seeing someone else.

hey everyone, im new to this board but have read up on scorpios. ive read that theyre a complex lot and have a few questions regarding a scorpio guy 25 years old. im 21. this is a bit long, sorry in advance,

the first time i met scorp guy we exchanged numbers and then for about 5months had just texted eachother, we had both planned to meet eachother several times but we were both busy due to college and other committments. anyhow by random chance one night we were both in the same club and before he left he said that hed give me a text later to catch up. which we did. me being an aries quite foolish and naive thinking catch up meant catch up not a one night stand. anyhow after heavy making out and almost sleeping with him (ive never been with a guy before), i just blurted out before he left, ill never see you again. he looked at me and said, i wouldnt say never, just not for a long time. i dont know if thats player talk or scorpio ambiguity. the next night i texted him thanking him for the night and that it was nice. he texted back saying thats okay, hope u dont have any regrets. i said i didnt. and left it at that. the next day i had to leave to go back up north for the summer holidays. in my opinion it was evident that he was only looking for a one nighter. so i didnt expect to hear from him. he texted the next day asking how my drive up home was and that i wasnt missing out on much as it was raining where he was. random i thought, but i replied, and he didnt reply back.

this whole asking me questions and me answering him then him not texting back continued for a few months. realistically a relationship was never on the cards. i didnt know his plans were to work the next year, he kinda just up and left college, and when i asked him he said he didnt know where he was going to be based. i had made my feelings known to him but never directly, i said that i was thinking of him and hoped he was well. and every time hed reply to those messages. but never said anything similar to me. during the semester break i asked him if he wanted to catch up as id be passing thru his town and he was keen. so we met up, he took me out for lunch and that was okay. after that he kissed me on the cheek and i gave him a hug. i know thats not alot, but it was sweet. when i left i just couldnt stop thinking about him so had to tell him. i told him that it was all new and confusing to me, and that i kinda liked him. he replied saying that it was good to catch up but had moved along since last year and that hes actually seeing someone at the mo and was sorry he couldnt offer me more. he then said that hed let me know if hed be in town. i didnt have much to say to that but i respected that, and thanked him for being honest as it was closure for me. that was a big lie, but for his happiness cos i truly cared about him, id let him go. terribly heartbroken i did my best to move on, id text him occasionally and he replied but it was just outta respect. half a year passed and i didnt ask to catch up with him as i knew he was with someone else. if he was with someone else why didnt he tell me before we were to catch up?

anyhow a month ago i was passing through his town and was out shopping, randomly he happened to be walking towards me and i him, he was about 2meters to my left. luckily i had my side fringe which covered half my face so i wouldnt have to look at him, i walked straight past him without so much as acknowledging him. when i had got back from town and checked my phone he had left a message on my phone which was random, he had just asked me how my holidays were going and told me that he graduated from his masters in the weekend and it was a bit of rushed trip in the end. i thought he was over me. we proceeded to text eachother he of course asking all these questions, i was pretty straight up, he ended saying may see u around. i just said take care.

of course that stirred me up, ive never liked someone as much as

"i of course have to say that im not the same race as him, i was wondering if scorpios are attracted to people outside their race or do they prefer their own kind?"


^^That would have to do with real life and the world they grow up in so that is NOT a scorpio question at all,all of them would be different in that aspect.As for myself Im a total american mutt so it doesn't matter at all for me while it may for others.

I think he's just talking to you because he may think of you as a friend and may know you still are a little into him or at least is paranoid about it when hearing mushy stuff that can be confused for more.Thats the most common thing im thinking but not based on scorps,just men in general.🙂

thank u for ur input Tiamat 🙂