Scorpio female stare.... help me figure out.

I cannot read this Scorpio woman at work. I still can't figure out what she wants. Before she would just stare while I'm not looking, and when I look at her, she'll look away quickly not to be too obvious. Now she'd be so obvious and stare at me, and we'll have a staring contest. LOL She'd stare at me, and I don't want to stare back anymore. She might think I'm challenging her, or should I let her know I see her—? I do want to know if she's mad or have something to say. She never smiles, so it's hard. And I'm very quiet and barely move, and I don't know anyone at work, so I must have done nothing wrong. I'm doing my own thing, while others are involved, talking, and socializing.....

We did speak to each other before this. She and I told each other how nice it was too see each other at work. I wonder if she was really honest of what she said or keeping something inside. She's the only one who I cannot seem to figure out through her actions. I don't know if she fears me or hate me or what. I don't know if I should trust her. How do I know if a Scorpio is mad, would they ignore you, be fake around you, or how do I figure out what the stare means?

Posted by scorsagianX
When I do the staring thing it's because im interested in the person and I want that person to make a move first...But if they're taking forever I will come up with something clever to say...IMO I think she might have some kind of crush on you.

she's nice and sometimes does things to get my attention. comes near me. but lately i feel the cold stare. lol

Posted by ellessque
ha!! we totally screwed up her thread. Moon in cancer is probably crying now. 😛

Seriously, we don't stare on purpose...not always. Why don't you strike up a conversation? Are you sure she's really staring or are you just being paranoid.

is this a love interest type of thing or is it some sort of underlying competition at work with another female?

it's good to know it's not on purpose. lol i'll strike up a conversation bec. it's been going on now. i know she's staring bec. i caught her so many times, and one time i gave her the "yes" look which caught me off guard because i wouldn't do that, but she smiled....

and no competition at all bec. she has a higher position and has more experienced.

I stare inadvertantly...I might look at someone, then I get caught up in a thought, but I'm still looking in their direction. However! If I'm really attracted to someone I can't bring myself to make eye contact with him. And I hate that "shy" part of me. If I do manage to look, I forget to smile...ugh! LOL!

Posted by Pesca2
a.) she is trying to figure you out and then will decide if she likes you

b.) she has figured you out and totaly hates your guts.....

c.) no option

hope all works out for you!

thanks. i hope so too.

Posted by exoskeleton
lol, when i notice a man sneaking glances at me i will give one long ass stare, sort of as a challenge to see if he looks away first. if he does, i pretty much lose interest right there. usually i stare first to show interest in someone, but sometimes i do it just to make people uncomfortable. i'm an ass for that.

mooncancer, it seems like this has been going on for a while without any progress. she may be curious and interested in you, but just intimidated right now. approach her with something mutual to say and feel her out.

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curious i think bec. im always guarded.

PurrHiss, i do notice that mostly Scorpios does the staring thing and yes it's extended.... this woman is warm and nice so it makes me curious. i wonder what she thinks bec. it's been going on awhile. but lately the stare has been serious. before i did raise my eyebrows and she ended up smiling. Lol

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Posted by scorsagianX
When I do the staring thing it's because im interested in the person and I want that person to make a move first...But if they're taking forever I will come up with something clever to say...IMO I think she might have some kind of crush on you.

she's nice and sometimes does things to get my attention. comes near me. but lately i feel the cold stare. lol

I've been told so many times that i dont smile and looks like Im ready to fuck someone up, lol...Far from the truth Im just observing my surroundings. It may seem like a cold stare but most likely it's not how she is. Scorps are very misunderstood.

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Do you have that blank stare? I think Scorpio has mastered that, the blank stare?


Before I wanted to go up to her bec. she was looking at me too much lol and I thought she wanted to tell me something so I wanted to see what it was but I couldnt coz I got scared. she's too serious. lol

she usually looks away when i catch her then smile to herself, caught her one time. sometimes, shed stare at something in front of me so i wont notice but really its so obvious. then now, i noticed how she'll just stare even when she knows that i know.. though id hope shes not thinking of anything bad coz lately the stare has been longer and more serious. but like you said, could be just observing.

Posted by scorsagianX
OkAY first off, are you male or female? Umm and the blank stare I dont realize I do it, I think im just thinking hard about something... Next time you catch her staring ask her if she has a question for you and maybe throw in something related to work.

fem but i prefer both hehe

Interesting...

These Scorpio stares seem to be out of control, appearing everywhere, and even mystifying their respective intended targets/victims. But perhaps it's time for some '(de)mystifying' of these apparently mystical entities/ogles (even with some Lnrbia hamrc). 😉

Posted by ellessque
she could be.

great. now we have something to work with.

have you spoken to her or are you just reciprocating her stare?

have a conversation with her. she's either curious or thinks you want to steal her job. no joke.

try socializing at lunch or in the break room. be coy and kind...not abrasive about it or she'll turn you on ignore (been there).

good luck!!

(Oh, and enjoy that stare, will ya? 😛)

been enjoying the stare lately bec. before she cant look at me in the eyes. lol

I usually stare at someone to get their attention, then follow up with a smile. Got tired of being told that I am cold, unapproachable and intimidating...

Mooncancer, Scorpio's stare because we can. And many time it's not staring our eyes are mysterious and other wish to know what's behind them. So let me warn you mooncancer, Scorpio's are no joke. Cancer if thats your sign are very sensitive to scorpio's bluntness. You could really get hurt if you don't have thick skin. Believe this, scorpio's love to flirt. if she wants you, she'll make it known. No need to guess. we're just that confident. we will come after you if we really want you.

Posted by texastee
Mooncancer, Scorpio's stare because we can. And many time it's not staring our eyes are mysterious and other wish to know what's behind them. So let me warn you mooncancer, Scorpio's are no joke. Cancer if thats your sign are very sensitive to scorpio's bluntness. You could really get hurt if you don't have thick skin. Believe this, scorpio's love to flirt. if she wants you, she'll make it known. No need to guess. we're just that confident. we will come after you if we really want you.

im cancer moon. right about this scorpio. she's nice but very frank. scary sometimes. hehe