Really? Does it ever end?

I was at an event with this Scorp I'm seeing and mutual co-workers(but really peole he works with more closely than I do). No one knows about our relationship. This very good looking, well built guy comes to the event. I take notice, but that's it. The girls start going crazy over him, but I ignore him and watch the Scorp, who is playing on the field. I guess this guy said he liked me, because this girl pulls him over and he addresses me by name and introduces himself. Long story short, he's flirting and the girl is trying to facilitate things. I'm honestly very shy, and I was very embarrassed by all the attention. He asked to take me out and I declined. He asked for my number, I declined. I went out of my way to not have the Scorps coworkers talking about me hooking up with this guy. When the Scorp came off the field, I told him the short version and how I shot the guy down and sent him on his way. I didn't want to NOT say anything, as there were a few people around while this was happening, and he hears about it later and thinks I'm trying to hide something. He replied, "Maybe you want to fuck him.". I laughed and said, "I want no parts of him. I want you.".

The next day the Scorp calls out of the blue with this story about running into some chick that was obsessed with him, and how she said she still hurts cuz he didn't want her. I figured this was a little get back, but it didn't bother me at all. Then we were supposed to go out yesterday. He calls saying something came up and he'll be an hour later than he was supposed to. Well he never called, and didn't return a text I sent. I'm so annoyed. I thought I passed this test with flying colors by giving the guy no play in front of his coworkers.

Did I do anything wrong? I thought I did good in front of people he knew. And we're not a "couple" anyway cuz he said he doesn't want a relationship, so wasn't I being "extra" noble? Is it always going to be like this? Why is he being so difficult when I was really well behaved? 😢

They are so annoying aren't they lol?

First thing does it ever end? this is the same question I ask myself with my sagg and the answer is no not really, there is always the going back and forth between scorp/sagg couples even when one or the other think they did exactly what they should have done, you just have to find a common ground which takes a lot of work and time.

it has been many occasion and I thought I did the right thing towards my sagg and he is still upset or I did something he didn't like and vice versa.

I do however think you did good, but he nows probably feels like she think she can get anybody oh well I am wanted to and let me tell her how much I am wanted so he has one up on you with the guy. I don't really do it but when I talk to my sagg and he might talk about his past about how this one wanted him or so forth I will be like well this men did this and so forth just to be like yeah youre not the only one who is wanted, I know it dumb and tit for tat but it what some scorps do sometimes not saying all scorps are like that.

So now you might have pissed him off when he told you because it was not a big deal why should it be right so this is probably his form of punishment not calling or showing up.

Just my take but I don't know it all, but I know the dynamic between these two signs.

@Sag89 yes yes yes!!!

@Scorpdiva ugh. I was just so irked last night like here we go again. Then I'm like if he doesn't want a relationship why does this even matter? I started to act jealous about the girl, but I hate being fake and I thought he'd see right through it and be insulted. He tries my patience but I'm honest about it. I have rewind everything that's occurred everytime he pulls a stunt like this to try and guess what happened. He has such a poker face.

@ever Thanks for the input. His behavior sometimes makes me think Im the crazy one.

^^^^^^^^ LMAO!!!!

That likes me last night with Sagg, he got mad about something I said to him which I thought wasn't a big deal. I call him a couple of hours later to make sure he was cool he ignored my call and I knew he was so I just went about my buziness today I txt him good evening, I tried to call u last night so he call me to let me know he was pisses and ignored me on purpose.. It never ends Meb, I am going on a little road today with my sis and he knows I told him last weekend so he called back to keep tabs on me I think.

Enjoy your roadtrip girl. So is it a Scorp thing, a Sag thing a just a guy thing? Lol, both are guys are different signs and they both act like bozos. What's the common thread...lmao!

@Ere you're on a roll lol.
@ Exo I bet you're right. Scorpdiva's man probably has some Scorp in him. The funny thing about this guy I see is he's 38. I'd never think a dude this old would behave this way. I think I give him too much credit sometimes, thinking he's more secure and mature than he really is. He has a great pokerface lol.

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@Ere you're on a roll lol.
@ Exo I bet you're right. Scorpdiva's man probably has some Scorp in him. The funny thing about this guy I see is he's 38. I'd never think a dude this old would behave this way. I think I give him too much credit sometimes, thinking he's more secure and mature than he really is. He has a great pokerface lol.

Yes he has scorp in mer and mars and he is also on the cusp Nov 23rd bday, so he has a lot of scorp traits even more than me sometimes.

@Ere don't blame the women these men need to grow up and I mean that in the nicest way also Mebs my sagg is 36 so go figure it's time for them to grow the hell up..........