Seriously—? He's back, again—? WTH?

Ok, I dated a Scorpio man, we split up due to my having to travel for work and be gone for months at a time, I found out he wasn't as faithful and loyal and honest as I first needed and wanted and well, he would tell me about these women coming on to him, and one or two were relentless according to him, of course he was innocent in all these little encounters. What he failed to tell me was he pulled strings to get one a job, a job he had said I would be perfect for, yet never ever told me. So, long story short? I ended it. He came back for a while, and I caved (I do love this man, what can I say), well off I had to go for work again, and we talk and keep in touch, but we are not together, so I'm hearing he goes out alot, many times does not come home till the morning etc . Our communication has dwindled. Ok, it's over.

Well, one of his best friends is working 60 miles from me, and that ex Scorpio of mine arranged for this guy and I to have lunch, cuz he knows I'm lonely, bored after work right?

So, his friend apparently, after our lunch called my ex and was like "damn, she is smoking hot" and that type of guy speak. ( I knew they would talk, soooo I dressed to kill, fresh highlights, manicure, cute outfit, not Saturday night stunning, tastefully sexy and like I said, I love this Scorpio man and wanted him to eat his heart out!) I didn't flirt, was friendly, nice, we had a lovely lunch and fun conversation and I left.

So now the Ex is blowing up my phone, he keep telling me how this girl or that girl is flirting with him, or he teases me about hooking up with his friend, (um, that's a no) his friend is nice, we talk occaisionally, but there is no attraction, and, he's married, and I dont mess with married men. So now, did I rattle him a bit or what? I wanted to, that's for sure, I want him to miss me, I want him to realize what he had and lost, truthfully? I want him back the way we were, or I don't know, I'm confused about this. I know it feels good that I think he got jealous, but was he? Is he? What do you think? I know I'm struggling with this, but could he be sorry he messed things up? I sure hope so! Do Scorpio men get jealous of an ex they loved? But THEY blew it?

Wow crazy ass story i'm glad most of my relationships aren't as complicated as what i'm reading on here. Damm.

Ok, I've come back to my senses. I'm
hurt still by how he played me, lied to me and all. Deep down I know I'm better off without him, but sometimes I still get very sad about it, BUT I hope to hell he missing me and maybe hurting too.

-Walks out the room- 😛

::: shakes head :::

I know. I had a moment of weakness, I'm getting over him, and do very well for weeks, then something triggers the memories of who we used to be and I get bummed out, and last night was one of those nights. I am not sorry I made sure I looked fantastic when I met his friend, I'm glad it bugs him- if even a little. But I know what we had was an illusion, and he has lied, and cheated and is not worthy of me. I can do better. I have been on a few dates, they were nice, but I didn't have that WOW feeling I had with my Scorpio. So, I guess I'm still getting over him, I don't think it's right to get into a relationship with someone till I am ready, and Im not. So, I'm dating very casually, and while it's fun sometimes, I think this is going to take me a while to get over, plus, I don't know if I can trust anyone anymore.

My Scorpio really effed me up! He lied, he cheated, he made me feel like a fool. Then when I said Nope, I can't do this, I don't deserve to be treated this way, I am better than that. He got pissed off!! We have tried to remain friends, talking once in a while. He asked if I was seeing anyone, I said not really, been on a few dates, but I'm
Busy, then he goes on and on AGAIN about all the women after him, what ever. Drama, I don't like drama. It's exhausting and I'm a grown ass woman not some schoolgirl! Oh well, thanks to everyone for listening to my pathetic experience with a Scorpio.

Posted by Nemesis

Posted by ArticleL
-Walks out the room- 😛

don't slam the doors! 😄

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-Slams the door-

Also is your avatar the girl who played on Sherlock Holmes 0-0

Well you know, when you go out clubbing on a Sat night, you can dress so fun and sexy if your in the mood, you couldn't wear the same thing at 2:00 in the afternoon to a freaken lunch, well I couldn't carry it off anyway.

I'm not saying I'm stunning, I hope it didn't come across that way.

what does saturday night stunning look like eaxctly...pic please 🙂

That's just a saying my friends and I would use for decked out for the clubs.