Scorpios! Do you wanna know about your partners sexual past?

So I'm not sure why but I always have this desire to know the gory details. With my current relationship I actually didn't ask. I know how many sexual partners she's had and that's it. It's not like I want a break down of every single detail, but I get curious. I know some other scorpios like this. So yeah just wondering if any of you are the same or the opposite.

Posted by Westsidekodak
does it make it awkward when you know?

Not so much awkward but jealous. Which I know is crazy because it was in the past. Honestly though I hate the thought of someone touching my partner other than me. Mind sound crazy or whatever but I'm here to be as honest as possible. I date a Leo and I feel like she literally doesn't care what I've done in the past as long as I don't have any diseases lol.

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Posted by Westsidekodak
does it make it awkward when you know?

Not so much awkward but jealous. Which I know is crazy because it was in the past. Honestly though I hate the thought of someone touching my partner other than me. Mind sound crazy or whatever but I'm here to be as honest as possible. I date a Leo and I feel like she literally doesn't care what I've done in the past as long as I don't have any diseases lol.

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So when you find out those details, do you try to one up or do it better, so to speak. Like positions or locations, like I'm going to do it all so much better, you never think of them?

Jesus Christ the typos...

Posted by PancakeFace

Not so much awkward but jealous.

So why feed the beast? Makes no sense to do that to yourself unless you like the internal anguish it brings. That's like making a decision to eat only healthy food and stocking the pantry with junk food.

Ahhhhh

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Posted by Westsidekodak
does it make it awkward when you know?

Not so much awkward but jealous. Which I know is crazy because it was in the past. Honestly though I hate the thought of someone touching my partner other than me. Mind sound crazy or whatever but I'm here to be as honest as possible. I date a Leo and I feel like she literally doesn't care what I've done in the past as long as I don't have any diseases lol.

So when you find out those details, do you try to one up or do it better, so to speak. Like positions or locations, like I'm going to do it all so much better, you never think of them?

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Lmfaoooo you got it!! How did you know?

^^^^that's exactly why I would never answer a question related to my past partners. At some point I'm no longer in the bed and it'l becomes an imaginary pissing contest.

That was for Elle.

Are we in a Merc Rx? Wtf....

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Posted by Westsidekodak
does it make it awkward when you know?

Not so much awkward but jealous. Which I know is crazy because it was in the past. Honestly though I hate the thought of someone touching my partner other than me. Mind sound crazy or whatever but I'm here to be as honest as possible. I date a Leo and I feel like she literally doesn't care what I've done in the past as long as I don't have any diseases lol.

So when you find out those details, do you try to one up or do it better, so to speak. Like positions or locations, like I'm going to do it all so much better, you never think of them?

Lmfaoooo you got it!! How did you know?

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I've been with a guy like this and hey I am all for it, please please please feel free to rock my world! I am more than happy for the guy I'm devoted to, to be the best I've ever had and erase all memories of my past loves and I am happy to do the same!

Good question!

A general idea of their sexual history is welcome, but specifics about individual partners isn't something that I want to know, usually.

I want to focus on my dynamic with a partner, and learn about what they like and don't like sexually, and hopefully be the best lover they've had as a result. Of course that may not happen, no matter how much I try, but that's what I aim for. It's fun.

But it isn't healthy for me to get too much into a competitive mode with that, which can happen if specific details about their previous partners were shared. It takes away from my enjoyment.

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Posted by PhoenixRising
That was for Elle.

I guess it depends on the partner. I've had one that would have been jealous...so it was never a topic, I knew better....one that really didn't care and it was never a topic...

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Well that's exactly it isn't it? As a Scorp you know who you're dealing with as soon as the question is asked. Or isn't.

You guys can think what you like I'm here to be honest. I love my lady I wanna do everything I can to please her and yeah I wanna be the best she's ever had.

Posted by elllesque
Scorpio moon = internal anguish seeker

Lmao. I guess so, thanks. You make a lot of sense I like you.

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Posted by PancakeFace
You guys can think what you like I'm here to be honest. I love my lady I wanna do everything I can to please her and yeah I wanna be the best she's ever had.

Where did this come from?

We were just answering your question.

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Nah I was just saying in general. I'm not mad or anything. But I feel like some people think it's weird I wanna know. Perhaps it is, I never gave it much consideration.

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Posted by elllesque
Scorpio moon = internal anguish seeker

Lmao. I guess so, thanks. You make a lot of sense I like you.

