question for scorpios?

what does it mean when a scorpio is trying too hard to come off as happy?


me and my ex tried working things out.. it just didn't work and we got into an argument
and i basically said bye.. but its not like i felt like he was trying

all he kept on saying over and over is that he wasnt going to chase me anymore
and the whole time we were arguing and i had good points he would resort to telling me "i need to get over myself"
i think he said that a couple times.

he kept saying "lol" alot and he told me to stop texting.. yet hes the one who kept texting back..

we always do this but we end up talking again.
i think its over for good this time though.

now he posted all these wall posts saying stuff about a girl , not me obviously.

why go through the trouble of trying to make me angry?

Sounds like my ex libra. Just ignore it and move on with your life. It goes on till it ends.

Life is so simple..you know the right answer and the right thing to do so do it and don't think twice about it.

Sounds like that answer is too simple, lol.

He's just showing off and wants you to feel jealous. He wants you to come back begging for his sexiness.

Right now you seem annoyed, because you are a little jealous? If you send him the right signals, it will be like BAM! ... *smack that all on the floor, smack that give me some more, smack that uh-wow-wow*

Im happy someone understands! 😢

Posted by Hypnotic1o1
"why go through the trouble of trying to make me angry?"

because he somehow knows you care enough to be tempted to react .. at least he wants to know ..

"Sounds like that answer is too simple, lol."

LoL .. you came here asking for advice .. people gave u some ..
you don't expect anyone to take a decision for you, do you ?

No i dont expect you to make the decision.. i guess i just wanted to get a little advice ha.
well i didnt have any reaction to it AT ALL.. i hope that got to him.
I just act like i dont care, and that it doesn't bother me.. by ignoring him.

I treated him like shit in the past and now i think hes doing to to me on purpose.
One day he made me upset and hurt my feelings.. and i told him
tell me why after that his attitude towards me got worse? Was he doing that purposely?
Sigh, scorpios..

Aw, why did you hide it? :/

If you treated him like shit in the past then yes he's doing it on purpose.... and rightly so.

i wouldnt really say he has the right to.
he was always messing and flirting with girls and it made me angry.

then when i started to treat him like shit.. he cheated on me.
he told me it was because i made him feel like shit.

does that really justify his actions?
but yet he told me hes was in love with me and wanted to be with me forever.. hm.

Also, now i feel like hes not very loving anymore.. i dont feel like hes in love with me anymore.. but i never know with him.
I just thought Scorpios dont fall out of love easily.

when you say there will always be a special place, will you think of them alot? aw :/


"in my opinion if he said he loves u he does. unfortunately we all do stupid things and some people *coughs* scorps r very prideful so when hurt we will deny it for some pay back...just the way it is."

after they pay back do they just leave? or do they do the payback then when they feel like they've gotten back at you enough they get normal?

this is what im afraid of, sigh.

*nods* yes i will think of them often...and typically the good will out weigh the bad...remember we have a shell (like the crab only we don't hide in it) we use to keep safe from hurt...this is why we seem non caring and unaffected cuz we have the ability to block our emotions (at least from others sight)

lol yes, im well aware of the shell thing. im a cancer after all lol.
i sometimes think im alot like a scorpio too.. scorpio is my rising sign but i dont know how much that affects a person.

" certain things r unforgivable and sometimes a scorp doesn't c an end to the pay back...(yes i know this is sadistic) "

what would be something unforgivable for a scorpio?
my biggest flaws in the relationship was being so damn stubborn.
i would make him chase me over and over cause of my stubbornness :/
is that enough to never forgive someone?

and when he hurt me i hurt him back by saying horrible things to him.
i remember once i told him i only love him as a friend.. i was so angry.

but i regretted it so much. i told him i felt guilty and i say things i dont mean when im angry.

i dont know if he ever forgave me for that.

and how can they hurt you on purpose if they love so deeply? no sympathy? :/

"it does sound an easy thing, but the 'right' thing changes..."

As long as you know your principles in life, it's easy to detect the "right" thing no matter how it hides.


He cheated on you, and you are still wondering?
cheating is point and over..the story is over, there is no second thought about it.
sit alone, and think well about it, let your heart, mind and soul come to one conclusion that satisfy all the three.

thank you hypno & scorpio rising.

eden 3.. no i never mentioned that he cheated, but he did.

my best friend happens to be a crab also 🙂

well he cheated because i always was stubborn and i acted like i didnt care and didnt want him. i made him feel like shit.

any time we argued i would just be like "okay bye"
sigh i dont know why i acted like i didnt care.

i think i wanted to put off that he didnt phase me.

" if this is the case & he did cheat...may i ask if he had cause to believe that u strayed first? cuz this would fall under payback and in this scenario "

well i had a good guy friend .. he always accused me of liking him!
i got so angry because that wasnt the case at ALL.

i didnt bother trying to continuously explain myself because i know it wasnt true.

"had he already professed his love for u at that point? if so he definitely does not forgive u."

yeah he did.. and he was so open with me.
i loved him for that.

i wish i could go back and take bakc what i said but i just cant do it.

after i had told him that we didnt talk for three months.. then he came back to me

thats when i had apologized for saying what i said.

i thought if a scorpio loved you, they forgave you no matter what?
except maybe cheating.

i was never close to doing that.

i just dont understand if he never forgave me and didnt love me.. why would he always ocmeback?

sigh, i just honestly believed he did.

maybe it had to do with the fact that he has two gemini placements in his chart?

i dunno :/

"even if you hurt someone (happens all the time), if someone...truly...loved you, there would be no keeping him away "

is this the case with you too?

