How to know if Scorpio man had lost intrest in you?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Itssumu91 on Saturday, May 5, 2018 and has 28 replies.

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

He is my friend... I felt he had feelings for me. But with his behaviour I'm confused if he did really like me? Or he had lost intrest in me.

So I would like know what are the signs that will yell scorpio man is not intrested.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

That’s not enough info to tell anything! He is your friend and you FELT he has feelings for you...WTF girl?

Maybe you had mistaken?

And he didn’t lose it because he never had! Common! Are you 18?

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Gemitati
That’s not enough info to tell anything! He is your friend and you FELT he has feelings for you...WTF girl?

Maybe you had mistaken?

And he didn’t lose it because he never had! Common! Are you 18?

I know I had mentioned very less details. But there were signs of his gentle humble behaviour towards me that made me doubt if he liked me.

Like sharing his deep secrets with me that no one knows... Tried to be protective towards me and then stopped it all of sudden. Got possesive only in my case but with no one else. Being gentle and extreme kind and putting concern for me but then someday all of sudden his behaviour kept on changing. And if I never acted the way he wanted he would get pissed off. Whenever I teased him or flirt with him he enjoyed it but like months after sometimes he used to avoid it too. That did confused me so I even left flirting and all. Agter that lot of things changed between us. Apart from this his friend tease us with each other but that doesnt bothers him and he doesnt care. I had seen when we will be in group he will be so normal and edgy but when I will be alone with him he will be that soft shy person.

So because of all this I felt he might had liking for me or maybe I overanalyzing thing.

At present lot of things had changed between us. He ignores my text but keep up with other people. So I wanted to know if had lost intrest in my friendship or is he doing it on purpose?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Gemitati
That’s not enough info to tell anything! He is your friend and you FELT he has feelings for you...WTF girl?

Maybe you had mistaken?

And he didn’t lose it because he never had! Common! Are you 18?

I know I had mentioned very less details. But there were signs of his gentle humble behaviour towards me that made me doubt if he liked me.

Like sharing his deep secrets with me that no one knows... Tried to be protective towards me and then stopped it all of sudden. Got possesive only in my case but with no one else. Being gentle and extreme kind and putting concern for me but then someday all of sudden his behaviour kept on changing. And if I never acted the way he wanted he would get pissed off. Whenever I teased him or flirt with him he enjoyed it but like months after sometimes he used to avoid it too. That did confused me so I even left flirting and all. Agter that lot of things changed between us. Apart from this his friend tease us with each other but that doesnt bothers him and he doesnt care. I had seen when we will be in group he will be so normal and edgy but when I will be alone with him he will be that soft shy person.

So because of all this I felt he might had liking for me or maybe I overanalyzing thing.

At present lot of things had changed between us. He ignores my text but keep up with other people. So I wanted to know if had lost intrest in my friendship or is he doing it on purpose? click to expand

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He is growing up. Maybe growing apart from you. He could be got enough of you because you stoped bringing excitement.

He might fell for somebody else.

Or it could be ‘normal’ Scorpio ‘need of space’...

One thing for sure - if he is avoiding uou - be ready to find some other ‘friend’. Good luck honey

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@AriesAngel92
8 Years

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Gemitati
That’s not enough info to tell anything! He is your friend and you FELT he has feelings for you...WTF girl?

Maybe you had mistaken?

And he didn’t lose it because he never had! Common! Are you 18?

I know I had mentioned very less details. But there were signs of his gentle humble behaviour towards me that made me doubt if he liked me.

Like sharing his deep secrets with me that no one knows... Tried to be protective towards me and then stopped it all of sudden. Got possesive only in my case but with no one else. Being gentle and extreme kind and putting concern for me but then someday all of sudden his behaviour kept on changing. And if I never acted the way he wanted he would get pissed off. Whenever I teased him or flirt with him he enjoyed it but like months after sometimes he used to avoid it too. That did confused me so I even left flirting and all. Agter that lot of things changed between us. Apart from this his friend tease us with each other but that doesnt bothers him and he doesnt care. I had seen when we will be in group he will be so normal and edgy but when I will be alone with him he will be that soft shy person.

