Be straightforward and ask him
Please advice from all scorpios!
Posted by GonShmm, ok how did it end up? I gather shes still ur ex? 🙂Posted by Rebecca1980it really reminds me of my taurus gf. she was doing the same. out of contact and then comments etc out of suddenPosted by GonShmm, ok, what does that mean? Im in a dark, tried speaking to him but seemed the more I opened up and tried being direct, he shut down completely. now its just him watching IG stories sometimes commenting w emoticon or sth completely out of place. And that is after 3 months of non stop contact and really, I mean, really great connection.
Interpret it with Taurus, not scorpio. It's a typical taurus behaviour. Scorpio would be all or nothing.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvWell good for you, does it mean you deal w stuff openly and communicate issues or break up? He hasnt done neither.Posted by GonSIM SCORpio taurus moon
Interpret it with Taurus, not scorpio. It's a typical taurus behaviour. Scorpio would be all or nothing.
I don’t dissapear
What is the misunderstandingclick to expand
Posted by GonShaha, I get it 🙂 well good luck to you 🙂Posted by Rebecca1980on and off relationships. but that's another story 🙂Posted by GonShmm, ok how did it end up? I gather shes still ur ex? 🙂Posted by Rebecca1980it really reminds me of my taurus gf. she was doing the same. out of contact and then comments etc out of suddenPosted by GonShmm, ok, what does that mean? Im in a dark, tried speaking to him but seemed the more I opened up and tried being direct, he shut down completely. now its just him watching IG stories sometimes commenting w emoticon or sth completely out of place. And that is after 3 months of non stop contact and really, I mean, really great connection.
Interpret it with Taurus, not scorpio. It's a typical taurus behaviour. Scorpio would be all or nothing.click to expand
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3Sorryyyyyy! xd
That’s a long ass post lol
Posted by Taniwhathat actually DOES work!!! LOL
he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.
Also what happened? I didn't see any long post -__-
Posted by Taniwhayou're kidding right? 🙂
he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice ...Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about it while the person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what he did only annoys me more.
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice ...Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about it while the person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what he did only annoys me more.
Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
Posted by TeenaPs. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. I posted it before I read the story. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. xclick to expand
Posted by wildflowerPosts over 3 letters is long for Evo!Posted by Taniwhathat actually DOES work!!! LOL
he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.
Also what happened? I didn't see any long post -__-click to expand
He is very special! 😎
Posted by Rebecca1980Ugh... I get it. It can be frustrating for you.Posted by TeenaPs. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.click to expand
But I'm guilty of doing that too. I feel saying something like that is more rude than just ignoring the person.
Posted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. xclick to expand
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?click to expand
Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.
Posted by GemitatiHi, thank you!Posted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?click to expand
Well of course I can.
I think this whooole thing grew out of proportion and the last thing I want is to dig deeper in it. Thats what grew us apart. I know I can, I just.. I dont know how really.. Am I suppose to contact him? or wait?
Posted by Rebecca1980Wait for him to make an effort to talk to you coz you apparently already tried. If he doesn't n just keep liking posts n all... he's only being nice I guess. But tell me this. From when did he start liking the posts?? Long after you guys stopped talking?Posted by Teenaouch, that explains a lot, for me it wasn't clear at all, especially considering how we were and I know it was real. when Im done I dont comment and text out of a blue I say it as it is or just dont "poke", thank you for your insight.Posted by Rebecca1980Ugh... I get it. It can be frustrating for you.Posted by TeenaPs. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
But I'm guilty of doing that too. I feel saying something like that is more rude than just ignoring the person.
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Posted by Rebecca1980Send him a text which be like ‘past is forgotten. We have much fun stuff to talk about and I can’t wait...’Posted by GemitatiHi, thank you!Posted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Well of course I can.
I think this whooole thing grew out of proportion and the last thing I want is to dig deeper in it. Thats what grew us apart. I know I can, I just.. I dont know how really.. Am I suppose to contact him? or wait?
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something so he knows - he isn’t going to be trapped into discussing past.
You know him better. Good luck!
