Scorpio women and friendships

Do these women not like to put effort into friendships with other women? My mum Scorpio always struggled at maintaining friendships, she is better now that she is older but her friends usually initiate contact with her (they always call her first) and most I have met seem similar. They dont make plans with other women. And when they have a bf, friends are out! 2 Scorpio females I knew had friendships that were only to fulfill some sort of purpose. When that purpose was served or they couldnt attain whatever it was POOF! Gone.

They seem to have plenty acquaintances but no solid lengthy friendships, and they mostly friends with guys moreso than women.

My problem is i try and fail to make friends, i just cant get into it. -_- why try then

Posted by starlover
I've always put more into the friendships than the other person. Scorps are often very loyal to their friends and families ... For me they come first before all else

Yes, well put.

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Posted by LibraLovesHim
They seem to have plenty acquaintances but no solid lengthy friendships, and they mostly friends with guys moreso than women.

I have plenty aquatances but few very close freinds. N that's the way I like it. Actually not many men Freinds.

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Me too, i dont have that many male friends. but i think our notion of friends is different than other peoples. We tend to kind of use the label of best friends and friends respectively. For example my aquarius friend just calls every single acquaintance of his a friend 😆

I'm a Libra and my Mom is a Scorpio too!
I will agree and say her friends definitely initiate contact. She has ALWAYS been about work and my Dad. That is her focus. She likes hanging with friends now, but if my Dad didn't want her to go with friends when they were younger, she just didn't. She went everywhere with my Dad.

My best friend is a Scorpio as well. We've been friends for years, since childhood. But she's not like my Taurus friend that calls me daily, my Aquarius friend who I can plan trips with, or my Sagittarius friends who I can talk to for hours. No she is the one who will be there when I'm at my lowest and about to break. She brings me up. She is the one who if I end up in the hospital, she'd be the FIRST one to freak out and be by myside. She planned my wedding. She is a dedicated friend. But she does need her space, she doesn't initiate contact, and I have accepted that. She is busy...doing things for others. But if I need her, she'll be there. I can definitely count on that.

thats the trouble with scorpio women. egos are too big

Friendships are very important to me, and always have been, more than most other things in my life. I talk to one of my closest female friends almost every day on the phone. That friendship began ~ 20 years ago. 🙂

My friendships with both women and men usually last a long time, if not forever (fingers crossed). I do what I can to maintain contact even though I live far from many of my closest friends now thanks to where I moved. I love the internet because it's so helpful for keeping in touch, and phone calls.

Posted by FrostedElly
Most people fade away from their friends after marriage. It's kinda normal I think. That or people tend to want to make couple friends and married friends. It's a part of life I think. Friendships aren't always easy to maintain once you have a demanding career, a husband and children. Add to that that maybe a friend you lived five minutes from moves and is now an hours away in another town. There's only so much of you to go around.

That being said I am loyal to a fault with friends. Once you've hit a certain level of inner circle it you'll get devotion unending. I might not have time to go out every week or call every other day, but I'll always be there, won't let time slip by too long without checking in and in a crisis I am the go to. I'll make sure you feel damn special and important when I'm with you too.

My circle of friends is probably one of the stronger and more stable areas of my life right now actually. Friendships and community are very important to me, I don't like people I care for to feel forgotten or excluded.

yes. this.

I notice this. after marrage and children, they just fade, which happened in the case of my old best friends, but we also moved far, so that in conjunction. is overkill, and the distance and responsibilies of other people in your life, you don't have time for outside unless to keep in touch a couple of times a year, like birthdays and holidays.

Posted by exo
i have a few close female friends, but my very best friends are (gay) males.

my circle is solid. peeps i've known for 10+ years.

My mothers close friend is also one of a gay couple (females)