As much as it pains me to leave you with Gaurav, I have to get a few things Cap..and also clean up my apartment..its a mess..if I sit here, I won't do anything..LOL..
And I alwayz thought that Mizz is from Pakistan. Anywayz....Pluto is rocking with a white guy ...and both of Cap and P were generaly taking the "desi" boyZ to task. How timez have changed 😉
Morning Cap - Yeah Gaurav should keep his assumptions to himself...this is a public forum, I am a private person..hint hint..
Ok..Yeah I got the general idea of it...it doesn't sound too healthy..but thats just my opinion...I don't like the idea of aquaman calling his friend insecure..regardless of what the situation is..
I agree with you when you say he's acting insecure and interfering..he shouldn't do...but remember this a friendship between two men and suddenly a woman is now involved..which could potentially break up the friendship...He's not going to see it in any other way than an intrusion..
From what I can see, Pluto is Scorps ex...suddenly she's getting it together with his best friend...now please tell me if you were scorp you wouldn't feel a bit uncomfortable about the situation...I know I would..
Your right in saying, if the friendship is a solid one (doesn't sound like it by the way aquaman is describing his best friend) then it shouldn't matter..But I have just seen many situations like this where all parties have walked away with nothing in the end..If aquaman wants pluto, he can tell the scorp to butt out of his personal life and then carry on...however if they still remain friends, there may always be an uncomfortable feeling for the trio..
I am just giving the worse case scenario here..I wish her all the best..but its just a bit of a crappy situation to be in..
Hmmm..difficult one...If my love meant that I had to lose a friend to gain it..then I would choose a friend..
I've been in a kind of similar situation..my pisces friend dated a scorpio guy..for 2 years, they were almost married but he suddenly split and left her without any warning whatsoever..I had met him previously on two occasions..both times she was with us. Whenever he phoned and I happened to be with her, he always wanted to speak to me..we just got on brilliantly, I could feel the chemistry and he was a lovely guy...when he split with her, I found out from his friend that he quite liked me and asked if we could meet for coffee..I knew where this would lead..whether it would've worked or not is beside the point..I refused coffee and any further contact from him..I was afraid of my feelings developing..As much as I would love to have taken it further...He did say to me once that he didn't find the Pisces girl strong/independent enough. He wanted someone to kick his ass into shape and she wasn't that person..although he loved her and cared for her..
"thats something that might have developed but wasnt anything at that time.Besides its a diffrent thing .there would be some kind a dislike for that guy in your heart too."
From Mizzy's account ...It looks like she might have provided some fuel to the whole thing. Intentionally or Unintentionally ...Am not sure.
Yeah I see your point Cap regarding the situation I described..but had there been any feelings..I still wouldn't have gone for it...I know Pluto said that she liked the Aqua before she liked the Scorp...but she still dated the Scorp whilst poor old Aqua stood by and watched..(thats quite sweet actually, holding back your own feelings for the sake of your friends happiness).
I just hope if things work out with this Aqua..Scorp doesn't do anything stupid to mess it all up for them..
G: "Mizz seems to enjoying the fact that the scorp traitor had nothing but disdain for her friend. Some form of envy ?"
My god!...absolutely not..All I could see was that if he's dated her for two years and didn't think twice about finishing with her (2 months before marriage), he could do the same to anyone else..I was just merely saying, sometimes you feel attracted to your friends partner whether those feelings should be there or not is beside the point..its what you do with them that counts..
And its not a case of disdain..he was telling the truth..she isn't strong or independent enough for him..he would've walked all over her later on if they did get married...
" was just merely saying, sometimes you feel attracted to your friends partner whether those feelings should be there or not is beside the point..its what you do with them that counts."
Repulsive ...In the subconscious ...there cud have been an element of rivalry. Otherwise nobody would rejoice on such things.Even a mention would reek of superiority.
"And its not a case of disdain..he was telling the truth..she isn't strong or independent enough for him..he would've walked all over her later on if they did get married..."
And he waited for the most opportune moment !....U guys genuinely rock.
"Repulsive ...In the subconscious ...there cud have been an element of rivalry. Otherwise nobody would rejoice on such things.Even a mention would reek of superiority."
I would disagree...I would NEVER have those kind of feelings towards my friend..Men come and go, friends don't..
I told her 1 year into the relationship that he's no good for her..as he wasn't making much effort at all..she was putting in everything..then she stopped talking to me for 2 months because she said I was judging her relationship. I was only telling her what I could see..not out of spite or jealousy just for her own good..So I took a step back from it all...
"because when in love we girls (may be scorps exception) become fools and get weaker"
Some Scorps may do..but I would never lose my dignity by allowing a man to trample my heart..love or no love..nobodys that important..Look after number 1..always..
G: "And at the same time U were attracted to him ...soundz like a pot-boiler.Now am getting to know U guys well. U just want to usurp"
You have a tendency of picking out bits that suit you to fit the argument. I met the dude twice in the second year..and she was with me both times..If someone is attractive I am going to say. And yes, there was some kind of weird chemistry..But there would never have been anything between us..And its not like, I tried to warn my friend off him after I felt attracted to him..I did it way before then..
I take it India is taking a thrashing G?..LOL