CapricornQueen28
@SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
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scorpio man told me I am just like him
If I sd that I thought we were alike it wld probably mean I feel like u understand me/we have similar interests, goals, morals, etc. Generally pretty compatible.
I do like to play around with guys I'm interested in...play fighting, wrestling, tickling, etc.
Loyalty is extremely important. If I don't feel like I can trust u, there will b no us.
Not a lot of detail to go on here but so far it sounds positive.
I do like to play around with guys I'm interested in...play fighting, wrestling, tickling, etc.
Loyalty is extremely important. If I don't feel like I can trust u, there will b no us.
Not a lot of detail to go on here but so far it sounds positive.
Sounds like I want to hang myself.
Posted by scorpgal76
If I sd that I thought we were alike it wld probably mean I feel like u understand me/we have similar interests, goals, morals, etc. Generally pretty compatible.
I do like to play around with guys I'm interested in...play fighting, wrestling, tickling, etc.
Loyalty is extremely important. If I don't feel like I can trust u, there will b no us.
Not a lot of detail to go on here but so far it sounds positive.
I definitely understand loyalty is very important; thats with scorps and caps. I feel I may have it but havent gotten past his little tests yet . for the past few months he's been coming to my place unexpectedly; popping up, sending his friends by to see if I would mess around with em. He asks me for things when he knows I will have to sacrifice in order to provide it to him; know thats to see if im weak. Both our venus is in sagittarius so we have alot of playing, joking, and fun around each other. He has gotten me alot of accessories recently. He calls me lots of time just to say weird things. When others at at my hoe he will call e off to the side to go in private then wanna have sexual activity going on. He told me he doesnt kiss anybody; but recently he came in with a big smile on his face, gaze in is eyes and kissed me out of the blue which surprized me since he never gets that affectionate. We've known each other half out lives also,so I feel deeply cared for but he has told me that me showing him y loyalty will be what makes him love .
also I dont know if this helps to get an understanding from you about him /and us
he has given me his social security number and most times he comes to see me after we hadnt seen each other in awhile he will tell me about the things nobody else should know; his dirt. he told me he would also perfer me to let him come to me an I shouldnt get aggressive; tryin to get affection,sex, whatever when I want on my own terms, is what he spoke of. I had times where I wanted him an would go after him I then realized scorpios view that as runing after em, me tryin to seduce him , but I cant be blamed my mars is aries ; highly sexed drive here. He's even told me that times I dont know when to stop, but it does be really good, if he really does wanna do something with me then he would be scared look at the jealousy and just start bax relaxing because im trying to hard and I dont have to try at all because im his type and I over analyze instead of just let things happen, I cant force anything; But I honestly wansnt tryin to force anything, why can he initiate when he wants to an its a crime when I do ? other than that I guess The disappearing after a deep connection then im wondering wtf I did wrong then he resurfaces like no time has passed and everybody told me leave him alone cause it was confusing me and leaving me left hurt until I noticed a pattern of what he was doing. He gets his control back then comes back and takes my control after I regain my sanity .
he has given me his social security number and most times he comes to see me after we hadnt seen each other in awhile he will tell me about the things nobody else should know; his dirt. he told me he would also perfer me to let him come to me an I shouldnt get aggressive; tryin to get affection,sex, whatever when I want on my own terms, is what he spoke of. I had times where I wanted him an would go after him I then realized scorpios view that as runing after em, me tryin to seduce him , but I cant be blamed my mars is aries ; highly sexed drive here. He's even told me that times I dont know when to stop, but it does be really good, if he really does wanna do something with me then he would be scared look at the jealousy and just start bax relaxing because im trying to hard and I dont have to try at all because im his type and I over analyze instead of just let things happen, I cant force anything; But I honestly wansnt tryin to force anything, why can he initiate when he wants to an its a crime when I do ? other than that I guess The disappearing after a deep connection then im wondering wtf I did wrong then he resurfaces like no time has passed and everybody told me leave him alone cause it was confusing me and leaving me left hurt until I noticed a pattern of what he was doing. He gets his control back then comes back and takes my control after I regain my sanity .
Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334Posted by scorpgal76
If I sd that I thought we were alike it wld probably mean I feel like u understand me/we have similar interests, goals, morals, etc. Generally pretty compatible.
I do like to play around with guys I'm interested in...play fighting, wrestling, tickling, etc.
Loyalty is extremely important. If I don't feel like I can trust u, there will b no us.
Not a lot of detail to go on here but so far it sounds positive.
I definitely understand loyalty is very important; thats with scorps and caps. I feel I may have it but havent gotten past his little tests yet . for the past few months he's been coming to my place unexpectedly; popping up, sending his friends by to see if I would mess around with em. He asks me for things when he knows I will have to sacrifice in order to provide it to him; know thats to see if im weak. Both our venus is in sagittarius so we have alot of playing, joking, and fun around each other. He has gotten me alot of accessories recently. He calls me lots of time just to say weird things. When others at at my hoe he will call e off to the side to go in private then wanna have sexual activity going on. He told me he doesnt kiss anybody; but recently he came in with a big smile on his face, gaze in is eyes and kissed me out of the blue which surprized me since he never gets that affectionate. We've known each other half out lives also,so I feel deeply cared for but he has told me that me showing him y loyalty will be what makes him love .click to expand
Yeah the tests can't be helped. I guess we r just suspicious by nature...even when we do trust. Idk how to explain it. I guess even when things seem good we just feel like the other shoe has to drop soon...things can't always be good can they? Lol
He's seeing how far he can push u. If u give an inch we will take a mile.
I'm very selective with who I kiss. I consider kissing nearly as intimate as making love.
Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
also I dont know if this helps to get an understanding from you about him /and us
he has given me his social security number and most times he comes to see me after we hadnt seen each other in awhile he will tell me about the things nobody else should know; his dirt. he told me he would also perfer me to let him come to me an I shouldnt get aggressive; tryin to get affection,sex, whatever when I want on my own terms, is what he spoke of. I had times where I wanted him an would go after him I then realized scorpios view that as runing after em, me tryin to seduce him , but I cant be blamed my mars is aries ; highly sexed drive here. He's even told me that times I dont know when to stop, but it does be really good, if he really does wanna do something with me then he would be scared look at the jealousy and just start bax relaxing because im trying to hard and I dont have to try at all because im his type and I over analyze instead of just let things happen, I cant force anything; But I honestly wansnt tryin to force anything, why can he initiate when he wants to an its a crime when I do ? other than that I guess The disappearing after a deep connection then im wondering wtf I did wrong then he resurfaces like no time has passed and everybody told me leave him alone cause it was confusing me and leaving me left hurt until I noticed a pattern of what he was doing. He gets his control back then comes back and takes my control after I regain my sanity .
I'd say he trusts you. I don't give out personal info or share my dirt w just anyone...very select few.
Can't really comment on the initiating sex. I have no problem initiating, but I also don't mind if my partner initiates. In fact it's nice to know I'm desired 🙂 kinda sounds like a control issue to me...be careful w that.
Some men seem to disappear after getting close with a woman in an attempt to regain control over their emotions. How long/how often does it happen? If it's just a cpl days I prob wldnt worry too much abt it but if it's weeks @ a time I'd be concerned. I'm pretty forward so I'd prob ask him abt it if it made me feel uncomfortable.
scorp gal thanx for insights. we have been doing this tugg a war since last june and we've known each other all this time (half life) . He has been gone for a few days then out of the blue pops up, but its never just gone weeks with out poppin up or calling just to say or do something stupid. each of the things he does seemwell thought out and its as if he doesnt want me to know him more than he knows him, cause if im right then he will try his hardest to throw me off of my prospective of what i believe is goin on. I noticed him changin things up each time I admit I realize he is testing boundaries with me.
My conclusion left me to tell him I knew it was test I knowingly participated in deliberately knowing this was his tests for the supreme . I have a strong personality and is exactly his type. I make my own decisions and no one can sway that once my minds made up, but during my evaluation/an examination period of time I will throw that to the side to see whats done with that inch that he took to a mile (with any potential prospective) my way of categorizing people, their loyalty, trust and etc. My self worth will be compromised during this period, but to find my soul's twin is so worth it to me ; hope you agree there..... I have addressed each issue though scorp gal and then he goes into his shell to break it all down then returns with a whole new attitude that just is opposite of the previous one, testing me in a whole new direction.
My conclusion left me to tell him I knew it was test I knowingly participated in deliberately knowing this was his tests for the supreme . I have a strong personality and is exactly his type. I make my own decisions and no one can sway that once my minds made up, but during my evaluation/an examination period of time I will throw that to the side to see whats done with that inch that he took to a mile (with any potential prospective) my way of categorizing people, their loyalty, trust and etc. My self worth will be compromised during this period, but to find my soul's twin is so worth it to me ; hope you agree there..... I have addressed each issue though scorp gal and then he goes into his shell to break it all down then returns with a whole new attitude that just is opposite of the previous one, testing me in a whole new direction.
another new update about thez crazy ass scorp men is, my ex scorp has been resurfacing tryin to get bax on the scene since maybe thanksgiving time, he's been callin, initiating wantiing to spend tie together, and even new scorpios have been entering the scene; im attracting many of em right now for soe odd reason or another. the ex says he would like to go with the flow of things to see where it leads us. I told him how this last situation left me more perceptible to rejecting illusions of any kind, and it grew me more than he could ever know. The main point here is I see scorps have this same tendency which isnt adding up with the reality I wish to share with the ultimate supreme one I seek so since its not gone benefit my goal of identifying my soul''s twin, then no more time to waste procrastinating on a what if that may never become a reality an remain only a romantic illusion. why is it that scorp men rather initiate the connection rather than staying true to my ownself, morals, and worth. I knw I am a catch although they mind fuck me into believing I am not worthy of em only to come back and show me they are just afraid to show me that they are totally smittened with me. Fux that. I know they like to chase so I am high tailing it to the very far end of the earth
Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
scorp gal thanx for insights. we have been doing this tugg a war since last june and we've known each other all this time (half life) . He has been gone for a few days then out of the blue pops up, but its never just gone weeks with out poppin up or calling just to say or do something stupid. each of the things he does seemwell thought out and its as if he doesnt want me to know him more than he knows him, cause if im right then he will try his hardest to throw me off of my prospective of what i believe is goin on. I noticed him changin things up each time I admit I realize he is testing boundaries with me.
My conclusion left me to tell him I knew it was test I knowingly participated in deliberately knowing this was his tests for the supreme . I have a strong personality and is exactly his type. I make my own decisions and no one can sway that once my minds made up, but during my evaluation/an examination period of time I will throw that to the side to see whats done with that inch that he took to a mile (with any potential prospective) my way of categorizing people, their loyalty, trust and etc. My self worth will be compromised during this period, but to find my soul's twin is so worth it to me ; hope you agree there..... I have addressed each issue though scorp gal and then he goes into his shell to break it all down then returns with a whole new attitude that just is opposite of the previous one, testing me in a whole new direction.
Oops didn't mean to post before I responded lol.
No problem. I have alot of masculine energy so hopefully I'm not too far off base even though I'm not a guy haha.
Yeah he's trying to keep u guessing. We can be very illusive. It helps lure u in 😉
Yeah he's testing u from every direction he can think of....waiting for smtg bad to happen....u to turn out to b different than how u've presented urself. Testing to see how much u will tolerate, what he can get away with, etc. Will u put him n his place or be a doormat?