So because of all this I felt he might had liking for me or maybe I overanalyzing thing.

At present lot of things had changed between us. He ignores my text but keep up with other people. So I wanted to know if had lost intrest in my friendship or is he doing it on purpose? click to expand

He is growing up. Maybe growing apart from you. He could be got enough of you because you stoped bringing excitement.

He might fell for somebody else.

Or it could be ‘normal’ Scorpio ‘need of space’...

One thing for sure - if he is avoiding uou - be ready to find some other ‘friend’. Good luck honey click to expand

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Wow.. you are rude as hell. Clearly you’re jealous because someone cared about this poor girl and you’re so nasty mean and miserable you’ve never experienced that

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@Cancan26
10 Years5,000+ Posts

question : How to know if Scorpio man had lost interest in you?

answer: when you turn around look in the bushes and realize he isn't following you anymore 😢

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by AriesAngel92

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Gemitati
That’s not enough info to tell anything! He is your friend and you FELT he has feelings for you...WTF girl?

Maybe you had mistaken?

And he didn’t lose it because he never had! Common! Are you 18?

I know I had mentioned very less details. But there were signs of his gentle humble behaviour towards me that made me doubt if he liked me.

Like sharing his deep secrets with me that no one knows... Tried to be protective towards me and then stopped it all of sudden. Got possesive only in my case but with no one else. Being gentle and extreme kind and putting concern for me but then someday all of sudden his behaviour kept on changing. And if I never acted the way he wanted he would get pissed off. Whenever I teased him or flirt with him he enjoyed it but like months after sometimes he used to avoid it too. That did confused me so I even left flirting and all. Agter that lot of things changed between us. Apart from this his friend tease us with each other but that doesnt bothers him and he doesnt care. I had seen when we will be in group he will be so normal and edgy but when I will be alone with him he will be that soft shy person.

So because of all this I felt he might had liking for me or maybe I overanalyzing thing.

At present lot of things had changed between us. He ignores my text but keep up with other people. So I wanted to know if had lost intrest in my friendship or is he doing it on purpose? click to expand

He is growing up. Maybe growing apart from you. He could be got enough of you because you stoped bringing excitement.

He might fell for somebody else.

Or it could be ‘normal’ Scorpio ‘need of space’...

One thing for sure - if he is avoiding uou - be ready to find some other ‘friend’. Good luck honey click to expand

Wow.. you are rude as hell. Clearly you’re jealous because someone cared about this poor girl and you’re so nasty mean and miserable you’ve never experienced that click to expand

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Yep! That’s me! Nice to meet you gullible person. 👿

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@AriesAngel92
8 Years

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by AriesAngel92

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Gemitati
That’s not enough info to tell anything! He is your friend and you FELT he has feelings for you...WTF girl?

Maybe you had mistaken?

And he didn’t lose it because he never had! Common! Are you 18?

I know I had mentioned very less details. But there were signs of his gentle humble behaviour towards me that made me doubt if he liked me.

Like sharing his deep secrets with me that no one knows... Tried to be protective towards me and then stopped it all of sudden. Got possesive only in my case but with no one else. Being gentle and extreme kind and putting concern for me but then someday all of sudden his behaviour kept on changing. And if I never acted the way he wanted he would get pissed off. Whenever I teased him or flirt with him he enjoyed it but like months after sometimes he used to avoid it too. That did confused me so I even left flirting and all. Agter that lot of things changed between us. Apart from this his friend tease us with each other but that doesnt bothers him and he doesnt care. I had seen when we will be in group he will be so normal and edgy but when I will be alone with him he will be that soft shy person.

So because of all this I felt he might had liking for me or maybe I overanalyzing thing.

At present lot of things had changed between us. He ignores my text but keep up with other people. So I wanted to know if had lost intrest in my friendship or is he doing it on purpose? click to expand

He is growing up. Maybe growing apart from you. He could be got enough of you because you stoped bringing excitement.

He might fell for somebody else.

