aquarius_8i8
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Scorpio on my tail... What did I DO?
Yup, that's the way Scorps are. They fall hard........
With that being said, you don't wanna get mixed up in this situation. This is a lose lose situation for everyone involved. If he is so totally in love with you, he needs to split from his wife. But he has two daughters with her and if he is any kind of a father, he's not likely to walk out on them. Right there is the bond that ties him to his wife and that's a pretty strong one in spite of what he might tell you. Put yourself on the other side of this, what if you were the wife and had the two daughters. What would it do to you and the girls knowing your husband was flirting with some chick and she had no respect or compassion for your daughters or you?
Walk away from this....no RUN! I can almost guarantee you that you will be the one being hurt when it's all said and done.
With that being said, you don't wanna get mixed up in this situation. This is a lose lose situation for everyone involved. If he is so totally in love with you, he needs to split from his wife. But he has two daughters with her and if he is any kind of a father, he's not likely to walk out on them. Right there is the bond that ties him to his wife and that's a pretty strong one in spite of what he might tell you. Put yourself on the other side of this, what if you were the wife and had the two daughters. What would it do to you and the girls knowing your husband was flirting with some chick and she had no respect or compassion for your daughters or you?
Walk away from this....no RUN! I can almost guarantee you that you will be the one being hurt when it's all said and done.
"He calls me 5 times a day. He is saying some pretty strong stuff and its only been 2 weeks! He always wants to know where I am, like just because. But yet he has a wife that he could possibly work things out with?
What is this guy doing—? I feel trapped but he says I'm free to go. As soon as I start to go, he's back on the scene with calls and unannounced visits like he never said that. He says he's hooked on me. "
You should believe everything he says, no matter how much your mind questions his motives .. what does your brain know anyway?
In fact, if any man does this to you at any time in your life .. you should disregard what your brain tells you and ask the question ... what is this guy doing .. with intentions of maybe actually believing he wants you this fast/hard because if you actually listen to your self that is reasonable, you might be told that real relationships don't 'fall' helplessly like that, that they are actually developed through maturity and trust and honor and TIME to get to know the real person.
You don't want to do that ^^^^, fuck that ^^^^^ ......
Oh no, this guy is your soulmate, yes he is, and that is the only thing you should be thinking about .. omg, you lucky girl, you. Do you realize how long the rest of us girls have to suffer in this lifetime waiting for our knight in shining armour? And yours found you.
We should all be envious.
What is this guy doing—? I feel trapped but he says I'm free to go. As soon as I start to go, he's back on the scene with calls and unannounced visits like he never said that. He says he's hooked on me. "
You should believe everything he says, no matter how much your mind questions his motives .. what does your brain know anyway?
In fact, if any man does this to you at any time in your life .. you should disregard what your brain tells you and ask the question ... what is this guy doing .. with intentions of maybe actually believing he wants you this fast/hard because if you actually listen to your self that is reasonable, you might be told that real relationships don't 'fall' helplessly like that, that they are actually developed through maturity and trust and honor and TIME to get to know the real person.
You don't want to do that ^^^^, fuck that ^^^^^ ......
Oh no, this guy is your soulmate, yes he is, and that is the only thing you should be thinking about .. omg, you lucky girl, you. Do you realize how long the rest of us girls have to suffer in this lifetime waiting for our knight in shining armour? And yours found you.
We should all be envious.
PAngel- you're a jealous bitter old hag. Shut your wrinkles up.
4thwallbreaker & Winterborn: PM eachother and stop hijacking a thread that beat your IQ with the 1st sentence. You're not groggy and needing coffee.
4thwallbreaker & Winterborn: PM eachother and stop hijacking a thread that beat your IQ with the 1st sentence. You're not groggy and needing coffee.
And I agree, to an extent, he is trying to use me as a booty call for the distinguished gentleman. But he includes me in everything else in his life. He wraps me around his schedule.
Sorry to be hateful 4thwall. Was just keeping my end of the defense
Posted by aquarius_8i8
And I agree, to an extent, he is trying to use me as a booty call for the distinguished gentleman. But he includes me in everything else in his life. He wraps me around his schedule.
See? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I was right, you do want to just believe it all ... again, you should just ignore your brain if you have any intelligence at all, and just go with making excuses for him because he includes you in everything else and wraps you around his schedule.
Oh, lucky you .. he jots you down when he makes schedules.
Seriously, why even ask what does all this mean?
He includes you when he makes schedules .. what more could you ask for?
And on top of that, he calls you 5 times a day ... eventhough he has a woman to whom he claims to be his.
Her name is Wife.
He includes you when he makes schedules .. what more could you ask for?
And on top of that, he calls you 5 times a day ... eventhough he has a woman to whom he claims to be his.
Her name is Wife.
Oh yes, I should think all women are jealous of what you have .. and we all wish upon wish upon wish that our brains didn't tell us to get the hell out of dodge ... because we are all missing out on this.
