ...thats a no pressure situation for her and she'll be easy minded about you which will give her room to look at you and notice the qualities she's looking for in a guy. 🙂 and remember... she has to see that you mean what you feel ...that goes for always, not just in the initial woo-ing.
if you choose to heed any of this i hope it helps, and good luck!
Well said, PantyCreep.. Nothing to add to that.
Hey flip, welcome!
Another Cap girl here involved in a Cap-Scorpio relationship. I think CP said it well enough here but I'll just offer my two cents...this girl sounds like she is pretty young and fickle and doesn't know herself yet. The fickle part kind of sounds like me in my late teenage yrs into my early 20's. Except I would never be that heartless!
Us Caps go through an insecure period for most of our lives but especially moreso when we are younger. If I were in her situation and you were to give me a timeframe on when I had to tell you if I wanted to be with you or not, I would see that as weakness on your part...again, that's just me, she may it see it differently.
We need a strong confident partner...someone who will respect us but not put up with our shit and tell us when we are wrong. But you better leave you are going to get it right back! We need an equal, a voice in the relationship.
But you are on the right track with being patient, diligent, and keeping it real and direct.
Another Cap girl here involved in a Cap-Scorpio relationship. I think CP said it well enough here but I'll just offer my two cents...this girl sounds like she is pretty young and fickle and doesn't know herself yet. The fickle part kind of sounds like me in my late teenage yrs into my early 20's. Except I would never be that heartless!
Us Caps go through an insecure period for most of our lives but especially moreso when we are younger. If I were in her situation and you were to give me a timeframe on when I had to tell you if I wanted to be with you or not, I would see that as weakness on your part...again, that's just me, she may it see it differently.
We need a strong confident partner...someone who will respect us but not put up with our shit and tell us when we are wrong. But you better leave you are going to get it right back! We need an equal, a voice in the relationship.
But you are on the right track with being patient, diligent, and keeping it real and direct.
*leave = believe!
what did she say when you did stop?
Hey everybody! Thanks for ur advice. I decided to just give up on her after we talked on the phone. Her fickleness, and not being completley open to me when we talked really bothered me. I realized that I don't want a partner like that. So I just gave up. Also, I prefer not to get my heart broken again and there are other fish in the sea, especially one who has my eye! Anyways, thank you everybody for all your adivce. - Flipatl
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me coming back to her (which is I cannot explain). The reason why she broke up with me was because she didn't take our relationship serious from the beginning, and she felt that it would be unfair to our relationship (from what she was telling me). But I think the reason she broke up with me, was beause she was fickle, and didn't know what she wanted. Well, anyways, to make a long story short, KARMA (the bitch that it is) came back to bite her in the ass. The way she went into our relationship (not taking it serious), and the way she dumped me, and the way she treated me afterwards came back to haunt her because the guy she dated after me did the same thing that she did towards me. But yeah, I was wondering from any of you cappies if you can give me adivce on how too woo back an ex-capricorn lover who has just broken up with some dude for a week now. I told her that I would give her space to get over him, and I also told her if she needed anyone to talk to that she could always call me. I am giving her time to get over him because I don't want to be a rebound boyfriend, but at the same time I gave her proposal that she should think about my offer of giving us another chance, and give me an answer on valentines day (Its when we hooked up) But yeah, do you scorps have any advice on how to Woo capricorn successfully. I know they say be patient, diligent, and real with a cappy and you just might succeed..... But any advice would be great.... And yes I am a fool for trying to get back with her, but there is something about her....