Are Scorpio men creepy?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by heliumfiasco on Wednesday, February 28, 2018 and has 49 replies.

Are Scorpio Men Creepy or Just Intense

Scorpio men are often seen as intense and passionate, which can be misinterpreted as creepy. Their mysterious aura and emotional depth may cause mixed feelings. Trust your intuition and observe behaviors closely to determine if their actions are genuine or concerning. Not all Scorpio men are possessive; many are loyal and respectful partners.

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Okay, so I've been casually dating this Scorpio dude. I like him.... I think? Anyways, he has done absolutely nothing but be a perfect gentleman.

But!!! I get a very underlying intuition that he could possibly turn clingy and possessive. I have NO idea why as he hasn't shown this to me directly. His aura is turning me off.... but I cant pinpoint it! There is no logic to why I feel this way.

Is it just that Scorpio vibe? Should I roll with it?

Ya'll know I cant date for shit. hahaha

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Is he a grey lizard or eagle type? If he looks like a grey lizard. Run!

Eagles never give off any bad vibes to me, but when I'm around grey lizards I get sick to my stomach.

Elaborate please! Give photo examples if possible!

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Oh man! Hahaha. All these responses had my literally laughing in my office. I'm gonna get fired today!

Like, his entire vibe. The way he looks at me (he's very handsome) just kind of weirds me out.

I was texting him and a friend at the same time. I accidentally missed text him, and all the text said was "I'm heading to dinner. maybe ill run into you later!" I realize and say "Sorry, mistext" He immediately responds "Well, that's very interesting."

I just cant pinpoint it, and it's driving me nuts. He's totally my type physically. He phones instead of texts, is upfront about liking me. Interesting conversation.

But something is off..... At least I think?!?! So confused. haha

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My own experiences with 4 different Scorpio men over the years:

-new coworker, first week at a job, texting: "I care about you so much. I really need you in my life"

-constantly needing to know my work schedule and texting me where I am

-start randomly massaging my back

-waiting outside my car in dark parking lots

-creepy anonymous love letters (later admitted)

- mixed cd's left on your car when you never told them what you drive

-talk about wanting kids/marrying you on a first or second date

-texting photos of him crying

-feeling me up in the back of a school bus in high school when I told him not to, overpowering me. Writing me letters of apology next day about being sorry that he "had to"

-texting "when I fuck my wife I think of you"

Why God why

wtf? your life is so interesting lol

but texting photos of him crying won.

i will not comment the latter hope you reported it.

LOL I posted a thread about the Scorpio man texting me photos of him crying, I wanna say 2 years ago ish?? I got attacked, of course, because I was being insensitive to his vulnerabilities. I don't give a fuck! I'm a cap moon, I don't know how to deal with that shit, nor do I want to. Yuck.

cool, get it.

never saw that thread. i mean it's funny, but actually it's not when it is happening to you. god.

i'm fucking my wife and thinking of you lmao.

Yea it really wasn't lol. I had no idea how to respond to that. I think I was like uhhhh are you okay? Lmao

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HAHAHAHAHA. Why am I laughing so hard?

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

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Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

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No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

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oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

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My own experiences with 4 different Scorpio men over the years:

-new coworker, first week at a job, texting: "I care about you so much. I really need you in my life"

-constantly needing to know my work schedule and texting me where I am

-start randomly massaging my back

-waiting outside my car in dark parking lots

-creepy anonymous love letters (later admitted)

- mixed cd's left on your car when you never told them what you drive

-talk about wanting kids/marrying you on a first or second date

-texting photos of him crying

-feeling me up in the back of a school bus in high school when I told him not to, overpowering me. Writing me letters of apology next day about being sorry that he "had to"

-texting "when I fuck my wife I think of you"

Why God why

Foreplay.

You ever done anything like that or do I just come across the biggest fucking freaks ever

I've never done any of those.

I grew up with a single mother who made the absolute worst choices when it came to men, and have seen men do similar things to her. I resolved to NOT treat women the way those men treated her.