Posted by GemitatiThank you.. will do and post the outcome..Posted by Rebecca1980Send him a text which be like ‘past is forgotten. We have much fun stuff to talk about and I can’t wait...’Posted by GemitatiHi, thank you!Posted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Well of course I can.
I think this whooole thing grew out of proportion and the last thing I want is to dig deeper in it. Thats what grew us apart. I know I can, I just.. I dont know how really.. Am I suppose to contact him? or wait?
something so he knows - he isn’t going to be trapped into discussing past.
You know him better. Good luck!click to expand
Posted by Rebecca1980Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.Posted by TeenaAlso.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.
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Posted by Rebecca1980Posted by Teenano, hes liking posts all the time. twice he reacted to my story with private message, once saying hes also partying but without live on IG second time praising for sth silly/brave I did.Posted by Rebecca1980Wait for him to make an effort to talk to you coz you apparently already tried. If he doesn't n just keep liking posts n all... he's only being nice I guess. But tell me this. From when did he start liking the posts?? Long after you guys stopped talking?Posted by Teenaouch, that explains a lot, for me it wasn't clear at all, especially considering how we were and I know it was real. when Im done I dont comment and text out of a blue I say it as it is or just dont "poke", thank you for your insight.Posted by Rebecca1980Ugh... I get it. It can be frustrating for you.Posted by TeenaPs. I get "not talking things out" if its not to change anything, but "hey, I liked you but I dont think itll work out between us" would be nice. We never had that, we were supposed to meet and then he just poofed. no explanation.
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
But I'm guilty of doing that too. I feel saying something like that is more rude than just ignoring the person.
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Now I'm not sure anymore.Seems like it still does have potential tho. Just leave him a simple n casual message like "hey, how's it going" Also Christmas is a nice time. Wish him n get into a convo n assess his reaction. If he still seems distant after you sound all casual(DO NOT say you're sorry about past or don't use the word past whatsoever...for now),you know where you stand.
Posted by Rebecca1980Ummm sounds bad girl. Pretty bad!! You tried. I was like him when I was 15-16 I guess lol!Posted by TeenaTheres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)Posted by Rebecca1980Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.Posted by TeenaAlso.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.
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And if I were you, I don't think I'd try anymore.
Posted by Rebecca1980So you think he actually didn't like it?Posted by Rebecca1980it was a funny/silly thing "inside" joke. i told him what it was when asking if he didnt like it.Posted by TeenaTheres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)Posted by Rebecca1980Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.Posted by TeenaAlso.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.
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Posted by TeenaThank youPosted by Rebecca1980Ummm sounds bad girl. Pretty bad!! You tried. I was like him when I was 15-16 I guess lol!Posted by TeenaTheres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)Posted by Rebecca1980Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.Posted by TeenaAlso.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.
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Posted by Rebecca1980I'd be heartbroken too. Gifts are important. N you put an effort into it. It sure was offensive. But that's what he intended to do...seems like it. He didn't care for it nor you. That was then tho. When it's all still raw n fresh.I'm assuming he wasn't liking your pics n stories back when this happened.Now he is n he doesn't mind being nice maybe?Posted by Teenahe never picked it up.Posted by Rebecca1980So you think he actually didn't like it?Posted by Rebecca1980it was a funny/silly thing "inside" joke. i told him what it was when asking if he didnt like it.Posted by TeenaTheres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)Posted by Rebecca1980Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.Posted by TeenaAlso.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.
Id think ok he doesnt give a shit, but its almost as if he made an effort not to pick it up.
it was sth connected to our romantic thing, so if he did pick it up I guess hed have to somehow address it, he didnt. Anyway I find it almost offensive. we live in different cities I made an effort to order it to be made and have it delivered there.. it actually breaks my heart he didnt even pick it up (there goes the "I wanna be nice story I guess"..)