Personally I hate games though & u've known him a long time....I'd consider telling him to cut the crap. Does he want to be w u or not?
As for the ex...there's a reason that relationship ended...revisit those reasons. Has anything changed w him or u? We like attention...it cld just b an ego thing.
I'm kinda surprised by the go w the flow thing unless there is a restriction of some sort. I am patient & impatient at the same time lol. But I can b patient if smtg is important to me & I feel it's worth waiting for & there is a valid reason for waiting. Anyway I'm more of a one at a time kinda person & if I'm interested/there's a connection, then I'm all in. I don't know how to do casual.
As for the mind fucking...it's testing...r u a doormat? Put them n their place. They will respect u for it.
Not sure why they r coming out of the woodwork....must b the energy u r giving off. Just out of curiosity what's ur sun, moon, venus, mars?
No problem. I have alot of masculine energy so hopefully I'm not too far off base even though I'm not a guy haha.
Yeah he's trying to keep u guessing. We can be very illusive. It helps lure u in 😉
Yeah he's testing u from every direction he can think of....waiting for smtg bad to happen....u to turn out to b different than how u've presented urself. Testing to see how much u will tolerate, what he can get away with, etc. Will u put him n his place or be a doormat?
Personally I hate games though & u've known him a long time....I'd consider telling him to cut the crap. Does he want to be w u or not?
As for the ex...there's a reason that relationship ended...revisit those reasons. Has anything changed w him or u? We like attention...it cld just b an ego thing.
I'm kinda surprised by the go w the flow thing unless there is a restriction of some sort. I am patient & impatient at the same time lol. But I can b patient if smtg is important to me & I feel it's worth waiting for & there is a valid reason for waiting. Anyway I'm more of a one at a time kinda person & if I'm interested/there's a connection, then I'm all in. I don't know how to do casual.
As for the mind fucking...it's testing...r u a doormat? Put them n their place. They will respect u for it.
Not sure why they r coming out of the woodwork....must b the energy u r giving off. Just out of curiosity what's ur sun, moon, venus, mars?
i am the same way you just spoke of a 1 man woman all or nothing type and I had been in my examination period of the relationship to see what he will do with chances and if he would be as receptive as I have been . I just told him a few days ago I felt he was takin me for a doormat and Im only puttin forth as much as he does from here on out and will no longer bother with the way he has been handling e. I also told him I was looking at the potential and expections which intensified my feelings for him off of the soul conection we have and I was wanting to marry him and be buried in my wedding dress to meet him in the after life to do it all again, but after that day I am thru with how he's been to me.
Now with the ex he has had a few changes since we last were; he has gotten a job, and car. when we were he didnt have the means to take care of me . we were young and plus our love was blind. We have had alot of our past plans blossoming during our present time, so I see the go with the flow of it thing; because I honestly can reignite those type of flames, once its out its out and theres nothing anything or body can do about it at all.
My sun capricorn, moon virgo, mercury aquarius, venus sagitarrius mars aries , his is sun,moon,mercury scorpio and venus sag mars capricorn.
I realized the energy I give off attracts all sorts of people but the yearly horoscope said it would be a compatible year for me drawing in auarius,taurus, and scorpio.
It actually has been doing that, but I only have eyes for this one scorpio, and I just basically told him I am letting him go so that I wouldnt have to feel like this and all I do is what people who are married does and he hasnt even bothered to give me that type of committment level so I am not abondanoning him, but if im ever really needed by him I will be there but I am nobodys door mat. I know he will return trying to charm me and back to the bullshit. I dont wanna hear none of them damn lies. I wanna be treated as Im posed to be and will not settle for less than I deserve and I dont want half I want all, so since I aint getting that I let loose of him knowing hes gonna pop up again even after what I expressed after he goes an analyze all of those paragraphs I text him lol
Now with the ex he has had a few changes since we last were; he has gotten a job, and car. when we were he didnt have the means to take care of me . we were young and plus our love was blind. We have had alot of our past plans blossoming during our present time, so I see the go with the flow of it thing; because I honestly can reignite those type of flames, once its out its out and theres nothing anything or body can do about it at all.
My sun capricorn, moon virgo, mercury aquarius, venus sagitarrius mars aries , his is sun,moon,mercury scorpio and venus sag mars capricorn.
I realized the energy I give off attracts all sorts of people but the yearly horoscope said it would be a compatible year for me drawing in auarius,taurus, and scorpio.
It actually has been doing that, but I only have eyes for this one scorpio, and I just basically told him I am letting him go so that I wouldnt have to feel like this and all I do is what people who are married does and he hasnt even bothered to give me that type of committment level so I am not abondanoning him, but if im ever really needed by him I will be there but I am nobodys door mat. I know he will return trying to charm me and back to the bullshit. I dont wanna hear none of them damn lies. I wanna be treated as Im posed to be and will not settle for less than I deserve and I dont want half I want all, so since I aint getting that I let loose of him knowing hes gonna pop up again even after what I expressed after he goes an analyze all of those paragraphs I text him lol
It's good u've given him some boundaries...now stick to them cuz if u don't he will walk all over u & believe me he will try, try, & try some more lol. We r strong on r own but we like a strong partner too. When shit hits the fan, I need to know u r gonna b right by my side, not running for the hills.
I haven't been able to reignite either once the flames were totally extinguised. I guess it's good n a way....helps u heal & move on. It seems so cold though. I felt bad about being that way towards my ex. I was out of love & done & so cold, while he was just beginning to grasp that it was over.
Disclaimer: I am not an expert n astrology by any means so take this w a grain of salt 🙂 to me it seems like a good match...earth & water r supposed to b good together & u guys have the same Venus so u shld have a similar approach = less misunderstandings.