Don't worry....give me five minutes...I will change your mind 😛

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I know your weakness it's cheesecake.
You're a really Scorpio Scorpio right? And you don't have that overwhelming desire to know details? Hmmm damn. See I always figured it was the anguish moon. Now I'm
Confused.

Posted by PancakeFace
You guys can think what you like I'm here to be honest. I love my lady I wanna do everything I can to please her and yeah I wanna be the best she's ever had.

My question was not meant to be a slam at all. Truly. Honesty is welcomed. I'm a very jealous person so I would never ask the question. I also wouldn't ask because there much more behind the question then simply wanting to be seen as a sex God. Just sayin'.

Two different topics really.

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You guys can think what you like I'm here to be honest. I love my lady I wanna do everything I can to please her and yeah I wanna be the best she's ever had.

Where did this come from?

We were just answering your question.

Nah I was just saying in general. I'm not mad or anything. But I feel like some people think it's weird I wanna know. Perhaps it is, I never gave it much consideration.

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No weird at all. I was just wondering where the personal need for torture was coming from if you know what it will do to you.

Weird question for a Scorp (😛), but what is she said a past partner did something you weren't willing to do sexually? Then what?

*what if she said

Posted by elllesque
You can learn a lot about someone by how much or how little they share...the way they share....and the manner in which they reference their exes.

+1 and act accordingly.

That isn't about judgment simply "Scorp 101: know who you're sharing a pillow with".

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Posted by PancakeFace
You guys can think what you like I'm here to be honest. I love my lady I wanna do everything I can to please her and yeah I wanna be the best she's ever had.

Where did this come from?

We were just answering your question.

Nah I was just saying in general. I'm not mad or anything. But I feel like some people think it's weird I wanna know. Perhaps it is, I never gave it much consideration.

No weird at all. I was just wondering where the personal need for torture was coming from if you know what it will do to you.

Weird question for a Scorp (😛), but what is she said a past partner did something you weren't willing to do sexually? Then what?

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Oh okay I understand. I'm just stating if I'm weird for wanting to know then I hold my hands up and admit it lol.

I don't know. I haven't thought about it. But I know it makes me wanna claim her and dominate her which she likes so it's win win. I think of her as mine. I am that stalker obsessive type I admit. Not dangerously or anything. But I do like to know everything, I have to, if I'm gonna trust someone with my heart. And yeah I know trust means just trusting but hey, I'll get there one day.

And it would have to be something really weird that I didn't agree with. And I'd feel fine about it because it would have to be really weird for me not to be open minded about it. Anything that's legal and consenting between two adults and I'm willing to listen.

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Posted by PancakeFace
You guys can think what you like I'm here to be honest. I love my lady I wanna do everything I can to please her and yeah I wanna be the best she's ever had.

Where did this come from?

We were just answering your question.

Nah I was just saying in general. I'm not mad or anything. But I feel like some people think it's weird I wanna know. Perhaps it is, I never gave it much consideration.

No weird at all. I was just wondering where the personal need for torture was coming from if you know what it will do to you.

Weird question for a Scorp (😛), but what is she said a past partner did something you weren't willing to do sexually? Then what?

Oh okay I understand. I'm just stating if I'm weird for wanting to know then I hold my hands up and admit it lol.

I don't know. I haven't thought about it. But I know it makes me wanna claim her and dominate her which she likes so it's win win. I think of her as mine. I am that stalker obsessive type I admit. Not dangerously or anything. But I do like to know everything, I have to, if I'm gonna trust someone with my heart. And yeah I know trust means just trusting but hey, I'll get there one day.

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I can relate to that very much. I guess I've just been the type that prefers the info (not sex partner stuff) be volunteered. I can't explain it, but I feel if my partner chooses to open up and bare all on their own that they really just....desire to be mine. That type of openness is truly an aphrodisiac of sorts. And then the possessiveness takes hold...Ah, the mind of a Scorp....😈.

Anyway, if it works for you and your lady don't sweat it. Just be mindful. You may get more than you ask for and all that jazz.

Posted by elllesque
Just be careful with the curiosity and the forever truth seeking quality that Scorpio placements have.....

Honesty is great but it is not always wrapped in a pretty little package. Don't ask for it unless you are prepared.

Haha. Beat me to it.

Yes Pancake, I want to know all the gory details.

Yes, I want to be the best they ever had.

Might be self destructive and pointless, but my nature if my nature.

I'm Scorpio Sun / Venus

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by elllesque
You can learn a lot about someone by how much or how little they share...the way they share....and the manner in which they reference their exes.