I really only know two of their signs. And they were both Aries.

I understand, well good for you. I also have been sexually assaulted by an Aries man before. I am intimidated by the aggression of men of that sign sometimes.

One tried to blackmail my mother and get her fired when I was in high school. Me and 2 friends beat his ass. They're aggressive, sure, but mostly full of shit.

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Might be the first time Ive ever seen you be serious, lol good job whooping that punks' azz though

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

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https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

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I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

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Ohhhh, really?! What does that mean!? haha

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

Ohhhh, really?! What does that mean!? haha

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https://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/astrology/people-who-fall-into-your-8th-house-and-you-into-theirs/

check out some of the other people's thoughts on it

I had this recently with someone and it's such a strong feeling because the 8th house is a powerful house to begin with. So when you have someone's moon falling into your house they're bringing that energy of the moon into a house thats deep and intense. You could feel like he's controlling your feelings or vice-versa. You may feel exposed to him and he the same. I know with this person I had it with it was a wonderful feeling till it wasn't.

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

Ohhhh, really?! What does that mean!? haha

https://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/astrology/people-who-fall-into-your-8th-house-and-you-into-theirs/

check out some of the other people's thoughts on it

I had this recently with someone and it's such a strong feeling because the 8th house is a powerful house to begin with. So when you have someone's moon falling into your house they're bringing that energy of the moon into a house thats deep and intense. You could feel like he's controlling your feelings or vice-versa. You may feel exposed to him and he the same. I know with this person I had it with it was a wonderful feeling till it wasn't.

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So, you feel like it could be causing the confusion of feelings? It's like I WANT to like him, I do.... I just feel odd. We also didn't even kiss until our 5th date!!!!! Still no sex.... i'm nervous about it! Like a kid. I cant tell if i'm repulsed or genuinely into him. SO WEIRD

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

Ohhhh, really?! What does that mean!? haha

https://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/astrology/people-who-fall-into-your-8th-house-and-you-into-theirs/

check out some of the other people's thoughts on it

I had this recently with someone and it's such a strong feeling because the 8th house is a powerful house to begin with. So when you have someone's moon falling into your house they're bringing that energy of the moon into a house thats deep and intense. You could feel like he's controlling your feelings or vice-versa. You may feel exposed to him and he the same. I know with this person I had it with it was a wonderful feeling till it wasn't.

So, you feel like it could be causing the confusion of feelings? It's like I WANT to like him, I do.... I just feel odd. We also didn't even kiss until our 5th date!!!!! Still no sex.... i'm nervous about it! Like a kid. I cant tell if i'm repulsed or genuinely into him. SO WEIRD

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Are you guys just dating or in a relationship?

I read that it can feel like that but I'm getting the impression that it's still pretty new between you guys so maybe you don't even feel that intense bond yet.

I was the moon person and the house person also was nervous about it which was weird because from my view she was always the one who hung the moon and I was the one that needed to prove myself.

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Yea, they're creepy.

When I moved out from my ex's place, we had sex a couple times after and he told me he found some of my underwear and was sad it was clean when he sniffed it. I don't know. That just really creeped me out. Hahahahahahaha. Weirdo.

They also seem to love bodily fluid. Like go down on you then show you their tongue.

I'm talking to a Sag with too many placements in scorp. He talks about stuff like that even though we haven't banged and it brings back memories.

Dude I had a roommate that I thought was gay for more than a year. He was creepy as fuck. Pisces moon. He kept like... asking to do my laundry since I was so busy, and I was naive and was like okay, thats nice of you, cool thanks.

Then I talked to one of his ex roommates' boyfriends who was studying with me, months later, and came to find out that he was putting all of her dirty panties in his bed and rolling around in them.

You can't make this shit up. I don't think he was gay. It is no fucking wonder I am this shut-in hermit person.