Oh & he will analyze those msgs over & over & over. I know I wld lol...trying to figure out every detail/meaning hidden meanings etc. Let him think on it & obsess 😉
Sounds like u have him figured out pretty well (which probably makes him a lil uneasy - even tho we will feel really connected to a partner that just gets us...its a conundrum I know haha - he cld b scared by it). So stick to ur guns & he shld hopefully come around once he realizes u r strong & independent but loving too.
I haven't been able to reignite either once the flames were totally extinguised. I guess it's good n a way....helps u heal & move on. It seems so cold though. I felt bad about being that way towards my ex. I was out of love & done & so cold, while he was just beginning to grasp that it was over.
Disclaimer: I am not an expert n astrology by any means so take this w a grain of salt 🙂 to me it seems like a good match...earth & water r supposed to b good together & u guys have the same Venus so u shld have a similar approach = less misunderstandings.
Oh & he will analyze those msgs over & over & over. I know I wld lol...trying to figure out every detail/meaning hidden meanings etc. Let him think on it & obsess 😉
Sounds like u have him figured out pretty well (which probably makes him a lil uneasy - even tho we will feel really connected to a partner that just gets us...its a conundrum I know haha - he cld b scared by it). So stick to ur guns & he shld hopefully come around once he realizes u r strong & independent but loving too.
lol u made me smile just then because you are so right about him tryin,tryin, and tryin to make me take those boundaries, so the first few times i was observing that and made those statements to him, he tried again an I did as well just to see what would be the ending result; turned out to be the same behavior. I over analyze due to my mer aquarius, so I gave him a few too many chances and kept allowing him this right to just keep up the behavior.
Now where u say I have him all figured out; I would like to think that, atleast thats what I tell my amigos when we discuss this relationship; they hate im soo understanding and hurt by what he does, but I always telll them this just the examination/observation phase everybody gets during screening process to see if they are a suitable mate. My amigos want me to cut the bull let go and move on. so when I announced to them it was over they cheered lol, but then he came back lol .
I also think it is nerve wrecking to him I understand him or tries, so he keeps obsessing just as much as I am ; also I look back at my text messages and reread the as well and I actually ade it up in my mind I will not contact him, or initiate communication, and stand by my boundaries to show him Im not weak at all by a long shot, and if he does decide he wants to take me off dick restriction (so he can have me dickmatized all over again) I am turning down any physical contact unless he is mines and only mines cause I do not like sharing unless I agree to those terms. As much as I have said that, I never have been able to resist him girl he hypnotizes me but b4 any of this ever happened I repeatedly rejected him and let him know I wouldnt be able to get it on with him because im an all or nothing type of chick I dont just want your dick I wanna emotional and physical soul connection and meetings of the mind. He caught me slippin which is what led us on up to the point we are now at. I hate it because he always tries to keep me guessing which is obvious to me. I love him and they say if you love something or somebody let em go if it comes back its yours; well when he decides to come back he will have to have made a decision on his own which could take years (an you know from being a scorp) lol that fear of hi showing up to my wedding is in my head. lol
Now where u say I have him all figured out; I would like to think that, atleast thats what I tell my amigos when we discuss this relationship; they hate im soo understanding and hurt by what he does, but I always telll them this just the examination/observation phase everybody gets during screening process to see if they are a suitable mate. My amigos want me to cut the bull let go and move on. so when I announced to them it was over they cheered lol, but then he came back lol .
I also think it is nerve wrecking to him I understand him or tries, so he keeps obsessing just as much as I am ; also I look back at my text messages and reread the as well and I actually ade it up in my mind I will not contact him, or initiate communication, and stand by my boundaries to show him Im not weak at all by a long shot, and if he does decide he wants to take me off dick restriction (so he can have me dickmatized all over again) I am turning down any physical contact unless he is mines and only mines cause I do not like sharing unless I agree to those terms. As much as I have said that, I never have been able to resist him girl he hypnotizes me but b4 any of this ever happened I repeatedly rejected him and let him know I wouldnt be able to get it on with him because im an all or nothing type of chick I dont just want your dick I wanna emotional and physical soul connection and meetings of the mind. He caught me slippin which is what led us on up to the point we are now at. I hate it because he always tries to keep me guessing which is obvious to me. I love him and they say if you love something or somebody let em go if it comes back its yours; well when he decides to come back he will have to have made a decision on his own which could take years (an you know from being a scorp) lol that fear of hi showing up to my wedding is in my head. lol
I had a text message from my scorp tonight while i was on my facebook pg; we're not even friends but his close guy friend is one of my friends and he liked one of my status's while I was responding to the text messages. The scorp told me he needed a ride ; although he didnt he was actually at that friend's house just testing me once again so he could see my mood and reaction after that 4 paragraph text i sent tellin him i was taking anymore of his behavior and will only do as much as he does. So while me and my friends ran to the store and crystals he starts texting cursing me; stupid phone wouldnt allow me to respond; smart phone force to close kept popping up; took as gods way of saying igg his tantrum and watch for the reaction you get once you treat him the way he has treated you. so 15minutes passed and he sent a manipulative text ; thinking i would respond to that, like i wa iggin the cursing ones, so soon after that it hit me like a flash of lightening; he response the same as i do; god did say treat those as you want to be treated, so even after all he said he seen i didnt respond the same i was forced by god to respond this way to show me this reaction of him textiing asking where are you now; which i was home at that point he came banging on my door acting like he was somebody looking for him; then i heard a gun cock, soon i was immediately frightened , an i said ooowww shittttt so he called my phone saying open the door. he didnt respond to my text with words he did with an action which proved to me and my homegirl he loves me; i had already told her his move was gonna happen this day that day i did that text. i opened the door an went off telling him never play wit me like that an my babies are in this house acting like a man is looking for you to kill you and put me in shock like that i actually smacked him 4 it;lol, he does this too much nd i just recently had a dream i had to watch him be killed in front of me so i take thez things serious as a heart attack.
sorry 4 the paragraph but what are you seeing here in this picture i described of a freh incident that just occured a few hours ago approximately 1am
sorry 4 the paragraph but what are you seeing here in this picture i described of a freh incident that just occured a few hours ago approximately 1am
Did I read that right? He came to ur house w a gun?