+1 and act accordingly.

That isn't about judgment simply "Scorp 101: know who you're sharing a pillow with".

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Yup I agree with this.

Posted by Vixen2
I can relate in the fact that being absolutely loved, cherished and having the utmost devotion and loyalty may ruin a woman by being loved by a Scorpio sun/Scorpio venus. It will most likely raise the relationship bar to maybe an untainable level to any other potential future mate..

To some females that complete devotion, slight possessiveness, dominate, that need to know but mysterious personality...is downright intoxicating and addictive. You never ever doubt where you stand in relationship with a Scorpio when the confess they are all in and that they love you...and that could be as short as a few weeks or maybe some months...but when it's on, it's on and you better fucking buckle up...

That level of intensity...I think you are always searching for it and if you don't have it...you feel like everything is pointless, boring, bland, numb...probably results in a lot of potentially good men to be let go because that level of intensity is just not found again like that in another and if it is found again...you are just maybe plain lucky.

So the divulging of info regarding past relationship details and the wanting to know of hers...is pretty sexy really. It's the bearing of one's soul and the accepting of another's. A complete trust and an extreme desire to have another know you...all of you...every detail.

Ahhh...late night romantic musings of a pisces chick...

*puts on rose colored shades and exits*

Good post. You need more late nights!

Posted by Vixen2
I can relate in the fact that being absolutely loved, cherished and having the utmost devotion and loyalty may ruin a woman by being loved by a Scorpio sun/Scorpio venus. It will most likely raise the relationship bar to maybe an untainable level to any other potential future mate..

To some females that complete devotion, slight possessiveness, dominate, that need to know but mysterious personality...is downright intoxicating and addictive. You never ever doubt where you stand in relationship with a Scorpio when the confess they are all in and that they love you...and that could be as short as a few weeks or maybe some months...but when it's on, it's on and you better fucking buckle up...

That level of intensity...I think you are always searching for it and if you don't have it...you feel like everything is pointless, boring, bland, numb...probably results in a lot of potentially good men to be let go because that level of intensity is just not found again like that in another and if it is found again...you are just maybe plain lucky.

So the divulging of info regarding past relationship details and the wanting to know of hers...is pretty sexy really. It's the bearing of one's soul and the accepting of another's. A complete trust and an extreme desire to have another know you...all of you...every detail.

Ahhh...late night romantic musings of a pisces chick...

*puts on rose colored shades and exits*

Wow you need to publish that somewhere, that's perfect. That's pretty much exactly how it is. It's in the past but it's never really in the past because every past encounter seems to shape our future, if only a little.

Posted by MagicMona
dammit, got cut off.

anyway, if my partner wants to tell me, fine. but im not going to ask. im not a jealous person. maybe im an odd scorpio for that, but oh well. naturally, i'm going to do everything i can to please who im with, but im not in competition with their exes from the past. i can be the best my partner ever had without comparing what other people did to them. the egotistical shit is not necessary.

And that's your opinion Monica but it's not egotistical bullshit to me. If you were my partner id feel like you weren't interested me and didn't care enough to know. I ask becsuse I care enough to ask, wanting to be the best for her. After all it's all about her, she's the one I'm trying to please, nobody else. Every woman is different I want to know what she likes, specifically. And yeah I wanna know what she's been through. What made her the person she is today.

Sorry Mona not Monica *

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Posted by Vixen2
I can relate in the fact that being absolutely loved, cherished and having the utmost devotion and loyalty may ruin a woman by being loved by a Scorpio sun/Scorpio venus. It will most likely raise the relationship bar to maybe an untainable level to any other potential future mate..

To some females that complete devotion, slight possessiveness, dominate, that need to know but mysterious personality...is downright intoxicating and addictive. You never ever doubt where you stand in relationship with a Scorpio when the confess they are all in and that they love you...and that could be as short as a few weeks or maybe some months...but when it's on, it's on and you better fucking buckle up...

That level of intensity...I think you are always searching for it and if you don't have it...you feel like everything is pointless, boring, bland, numb...probably results in a lot of potentially good men to be let go because that level of intensity is just not found again like that in another and if it is found again...you are just maybe plain lucky.

So the divulging of info regarding past relationship details and the wanting to know of hers...is pretty sexy really. It's the bearing of one's soul and the accepting of another's. A complete trust and an extreme desire to have another know you...all of you...every detail.

Ahhh...late night romantic musings of a pisces chick...