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lmao!! hahahaha

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

Ohhhh, really?! What does that mean!? haha

https://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/astrology/people-who-fall-into-your-8th-house-and-you-into-theirs/

check out some of the other people's thoughts on it

I had this recently with someone and it's such a strong feeling because the 8th house is a powerful house to begin with. So when you have someone's moon falling into your house they're bringing that energy of the moon into a house thats deep and intense. You could feel like he's controlling your feelings or vice-versa. You may feel exposed to him and he the same. I know with this person I had it with it was a wonderful feeling till it wasn't.

So, you feel like it could be causing the confusion of feelings? It's like I WANT to like him, I do.... I just feel odd. We also didn't even kiss until our 5th date!!!!! Still no sex.... i'm nervous about it! Like a kid. I cant tell if i'm repulsed or genuinely into him. SO WEIRD

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of course I have nothing to offer - but keep seeing him so we can see where this goes

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

Ohhhh, really?! What does that mean!? haha

https://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/astrology/people-who-fall-into-your-8th-house-and-you-into-theirs/

check out some of the other people's thoughts on it

I had this recently with someone and it's such a strong feeling because the 8th house is a powerful house to begin with. So when you have someone's moon falling into your house they're bringing that energy of the moon into a house thats deep and intense. You could feel like he's controlling your feelings or vice-versa. You may feel exposed to him and he the same. I know with this person I had it with it was a wonderful feeling till it wasn't.

So, you feel like it could be causing the confusion of feelings? It's like I WANT to like him, I do.... I just feel odd. We also didn't even kiss until our 5th date!!!!! Still no sex.... i'm nervous about it! Like a kid. I cant tell if i'm repulsed or genuinely into him. SO WEIRD

Are you guys just dating or in a relationship?

I read that it can feel like that but I'm getting the impression that it's still pretty new between you guys so maybe you don't even feel that intense bond yet.

I was the moon person and the house person also was nervous about it which was weird because from my view she was always the one who hung the moon and I was the one that needed to prove myself.

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I'm now lighting my google search on this topic on fire! We have been on 5 dates. Our first on Valentines Day...we both forgot it was even V-day. haha. At first it was so weird because when I was out with him I liked him a lot, when we were apart I would sit and be like "ehhhh... I have a weird vibe". This went on for the first 4 dates... I was like why the fuck cant I tell how I feel?!?!?!?! He seems absolutely sure he likes me a lot!

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You know what come to think of it-- I dated a Scorpio last Summer that I forgot about. He also seemed a bit creepy...

Maybe its just my perception... But I wonder what that vibe is. It's awkward kinda.

From what I noticed, it may be more of a socially awkward, lack of communication kind of thing. I never felt straight up scared of a Scorpio man, like my life was in danger, it's more of a quiet vibe and small things that you observe about them and how they make you feel.

Yes! I dont feel scared. That's why im looking for experiences. Wondering if I should just push through it. haha

Do you think that you could be feeling what you feel, because you are into astrology and you know the stereotypes attached to this sign, so you are projecting that onto him?

No. Not at all. Ill date any sign. I was actually excited to hear he was a Scorpio!

oh wait wait

what's the synastry chart looking like? I think you listed the placements before but I forgot. Would you mind actually posting the chart? It would help kind of understand where the uncomfortable energy might be coming from.

https://ibb.co/mVJDax

The synastry chart. IDK how to read them....

I knew it. I just knew his moon fell into your 8th. That can be very uncomfortable if the house person isn't used to that energy even with your moon in your 8th already.

Ohhhh, really?! What does that mean!? haha

https://www.elsaelsa.com/forum/astrology/people-who-fall-into-your-8th-house-and-you-into-theirs/

check out some of the other people's thoughts on it

I had this recently with someone and it's such a strong feeling because the 8th house is a powerful house to begin with. So when you have someone's moon falling into your house they're bringing that energy of the moon into a house thats deep and intense. You could feel like he's controlling your feelings or vice-versa. You may feel exposed to him and he the same. I know with this person I had it with it was a wonderful feeling till it wasn't.

