I use to work with a Scorpio male at my last job. He seemed to take to me quickly, but I was more focused on my job duties, since it was all new to me and did not pay too much attention. I am married and he is in a serious relationship even then when we worked together. I had given him my number in case something on the schedule changed and he could get a hold of me. We started to converse via text about work, and then the topic came up about birthdays. He told me he was a Scorpio, but not his birthdate at first. I refused to tell him my birthday, and he seemed to be fine because he said maybe one day I will earn your trust. Time went on, and it seemed like he had hot and cold spells from day to day, I picked up on this pattern of behavior. One day, I caught him staring at me, he looked away and then back at me, and then smiled, I looked away and kept working. I must have said something through text message, because he went to work and alleged I was sexting him to our boss. Luckily, a co-worker who I got along with grabbed his phone read through the entire thread and showed our boss it had nothing to do with him, it had to do with getting respect and correspondence for my job. Luckily, the boss saw through to the truth and just told me stop texting him, so I did. He acted like nothing happened, Inever brought it up. Not too long after that, I couldn't take how he started treating me, which I could feel this icy cold feeling when I would work with him, so I asked to be transferred to a different section. I acted like he didn't exist and did my work. I ran into him alot because we worked at an elementary school and we would be in the lunchroom with the students at the same time, some days. I wouldn't look at him, I wouldn't acknowledge him, and it seemed like it bothered him after awhile. I even wrote him a thank you card after I left my position for giving me an opportunity to work in his classroom. One day, in the lunchroom, it happened again where I looked up and caught him staring at me. I told myself I was going to stare at him as intensely and not look away and I did, he looked away, looked back at me and we atred at each other, for what seemed like 10 seconds, I raised an eyebrow with a serious look on my face, he then craned his head back, looked away as he shook his head laughing. Then we caught eyes one more time and shook his head all embarrassed and laughed. I walked out of the lunchroom and ignored him until the end of the school year. In the texts before the alleged sexting, he would say things like I was good and that he was glad I was working with him. There were other moments when he wasn't quiet and icy, he would chat with me and ask me about what I thought about this or that? I never would tell him about my personal life or answer questions, and I felt like he knew I really cared about my position and would be hard to work with alot of times. He wanted me to tell him in detail why I wanted to collaborate with him so badly, more so than in my other position. I could feel him staring at me and it made me nervous sometimes. He seemed to be around every corner too toward the end and I just wonder, what did the stare in the lunchroom really mean? Can any male scorpio analyze tis and help me better understand it all.
