Scorpio bf asked where I Disappeared . . . HuH?

i messaged my bf and he told me that he was really busy . . but still answered my question. so i just replied "ok" that was it, then i wanted to give him space . . which is fine, because i wanted to do my own things too. i thought letting him message me next was the best thing to do

then after 3-4days of silence . . while i was busy with my stuff
he messaged "baby...where are u? where u disappeared ? "

i said to myself. huhhhhh— disappeared? me or u? lol

1) so whats with that? i dont understand. he was quiet too, not just me, did he expect me to initiate contact first or what? didnt he realize that he was quiet too? my scorpio ex was like this too. what gives?

2) & is it best for me to leave him alone whenever he's busy & wait for him to contact. or should i give a little attention? =D

Scorpios are suspicious by nature. Seriously i've done the vanishing acts with people (and i probably dont realize how much i do it)....so when someone does it to me, especially if it was a parnter...i'd get suspicous almost instantly.