Or it could be ‘normal’ Scorpio ‘need of space’...

One thing for sure - if he is avoiding uou - be ready to find some other ‘friend’. Good luck honey click to expand

Wow.. you are rude as hell. Clearly you’re jealous because someone cared about this poor girl and you’re so nasty mean and miserable you’ve never experienced that click to expand

Yep! That’s me! Nice to meet you gullible person. 👿 click to expand

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Nice to meet you! How’s it feel that your biggest accomplishment in life is being a bully? You must be so proud

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Wineaux15
Shyt how are supposed to know? You only gave us a 1/3 of the story to go on!

I Agree it was very less information I will elaborate the siruation so you all can tell me what you perveived from it.. 🙂

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Impulsv
Did he know you liked him

No... He doesn't ! click to expand

He does he is scorpio.

But still i think it might mean a lot to him if you said something

click to expand

Don’t gives to much credit

We don’t trust our intuition often

So might feel it went unreciprocated n lost interést click to expand

You guys have a lot more than me ! Ha

I understand though. Scorpios like to feel secure ...and wanted. They are as tough as people think ..but not with people they like or love etc click to expand

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Thank you so much for suggesting me about the scenario. Since I didnt provide much detail on it I had mentioned below the whole story of why I feel he is ignoring me and to know if he is really ignoring me or just a temporary case--

So I ve been his friend since a year now. He had 2 relationships in past. He is single.

Intially he was so gentle and humble towards me but then slowly he started changing. At present I noticed he ignores my text even if I ask help he would reply in one word.

These days his behaviour is confusing me. Since long I had noticed lots of signs that made me doubt if he likes me.

-he told me his secret that he never told anyone in our griend circle

-before he used to take concern about why I was sad .. Like 2-3 times he approached me. These days he get pissed off if Im sad and doesn t bother

- there were few instances before when he acted protective but since few months he doesnt do anything like that

- I noticed 2-3 times he got possessive about me

- earlier I used to tease and flirt with him a lot and even touch him alot, he used to to enjoy that but sometimes he would avoid so I stopped doing that too.

-our friend circle tease us with each other and he doesnt bother about it.

-earlier I always used to sit next to him but since few months I noticed whenever I sit next to him he will walk off to other seat.

So I stopped sitting next to him.

- earlier he even asked me about my crush or what kind of guy I was intrested in.

-sometimes I even noticed he used to stare at me.

So wondering to all these instances I thought he was intrested in me. I really need to know, is he playing mind games or did he lost intrest in me right now or I m just overthinking about it and he never was intrested in me!

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@Wineaux15
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Impulsv
Did he know you liked him

No... He doesn't ! click to expand

He does he is scorpio.

But still i think it might mean a lot to him if you said something

click to expand

Don’t gives to much credit

We don’t trust our intuition often

So might feel it went unreciprocated n lost interést click to expand

You guys have a lot more than me ! Ha

I understand though. Scorpios like to feel secure ...and wanted. They are as tough as people think ..but not with people they like or love etc click to expand

Thank you so much for suggesting me about the scenario. Since I didnt provide much detail on it I had mentioned below the whole story of why I feel he is ignoring me and to know if he is really ignoring me or just a temporary case--

So I ve been his friend since a year now. He had 2 relationships in past. He is single.

Intially he was so gentle and humble towards me but then slowly he started changing. At present I noticed he ignores my text even if I ask help he would reply in one word.

These days his behaviour is confusing me. Since long I had noticed lots of signs that made me doubt if he likes me.

-he told me his secret that he never told anyone in our griend circle

-before he used to take concern about why I was sad .. Like 2-3 times he approached me. These days he get pissed off if Im sad and doesn t bother

- there were few instances before when he acted protective but since few months he doesnt do anything like that

- I noticed 2-3 times he got possessive about me

- earlier I used to tease and flirt with him a lot and even touch him alot, he used to to enjoy that but sometimes he would avoid so I stopped doing that too.

-our friend circle tease us with each other and he doesnt bother about it.

-earlier I always used to sit next to him but since few months I noticed whenever I sit next to him he will walk off to other seat.

