She's losing again

I'm not wanting to be a dick but I have to laugh and ya I still care and worry about her. All the plotting to get revenge on me hasn't paid off for her one bit she's now one step closer to being un-employed. One of my ex co worker and friend tells me everything what goes on he hates her so bad he likes seeing her fail. I was asking him about our friend she's also was my right hand man she went on leave of absence to expand her training now she wants her old position back she would have gotten mine but she didn't really want it. With her getting her old position back the Scorp is done she won't get any hours she may get at most 8 hours a month.

How can you cause yourself so much phucking trouble and go backwards, she had it made she was getting lots of work, she was hurt and angry with me, her anger took over she ended up making a mess for herself. If she left things alone she could have moved forward now she's right back where she started. The Scorp would have kept the position she moved too if she didn't put a sour taste in everybodies mouth.

I'm looking at my life I had a little bump in the road my future is brighter than ever I'm moving forward in my new/old career life is clipping along just fine. Life is short I knew I was spinning wheels in my last career I had plans to change that. Now that I'm working with another Scorpio I'm seeing the same behavior of the first one, that is doing everything backwards, always doing it the hard way.

To sum it up I'm thinking to myself lately about the first Scorpio thinking god how can you be such a phuck up.

Sometimes... We can be our own worst enemy! She must have heavy Scorp influence in there!

Posted by thinktoomuch
Facepalm

^^^^Yep..you said it.

I have read several of these posts and think OP that you are having delusions of grandeur. This woman doesn't sound like she is even THINKING about you, let alone trying to get revenge. She tapped it a couple times and moved on. Regardless of her current employment issues (we all have challenges), I can see why she wouldn't work anywhere near you. You are a crazy revenge bent stalker...worse than any Scorpio sting/revenge story I've heard thus far. Get a life and move on. The only thing you care about is your ego and taking enjoyment in her pain/failure. If you cared as you say you do you would not revel in her "challenges". I recommend a good therapist or some type of "real man training" so you can act like one. This is not meant to hammer you but tell you straight...there is something wrong with the whole way you are looking at this.

I started in the same position as her I worked my way up to the supervisory position I had before I left I worked in the position for close to a decade. I never caused any troubles every employee like working with me.

I don't get how somebody can sabotage their own success this would have been a life time career job but she's phucked up so bad its over I just don't get it?

SHUT.

Thee

FUCK

UP

Thee was not a typo. Lol

Like I said all I can say is holy phuck how can you screw up so bad it will be a little over 3 years of her life she's wasted and she hasn't gotten anywhere. In the first 3 years I started taking over control of the operations of the division I worked in as the years progressed I started making more and more the decisions it was stressful at times especially when there was 10s of thousands of dollars involved. In the decade I reached the highest level I could go in the division the job became less of a challenge that's when I got tired of the job.

She doesn't talk to me lol she knows all the effort she put into getting revenge was for all for nothing she never gained anything and I never lost anything. She ruined her reputation for revenge was it really worth it.

Okay Stihl seriously has got to be autistic

I go into 2016 with a job I'm making decent money she screwed the pooch all the chances she had to advance in the company she works for are gone it is almost like she wanted to fail.

You're so hurt that you can't let this go. She broke your heart and you still care for her. I guess that's why you're still concerned about what she's doing? Putting her down and talking badly about her isn't going to make you feel better. She isn't losing, YOU ARE. You're still into her and she moved on. Your actions are making you look bad, not her. Never give anyone that much power over your life. Grieve and let it go.

I like how OP completely ignores everyone's response. Stihl be like...



"I got my hater blockas on, I don't see none of ya'll" lol

Posted by Noreallynow
You're so hurt that you can't let this go. She broke your heart and you still care for her. I guess that's why you're still concerned about what she's doing? Putting her down and talking badly about her isn't going to make you feel better. She isn't losing, YOU ARE. You're still into her and she moved on. Your actions are making you look bad, not her. Never give anyone that much power over your life. Grieve and let it go.

Actually I was the one that broke her heart she really wanted a relationship with me but you don't schitt where you eat because it always turns ugly hell her and I were just friends and it turned ugly. There was lots of hurt feelings is un-happy in her life she would take it out on me she would pick fights with me. Things would be going well with her and I then out of the blue she picks a fight it turns into a good blowout between us of course she gets hurt the most because I have a sharp tongue. Like I said she's not happy in her life she hated to see me happy in my life and always tries to drag me down.

Is there things I don't miss about her? Yes the first one is the drama if things got too quiet between us she caused drama, second if she would lash out at me, third walking on eggshells fourth is her insecurity I can't talk to another woman in front of her without her getting jealous that really drove me nuts I'm not your BF I can talk to any woman I want. Is she a good person? yes Does she understand me? yes. I guess you could say I rejected her and she never really let that go. I'm not so sure she's moved on not when she was watching me from afar 3 months ago, I'm sure she's scared of getting hurt.

The title of the thread tells all... so immature.

PM

You have to figure how serious this relationship is when neither of them will move in together she has no plans of moving to his town he has no plans of moving to the town where she lives. The only time they spend the most time together is when they go on vacation together he has paid for since the time they met each other. When she gets short of money she goes to stay with him because he pays for the groceries he pays for everything.

One of her BF's buddies said to me the Scorps BF knows she's using him for money, I'm really surprised this toxic relationship has lasted this long. Its not a healthy relationship I do feel bad for him he's going to come out of this damaged.

I figure once she gets a stable income she will dump his ass, hell when she was trying to get with me she was finding places for her and I to rent together.

What sign is the person who created this post?

You guys do have to realize I will always watch out for her I don't hate her and I'm not angry at her I'm just puzzled at her behavior. All the effort and plotting it didn't get her anywhere the added stress she put on herself she was eating unhealthy she's gained weight now she's 2 clothes sizes bigger. She was gaining ground her future at the company was looking good she was on the path of getting a well paying job then bam she sabotaged herself why?