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Posted by Rebecca1980That's like letting you know he has time n he's still not gonna pick up the gifts 🤔Posted by TeenaThank you for your kind words.. he did actually like posts and even commented with some emoticons, that seems to be the only way we communicate since I "apologized" which was couple days after he said hed ofc pick up a gift.. 😢Posted by Rebecca1980I'd be heartbroken too. Gifts are important. N you put an effort into it. It sure was offensive. But that's what he intended to do...seems like it. He didn't care for it nor you. That was then tho. When it's all still raw n fresh.I'm assuming he wasn't liking your pics n stories back when this happened.Now he is n he doesn't mind being nice maybe?Posted by Teenahe never picked it up.Posted by Rebecca1980So you think he actually didn't like it?Posted by Rebecca1980it was a funny/silly thing "inside" joke. i told him what it was when asking if he didnt like it.Posted by TeenaTheres more he ignored... during this whole mess It was his bday, I left him a gift at a bar, the place he goes to twice a week, I told him I got it back when things were great so its for him and I wish him happy bday and he should take care (it was after he flaked the last time to meet), after couple days I asked "u didnt like ur gift"? he texted srsly? u left it? I thought u were kidding and just majorly pissed w me.. I said hey it was ur bday, he said hes super busy but ofc hed pick it up. he never did. that bar texted me saying they have to throw it out (after 3 wks..)Posted by Rebecca1980Well he needed some time after that for one thing. N when he recovered, we went back to talking about it again n he might have not liked it. But ignoring you for that isn't something I would do. I mean I'd just ignore n talk about something else if I wanna keep it going with the person. Maybe he's not over it yet by then.Posted by TeenaAlso.. I sort of tried, I said, ok let just go out for a drink, he said "we will Im just totally busy at work", then he actually sent couple texts and sent video from a party I replied he went silent and only got back 3 days later. Thants when I sent the big "I know I screwed up" message" and he went silent..Posted by GemitatiPosted by TeenaHe knows that ‘talk’ inevitable and dragging it. That’s why dates falling through.Posted by Rebecca1980Actually nvm... I just read what you wrote above. To me it doesn't sound like a biggie. He's being a man child I guess.Posted by TeenaThank you,
I think it's over. Is that the first time you effed up? Or has something happened before?
That's how I kinda am too n I'm a scorpio sun n taurus moon. I'm over you but still being nice kinda.Respecting what we shared kinda.I don't like to speak about it if I know it doesn't change anything much. I'd rather not talk things out. The thing is, I know there's nothing to talking about. You know what you did n we know what happened n trying to talk about while the other person is trying to give long explanations or make excuses for what happened only annoys me more.
Yes,
1st time.
And me fucking up was just overreacting to his fuck up really.
Its a shame, I feel we both are missing out. well I suppose theres nothing I can do.
Thank you. x
I remember I had tried and response was ‘it’s in past’ - in a voice that sobered me up and immediately I’ve moved to another subject.
And to answer to Rebecca - yes, Scorpios are different species! You CAN make it better but you must make him believe that the ‘talk’ is in past and forgotten.
Can you do that?
Lol!! That is exactly how I work. Just don't discuss what has happened. It's over. N nothing we talk about it is gonna change it. N you did a right thing by changing the topic n not discussing it. Sometime I simply don't wanna be reminded of what happened coz it might make annoy me more than it did when it actually happened. I just don't like over thinking ...n talking about stuff in a detailed manner makes me wanna think about it n I might hate the person for what they did now though I let it go before. Also explanations are more often exaggerated with lies here n there or stuff like "I didn't mean to" n I don't want that drama.
Id think ok he doesnt give a shit, but its almost as if he made an effort not to pick it up.
it was sth connected to our romantic thing, so if he did pick it up I guess hed have to somehow address it, he didnt. Anyway I find it almost offensive. we live in different cities I made an effort to order it to be made and have it delivered there.. it actually breaks my heart he didnt even pick it up (there goes the "I wanna be nice story I guess"..)
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when people treat you like they don't care, believe them
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!
Posted by ReincarnationHi, Im gemini.Posted by Rebecca1980
scorpio sun taurus moon (male) went silent 1 month ago, only once a week liking a post or commenting on IG, does this mean over or temp withdrawal? We were amazing together, had some misunderstaning (snowball effect) and now he stopped all communication. should I move on? please help
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Posted by sas0risaI see ur point and I agree..
when people treat you like they don't care, believe them
Posted by Gemitatiyeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!
