Scorpio male and solitude

I'm sure this has been discussed to death but I needed clarification. I've recently become "involved" with a scorp. We've known each other a while (a little longer than a year) and have been in communication for about 4 mths (daily). He works all over so we see each other once every 2 weeks. The relationship is physical (boy is it physical lol). He is as open as what one would expect a scorp to be in a 4 mth time frame (no discussion of "feelings" or things that bother him deeply but interesting tidbits about his past/future/hobbies/family etc)
I knew scorpio males were secretive and non communicative before I ever even bothered with this guy. He told me about his need to "unplug" and that it had nothing to do with me the first 2 weeks we were hanging out. I understood and respected his need for personal introspection and didn't call/text/email him during that week. (urgh it was hard though)
When we resumed communication it was great. Happy, heartfelt. We both joked we hadn't talked in years (it was like 5 days)
Anyways..I figured this was a 2 maybe 3 times a year thing. He "unplugs" once a month! He warns me so it's not like I'm hanging but c'mon!? It's damn hard to go without talking to a guy I'm starting to dig for a week
My question to you scorpios is what the hell are you thinking about when you're all alone in the batcave? Are you bummed out? Happy?
Shed a little light on this confused airy libra. I'm wondering if I should unplug for good. I can't take a lifetime of this

HaHa Midnitestar. It's cool- I needed any scorpio input 😛. I'll take heart in the fact Ellybean said it mellows over time. Lets hope so
Thank you for your insight everyone

Hahahaha, all these women answering questions meant for a Scorpio man. Like they know what its like to be a man. *Rant over* for me it could mean just resting or just doing what I want to do without any interruptions or doing self reflection. It's all a matter of what's going on at that point in his life. Could be bad or good. Just the other day, I stayed home, closed the blinds and watched movies and played PS3 all day because I never have time to just hang and do that.
The best thing you can do is be supportive if you want to be with him & when he comes back to you don't bring up the loss of him over the course of how many days unless he brings it up. If a women told me she understands my need to regenerate and refresh even if she really didn't understand, would be Huge points. If he cares about you. He's not straying he's as you say becoming unplugged from the world to clear his soul and mind. Hope this helps...

Posted by Let*It*Be
"He warns me so it's not like I'm hanging but c'mon!? It's damn hard to go without talking to a guy I'm starting to dig for a week
My question to you scorpios is what the hell are you thinking about when you're all alone in the batcave? Are you bummed out? Happy?
Shed a little light on this confused airy libra. I'm wondering if I should unplug for good. I can't take a lifetime of this"


Wow...so nice of him to forewarn you out of consideration. I've done that myself. If you should remain with this man, just know that when he does open up, this "alone" thing will be a part of your routine, but by that point you'll get used to it and won't feel the worry or concern about it. I really don't have the words for an explanation of what I'm doing when in this mode, but afterwards, I'm refreshed whether it was working something negative or positive out in my mind. I'm probably worse, I have a Pisces moon and can analzye the crap out of everything.. Can't help it. A week is a bit long. Two or three days is usually sufficient for me. He may change the length of time if things get serious with the two of you and my advice to you is if you feel it's worth it, maintain that patience. Good luck!

Everything she said... +1

I might add, from THIS Scorpio Man's perspective:
Genuine Patience and Honest Communication, Considerateness (if that's a word), Understanding,
Reassurance and Encouragement and Faithfulness would be extremely highly regarded.
On your part, beware of heavy clinginess, nagginess (if that's a word), lying, and insistent suspicions.
Don't make the mistake of distrusting him when he tells you that he loves you. To do so, you are harming
yourself and hurting him, too. Tell him you love him. Show him you love him. He can carry the weight of
the universe, if you fill him with those basic needs. A relationship is like a garden, it must be cultivated,
nurtured and tended to. Neglect it, and it will surely die.
True Love is a work of art: A Masterpiece Takes Time. And a Masterpiece requires the touch of the Master's Hand.
Best wishes.
🙂

Thanks for all the input! I value what has been said. It's been 4 days now-and I suspect sometime tmrw I'll hear from him as his work week has to start again. I don't ask what he has done or thought about during his solitude. That's for him to know-and it's private
It's just difficult as our "relationship" is new. It seems like I just start to warm up to him emotionally and then he takes off. Its almost like a "reset" for me, where I feel awkward jumping right back into where we were before (I get used to not having him around :/, terrible I know but I've been independent and single for a while)
That's what my concern is-that they'll be no progress lol
Your opinions are insightful 🙂

Posted by DazedScorp
Detachment from the overstimulating effect of this world.

You at least got a warning. Most don't even get that, and begin to think you've died. *shrugs*

This is true and well-put.

Posted by DazedScorp
Detachment from the overstimulating effect of this world.

You at least got a warning. Most don't even get that, and begin to think you've died. *shrugs*

+1

And..just as I had said. Phone rings today. 4 days of complete and utter silence. He sounds all refreshed. I would be an anti social mess if I went 4 days in solitary confinement. I'd forget how to speak 0.o
Whatever. Confusing..intoxicating scorpios..welcome to the delicious dark side