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Don't ask. Just nod and try to understand. Lmao
Lol. In the beginning I thought he was just testing her trying to suss out weaknesses, determine loyalty, etc but I'm starting to think this guy has some serious issues. Smh.
OP if this guy is trying to control u now, being verbally abusive, & manipulative & ur not even n a relationship w him yet...imagine what it will b like if u r— I wldnt b surprised if he hasn't been physically abusive to someone n the past.
I'm thinkn ur friends have this guy pegged & that's why they don't like him....RUN!!! Cut all contact w him immediately before u or someone u care about gets hurt!!!
Posted by scorpgal76Posted by IrresistableScorp
Don't ask. Just nod and try to understand. Lmao
Lol. In the beginning I thought he was just testing her trying to suss out weaknesses, determine loyalty, etc but I'm starting to think this guy has some serious issues. Smh.
OP if this guy is trying to control u now, being verbally abusive, & manipulative & ur not even n a relationship w him yet...imagine what it will b like if u r— I wldnt b surprised if he hasn't been physically abusive to someone n the past.
I'm thinkn ur friends have this guy pegged & that's why they don't like him....RUN!!! Cut all contact w him immediately before u or someone u care about gets hurt!!!click to expand
rotflmao lol cant even stop laughing out lawd here i swear the post in this thread just turnt up and has made my day because its extremely funny .
Posted by scorpgal76
Did I read that right? He came to ur house w a gun?
when he comes he always has it but when he came he came around joking around like he was another person looking for hisSELF to scare me; NOT very funny joke at all. Told him I do NOT play around like that at all period because what if that was actually a real incident and someone came and I took it as him play and shots are fired into my house. I noticed after I went off on him he wasnt as playful anymore as he had already been, he just was quiet afterwards. We didnt sit in the same room, he stayed in the living room. then soon after him and my brother went around the street and he didnt come back when my brother did..... I know I hurt his feelings and YOU all understand it hurt mines and had me terrified, because I thought some body was actually there looking for him and I spoke thru the door he didnt live there. Then thats when I heard the gun click, an I said ooh shit, then he called and said thats me lol open the door. He immediately let me know he was joking but I told him thats no way to play around. IMMATURITY is one of his flaws IKR
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Don't ask. Just nod and try to understand. Lmao
rotflmao you guys are sooo silly lol. I know right thats how I be though as well
NODS and just try to understand as well myself. I understand we hadnt seen each other in awhile and he was trying to come assure he does care opposed to what I said in that 4paragraph text days b4 this, BUT I understand too that he went about it wrong with how he expresses that he misses me and cares about me. Its deeply felt but I also too understand that I can NOT change another individual an if I am really trying to attract my TWINS soul I have to first start change with in myself that is deemed bias but our father isnt going to show prejudice upon my soul for. I am NOT making exscuse for him but he ment well but hes immature as fux. I know I amm too good for him BUT there is a soul connection with US and I noticed it since day one of us meeting even on up to date. we each get a lil shy around 1 another, and we dont evn have to touch to feel that feeling you feel tingling (YALL KNO WHICH FELLING Im talking bout too) I just really am tired of going bax to the keep me guessing tactics, then in the end I be already on point about what his next move is b4 he even does.
Posted by scorpgal76Posted by IrresistableScorp
Don't ask. Just nod and try to understand. Lmao
Lol. In the beginning I thought he was just testing her trying to suss out weaknesses, determine loyalty, etc but I'm starting to think this guy has some serious issues. Smh.
OP if this guy is trying to control u now, being verbally abusive, & manipulative & ur not even n a relationship w him yet...imagine what it will b like if u r— I wldnt b surprised if he hasn't been physically abusive to someone n the past.
I'm thinkn ur friends have this guy pegged & that's why they don't like him....RUN!!! Cut all contact w him immediately before u or someone u care about gets hurt!!!click to expand
I hope you read the above ones and could actually feel a better understanding about this guy for a read on him; I know our veunus's make us get really playful when we are in LOVE, but that was playing that was took to the extremes; frivolous behave has been thanx to his transit I been reading up upon him on cafeastrology.com; it says so much different stuff on it, but long story short; he is behaving exactly how it says he would, but it says he will be attracted to a secret affair and his tricks and intrigues will trigger the suspicions of his partner and if married , this will really complicate matters. I really couldnt understand if this is speaking about me or not because we are as secret as it gets and comes because of our situation, but he doesnt have a wife or girl friend I know for a fact about NO wife but he may have sum girls who thinks their his gf IDK how he plays his hands with other females, but I really feel he LOVES ME and I dont get treated like Im loved ITs just deeply felt for sum reason.
I also just thought about something I have a question about relatively speaking here.
Do you scorpios get bothered if someone gives you room to be dominant and they step down for a second by being submissive?
I ask all these questions because like I say I have been going thru my observe/exam phrase of throwing him a line to see what all he does with it; learning him on this personal level to better understand his reactions as well as he's been doing me.
Once I am done though I put my foot all the way down an am only concerned if I have to be. But today I have been having a delemmia about a situation he an I both have going on in the finance department.
this is another form of manipulation which has been in the equation we have going on, so I realize how Ican deal with the situation now, by moving to a new location cutting contact with him, this will serve as a way to get a better hold on things, but I am afraid that he will play the role as if he didnt get the money if I dont behaave; really twisted but I been had this deep in the back of my mind ; I didnt want to voice it but you guys understand if it is or not
Do you scorpios get bothered if someone gives you room to be dominant and they step down for a second by being submissive?
