bri -- if it was an on and off relationship, and you ignored him for a month... well not a good thing to ignore scorpio. We beat ourself up like no other. Not sure... 1 month is pretty much borderline, I would think perhaps up to the 2nd month, but then it definitely is over. Everyone's length of being ignored and the level of how much he cared for you may depend accordingly.
Don't do these type of long term ignoring, honey, if you think you cannot do without him after a while. We get very resentful. Don't make a pattern out of this because we will look for ways to get over you. And when it is over, it will be over...
the thing with this plan is this. if you stop talking to her and she still makes first contact with you which you go on to ignore. that's baaaaaaaaaaad. and very virgoan too which is kind of the hugest astrological curse you can give a personality trait LOL.
if you stop talking to her and she makes no effort to make first contact with you, then you will get locked in a battle - like a stare-off - and neither side will want to be the first one to make contact and then you start to wonder who started the ignoring - and then you start to wonder what they are getting up to during all these prolonged silences..........trust me - that is exhausting!!!
isn't it just easier not to plan a strategy or, dare i say it, play games and just to say what you feel? TALK TO EACHOTHER!!!! it's a much quicker way to reach a conclusion.