Scorpios,,,. I can't stop crying. Hurt &confused

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Valentine's will be my 1 yr anniversary 4 scorpio and I Aqua. He took my daughter 2 a father daughter ball.At the end. I asked him 2 text me a picture .When I arrived 2 the school. He proceeded t 2 hand me his phone for the picture that I requested. At the bottom corner I noticed a picture of another female. I asked him a/b it and w/out making contact he said that was 1 of his best friend friend. I told him that didn't look like his friend girl. He didn't acknowledge me,which was fine because we were @ my daughter ball. I gave him a ride 2 his car . I drove 2my apt. He called me. Said if there was going 2 be a scene he didn't want 2 come and what was my plan. I told him. I could mange myself. That you should take people u care a/b @ there good and bad.He said that if I felt uncomfortable about the picture that he delete it. Mind u while back I had celebrity pix 4my screen back ground and he got upset asked me 2 delete it after a while which I did. Moving forward at the end of the night I tell my son,daughter that I was going 2 walk him 2 his car. I live in a apartment where men have 2 be out by 10. So it was 9:40ish. We get 2his car. I pull out my phone and tell him that I want to show him something. I show him all the ways in which 1 have a picture on their phone through text and etc.I ask him how did his get on his reg photo. 9:48 now n he doesn't answer gets n2 his car dr away. Won't take my calls or text. He did give me 350 towards rent week b4 this happen. I had a miscarriage last September. I have been taking my birth control pill,but not @ the same time every day. He only has 1 I biological child and always says he would love to have more,so that part is not as worrisome for me. He's a little older then me. He's a lawyer and I am going back to school for my bachelors degree in nursing.
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Valentine's will be my 1 yr anniversary 4 scorpio and I Aqua. He took my daughter 2 a father daughter ball.At the end. I asked him 2 text me a picture .When I arrived 2 the school. He proceeded t 2 hand me his phone for the picture that I requested. At the bottom corner I noticed a picture of another female. I asked him a/b it and w/out making contact he said that was 1 of his best friend friend. I told him that didn't look like his friend girl. He didn't acknowledge me,which was fine because we were @ my daughter ball. I gave him a ride 2 his car . I drove 2my apt. He called me. Said if there was going 2 be a scene he didn't want 2 come and what was my plan. I told him. I could mange myself. That you should take people u care a/b @ there good and bad.He said that if I felt uncomfortable about the picture that he delete it. Mind u while back I had celebrity pix 4my screen back ground and he got upset asked me 2 delete it after a while which I did. Moving forward at the end of the night I tell my son,daughter that I was going 2 walk him 2 his car. I live in a apartment where men have 2 be out by 10. So it was 9:40ish. We get 2his car. I pull out my phone and tell him that I want to show him something. I show him all the ways in which 1 have a picture on their phone through text and etc.I ask him how did his get on his reg photo. 9:48 now n he doesn't answer gets n2 his car dr away. Won't take my calls or text. He did give me 350 towards rent week b4 this happen. I had a miscarriage last September. I have been taking my birth control pill,but not @ the same time every day. He only has 1 I biological child and always says he would love to have more,so that part is not as worrisome for me. He's a little older then me. He's a lawyer and I am going back to school for my bachelors degree in nursing.



Somebody will be along to answer you.

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He did give me 350 towards rent week b4 this happen. I had a miscarriage last September. I have been taking my birth control pill,but not @ the same time every day. He only has 1 I biological child and always says he would love to have more,so that part is not as worrisome for me.







I haven't a clue why you threw that ^^^^ in here.

Are you suggesting that you whore yourself to him to get rent money?

Are you also implying that you're trying to have a baby for him?


wow ... so, you have this guy that you obviously don't even trust, and believe that perhaps you shouldn't trust ... but, you let him take your child to father/daughter functions?


You sound warped in the head .... I would lose you pretty quick.
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He did give me 350 towards rent week b4 this happen. I had a miscarriage last September. I have been taking my birth control pill,but not @ the same time every day. He only has 1 I biological child and always says he would love to have more,so that part is not as worrisome for me.







I haven't a clue why you threw that ^^^^ in here.

Are you suggesting that you whore yourself to him to get rent money?

Are you also implying that you're trying to have a baby for him?


wow ... so, you have this guy that you obviously don't even trust, and believe that perhaps you shouldn't trust ... but, you let him take your child to father/daughter functions?


You sound warped in the head .... I would lose you pretty quick.
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P!!! How are you? It's been a long time! Hope you and your family are well!
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Mu think I might be pregnant. Also I did trust him,until that night. Also I added the part in a/b the money because, my thought was would he give me that much money if he were cheating. I have no problems paying my bills. That's not what attracted me to him.



having a baby is not going to solve your problems or make him love you.

find out if you are pregnant or not and then take your pills like you are supposed to.

there is no need to add this extra drama.

you are doing this all to yourself. nobody is doing anything to you.
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Second that!
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I pull out my phone and tell him that I want to show him something. I show him all the ways in which 1 have a picture on their phone through text and etc.







I don't even understand what that ^^^ is saying.

So, you stalk his phone? I don't get it. Whatever he does on his phone YOU have hacked it?

I'm not sure what you are saying. If I'm correct, and you're stalking his phone .. then wtf is that?
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No. Lol He handed me his phone to take the picture. That's when I saw the last picture that was saved or taken by him. I never snoop or stalk. lol. I am not w/my kids father. My kids father is former military and has a lot of emotion issues from the miitary. He came back from war crazy and it wasn't a good environment for my children and I. I live in an apartment buildings where other women have experienced some of the something's. For our protection the state reopen it's section 8 and we have to live there for 3 years receive counseling and take a class and etc. then the state will give us a voucher to live any where that we want. I have 1 year left. I a mom of 2 kids and I am in school, so with the state paying majority of my rent it is helpful.
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No. Lol He handed me his phone to take the picture. That's when I saw the last picture that was saved or taken by him. I never snoop or stalk. lol. I am not w/my kids father. My kids father is former military and has a lot of emotion issues from the miitary. He came back from war crazy and it wasn't a good environment for my children and I. I live in an apartment buildings where other women have experienced some of the something's. For our protection the state reopen it's section 8 and we have to live there for 3 years receive counseling and take a class and etc. then the state will give us a voucher to live any where that we want. I have 1 year left. I a mom of 2 kids and I am in school, so with the state paying majority of my rent it is helpful.




That's interesting. You know, it never ceases to amaze me that what they told you that you were fighting for, turned out to be a lie. They can train a man to kill, but they haven't learned how
to turn the switch off.

There really should be a campaign for military indoctrination reversal programs.
You know, restretch and twist the mind back into something a bit more warped and neutered before
being reintroduced to society.
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Cbraggs,

Calm down. Can you do that? Stop crying. Soon everything will be fine.

Here's what you do. Be strong. If there is issues - listen to your instinct first. Be sensitive to that.

Your gut is telling you the right thing to do. Just trust God alone. many people can't manage their emotions.

But when you try to look at the brighter side of life. You know there is still hope.

Your problem is just small. He is not God. Stop being dependent to him. Human is capable of hurting you.

so live wisely and vigilant specially those people around you. Stay strong.

Good luck and focus to your children.

*M*
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Thank you for your kind words. I have calm down a lot sense posting my question. I will continue to focus on my kids. I have 2 gifted sag in the gifted program for their school. And your right he isn't God. I have a lot to be thankful. I didn't realize how emotion dependent I I had become. I guess I just expected him to behave better and provide me wit closure on this issue. That's what us Aquarius would do for people we really cared about.