I ask all these questions because like I say I have been going thru my observe/exam phrase of throwing him a line to see what all he does with it; learning him on this personal level to better understand his reactions as well as he's been doing me.
Once I am done though I put my foot all the way down an am only concerned if I have to be. But today I have been having a delemmia about a situation he an I both have going on in the finance department.
this is another form of manipulation which has been in the equation we have going on, so I realize how Ican deal with the situation now, by moving to a new location cutting contact with him, this will serve as a way to get a better hold on things, but I am afraid that he will play the role as if he didnt get the money if I dont behaave; really twisted but I been had this deep in the back of my mind ; I didnt want to voice it but you guys understand if it is or not
Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
I also just thought about something I have a question about relatively speaking here.
Do you scorpios get bothered if someone gives you room to be dominant and they step down for a second by being submissive?
I ask all these questions because like I say I have been going thru my observe/exam phrase of throwing him a line to see what all he does with it; learning him on this personal level to better understand his reactions as well as he's been doing me.
Once I am done though I put my foot all the way down an am only concerned if I have to be. But today I have been having a delemmia about a situation he an I both have going on in the finance department.
this is another form of manipulation which has been in the equation we have going on, so I realize how Ican deal with the situation now, by moving to a new location cutting contact with him, this will serve as a way to get a better hold on things, but I am afraid that he will play the role as if he didnt get the money if I dont behaave; really twisted but I been had this deep in the back of my mind ; I didnt want to voice it but you guys understand if it is or not
I don't mind taking turns being dominant & submissive, but like I sd before, if u let me dominate all the time, I will end up walking all over u.
Also, I would still be very careful with this guy. The more u write about him, the more concerned I get. Being playful is one thing, playing with guns is something completely different & dangerous. I also don't like the verbal abuse/manipulation. I've been n this situation & it never stops at just that...he will get physically abusive w u & that never ends well.
I actually really appreciate the concerns it makes me feel like we already connected ; honestly though with this guy I finally did make my final analysis based off of the issue today with him and the communication issue. I as a virgo moon you know take in all valueable information b4 making a decision, so you know it took me some time of deliberating to finally decide I have seen enough to back up fully since there is NO justice coming of this situation. If he honestly loves me like I felt then there will be a change once he notices I am seriously DONE an backed away from him. He would definitely have ome growth to do in order for me to ever consider a 2nd chance and I will need to see tangible evidence of this change such as ACTION in every notion made on my behalf, so YOU are definitely right about concerns with playing around with guns. I dont like it at all , although I dont mind us having one around for protection purposes, I am not up for the challenges he hold in store for me cause I am NOT in2 mind games or dangerous games and manipulation. IF anything does happens out of this relationship instead of finding a NEW thread I will just come back here for update postings on him but I really enjoy talking to you
No I don't mind guns for protection either. Have a few myself 🙂
I think for the time being u r doing the right thing w him. Maybe he will get his stuff together & come around but don't wait on him. U've got some other Scorpys showing some interest....maybe one of them will turn out to b a better match for u 🙂
Best of luck & I have enjoyed chatting w u as well...feel free to msg me if u have smtg u need to talk about.
I think for the time being u r doing the right thing w him. Maybe he will get his stuff together & come around but don't wait on him. U've got some other Scorpys showing some interest....maybe one of them will turn out to b a better match for u 🙂
Best of luck & I have enjoyed chatting w u as well...feel free to msg me if u have smtg u need to talk about.
capgal read this thread to see deeper in
TOLD YOU ALL THAT EL SCORPO WAS GONNA COME AROUND REALLY SOON ; SO TONIGHT HE SHOWS UP; NOT ALONE THOUGH WITH HIS HOMEBOY; I HONESTLY THINK CAUSE HE NOTICES WHEN HE BRINGS HIM AROUND WE WILL NOT HAVE ANY TYPE OF PERSONAL CONVERSATION, SO HE KNEW THAT I WOULD NOT BRING UP ANY OF THE PREVIOUS ISSUES; TRYING TO BE SMART AND SEE ME FACE TO FACE TO ANALYZE MY FACIAL EXPRESSION AND BODY LANGUAGE, HE CAME LIKE HE WAS ABOUT TO GET HIS CLOTHES, THEN HE LEFT SAYING HE WOULD BE BACK SOON, BUT DIDNT RETURN AND LEFT EVERYTHING HOW IT WAS WITH HIS CLOTHES OUT AND I WASNT CONFUSED BY IT AT ALL BECAUSE I ALREADY EXPECTED IT TO HAPPEN. WHAT ARE YOU GUYS TAKES OF THIS NEW INCIDENT HERE—?/
He's checking up on u.
LOL, WE SAID THAT WOULD HAPPEEN TO SO CAN WE SAY I KNOW HIM LIKE AN OPEN BOOK NOW —??
HE ALSO CAME TO MY MOMS CRIB TO CATCH A RIDE WITH HIS AUNT TO HIS COUSINS HOUSE BUT RIGHT BEFORE HE LEFT I WENT TO THE COMPUTER ROOM, TURNED TO GO BACK TO THE FRONT AND HE WAS BEHIND ME AND HE SAID "OOH I WAS ABOUT TO ASK YOU SOMETHING BUT I FORGOT WHAT I WAS ABOUT TO ASK YOU" INSIDE JOKE TO ME BECAUSE I TOLD HIM THAT EARLIER WHEN HE CALLED ME ASKING FOR A TELEPHONE NUMBER, BUT I SAID ''I WAS ABOUT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING BUT I FORGOT WHAT IT WAS" BUT I WAS HALF SLEEP WHEN WE HAD THIS CONVERSATION WITH WHAT I SAID EARLIER THAT DAY. I HAD HIM GAZING AT ME TRYING TO GET MY ATTENTION TO GET EYE CONTACT TO PROBE MY MIND TO SEE IF I STILL CARED OPPOSED TO WHAT I TOLD YALL I HAD TEXT HIM DAYS AGO.
