JuneGeminiGirl
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Scorpio man playing games and lying?
It’s been 2 months. Maybe just go with the flow? Let him set the tempo and plan the dates if he’s so busy.
Hmmm I think what made me cringe was him telling you to let your self out when you are ready. I think something like stay as long you like or see you this evening would be much better. Then again, I do feel as though sex could have been held off until you truly knew him and his intentions a bit more.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowWhen I asked him to go with me he said he would be honored to be my date, I know he loves to dress up and go to these types of events. Just last week he was texting me a picture of him a at a Kentucky Derby Party...Posted by JuneGeminiGirl
Hi I am new here and would like a little insight on the Male Scorpio psyche.
I met a 40 something Scorpio 2 months ago at a mutual friend’s party, we were both alone and when were where introduced he said “She’s Gorgeous” and I said “I like that”. We began to talk and exchanged numbers, he even asked me to meet him for a drink at another location after the party. I did not go because I was very tired due to resent travel but I did see a text from him the following morning. I texted him and we spoke later that day, we spoke throughout the week and he took me to lunch that following Friday.
Our next date was him inviting me to his house and he made me dinner as I watched, the entire time we talk about a lot of things. He makes us a delicious seafood dish and we continue to talk while we eat, both times I am around him I get butterflies and he stares at me constantly, we kiss a few times on our second date and he says “I like you (my real name) and I say back to him I like you too ( his real name). He then goes up stares to get the things he needs for work in his bedroom I think.....he asks me to come up but I declined. This actually went on for a while and he said he could be late to work but I still said no.
He took me out agin for our third date 2 weeks later ...he works really crazy hours as a longshoreman but we always communicate in one way or another. So we go to a really nice restaurant and he continues to gaze at me and I do the same as we chat, eat and flirt....I really like the way I feel with this man in my presence . So after dinner we go back to his place and he asks if I am okay to drive home which I was but wanted to hangout with him since he did not have to work that night. We started to watch a movie and cuddled a bit which got really intense and hot 😉. We then had the most amazing and passionate sex ....completely mind blowing.
The next morning he had to be at work at 6:00am and told me to stay and let myself out when Inwas ready to leave which I did. I texted him when I was on my way home and we spoke briefly, he even called me back to apologize for being so short with me while he was at work.
After all of this the calls and texts became less and less and he has ignored a few of my text and when I reach out he will say something like “I thought you had forgotten about me” my response was “why would I do that?”
Early on in our communication I asked him to attend a Black tie Gala which is being held this evening, so I called him this past Monday because I want to remind him of the Gala and I really wanted to see him. When he answered he said he was in a store and would call me back as soon as he got out, I HAVE YET TO GET THAT CALL. Because he has been non responsive I sold the tickets to the Gala and in error sent him the text message that I was sending the person I sold them to which prompted his to send me a text stating this “Hey I’m sorry 4 not getting back to u yesterday was a busy night at work....I’m Sorry But not at all just when I’m on nights it’s just overwhelming sometimes is all.” My response was “Sorry that last text was not meant for you.” He texted “I figured that”. Honestly I think he was either playing games or is straight up lying. Last we spoke he was on the day shift for the next 3 weeks and that was 2 weeks ago. As much as I was feeling this guy I am not comfortable with his lack of consistency and communication. The Gala tickets were $ 200 and I mentioned it to him more than once, I truly believe the only reason he text back today is because he saw the message about the Gala and knew he screwed up.
I am really torn about continuing any type of relationship with this Scorpio man I sense he was intentionally and getting pleasure out of my reaching out and not responding. I know we all get busy but he was so Attentive and Responsive in the beginning. I like him but I am not into the mind treetrunking. What do you think?
And the Gala event. Was it your idea? And how did he respond to it? That's a bad move, imo.
I remember there was this time I was to attend a party and I blabbered to my scorp ex that they asked me to bring a plus one. I was like Why can't I go alone? And he said I'm coming with you. I refused to take him tho because I hardly knew him then.
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Posted by Arkansassy
Ignore him and move on.
😉
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowSounds like a good idea.
Ignore and move on.
Couldn't you disappear on him before he could disappear on you?!
Posted by LadyNeptuneI was thinking the same until I began thinking he was playing games and lying...Scorpios don’t tolerate that so why should I?
It’s been 2 months. Maybe just go with the flow? Let him set the tempo and plan the dates if he’s so busy.