Posted by Rebecca1980Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!Posted by Gemitatiyeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!click to expand
This is mistreatment and disrespect!
Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.
He isn’t a good news.
Posted by Rebecca1980Posted by sas0risaI see ur point and I agree..
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i'm sorry, some people suck
better to ignore them and move on
you deserve better
Posted by Rebecca1980So sorry. And try to have Merry Christmas yourself! ❤️Posted by Gemitatithank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.Posted by Rebecca1980Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!Posted by Gemitatiyeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!
This is mistreatment and disrespect!
Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.
He isn’t a good news.
I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!click to expand
Posted by Taniwhahahah, thats so funny 🙂Posted by Rebecca1980Idk, can't hurt to try. You gotta make an effort if you want him.Posted by Taniwhayou're kidding right? 🙂
he looks at your Instagram right? so start cooking really lush creative meals and start posting pics of them on your Instagram.
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I think I did make an effort though.. Im not really getting anything in return.. Its a shame, I feel were both missing out, but think Im done, anything more from me would just seem desperate I think.
Posted by Rebecca1980I dunno about affection to disrespect...Posted by Gemitatithank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.Posted by Rebecca1980Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!Posted by Gemitatiyeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!
This is mistreatment and disrespect!
Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.
He isn’t a good news.
I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!click to expand
But immense love to immense indifference within no time is very much possible...for me at least.
Sorry about all that. Seems like you still wanna try tho. Good luck.
Merry Christmas ❄️🎄🤗
Posted by Rebecca1980I think it's one of the self defence mechanism really. Brain is a wonderful thing. You can train it however you want lol. It's crazy but is possible, yes.Posted by TeenaPosted by Rebecca1980I dunno about affection to disrespect...Posted by Gemitatithank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.Posted by Rebecca1980Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!Posted by Gemitatiyeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!
This is mistreatment and disrespect!
Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.
He isn’t a good news.
I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!
But immense love to immense indifference within no time is very much possible...for me at least.
Sorry about all that. Seems like you still wanna try tho. Good luck.
Merry Christmas ❄️🎄🤗
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Thank you dear, Merry Christmas to you.
No.. I dont wanna try w someone who can go from immense love to immense indifference. Thats just wayyyy to scary for me. How is that even possible, I dont comprehend really.
But yes.. Im am heartbroken and super confused.
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Aww I understand. I hope you accept it n feel better soon. But again, I'm not against the idea of you giving it a one last try either. Just to be sure n hold on to something while trying to move on if that makes sense.
Posted by Rebecca1980I replied to your pm 🙂Posted by TeenaPosted by Rebecca1980I think it's one of the self defence mechanism really. Brain is a wonderful thing. You can train it however you want lol. It's crazy but is possible, yes.Posted by TeenaPosted by Rebecca1980I dunno about affection to disrespect...Posted by Gemitatithank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.Posted by Rebecca1980Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!Posted by Gemitatiyeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!
This is mistreatment and disrespect!
Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.
He isn’t a good news.
I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!
But immense love to immense indifference within no time is very much possible...for me at least.
Sorry about all that. Seems like you still wanna try tho. Good luck.
Merry Christmas ❄️🎄🤗
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Thank you dear, Merry Christmas to you.
No.. I dont wanna try w someone who can go from immense love to immense indifference. Thats just wayyyy to scary for me. How is that even possible, I dont comprehend really.
But yes.. Im am heartbroken and super confused.
Aww I understand. I hope you accept it n feel better soon. But again, I'm not against the idea of you giving it a one last try either. Just to be sure n hold on to something while trying to move on if that makes sense.
Self defence mechanism makes sense somehow.
Im much more emotional. cant really "tain my brain" lol
Theoretically.. if you gone from immense love to immense indifference, after the person admitted their wrongs and send signs they care.. what would "another" try be, I mean an effective one. Just let it be, move on, let him approach.. or approach him?
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Yeah I get it. Not many can do that. I sometimes feel it's not even very humane lol. Like I said, it comes with being able to accept things sooner. I can be very practical like that.