So I stopped sitting next to him.

- earlier he even asked me about my crush or what kind of guy I was intrested in.

-sometimes I even noticed he used to stare at me.

So wondering to all these instances I thought he was intrested in me. I really need to know, is he playing mind games or did he lost intrest in me right now or I m just overthinking about it and he never was intrested in me! click to expand

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He used to like you. But something happened to make him lose interest. You didn’t make him jealous did you?

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Wineaux15

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Impulsv
Did he know you liked him

No... He doesn't ! click to expand

He does he is scorpio.

But still i think it might mean a lot to him if you said something

click to expand

Don’t gives to much credit

We don’t trust our intuition often

So might feel it went unreciprocated n lost interést click to expand

You guys have a lot more than me ! Ha

I understand though. Scorpios like to feel secure ...and wanted. They are as tough as people think ..but not with people they like or love etc click to expand

Thank you so much for suggesting me about the scenario. Since I didnt provide much detail on it I had mentioned below the whole story of why I feel he is ignoring me and to know if he is really ignoring me or just a temporary case--

So I ve been his friend since a year now. He had 2 relationships in past. He is single.

Intially he was so gentle and humble towards me but then slowly he started changing. At present I noticed he ignores my text even if I ask help he would reply in one word.

These days his behaviour is confusing me. Since long I had noticed lots of signs that made me doubt if he likes me.

-he told me his secret that he never told anyone in our griend circle

-before he used to take concern about why I was sad .. Like 2-3 times he approached me. These days he get pissed off if Im sad and doesn t bother

- there were few instances before when he acted protective but since few months he doesnt do anything like that

- I noticed 2-3 times he got possessive about me

- earlier I used to tease and flirt with him a lot and even touch him alot, he used to to enjoy that but sometimes he would avoid so I stopped doing that too.

-our friend circle tease us with each other and he doesnt bother about it.

-earlier I always used to sit next to him but since few months I noticed whenever I sit next to him he will walk off to other seat.

So I stopped sitting next to him.

- earlier he even asked me about my crush or what kind of guy I was intrested in.

-sometimes I even noticed he used to stare at me.

So wondering to all these instances I thought he was intrested in me. I really need to know, is he playing mind games or did he lost intrest in me right now or I m just overthinking about it and he never was intrested in me! click to expand

He used to like you. But something happened to make him lose interest. You didn’t make him jealous did you? click to expand

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No I didn't made him jealous at all.

But recently he got pissed off on me because I didn't obey what he said. But still that was not big issue and it was not in my hand. It was we went to an event with all our friend circle. And he didnt want to enter the event and waited outside. He told us to come back in 15 mins but since we were in group all of them took time to leave the event early. We got in by one hour and since it was not my fault he still blame everything on me.

Secondly. Like long time back when all were sitting in group we had confession game with everyone. So I did open up about my previous crush I had on a guy in my college.

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Brcause of that crush thing? But I said that very long back even after that he was good with me.. Jist that he never gave attention as being protective or caring. But he was still possessive then.

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@Wineaux15
9 Years1,000+ Posts

1. He was irritated you took so long... even though it wasn’t your fault. It wasn’t the best idea to go out with him in you guys circle of friends. You should have carved out intimate time to get to know each other.

2. As soon as you mentioned someone else... that was it.

Sorry it’s probably done.

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@Echo
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Echo
If a scorpio man lost interest, they ghost you.

That's what my Scorpio friend told me when he lost interest on a girl

Yep... So thats done forever right?! click to expand

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Possibly... sometimes they'll just pop up and see how you are doing.

(This situation is only if they dont know that you liked them and see you as a friend)

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8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by SpaceBird

Posted by Echo
If a scorpio man lost interest, they ghost you.

That's what my Scorpio friend told me when he lost interest on a girl

They don't they still keep tabs ....evolved ones even still look out for you ...you da baby sister .. click to expand

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That's only if they see you nothing more than a friend

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Posted by Schawq
Scorpio men are confusing af.

If they ignore you, they're into you.