Posted by MoonbutterI agree with you on both counts😉.
Hmmm I think what made me cringe was him telling you to let your self out when you are ready. I think something like stay as long you like or see you this evening would be much better. Then again, I do feel as though sex could have been held off until you truly knew him and his intentions a bit more.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowI was joking as well, the lack of communication is why I am considering walking away on top of the fact I think he is lies...Posted by JuneGeminiGirlPosted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Ignore and move on.
Couldn't you disappear on him before he could disappear on you?!
Sounds like a good idea. click to expand
That was a joke. It is wrong to lead someone on and disappear on them.
Communication should be spot on, imo. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by ArkansassyI was kidding😎Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by JuneGeminiGirlPosted by Squishy_Marshmallow
Ignore and move on.
Couldn't you disappear on him before he could disappear on you?!
Sounds like a good idea. click to expand
That was a joke. It is wrong to lead someone on and disappear on them.
Communication should be spot on, imo. click to expand
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Posted by GemFallOutThank you so much for sharing your story SisterGem, I am sure he has some insecurities. He used to be a really big guy and had so sort of surgery to lose the weight, he is very handsome but I think he may still see himself in his old body, he has no idea I know any of this.....I did some research.
Fellow Gem here.
Idk. Imma be the outside perspective on this which you can take as a hint of salt as I just messed things up with my Scorp.
I had the exact same issue with my Scorp. In the beginning he was super attentive and super possessive. The third night we texted, as friends mind you, he thought I was going on a date due to me telling him that I was meeting a friend for coffee. He hadn’t let me know he wanted me, but did super shortly after. By the second week he was calling me his. There was a lot of passion and want on BOTH of our ends.
Fast forward to him coming to visit as we were LD, and we have sex. Same as you and your Scorp, mind blowing and plenty of it. He’s super cool and still intense when he left. Then... he cooled off. I freaked out about it hardcore and didn’t say anything but started to mirror him and became distant. Wasn’t as affectionate at all as before as I was assuming. I finally spoke to him about it as he had picked up my emotion somehow and reaffirmed we were fine. He comes into town the week after and he is being... guess what... super affectionate. I’m not and he can tell.
I think they do this, as honestly I don’t know how intense they can stay. My Scorp also tended to forget things as he was super busy and jingling multiple things. He also loved to go out and dress up, but doesn’t like people.. or gives off that vibe. His aura changed if too many people were close to us. Idk.
I wouldn’t write him off, but I wouldn’t mirror his behavior. Not like I did. Talk to him and communicate as I failed to do and see what happens. He may have something he’s super insecure about... and I’m guessing so from the remark he makes of you forgetting about him. My Acorp would make comments like that too and he wanted to be reassured not overlooked.
That’s all.
Posted by JuneGeminiGirlwooowweeee. lol thats alot of text. 😛
Hi I am new here and would like a little insight on the Male Scorpio psyche.
I met a 40 something Scorpio 2 months ago at a mutual friend’s party, we were both alone and when were where introduced he said “She’s Gorgeous” and I said “I like that”. We began to talk and exchanged numbers, he even asked me to meet him for a drink at another location after the party. I did not go because I was very tired due to resent travel but I did see a text from him the following morning. I texted him and we spoke later that day, we spoke throughout the week and he took me to lunch that following Friday.
Our next date was him inviting me to his house and he made me dinner as I watched, the entire time we talk about a lot of things. He makes us a delicious seafood dish and we continue to talk while we eat, both times I am around him I get butterflies and he stares at me constantly, we kiss a few times on our second date and he says “I like you (my real name) and I say back to him I like you too ( his real name). He then goes up stares to get the things he needs for work in his bedroom I think.....he asks me to come up but I declined. This actually went on for a while and he said he could be late to work but I still said no.
He took me out agin for our third date 2 weeks later ...he works really crazy hours as a longshoreman but we always communicate in one way or another. So we go to a really nice restaurant and he continues to gaze at me and I do the same as we chat, eat and flirt....I really like the way I feel with this man in my presence . So after dinner we go back to his place and he asks if I am okay to drive home which I was but wanted to hangout with him since he did not have to work that night. We started to watch a movie and cuddled a bit which got really intense and hot 😉. We then had the most amazing and passionate sex ....completely mind blowing.