"relationships dont always click and then work out, by any means, .......and as i mentioned earlier, they have a way of making you say things that you can regret later (especially having a scorpio rising) "

this is so so true for me 😢
ill never do anything PHYSICALLY to hurt someone.. (cheating)
but i feel like i have the abillity to cut someone open with my words 😢
when they hurt me that is.

i cant explain that aspect, hes not very understanding.
you cant fix whats already broken ha.

Scorps fall hard and fast. We continually question and test in our minds. You said yourself that you would split and then he would come back. That is because we take two steps forward with those we care about and if that doesn't go well, we will take three steps back to gather our thoughts. If we feel safe, we take another step in. If we feel the situation is useless, we move on. Sounds to me if you were always treating him like butter, the question has been answered.

I have to disagree Scorpio Rising. He's moved on....he's had enough.

candlz .. you're right, i dont think hes coming back.

well i kinda am feeling better thank you 🙂
i just hope this feeling stays like this.

" been there done that...this alone can lead a guy to cheat cuz in their warped minds they think u already did it and their actions r somehow justified *smh* "

really? were you the one who thought your significant other was cheating with this person?

WHY do scorpios get mad at EVERY LITTLE THING? im not trying to sound negatory.. 😢
im just saying..

i remember once.. after everytime i left his house i would text him when i got home cuase he would tell me.. and we would usually carry on a conversation

one night i text him and i went straight to "home.. goodnight (:"
and i didnt get a response.. sigh i think he was angry over something?

it wasnt for sex.. we never had sex..
he tried to once with me but i told him i wouldnt do it because i wasnt ready.. and he never tried to again.. only making out and such.

i think ive messed up too bad for it to be fixed.
everything happens for a reason i guess.. :/

So yesterday he text me asking me if im okay and if i miss him. He waited almost two weeks.
Ha, why did he come back? If he was arguing with me to stop texting him.. >:/

"well he cheated because i always was stubborn and i acted like i didnt care and didnt want him. i made him feel like shit.

any time we argued i would just be like "okay bye", sigh i dont know why i acted like i didnt care."










And now that it is time to lay in the bed you made for yourself ... like a Crab, you come crying acting like a victim.

Posted by supersexyperson

Posted by scorpio rising
who said the trust was lost?...

I did, it's obvious, unless you're a rookie.

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well how was the trust lost?
i guess im a rookie, lol ._.

deem i would have to side with you 🙂

Posted by eden 3

Posted by deemnsout4ever

Posted by cuppycakesxo
So yesterday he text me asking me if im okay and if i miss him. He waited almost two weeks.
Ha, why did he come back? If he was arguing with me to stop texting him.. >:/

He still wants you,whether it's so he can treat you like shit (believe it or not,we always like to return the favour😛) ,I dunno...but if he does want to in his life,and my assumption is correct, he's going to grind you down a bit then say 'Are you going to do it again ?? no ?? then c'mere and gimme a kiss, naughty!!!' ,or words to that effect

this is completely true.... we r vengeful (oh shit our only zodiacal flaw ...i think not) as i said he only wanted u to admit where "u" went wrong when he pushed u...make him admit "he" was wrong. in how he was treating u. trust u will gain respect in his eyes for not letting him get away with what he did.

hey sr lady how r u ?

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I HATE REVENGE!
Dont you ever think : "Man.. people make mistakes, maybe i should let it go this time around"?
everyone makes mistakes i say !! 😢

Posted by *Tasha
yea. well my bad. she didn't cheat on him. she just kept saying "bye" and pushing him away so his cheating is justifiable...

ewwwww

-and yea the Aqua/Scorp relationship idk what the hell that is. she just never goes away it's crazy

im not 12 🙂 sorry if i had to reassure that lol?
and ive never once cheated on anyone, never will.
i think its disgusting.

the way i see it i know for a fact im loyal until the end
and if he doesn't meet my expectations when we argue, i say goodbye and wait for him to grow up.

his cheating is justified? like, are you serious?

Posted by Hypnotic1o1
lol.. *runs after tasha with a freaky smile*

*serious*

cuppycakes admitted she was partially responsible for the whole thing..
let's be honest, most users that come here looking for advice presents themselves as .. victims.. and nothing else..
so, + rep for having the courage to be a little more "honest" than the average user..

why thank you, you must be very intelligent 🙂
lol

Posted by Domino
He is immature. He doesn't know what he wants and he keeps playing games with you. That is all it is to him, even if he doesn't see it himself. I'd say just don't worry about it. Just keep going on as friends and don't pursue anything until both of you know what you want.

this is actually what i already had in mind.
im starting to care less and less but its just that im so damn curious to still analyze things with him.. hm.

cool

yeah youre dead on when you say "avoiding looking like a fool".

the way i see it.. why show someone you care when they hurt you?
they will ONLY take advantage of knowing it!

i feel like i have too much damn pride. there alot of leo in my chart.
maybe thats why?

i wont bend for anyone. sometimes i feel like this is my downfall.

so youre basically saying even though he loved me, he continued to chase and chase me while with another girl? whats the logic in this? i dont understand why he didnt just leave.

supposedly because "hes never felt this way about a girl in his life".
his words back then.
maybe that's what i should let go of "back then"

what exactly was a joke? the whole relationship?
gah >:/ men! i mean BOYS.

my rising is in scorpio but i have three placements in leo.. uh oh.. :/

better safe then sorry , that's for sure!

when you say desires i hope you didn't mean SEX
i never gave into that fool! lmao.

sigh..

what does it mean when a scorpio has two gemini placements in his chart?
i dont think that's very good news :/