So, you feel like it could be causing the confusion of feelings? It's like I WANT to like him, I do.... I just feel odd. We also didn't even kiss until our 5th date!!!!! Still no sex.... i'm nervous about it! Like a kid. I cant tell if i'm repulsed or genuinely into him. SO WEIRD

Are you guys just dating or in a relationship?

I read that it can feel like that but I'm getting the impression that it's still pretty new between you guys so maybe you don't even feel that intense bond yet.

I was the moon person and the house person also was nervous about it which was weird because from my view she was always the one who hung the moon and I was the one that needed to prove myself.

I'm now lighting my google search on this topic on fire! We have been on 5 dates. Our first on Valentines Day...we both forgot it was even V-day. haha. At first it was so weird because when I was out with him I liked him a lot, when we were apart I would sit and be like "ehhhh... I have a weird vibe". This went on for the first 4 dates... I was like why the fuck cant I tell how I feel?!?!?!?! He seems absolutely sure he likes me a lot!

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What do you like about him? Is he nice? Does he remember things no one else does? Charming? Mysterious? Makes you feel like you can be yourself? Pinpoint what it is. If you can't I'd let him go or just make sure to let him know that you're nowhere near ready to make it serious. If he already likes you and his moon falls into your 8th, he's going to want to be a giver. That happens. It happened with me. So try your hardest to not allow that if you're not on the same page as him because that will complicate things.

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Was at a home party with a friend of a friend and we made out there and he felt me up a little bit. No biggie. Nothing came out of it. Another time I was at a party with my friend and she took a selfie with me and posted it as a story on snapchat and the scorpio took a screenshot of it. Never heard from him after that and never saw him but he could still have a screenshot of me lol. Luckily Iโ€™m not creeped out easily but some would be, I just laughed it off.

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Okay, so I've been casually dating this Scorpio dude. I like him.... I think? Anyways, he has done absolutely nothing but be a perfect gentleman.

But!!! I get a very underlying intuition that he could possibly turn clingy and possessive. I have NO idea why as he hasn't shown this to me directly. His aura is turning me off.... but I cant pinpoint it! There is no logic to why I feel this way.

Is it just that Scorpio vibe? Should I roll with it?

Ya'll know I cant date for shit. hahaha

Don't ruin what could be a good thing by analyzing this too much.

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Wayment I knew Scorp men were wild but uhhh what yโ€™all doing @ Scorpio men

And Scorpio women, because if you think that we're innocents...think again.

Okay sis LMFAOO

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What ? And I'm not your "sis"

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Then why are you taking everything I say so personal then LMFAOO ?

Never did I say that Scorp women werenโ€™t freaks when I replied in a thread about Scorp MEN. Iโ€™m glad u take pride in that but Idrc

RELAX

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Okay, so I've been casually dating this Scorpio dude. I like him.... I think? Anyways, he has done absolutely nothing but be a perfect gentleman.

But!!! I get a very underlying intuition that he could possibly turn clingy and possessive. I have NO idea why as he hasn't shown this to me directly. His aura is turning me off.... but I cant pinpoint it! There is no logic to why I feel this way.

Is it just that Scorpio vibe? Should I roll with it?

Ya'll know I cant date for shit. hahaha

Do have anything more concrete than auraโ€™s?

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Okay, so I've been casually dating this Scorpio dude. I like him.... I think? Anyways, he has done absolutely nothing but be a perfect gentleman.

But!!! I get a very underlying intuition that he could possibly turn clingy and possessive. I have NO idea why as he hasn't shown this to me directly. His aura is turning me off.... but I cant pinpoint it! There is no logic to why I feel this way.

Is it just that Scorpio vibe? Should I roll with it?

Ya'll know I cant date for shit. hahaha

Do have anything more concrete than auraโ€™s?

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What about concrete auras?

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Posted by heliumfiasco
Okay, so I've been casually dating this Scorpio dude. I like him.... I think? Anyways, he has done absolutely nothing but be a perfect gentleman.