*puts on rose colored shades and exits*

Wow you need to publish that somewhere, that's perfect. That's pretty much exactly how it is. It's in the past but it's never really in the past because every past encounter seems to shape our future, if only a little.

oh.
you don't know about Scorpio men and Pisces women yet?
lol...
😉

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I do not! But you seem to understand my way of thinking perfectly. I've never met anyone who can do that before. I'm impressed.

Posted by Vixen2
I can relate in the fact that being absolutely loved, cherished and having the utmost devotion and loyalty may ruin a woman by being loved by a Scorpio sun/Scorpio venus. It will most likely raise the relationship bar to maybe an untainable level to any other potential future mate..

To some females that complete devotion, slight possessiveness, dominate, that need to know but mysterious personality...is downright intoxicating and addictive. You never ever doubt where you stand in relationship with a Scorpio when the confess they are all in and that they love you...and that could be as short as a few weeks or maybe some months...but when it's on, it's on and you better fucking buckle up...

That level of intensity...I think you are always searching for it and if you don't have it...you feel like everything is pointless, boring, bland, numb...probably results in a lot of potentially good men to be let go because that level of intensity is just not found again like that in another and if it is found again...you are just maybe plain lucky.

So the divulging of info regarding past relationship details and the wanting to know of hers...is pretty sexy really. It's the bearing of one's soul and the accepting of another's. A complete trust and an extreme desire to have another know you...all of you...every detail.

Ahhh...late night romantic musings of a pisces chick...

*puts on rose colored shades and exits*

I think it's sexy as hell too!

Posted by MagicMona
pancake,

im not disputing your view on this. just with me personally, i've been down that road and it didnt end well. i called myself sharing my past and my ex got mad and refused to stop bringing it up. like it was a big surprise that i had past lovers. we both did. but my ex kept tripping over mine and became very insecure. when my ex tried to get intimate with me, it wasnt based on pleasing me, it was to prove something to sooth their own ego. so never again. im good with leaving the past in the past. just because im not interested in those kind of details doesnt mean im not interested in you period. im going to be the best because i take my time and explore on my own what my partner likes while introducing them to some skills that i have up my sleeve. a woman will tell you what she's been through, but i still think sexual topics dealing with exes are a bit too much. especially if it only makes you jealous. be the best on your own, dont treat it like some competition.

Yeah okay, that's fair enough. I understand what you're saying. Like I said though, it's all about my girlfriend. I get jealous in that sort of how could she love anyone other than me thing. But it doesn't actually bother me. I love her I wouldn't give her any trouble over it. I'm a secure person just curious that's all. Sorry you had to go though that, that sucks.

I want to know.

What a great question.

Depends on:
(1) Is this a new relationship?
(2) How old are they?
(3) Few more but blanking out

As I broaden my life in existence and maturity, I would at this moment say no. In the past I would probably say yes.

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Posted by Lilianni
I want to know.

be specific...what do you want to know, then they can answer! lol

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Lol. I want to know how many women he's been with, how many dates, how many one night stands, how many "flings/benefits", what the girls looked like, how old the girls were, how he met them, and if he still keeps in contact and is on good terms with them. I'd want to know when my guy's first sexual experience was, how it went, how many women afterwards, if he masturbates, how often he does it, what his favorite sexual position or favor is... And that's all I can think of for now. Lol. Oh what turns him on, what turns him off, the worst turn on he had, the best. If there is anyone he is still sexually or emotionally attached to. What that person did to him if he still is. I want to know if he ever experimented, if he's open to it, what he experimented with, and what's the farthest taboo he's tried.

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Posted by Lilianni
I want to know.

be specific...what do you want to know, then they can answer! lol

Lol. I want to know how many women he's been with, how many dates, how many one night stands, how many "flings/benefits", what the girls looked like, how old the girls were, how he met them, and if he still keeps in contact and is on good terms with them. I'd want to know when my guy's first sexual experience was, how it went, how many women afterwards, if he masturbates, how often he does it, what his favorite sexual position or favor is... And that's all I can think of for now. Lol. Oh what turns him on, what turns him off, the worst turn on he had, the best. If there is anyone he is still sexually or emotionally attached to. What that person did to him if he still is. I want to know if he ever experimented, if he's open to it, what he experimented with, and what's the farthest taboo he's tried.

😆 .... I like this girl!! Hahahahahaha..... I'm the same way! Just curious, really!

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Same lmfaooooo. I feel less weird now because she literally said the exact thing I always think lol.