Scared to tell him how i feel..

ive decided i wanna tell my scorpio how i feel..and that i love him..im scared like crazii.i know he likes me alot but he does da wishy washy things..but im a cancer so im da same way and dont give 2 fucs half the time...im afraid he will run cuz he wont know how to take it..lol

Never be scared to tell ANYONE anything !

we was official in a relationship in january spendin everyday together but he left for college and we both decided it would be better to wait things out because we both think we rushed into a relationship because the feeling we have towards eachother was so strong..we have everything in common..from this day we still talk like normal he cares about me alot always checkin up on me or jus to say good morning or night..he is really nice to me and he tells me everything and so do i..i feel he is my souldmate...what i mean by wishy washy is sometimes he haves his times when he dont want to talk to nobody and he is a little grumpy and he wont call for a few days never over 3 though..lol but im the same way so i could deal with that...maybe cuz we both are water signs..cancer and scorpio....i knew him for about 4 years or more and he had feelings for me long time ago but he said he didnt want to approach me because he felt i was too good for him and he still thinks thats..out of all men i chose him because the way he treats me and cared about me no other man have before and he is always ALWAYS on my mind..i kno no matter wha i could call him and he gives me the advice i need to hear not what i want..both of us is finish with college this year so im happi because i kno we could be with eachother since he live a few blocks from me which is good..he is comin back home for spring break in about 2 weeks and i wanted to surprise him and blind fold him and bring him to a hotel with rose pedals nice music massage oil you know the whole nine and tell him how i feel and that i love him...thats his fantasy he once told me..i remember everything he says and he does too..i jus been waitin for the right moment to tell him and in person and doing something romantic something him and i will remember...so is this a good idea

Don't be scared, but just feel out the moment before you say how you feel. Make sure the moment is right. It depends on atmosphere really, you'll know when to say it.

Don't force it, just let it come naturally.

thanx cappy

If you love him then tell him, if you feel or think anything about anyone then tell them was it good or bad. If they take it badly then leave them fuk their own holes.

Honesty is never wrong, don't be scared of your own feelings. So you should tell him ... I just don't know about having him blind folded haha lol ... well if it works, he must really, really trust you. It's definitely a go, if he let's you blind fold him and go on following you without knowing where you're taking him. "Seriously"

You think a scorpio man would let anyone blind fold him? i won't let my kitty do that let alone these damn wild jaguars.

wow hypno i dont kno wha you was talkin about..lol..but yea he would let me blind fold him he likes that kinky stuff..he let me tie him to a bed before and he did the same to me..he loves it...cancer and scorpios are freaks...this i kno...and to ray yea he trust me..lol..and i will tell him of course when the mood is right...

Posted by s3xximauwant
wow hypno i dont kno wha you was talkin about..lol..but yea he would let me blind fold him he likes that kinky stuff..he let me tie him to a bed before and he did the same to me..he loves it...cancer and scorpios are freaks...this i kno...and to ray yea he trust me..lol..and i will tell him of course when the mood is right...

There must be something in his chart allowing you to blind fold him and tie him up like that... Oh my! freak or not lol

Posted by Hypno
You think a scorpio man would let anyone blind fold him? i won't let my kitty do that let alone these damn wild jaguars.

haha lol

thanks for all the advice ...and i will when da time is right...and i kno not after sex...lol...

Tell him already. He's feeling you and already knows anyway. 🙂 I agree with GreatBull. Well said.

Your love is all that, s3xximauwant, and if he doesn't receive it, it didn't go to waste. YOU loved him and that's what matters. Be strong.

Also, I don't know why it's a negative to tell him you love him after intimacy. He's knows your love is not purely on a physical level. It's not like it's your first time...

"we both decided it would be better to wait things out because we both think we rushed into a relationship because the feeling we have towards eachother was so strong"


It looks like your relationship has already been established with these strong feelings. I'm unclear what it is you wnat to tell him that he doesn't already know ... for, it was because of these very feelings that the decision was made to back off a tad.


"both of us is finish with college this year so im happi"


College? Really?


"he is comin back home for spring break in about 2 weeks and i wanted to surprise him and blind fold him and bring him to a hotel with rose pedals nice music massage oil you know the whole nine and tell him how i feel and that i love him"


sounds to me like you just miss him, and so are having female fantasies about emotional security, and so this is leading you to believe that this love hasn't already been expressed in your relationship yet .... because you fear he might forget how much you care, so you feel like you need to tell him.


I'd warrant that once he gets back ... all of your insecurities will vanish, that is until the next episode in a woman's life when she freaks out, wondering if she's loved, eventhough her man treats her like she is ... not sure why women do that ... poor men have to put up with it though, if they want pussy.