Posted by shellshocker
I can see why he lied. Doesn't make it right, but I get it.
Some women want to be very involved with their bf's children to the point they want to join in all activities, birthdays, holidays and events. Even try to befriend the mother and cement themselves in the man's life through the child. If the man wants to keep things separate, the new gf can become offended, jealous and accuse the man of not loving her enough or not taking their relationship seriously if he won't "open up" all aspects of his life to her.
Not a great way to start a relationship and the temptation to avoid any potential drama where children are concerned, can be strong. When a woman doesn't allow a new love interest into her children's life she's a protective mother. It's not allows viewed the same with men.
I've seen this more times than I haven't.
Not saying the Scorpio was like this but in the beginning of a relationship you never know how a person will react.
3 years is crazy long though, dude messed up.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by briPosted by MyStarsShine
Wow really. I really messed this on up
I was being perverse but maybe you will need to at least stand back?click to expand
Posted by MysteriousScorpio
If I were her I don’t know if I could ever go back to the way things were. It’s been tainted. Sure, I could probably forgive in time, but I could never forget. Things like that get burned into my mind. At best you two might be able to salvage a friendship.....possibly more in time, but things could never ever be like they were. For me, if I give someone my all.....nothing but unconditional love and I find out they’ve been lying to me it’s like they are laughing in my face. Like they just spit on my love and disrespected it as if it meant nothing to them. As if they didn’t take our relationship seriously. That’s a deep hurt that’s difficult to recover from. At least for me.
Posted by ImperfectStorm
She still responds because scorps love unconditionally. Your deceptive behavior isn’t going to get her out of character and turn her into something she’s not. She will stay true to herself but even while she might still love you, she’s probably over the relationship. We already struggle with trust, it doesn’t come naturally to us. There’s nothing we want and need more in a relationship than to feel emotionally safe with someone. If the trust is gone, I would not hold your breath. Depending on how many lies you’ve told, she may or may not be willing to try to reconcile. It really depends on the extent of the damage done.
The best way to build trust with a scorp is to never betray it in the first place.
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Posted by FadedAri
Give it time because your in a good position with communication levels getting better. She’s a scorp so just be on your toes for the payback, but they rarely leave their partners. But I hope you learned your lesson in that fables are just totally immature bs especially with a loving partner.