Scorpio Venus F - I like a Scorpio Venus M

So does this mean we're not gonna talk or make moves and just play mind games/circle the enemy until somebody cracks?

Me ----- Him (limited because I don't know location or time or birth, just the birthday (today))

Scorpio Sun ----- Virgo Sun

Pisces Moon (cusp Aquarius) ----- Aquarius Moon

Scorpio Venus ----- Scorpio Venus

Sagittarius Mars ----- Scorpio Mars

Libra Mercury ----- Virgo Mercury

Capricorn Ascendant ----- Unknown

Some background here in the Virgo forum - https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/signs-a-virgo-man-might-be-interested-5696652/

I'm simply nervous about chasing. I'm hesitant to put my feelings on the table, but I worry that if I don't, he won't either. I'm not one to reveal my feelings until I'm sure.

Could you please explain what indicates to you that I need to initiate more of the potential relationship