I'll be very honest here. When it turns to indifference, to me, person's efforts later wouldn't make much of a difference. But I also wanna add I can be pretty forgiving. I give a lot of chances before the indifference phase comes. N when it does come, it's over. I can be very nice to the person after all that tho.I can be nice coz I forgive... it's not even about forgiving anymore. I just don't care for them that way anymore but that wouldn't stop me from being nice.
It happened once before tho. Just once. N that's the first n the last time it happened. The person was very persistent n consistent with their efforts n now we are bffs...but that's a complete different scenario of course.
Posted by Rebecca1980Talking about the meeting plan being cancelled, you guys ... both of you... didn't talk about it after you coming back. I feel you should have confirmed it once you came back really. That's what I felt when I first read your story.Posted by TeenaI dont think I was given any chances before indifference. I mean.. sort of.. but very vague, so I didnt take it. I stood my ground when he was sort of making plans to meet but couldnt set a time for example. I felt it was just not respecting my time and me.Posted by Rebecca1980I replied to your pm 🙂Posted by TeenaPosted by Rebecca1980I think it's one of the self defence mechanism really. Brain is a wonderful thing. You can train it however you want lol. It's crazy but is possible, yes.Posted by TeenaPosted by Rebecca1980I dunno about affection to disrespect...Posted by Gemitatithank you..yes, I wanted to meet up, I sent a gift and finally I admitted I overreacted, you're totally right.Posted by Rebecca1980Honestly you had tried enough to correct your mistake and the fact that he ignored your gift would make me stop communications!Posted by Gemitatiyeap, exactly that.. and occasionally texting out of the blue stuff.
So he knew that gift is waiting for him and didn’t picked it up but kept liking your stuff on media? Weird shit!
This is mistreatment and disrespect!
Stop talking to him. Get yourself back to reality and start healing process.
He isn’t a good news.
I guess I just couldnt believe someone can go from this much affection to such disrespect. Thank you for stating it, it was disrespectful, I wouldnt do that to anyone, even if I wasnt romantically interested Id still pick up a gift and send a thank you note. I havent communicated w him since the gift thing really, only once did I reply to his comment, friendly but cold though. thanks again and merry christmas!
But immense love to immense indifference within no time is very much possible...for me at least.
Sorry about all that. Seems like you still wanna try tho. Good luck.
Merry Christmas ❄️🎄🤗
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Thank you dear, Merry Christmas to you.
No.. I dont wanna try w someone who can go from immense love to immense indifference. Thats just wayyyy to scary for me. How is that even possible, I dont comprehend really.
But yes.. Im am heartbroken and super confused.
Aww I understand. I hope you accept it n feel better soon. But again, I'm not against the idea of you giving it a one last try either. Just to be sure n hold on to something while trying to move on if that makes sense.
Self defence mechanism makes sense somehow.
Im much more emotional. cant really "tain my brain" lol
Theoretically.. if you gone from immense love to immense indifference, after the person admitted their wrongs and send signs they care.. what would "another" try be, I mean an effective one. Just let it be, move on, let him approach.. or approach him?
Yeah I get it. Not many can do that. I sometimes feel it's not even very humane lol. Like I said, it comes with being able to accept things sooner. I can be very practical like that.
I'll be very honest here. When it turns to indifference, to me, person's efforts later wouldn't make much of a difference. But I also wanna add I can be pretty forgiving. I give a lot of chances before the indifference phase comes. N when it does come, it's over. I can be very nice to the person after all that tho.I can be nice coz I forgive... it's not even about forgiving anymore. I just don't care for them that way anymore but that wouldn't stop me from being nice.
It happened once before tho. Just once. N that's the first n the last time it happened. The person was very persistent n consistent with their efforts n now we are bffs...but that's a complete different scenario of course.
I kinda envy you having this ability to check out and move on within a day, on the other hand.. as I said b4, were both missing out and it just seems silly to me.
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And he not giving you chances or not getting over things sure does seem childish.
Haha...yeah. That ability surprises me every time too I won't lie.
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