But!!! I get a very underlying intuition that he could possibly turn clingy and possessive. I have NO idea why as he hasn't shown this to me directly. His aura is turning me off.... but I cant pinpoint it! There is no logic to why I feel this way.

Is it just that Scorpio vibe? Should I roll with it?

Ya'll know I cant date for shit. hahaha

Do have anything more concrete than auraโ€™s?

What about concrete auras?

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Smooth finish?

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Posted by nano
My own experiences with 4 different Scorpio men over the years:

-new coworker, first week at a job, texting: "I care about you so much. I really need you in my life"

-constantly needing to know my work schedule and texting me where I am

-start randomly massaging my back

-waiting outside my car in dark parking lots

-creepy anonymous love letters (later admitted)

- mixed cd's left on your car when you never told them what you drive

-talk about wanting kids/marrying you on a first or second date

-texting photos of him crying

-feeling me up in the back of a school bus in high school when I told him not to, overpowering me. Writing me letters of apology next day about being sorry that he "had to"

-texting "when I fuck my wife I think of you"

Why God why

Texting photos of him crying made me cry ๐Ÿ˜‚

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Wow I'm getting that vibe from the Scorp I'm seeing... It's way too early for this vibe ๐Ÿ˜ข

that guy you wanted initially to avoid? for some weird reason? (i can't remember really ๐Ÿ˜„)

Yeah same guy, weird reason is he's a Scorp!

I hope his creepy side comes out not before we have sex, it's gonna suck big if I have to leave him before ๐Ÿ˜ข

Yeah he can probably feel that somethings not right since your just trying to use him for sex.

And he's the creepy one...righto

Man, sex is the easiest thing to get in this world. I was half joking...but yeah I won't mind using him for sex ๐Ÿ˜„

I'm sure he won't mind either ๐Ÿ˜‹

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How's it gonna going with the Scorp.....did you do it yet ? ๐Ÿ˜ˆ ๐Ÿ˜› ?

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Posted by Lioness18881
Scorps are great! They're the type of guy that will hand feed you crackers and dip or spoon feed you icecream out of the tub. They like all of your social media shit. Even old stuff. Even after you're not together anymore. They hit you up every few months for years on end. They never truely go away. They're always there even if you never contact them.

They're easily aroused and are effortlessly ready to go on demand. They have an inability to say no even if you've already done it 10 times that day. The stamina is amazing! I think that makes up for all the weird shit.

They're always respectful, even if you do filthy whore stuff with them. They bring out all kinds of kinky in you and somehow make you feel like that's wifey material. I don't think they're creepy but there is definitely something about them.

Sounds like me ๐Ÿ˜›

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Maybe I should sleep with him and see if that helps?!? Hahaha ๐Ÿ˜‰

All this talk of Scorpio sex. I dated a Scorpio Stellium who was so blahhhhh in bed. I just figured that Scorpio sex thing was a myth.

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Wow I'm getting that vibe from the Scorp I'm seeing... It's way too early for this vibe ๐Ÿ˜ข

that guy you wanted initially to avoid? for some weird reason? (i can't remember really ๐Ÿ˜„)

Yeah same guy, weird reason is he's a Scorp!

I hope his creepy side comes out not before we have sex, it's gonna suck big if I have to leave him before ๐Ÿ˜ข

Yeah he can probably feel that somethings not right since your just trying to use him for sex.

And he's the creepy one...righto

Man, sex is the easiest thing to get in this world. I was half joking...but yeah I won't mind using him for sex ๐Ÿ˜„

I'm sure he won't mind either ๐Ÿ˜‹

How's it gonna going with the Scorp.....did you do it yet ? ๐Ÿ˜ˆ ๐Ÿ˜› ?

No we haven't... Weird. It feels platonic now ๐Ÿ˜ข(

Kinda sucks but I'm okie about it๐Ÿ˜

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Aaahh no, what is up with him? ๐Ÿ‘Ž