Poor us
Poor us
From one Aquarian to the next, of course he will do All these things but don't get caught up in this with him, his situation still remains he's a married man so why you go through or put yourself through this when you dont have to? It's too many good single guys available..
Somethings doesn't sound right with this scorpio guy..you really don't know what's Truly going on with he and his wife, don't fall for it...you should be in the wind having your fun. Good Luck!
Aren't you glad someone told you that? ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Otherwise, you might never have been able to figure it out by yourself .... since you asked this question.
But, of course you are being pulled back in ... so you might be helpless, in which case, we will all pray at your funeral.
Otherwise, you might never have been able to figure it out by yourself .... since you asked this question.
But, of course you are being pulled back in ... so you might be helpless, in which case, we will all pray at your funeral.
Posted by aquarius_8i8
Oh. my. WORD. Just a bit speechless, but I'll try to 'splain ...
He's married, has 2 daughters. Feels he and wife have "grown apart", but I'm the type of woman that will want you to work things out with her instead of turning me into a mistress. He says he doesnt want me to be of a lesser grade than a top priority woman, but he is STRUGGLING with this inner power. It's tearing him apart!! I've been shocked at how passionate this man is.
You should have seen his reaction when I interrupted him this morning and said "Hey, let ME define what is shitty for MYSELF." He says I drive him crazy and the more I explain things, the closer it draws him to me. His reaction was as if he just abandoned his whole entire life and all he saw was me. That is the best I can explain. He was shocked just because I spoke for myself. Well, I ALWAYS speak for myself. Big deal!
The thing is he gets this driven when I'm just in conversation about something or with someone. The more realistic I am about his surroundings, the more he says he is falling in love with me. By "more realistic", I mean keeping a down to earth look at what is really going on, Being open to what is best for eachother as opposed to selfishly wanting him and everything that comes with him 24/7, realizing the KIDS are in the picture and very important, etc.
He calls me 5 times a day. He is saying some pretty strong stuff and its only been 2 weeks! He always wants to know where I am, like just because. But yet he has a wife that he could possibly work things out with?
What is this guy doing—? I feel trapped but he says I'm free to go. As soon as I start to go, he's back on the scene with calls and unannounced visits like he never said that. He says he's hooked on me.
Scorpio on your tail? And married?! Set your jet pack to light speed and don't look back!
Obviously this guy is caught up in the moment. If he and his wife have grown apart, he needs to get a divorce if he's THAT unhappy.
Your job as a respectable woman is to not entertain his idea of YOU being a part of HIS equation. That's crazy talk!
I feel bad for his wife in all due respect. I would be going ballistic on his ass if he didn't try to fix what was going on at home BEFORE he started shopping around.
Keep your distance, buy some mace and find a nice, SINGLE man to whisper sweet nothings to
Do all scorp men get together and figure out what they want to say to their potential mistress?? Sorry, but I've heard similar stories with the common denomenator being a married scorp man.
My advice is to be very careful and tread lightly. Please do not get caught up in all that he says. Remember, many are game players and you may just be a part of his game. Also remember there's most likely a fat chance in hell he will leave his wife. They rarely do.
I'm sorry to be so harsh, but I don't want another woman to have to go through what I've seen some friends go through in this similiar position with a Scorp male.
Candlz is right on...RUN...do not WALK and NOW...go on! FAST! You are the one who will suffer. He may suffer a bit as well, but they regenerate quickly.
Good lucky lady...
My advice is to be very careful and tread lightly. Please do not get caught up in all that he says. Remember, many are game players and you may just be a part of his game. Also remember there's most likely a fat chance in hell he will leave his wife. They rarely do.
I'm sorry to be so harsh, but I don't want another woman to have to go through what I've seen some friends go through in this similiar position with a Scorp male.
Candlz is right on...RUN...do not WALK and NOW...go on! FAST! You are the one who will suffer. He may suffer a bit as well, but they regenerate quickly.
Good lucky lady...
Also, I would suggest you read "How to spot a bastard by his sun sign" Scorp version pronto. You will stay away from scorp men foreva! Here...read this. I guarantee you will recogize your knight in here.
http://seductioncentral.ning.com/forum/topics/how-to-spot-a-bastard-by-his-7
http://seductioncentral.ning.com/forum/topics/how-to-spot-a-bastard-by-his-7
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The thing is he gets this driven when I'm just in conversation about something or with someone. The more realistic I am about his surroundings, the more he says he is falling in love with me. By "more realistic", I mean keeping a down to earth look at what is really going on, Being open to what is best for eachother as opposed to selfishly wanting him and everything that comes with him 24/7, realizing the KIDS are in the picture and very important, etc.
He calls me 5 times a day. He is saying some pretty strong stuff and its only been 2 weeks! He always wants to know where I am, like just because. But yet he has a wife that he could possibly work things out with?
What is this guy doing—? I feel trapped but he says I'm free to go. As soon as I start to go, he's back on the scene with calls and unannounced visits like he never said that. He says he's hooked on me.