The next morning he had to be at work at 6:00am and told me to stay and let myself out when Inwas ready to leave which I did. I texted him when I was on my way home and we spoke briefly, he even called me back to apologize for being so short with me while he was at work.
After all of this the calls and texts became less and less and he has ignored a few of my text and when I reach out he will say something like “I thought you had forgotten about me” my response was “why would I do that?”
Early on in our communication I asked him to attend a Black tie Gala which is being held this evening, so I called him this past Monday because I want to remind him of the Gala and I really wanted to see him. When he answered he said he was in a store and would call me back as soon as he got out, I HAVE YET TO GET THAT CALL. Because he has been non responsive I sold the tickets to the Gala and in error sent him the text message that I was sending the person I sold them to which prompted his to send me a text stating this “Hey I’m sorry 4 not getting back to u yesterday was a busy night at work....I’m Sorry But not at all just when I’m on nights it’s just overwhelming sometimes is all.” My response was “Sorry that last text was not meant for you.” He texted “I figured that”. Honestly I think he was either playing games or is straight up lying. Last we spoke he was on the day shift for the next 3 weeks and that was 2 weeks ago. As much as I was feeling this guy I am not comfortable with his lack of consistency and communication. The Gala tickets were $ 200 and I mentioned it to him more than once, I truly believe the only reason he text back today is because he saw the message about the Gala and knew he screwed up.
I am really torn about continuing any type of relationship with this Scorpio man I sense he was intentionally and getting pleasure out of my reaching out and not responding. I know we all get busy but he was so Attentive and Responsive in the beginning. I like him but I am not into the mind treetrunking. What do you think?
Posted by GemFallOutWow how ironic they have both had surgery😊. You are correct about my learning to communicate with him in a way I am not used too. The silence is so loud with him sometimes but I know this is so Scorpio. I am going to sit back and let him make the nest move, if I am comfortable with it there is a possibility we can reconnect.Posted by JuneGeminiGirlPosted by GemFallOut
Fellow Gem here.
Idk. Imma be the outside perspective on this which you can take as a hint of salt as I just messed things up with my Scorp.
I had the exact same issue with my Scorp. In the beginning he was super attentive and super possessive. The third night we texted, as friends mind you, he thought I was going on a date due to me telling him that I was meeting a friend for coffee. He hadn’t let me know he wanted me, but did super shortly after. By the second week he was calling me his. There was a lot of passion and want on BOTH of our ends.
Fast forward to him coming to visit as we were LD, and we have sex. Same as you and your Scorp, mind blowing and plenty of it. He’s super cool and still intense when he left. Then... he cooled off. I freaked out about it hardcore and didn’t say anything but started to mirror him and became distant. Wasn’t as affectionate at all as before as I was assuming. I finally spoke to him about it as he had picked up my emotion somehow and reaffirmed we were fine. He comes into town the week after and he is being... guess what... super affectionate. I’m not and he can tell.
I think they do this, as honestly I don’t know how intense they can stay. My Scorp also tended to forget things as he was super busy and jingling multiple things. He also loved to go out and dress up, but doesn’t like people.. or gives off that vibe. His aura changed if too many people were close to us. Idk.
I wouldn’t write him off, but I wouldn’t mirror his behavior. Not like I did. Talk to him and communicate as I failed to do and see what happens. He may have something he’s super insecure about... and I’m guessing so from the remark he makes of you forgetting about him. My Acorp would make comments like that too and he wanted to be reassured not overlooked.
That’s all.
Thank you so much for sharing your story SisterGem, I am sure he has some insecurities. He used to be a really big guy and had so sort of surgery to lose the weight, he is very handsome but I think he may still see himself in his old body, he has no idea I know any of this.....I did some research. click to expand
No problem at all. Funny enough, my guy had some surgery as well as he has Crohns. He never liked me touching certain spots on my stomach and would push my hand away if I tried touching there.
I think he may just need some time and some tender and loving communication. Not the type we are use to. He may not be very direct either as to gauge where you are in your head. If so, don’t hold it against him. Lol. It’s the same thing we do when we feel uncertain. We don’t give full pieces. I do truly believe learning to communicate besides just verbal with these guys to be a big thing. Also be attentive to things he says or does. From my experience they don’t talk a lot, but when they do.. even if it seems small, it’s coming from something or to “gauge” something. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by _wtf_Yes, that may be the case.