WHAT SHOULD I TAKE THIS AS IF THIS WERE YOU ? I KNOW THERES A LOT OF CHANCE I MAY BE JUST ASSUMING HERE
BUT I FEEL AS THOUGH THIS IS THE CASE. HOW HE HAS BEEN BEHAVING I FEEL LIKE HE IS IN LOVE WITH ME AND HAS ISSUES COMING TO TERMS WITH WHAT TO DO HERE
HE ALSO CAME TO MY MOMS CRIB TO CATCH A RIDE WITH HIS AUNT TO HIS COUSINS HOUSE BUT RIGHT BEFORE HE LEFT I WENT TO THE COMPUTER ROOM, TURNED TO GO BACK TO THE FRONT AND HE WAS BEHIND ME AND HE SAID "OOH I WAS ABOUT TO ASK YOU SOMETHING BUT I FORGOT WHAT I WAS ABOUT TO ASK YOU" INSIDE JOKE TO ME BECAUSE I TOLD HIM THAT EARLIER WHEN HE CALLED ME ASKING FOR A TELEPHONE NUMBER, BUT I SAID ''I WAS ABOUT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING BUT I FORGOT WHAT IT WAS" BUT I WAS HALF SLEEP WHEN WE HAD THIS CONVERSATION WITH WHAT I SAID EARLIER THAT DAY. I HAD HIM GAZING AT ME TRYING TO GET MY ATTENTION TO GET EYE CONTACT TO PROBE MY MIND TO SEE IF I STILL CARED OPPOSED TO WHAT I TOLD YALL I HAD TEXT HIM DAYS AGO.
WHAT SHOULD I TAKE THIS AS IF THIS WERE YOU ? I KNOW THERES A LOT OF CHANCE I MAY BE JUST ASSUMING HERE
BUT I FEEL AS THOUGH THIS IS THE CASE. HOW HE HAS BEEN BEHAVING I FEEL LIKE HE IS IN LOVE WITH ME AND HAS ISSUES COMING TO TERMS WITH WHAT TO DO HERE
I read back through the earlier posts but didn't see where u said what u had texted him just that u sent him a few msgs. Maybe I am just blind tho lol 😉
Yes the eye contact is him trying to read u/ur feelings. It's how we probe haha 🙂
I'd say hang back for a lil longer & see what he does. If he approaches u about getting back together tell him ur not interested n game playing & u two either move forward w a relationship or he is to leave u alone once & for all.....assuming that's still what u want?
Yes the eye contact is him trying to read u/ur feelings. It's how we probe haha 🙂
I'd say hang back for a lil longer & see what he does. If he approaches u about getting back together tell him ur not interested n game playing & u two either move forward w a relationship or he is to leave u alone once & for all.....assuming that's still what u want?
Posted by scorpgal76
I read back through the earlier posts but didn't see where u said what u had texted him just that u sent him a few msgs. Maybe I am just blind tho lol 😉
Yes the eye contact is him trying to read u/ur feelings. It's how we probe haha 🙂
I'd say hang back for a lil longer & see what he does. If he approaches u about getting back together tell him ur not interested n game playing & u two either move forward w a relationship or he is to leave u alone once & for all.....assuming that's still what u want?
u stated there exactly what i was in the mood to tell him once he decided to come around which i get the feeling will be later today; the messages i sent him that day were so long, short version i tld him im only giving as much as he is and i am no longer playing his game, and he wants me loyal to him but isnt to me, also i am done with my observation/evaluation period with him, so since it isnt how i invisioned it would be i am done. he came around after that probing me and i didnt even hold a conversation with him for too long.
also if i told hi that how u said it wouldnt it sound like an ultamatium? thats a issue i was dealing with personally not trying to throw one of those but this is how i intended on saying it to him.
i know it said my venus should be illuminating my sun so these next few days should be very interesting cause him an i have the same sun, but i read this in my transit period , didnt see it in his though
Yeah I guess it does sound like an ultimatum, but u do want him to make a choice one way or the other....hmmmm...
I guess u could state what u want...ie a committed relationship etc....and then ask him what he thinks. If he says he wants that too, then all is good. If he says he doesn't then that would be the time to follow up w asking him to leave u alone for good. U r right though this is probably less confrontational this way. 🙂
I guess u could state what u want...ie a committed relationship etc....and then ask him what he thinks. If he says he wants that too, then all is good. If he says he doesn't then that would be the time to follow up w asking him to leave u alone for good. U r right though this is probably less confrontational this way. 🙂
I have been really working on speaking for myself & my feelings only & trying to remember not to b accusatory. It'd hard lol but I am getting better 🙂
THATS THE FUNNY PART BECAUSE HE HAS TOLD ME HE DIDNT I TOLD HIM TO LEAVE BUT HE KEEPS COMING AROUND
silverdollarpiece334,
I think he likes you. You don't like & love him? Tell him directly in front of his face.
We, Scorpio likes people who are direct..then see what happens next.
I am dating Scorpio but he is more on spiritual thing. Funny thing is when he act aloof I
msg him like.. you don't like talking to me anymore? is that forever? lol Then I get a response
from him.