They want to see what you're like when you're hurt or some other unjustifiable sick butter.

Personally, I'm not into ABUSE as a sign of interest.

treetrunk that.

Dont know.... Scorpios are very confusing I dint want to guve up on my friend until there is no harsh reason to

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Well today I went to my feiends place just to see her text messages if he talks to her properly or not.

Result... Well it was only her who is constantly texring hin and also he is replying back; but! When I saw the messages, he didn't responded to her messages constantly like very rare or slowly or just in few words. So even there the case is almost same but atleast he is responding her or maybe my friends constant text to him is making him to respond.

I dont text him much. Infact I dont text anyone at all. I'm not a "texting person" until it is really meant to discuss on something depth. But whenever I do he ifnores my message.

Somewhere I felt today there maybe 2 things either he is not finding meaning in our friendship or he has some other problem and so he is disconnected

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@Meowpie
8 Years

Just let go, dont try to be good friends with a potential love interest especially Scorpio.

Move on with your own lives, and if he do care about you he would be back to you in full force, if he likes you a LOT, he will be like glue again. Else just move on and make new meaningful friends who really put in an effort.

This hot and cold thing is just going to be tiring to you since you're so invested in making it work.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by AriesAngel92

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by AriesAngel92

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Itssumu91

Posted by Gemitati
That’s not enough info to tell anything! He is your friend and you FELT he has feelings for you...WTF girl?

Maybe you had mistaken?

And he didn’t lose it because he never had! Common! Are you 18?

I know I had mentioned very less details. But there were signs of his gentle humble behaviour towards me that made me doubt if he liked me.

Like sharing his deep secrets with me that no one knows... Tried to be protective towards me and then stopped it all of sudden. Got possesive only in my case but with no one else. Being gentle and extreme kind and putting concern for me but then someday all of sudden his behaviour kept on changing. And if I never acted the way he wanted he would get pissed off. Whenever I teased him or flirt with him he enjoyed it but like months after sometimes he used to avoid it too. That did confused me so I even left flirting and all. Agter that lot of things changed between us. Apart from this his friend tease us with each other but that doesnt bothers him and he doesnt care. I had seen when we will be in group he will be so normal and edgy but when I will be alone with him he will be that soft shy person.

So because of all this I felt he might had liking for me or maybe I overanalyzing thing.

At present lot of things had changed between us. He ignores my text but keep up with other people. So I wanted to know if had lost intrest in my friendship or is he doing it on purpose? click to expand

He is growing up. Maybe growing apart from you. He could be got enough of you because you stoped bringing excitement.

He might fell for somebody else.

Or it could be ‘normal’ Scorpio ‘need of space’...

One thing for sure - if he is avoiding uou - be ready to find some other ‘friend’. Good luck honey click to expand

Wow.. you are rude as hell. Clearly you’re jealous because someone cared about this poor girl and you’re so nasty mean and miserable you’ve never experienced that click to expand

Yep! That’s me! Nice to meet you gullible person. 👿 click to expand

Nice to meet you! How’s it feel that your biggest accomplishment in life is being a bully? You must be so proud click to expand

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I am pretty sure we had a tear and snot collector somewhere...hey...who moved it from the place next to the ashtray?

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@Wineaux15
9 Years1,000+ Posts

It’s an issue he’s having with you. I wouldn’t waste my brain cells trying to figure it out because it’ll only leave you confused. Even after he gets over it... IF he does... he won’t admit to you what it is. And it’ll bother you forever what his angle is. Just forget about this one.

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Okay to all other suggestions as well thank you for you genuine advise.

I know in such case I have to move on and forget it.

But I dont want to. I mean is there a way I can make our friendship last normal.

Its okay If we dont have love intrest involve. But atleast our friendship to last in better way.

What I was thinking was to be calm and normal even in his worse time. I want to convey him that I wont let him go and I care for him and want our friendship to stay intact for long.

And if this doesn't work I'm afraid I will cry in front of him, that I dont want to do. I'll feel embaressed!

I wonder he might hate it if I cry in front of him.