Stare
Stare
Attempts to lure you upstairs
Stare
Stare
Sex
texts and calls less and less
He used you for sex.
Posted by lisabethur8Yup😳Posted by JuneGeminiGirl
Hi I am new here and would like a little insight on the Male Scorpio psyche.
I met a 40 something Scorpio 2 months ago at a mutual friend’s party, we were both alone and when were where introduced he said “She’s Gorgeous” and I said “I like that”. We began to talk and exchanged numbers, he even asked me to meet him for a drink at another location after the party. I did not go because I was very tired due to resent travel but I did see a text from him the following morning. I texted him and we spoke later that day, we spoke throughout the week and he took me to lunch that following Friday.
Our next date was him inviting me to his house and he made me dinner as I watched, the entire time we talk about a lot of things. He makes us a delicious seafood dish and we continue to talk while we eat, both times I am around him I get butterflies and he stares at me constantly, we kiss a few times on our second date and he says “I like you (my real name) and I say back to him I like you too ( his real name). He then goes up stares to get the things he needs for work in his bedroom I think.....he asks me to come up but I declined. This actually went on for a while and he said he could be late to work but I still said no.
He took me out agin for our third date 2 weeks later ...he works really crazy hours as a longshoreman but we always communicate in one way or another. So we go to a really nice restaurant and he continues to gaze at me and I do the same as we chat, eat and flirt....I really like the way I feel with this man in my presence . So after dinner we go back to his place and he asks if I am okay to drive home which I was but wanted to hangout with him since he did not have to work that night. We started to watch a movie and cuddled a bit which got really intense and hot 😉. We then had the most amazing and passionate sex ....completely mind blowing.
The next morning he had to be at work at 6:00am and told me to stay and let myself out when Inwas ready to leave which I did. I texted him when I was on my way home and we spoke briefly, he even called me back to apologize for being so short with me while he was at work.
After all of this the calls and texts became less and less and he has ignored a few of my text and when I reach out he will say something like “I thought you had forgotten about me” my response was “why would I do that?”
Early on in our communication I asked him to attend a Black tie Gala which is being held this evening, so I called him this past Monday because I want to remind him of the Gala and I really wanted to see him. When he answered he said he was in a store and would call me back as soon as he got out, I HAVE YET TO GET THAT CALL. Because he has been non responsive I sold the tickets to the Gala and in error sent him the text message that I was sending the person I sold them to which prompted his to send me a text stating this “Hey I’m sorry 4 not getting back to u yesterday was a busy night at work....I’m Sorry But not at all just when I’m on nights it’s just overwhelming sometimes is all.” My response was “Sorry that last text was not meant for you.” He texted “I figured that”. Honestly I think he was either playing games or is straight up lying. Last we spoke he was on the day shift for the next 3 weeks and that was 2 weeks ago. As much as I was feeling this guy I am not comfortable with his lack of consistency and communication. The Gala tickets were $ 200 and I mentioned it to him more than once, I truly believe the only reason he text back today is because he saw the message about the Gala and knew he screwed up.
I am really torn about continuing any type of relationship with this Scorpio man I sense he was intentionally and getting pleasure out of my reaching out and not responding. I know we all get busy but he was so Attentive and Responsive in the beginning. I like him but I am not into the mind treetrunking. What do you think?
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Posted by exsqueezeme
I want volume 2 of this
I will keep you posted.😎
Posted by GobbyI did what I wanted to do so No, I don’t feel used. I am not here feeling I got played...THE SEX WAS GOOD😎😉Posted by JuneGeminiGirlWow, you're really naive, aren't you...
I know we all get busy but he was so Attentive and Responsive in the beginning.
Posted by JuneGeminiGirlEveryone has insecurities but whatever delusional excuses get you through the night...
I am sure he has some insecurities.
In a nutshell, you were pumped and dumped... and you allowed that to happen by jumping into bed with him too soon.
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Posted by exsqueezemeAbsolutely!Posted by JuneGeminiGirlPosted by exsqueezeme
I want volume 2 of this
I will keep you posted.😎 click to expand
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Scorpio men are flaky AF!!! And even when they straight up disrespect, we still try to see it from their perspective. tskTsk Gems are truly the sweetest most compassionate females.
Posted by GemmybearYes we are😊
Scorpio men are flaky AF!!! And even when they straight up disrespect, we still try to see it from their perspective. tskTsk Gems are truly the sweetest most compassionate females.
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