When you start dating a woman do you want her to be the agresser... For the female to show more interest in you? For her to say when am I going to see you again? I mean that's if your interested. How do you know when a male Scorp is really interested in the beginning?
well i can tell you i love to hear stuff like "when am i going to see you again?" it makes me feel great. I dont know how to tell you how a scorpion male will show he likes you, i never really did, just burried those feelings deep down and closed the bottle. thats how it looks anyway which is why i cant tell you really. what things look like are not always what they are. other people might be of more help...
Message posted by: softy on 4/19/2006 10:20:29 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.153 | Report message hmm strange but interesting...I don't think there is one answer for that one..but we'll see what everyone has to say...I'm waiting as well,, ............................................................................
Interesting....
Ok so while were waiting I'll tell ya about my Scorpio friend. I met him on Myspace (lol first time for internet dating). We've been out a few times. Once to dinner and another time to a bar/club. He stayed next to me the whole time held my hand when we walked thru the crowd so we wouldn't loose eachother. We went back to his place that night things got steamy but, nothing happend. We talk on the phone just about every night for about half hour. He texts me on Yahoo while he's at work. It was Saturday that we went out he asked me today "When he was going to see me again, if I even wanted to see him again?" I guess that's why I'm asking the question. I didn't want to be the one to ask for another date. Also, when I told him about my sister wanting to check out the bar we went to on Saturday he suggested us meeting up this Saturday. I mean it all sounds like he likes me but at the same time this boy is fine like LL Cool J/Allen Iverson fine. He's single too and I'm sure he has like 20 other girls asking him out. I just don't want to seem to be to agressive and turn him off. I feel like I'm walking on egg shells.....
Message posted by: Scorpius on 4/19/2006 10:25:41 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.212 | Report message well i can tell you i love to hear stuff like "when am i going to see you again?" it makes me feel great. I dont know how to tell you how a scorpion male will show he likes you, i never really did, just burried those feelings deep down and closed the bottle. thats how it looks anyway which is why i cant tell you really. what things look like are not always what they are. other people might be of more help...
Everything aside...I think they actually like a little bit of aagressiveness (is that a word..looks strange)...I don't actually think Scorpio's are really THAT forward with women they like,,,,but with women that they don't like too much,,I think they are more forward....what do u guys think?
well the holding hands all the time is a good sign i guess. this symbolizes his protectiveness for you. the first time you speak to another male he will be all over that and not in a good way, a jealous way. when he asked you when you wanted to see him next and you were thinking maybe i dont, thats just him being the one "in charge so to speak." we cant help that. neither can the girl scorps.
yea we can be forward very much so with the women we dont like. its because hate is a much easier emotion to show than love. therfore love will not show as much.
Message posted by: Scorpius on 4/19/2006 10:38:33 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.212 | Report message well the holding hands all the time is a good sign i guess. this symbolizes his protectiveness for you. the first time you speak to another male he will be all over that and not in a good way, a jealous way. when he asked you when you wanted to see him next and you were thinking maybe i dont, thats just him being the one "in charge so to speak." we cant help that. neither can the girl scorps. ................................................................................
It was actually him asking me... "So when am I going to see you again, that's if you even want to see me again?"
Message posted by: Scorpius on 4/19/2006 10:44:18 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.212 | Report message hey, im polish i cant even speak right let alone type. i dont know how to explain that one then, i'll think about it though, i promise. ......................................................................
It sounded to me like he may be in the same boat as me.... Like he is testing the waters a bit to see what I might say or how I might act of him thinking I don't want to see him again. That's what makes me think maybe I'm not being agressive enough. I'm a Cancer so I mean we are kind of the same way. I'm dating this other guy who is a Taurus and I like him but then I don't like him. He gets on my nerves sometimes and I can be so much more direct with him and I could careless about what I say to him or what he thinks. With this Scorpio I feel like what if I say the wrong thing?
With Taurs we talk shit to eachother and joke around..... With Scropio we talk about what we both like or don't like. What we did with our day. How was it?
lol ok so this makes sense..... It must be a Cancer thing... I guess I'm going to just be myself... See what happens... I mean it seems like he likes me but, maybe I'm expecting too much lol... I did stand him up twice but, that was because my mother came to town un announced... And I notified him. I guess if he's trying to see two times inside his busy week it's a good look... We have a day date tomorrow and I have no clue what we are doing... He was supposed to call me on his lunch break to talk about it but he didn't... I'm think of just telling him to come to my place for lunch and a movie...
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