SCORPIO WOMEN DATE MEN THAT ARE LESS ATTRACTIVE THAN THEM ?Please, answers only from Scorpios

Ok , I don't know if this is a trend but I've seen this in many couples , I always see an attractive scorpio woman with a guy who is by far not attractive . Nothing wrong with that , the thing is , they always break up after some months , I've noticed this because many of my friends have dated scorpio women . According to my friends , scorpio women don't treat them right , they don't give them too much attention , and are cold , so my question is ; why scorpio women date unattractive guys if they are not going to tream them the same they would treat a hot person??
Apparently in the mind of scorpio women , the deep love they always talk about ,is shown by the fact that they are dating someone ugly . I mean , it seems that for scorpio women , dating someone "ugly" shows their deep and unconditional love for their partners , and they think that's enough .
But scorpio women insist they are really in love with them , can you explain please?
Sex with scorpio is boring according to my friends , or was sex boring because they are unattractive ? If you are unattractive and your partner dont want to have sex with you or does it without passion then you will actually believe that you are unattractive , am I right?. I mean this makes them feel insecure and not loved . I mean I can date people who are uglier than me you know , but I would love them the as if they were the hottest people on earth ( maybe it's because my sign is cancer lol)
how would you deal with this situation if you were the ugly guy? break up or not?
The scorpio woman and the ugly guy break up because he wants her to love her more and better but the scorpio woman say that she already does it .
PLEASE ONLY ANSWERS FROM SCORPIO WOMEN , thank you

I agree, its dumb

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I'm guessing the ugly guys have massive cocks.

Let's switch this around. Why are your friends dating women more attractive than them??

Posted by scorpx3
It just so happens that none of my partners were attractive (or, well, at least I wasn't attracted to them physically but instead got to know them more and understand them on a spiritual level). I simply look at a person's heart before allowing myself to get involved with them, because I'm well aware that looks will one day fade...and if they don't fade, odds are looks can change for drastic reasons (i.e., some accident where their face gets screwed up or they gain/lose weight, whatever, you get the point)...so I want to make sure I would have chosen their heart over their looks. Always, because looks can only go so far but his personality is enough to keep me settled down for good.

So...I'm not sure what the deal is with your friends. Maybe they dated unevolved Scorpions?

I'm not the most sexually-charged character either, so other Scorpions can chime in on that, but I would feel more passionate about someone who I grew to love because of who he is versus someone who I find "hot". Yuck, the thought alone of getting it on with someone "hot" but with a terrible personality makes me want to vomit.

Interesting!! ,it's good to know why scorpio women look at a person's heart first and it makes sense , but what i want to know now is how you treat them , how did you treat your less attractive boyfriends?(be honest please ,) thanks for your reply 🙂

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whaat? lol, I don't understand japanese

Posted by ElleDuMonde
Nevermind, this is a really dumb thread.

why is it dumb?

Posted by Impulsv
Mmm I can be around a brad pit guy n have no attraction
Vs a normal
Guy n have a connection.
Attraction is important period
I've made a mistake to be with someone I did not have a strong attraction because he was all the other stuff I was looking for. Did not fair well
How did I treat him good minus the passion.
I'm sure his Scorpio moon did not think it was good enough
I myself don't think it's good enough

so you can have a connection with a person but that doesn't mean attraction for you right¿? ,I'm glad you are being honest by saying that there wasn't passion with that person you didnt have a strong attraction .so how that ended? He broke up with you or you broke up with him?

Posted by canmini
this is a good thread. Scorpios wants to be in control. Either they want to control you or you have to pass their shit tests in order to get them to bow down to you. With Scorpios it either one extreme or the other. Either you show them that you are man enough and they be your bitch or they run all over you because you failed their shit test. My conclusion is that those Scorpios feels that you friends are too weak because they failed their shits test. That why they don't show affections. I had Scorpios shown way to much affections but in privacy

Was Minnie Mouse a Scorpio woman?

Loving that avatar!

Love must suck, lol.

Scorpio woman here. I think my guy is the most attractive, cutest, sweetest looking guy I ever met! However, sometimes I take my rose colored glasses off and notice his actual physical appearance and some might think he's just average. But me? I look at him and see what a great guy he is on the inside as well as the outside and I honestly feel I'm looking at Kevin Costner in all his glory!

So basically, looks don't matter. If your Scorp loves you, you are everything to them.

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But I would never be with someone who's hot and doesn't have much going for him but I wouldnt be with someone ugly who doesn't have much going for him

I am a german and I don`t know that english expression doesn`t have much going for him, what does it mean?

I think all the guys I date are attractive so idk.

I have no response to this thread really. Personality matters, but usually their personality matches their appearance in my experience.....ok ok....except for one guy. He turned out to be a nut job. He was a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Leo asc. Lunatic.

I don't know. I just can't continue dating an ugly guy.

Taurus are appealing to us. There is a bit spark when eyes have meet.

Taurus are not ugly.. it is just insecurity I think you feel less attractive.

Brandyp. Keep it cool. Cheers.

My co-worker is happily married to a man who I would say is less attractive than her. He's a writer and a great guy. They make the most adorable couple; they are perfect for each other. I think it's fantastic.

I may not be fully Scorpio but I believe I am more Scorpio than the other sign.

For me, I look at personality because I'm aware that looks aren't forever. I wouldn't call myself hot though. I think I'm fairly average. There are always more beautiful women around. Who has time to compete although sometimes I do check women out and compare myself.

Since I've been hurt by people who never took the relationship seriously, I do have a tendency to test their strength. It may be a bad thing or a good thing, right. After all, we need to protect ourselves. And I'm just being very blunt and honest here, even if it may make me look bad. I may not purposely test them, but sometimes I feel I have intuition and because I am such an extreme person, I watch their actions. If they cannot handle a little fight and run off, then truly, I think to myself that they cannot handle me.

I wouldn't dump someone once I start dating them. I may threaten and some guys who aren't resolved enough in wanting the relationship may or may not give up. I want a strong man. Strong in that he could handle anything that comes our way. I may be strong or act strong, but ultimately I want one who has courage to not give up in the face of adversity. Yeah, I'm not perfect, but at the same time, it's from my fear of being abandoned and my heart is truly, really very sensitive. I'm not speaking for all Scorpios here. I'm sure all of us are slightly different.

Also, I don't beat around the bush and hide who I am. To me, why should I give them a false impression? I lay everything on the table and let them see if they can handle me. I have very dark traits at times and some are afraid of wandering into this side and meeting my demons. If they can't see me for who I am, wouldn't that mean they cannot love me for who I truly am? Not to say that I won't self-improve or, let my demons consume me forever. Do I make sense?

If a man shows he's reliable and through action, shows I could trust him, I believe I wouldn't push or be as weary of him. However, these kinds of reliable men who show through actions are rare and far between.

I am a very typical Scorpio and here's my story. All my guys have been rather handsome and attractive by "general standards", but then I have a very particular type so they all kind of look alike (which is a bit creepy). A nice personality is never enough for me and I will never ever become attracted to someone just because they are good people - appearance/looks matter very much in my case. In a way, it's always love at first sight.
Now, I disagree that Scorpio women don't treat men nicely. When I was truly in love, I approached my partner as if he was a god or something, he was the most important person to me in the whole world and I wanted him to feel that. That included (but isn't limited to) showering him with affection and compliments, making nice meals, giving treats, cuddling and snoging him around the clock, etc. I only have one female Scorp friend and she's also very attentive and loving to her partner (but she's attracted to all kinds of guys).