—I felt he likes/loves me too — i love him whole heartedly would lay down my life for him — have told him directly to his face but he has given me different responses every single time— i am as direct as they get no suguar in the coat— i been in the observe phrase now for the last few months shifting into evaluated—this one claims the spiritual route to a certain degree had the audacity to check me on my belief based off something i tated on facebook; but he claims he was not goin on my pg ; we arent even friends on there for him to have even known; after he made his statement he gave me a look like yea i been lookin at what you been saying on ya pg. i told him sexual immorality is one of the hugest sins he committs; that statement happened during that 4pg text i sent him the other day —i always give him a piece of what is on my mind regardless of what he made think and it isnt the lies people tell just cause their upset— i tell him i tlove him it hurts to be with out him when he's gone, the honest genuine thoughts i have for him.....once i do that he usually comes around. i kind of believe he has been being stubborn since the last poppu he gave me to make me cave in and call hi but i decided to wait until my mercury turns direct on the 28th but i get the feelling he will call me by then better yet be home by then . i think he is trying his best to avoid falling in love with anybody but has a lot of love for me and he stays away from me because he can not control his feelings if he does continue to be in my presence
— — — — — UPDATE — — — — —
EVERYTIME HE COMES BY OR CALLS I TOLD YOU GUYS I WOULD UPDATE IT HERE. SO THIS MORNING I WOKEUP TO A TEXT FROM HIM SAYING ''AN HOW YOU DOING.....GOOD I HOPE" 😉 TOLD YALL HE WOULD NOT LET IT GO PAST A WEEK WITHOUT CONTACT 🙂 (y) I FELT AS THOUGH HE WAS TRYING TO READ MY MOOD YET AGAIN AND SEE AN evalUATION THRU WHAT I RESPOND SAYING 🙂 I ALSO GO THE IMPRESSION THAT MAYBE HE HAS MOVED ON AS WELL AND IS JUST CHECKING ON ME TO SEE WHAT IS GOING ON (y) HE ALSO KNOWS FROM WHAT I TEXT I BASICALLY LAID DOWN THE LAWS, SO IF/AND WHEN HE DOES COME BACK AROUND ME HE SHOULD NEED TO BE READY TO HAVE BEEN MADE A DECISION TO BEHAVE 😉 🙂 😉 ALTHOUGH THERE IS NO TELLING HOW LONG THAT MAKE TAKE IN LIFE, SO I BEEN DECIDED PERSONALLY NOT TO SIT AROUND WAITING ON IT TO SEE IF IT WILL HAPPEN OR NOT ANY TIME SOON
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He's probably popping in to see if u have another guy around since he sees he is not having the same effect on u as before....likely assuming u r seeing someone else cuz how cld u possibly b so immune to his charms?? lol
Keep hanging back. I presume it'll get to him & he will say/do smtg when he can't stand it no more.
Keep hanging back. I presume it'll get to him & he will say/do smtg when he can't stand it no more.
Hey Silverdollar have u had a relationship (or even just friends) w a Libra w cappy moon & cancer mars?
Also one more thing I'm not quite clear on:
Did Scorp guy live with u? If so we're u just roommates or were u n a relationship before?
Did Scorp guy live with u? If so we're u just roommates or were u n a relationship before?
Posted by ReincarnationPosted by MrFirebird
Sounds like I want to hang myself.
Lol. +1click to expand
i was about to igg both of u 2 s.o.b'zzzzz but ??_ 2 #expression thoughts on that "
Posted by scorpgal76
Hey Silverdollar have u had a relationship (or even just friends) w a Libra w cappy moon & cancer mars?
i dont think i have ever had once but if i did it came before i started using charts
i ave libra pals and even libra in my 2nd house in my chart , even date about 3 of em before but never in those combo's "that i know of nihh" why do you ask?
someone u dealing with have those placements?
Posted by scorpgal76
Also one more thing I'm not quite clear on:
Did Scorp guy live with u? If so we're u just roommates or were u n a relationship before?
No, for the first question; though he was very clingy efore we started get so deep, so he was leaving pieces of clothes even shoes here, then it got to a point with the disappearing, etc phrases with the testing :poop: . we werent in a relationship, he said lets go with the flow and see where we go from there. then he would contradict that by saying we are gone stay just what we are othing more or less. but the way we were before any of this ever happened was he didnt want to be with anybody cause of his previous hurt, i was who he wanted before the girl who broke his heart, and we finally try it and he seems to be pushing me away more than anything just because he wants me to move one
i just sent hi a text telling him to get the rest of his belongs and ihonestly dont know why he keeps leaving em here just to toy with my mind and im tired of the games since he cant be as good a friend as i been being then i dont want to be friends at all and im all or nothing an since i cant have all then ill settle for nothing. also, that i want it to stop because then i began obsessing over the whole situation, so since i cant control that i will behave this way 1st step in self control is letting go and i wish for him to go so i can begin to heal fully, im cutting the string and is no longer leaving him a choice to contol when he talks to me or when i see him . if he doesnt come get his thing i will take em to his familys house and we dont even have to bother interacting. I would post that entire text to you but it is so much to read and type ill stop here so u can decipher 😉 😉 lol
i apologize 4 all the typos my keys on my pc get tuck an i dont realize till after cuz i dont be proffreadin sorry
since the retrograde is officially over i decided to put the tru nature of my feelings and decisions out there to get the final results of this situatio so i can finally close this chapter of my life out since it is no longer serving a purpose to please either individual involved in this equation.
i honestly feel very assured that this will not sound like an ultamatum and it will actually help more than hender the situation because if he truly feels how i intuit he does , this will seem as though i am sick an tired and if he doesnt wanna lose me he will get in compliance, other wise done reading this book. i know i shouldnt be worried about the what if aspects and only time will tell but i decided not to waste any more of that to see .
😉
i honestly feel very assured that this will not sound like an ultamatum and it will actually help more than hender the situation because if he truly feels how i intuit he does , this will seem as though i am sick an tired and if he doesnt wanna lose me he will get in compliance, other wise done reading this book. i know i shouldnt be worried about the what if aspects and only time will tell but i decided not to waste any more of that to see .
😉
Yes to the question on Libra.
As for the rest...sounds like ur making the best choice for u so how can it possibly be wrong?!?!
Well wishes 🙂
As for the rest...sounds like ur making the best choice for u so how can it possibly be wrong?!?!
Well wishes 🙂
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