Shook things up today

I shook things up today, getting tired of her actions not matching her words I think she is trying to see if she can control the friendship. She claims we are not friends, if that is the case why in the h*ll is she acting like a girl with a crush. Are scorpio woman scared to admit their feelings or realize they have feelings for a guy. For a woman that "supposedly" doesn't like me lets me touch her hands, be close to her those are not actions of a girl that dislikes a guy. A woman that dislikes a guy sure stares smiles and giggles a lot when she is around him what's with the dreamy look. Makes me wonder why she worked so hard to try get close to me if we are not "Friends". She does things to get my attention hmm if she doesn't want to be friends why does she do it. If a woman that doesn't want to be friends wouldn't you think she would avoid you like the plague.

Its good to get a Scorpio thinking when they say Scorpios are delusional its true they get in this little self-centered world knock them off their high horse. So what's with the Scorpio and the actions not matching the words her actions would be she likes a guy then she says the opposite.

I really don't want to cut her off if she is bluffing with this "Not friends" thing I will call her bluff and cut her off.

This will be my last post I have most of the pieces to the puzzle.

Last thread, my ass!

LOL

Posted by Stihl46
I shook things up today, getting tired of her actions not matching her words I think she is trying to see if she can control the friendship. She claims we are not friends, if that is the case why in the h*ll is she acting like a girl with a crush. Are scorpio woman scared to admit their feelings or realize they have feelings for a guy. For a woman that "supposedly" doesn't like me lets me touch her hands, be close to her those are not actions of a girl that dislikes a guy. A woman that dislikes a guy sure stares smiles and giggles a lot when she is around him what's with the dreamy look. Makes me wonder why she worked so hard to try get close to me if we are not "Friends". She does things to get my attention hmm if she doesn't want to be friends why does she do it. If a woman that doesn't want to be friends wouldn't you think she would avoid you like the plague.

Its good to get a Scorpio thinking when they say Scorpios are delusional its true they get in this little self-centered world knock them off their high horse. So what's with the Scorpio and the actions not matching the words her actions would be she likes a guy then she says the opposite.

I really don't want to cut her off if she is bluffing with this "Not friends" thing I will call her bluff and cut her off.

This will be my last post I have most of the pieces to the puzzle.

Puzzle?
You haven't discovered the Riddle yet, then the Enigma.

You'll be back.

Geez, do you promise?

As for the whole ridiculously one sided, obsessive, inappropriate mess you have going on, you are seriously asking why a woman who uses her bf for money, and brags about it, would also play hot/cold with a guy she's not dating?

Don't make me get the Bill and Ted voice out for you. 😛

Oh yeah.... it's all in your head.

I might not cut her off right away two can play at her game its funny how she likes the control. When I did ignore her she would get all butt hurt that I wouldn't talk to her.

Wondering why her actions don't match her words her actions are pretty strong towards being friends with a guy she acts silly around me.

I do have the pot stirred between them two he's feeing really insecure and I'm toying with her emotions I understand her more than he does. I do think it is good to kick a Scorpio off their high horse the only sign can do that is a Cancer.

My biggest thing is I don't want to hurt her she may act tough she is very soft I have seen her soft side.

I bet you say that to all the desperate and obsessed guys, whatu. 😉

Stihl43,


hahaha. for the meantime I must admit I did that to my ex libra man. I said things that did not match to my

actions. But yes, There is feelings within. and Once a scorpio woman keeps nagging... be thankful.

'cause after that if she still don't hear anything from you that make her to think about it then

you will hear no more. I must say, if you love her. tell her. don't be a coward.

Posted by jeannegrey
Oh jeez, he's back..... Mr. Firebird, I concur.

here, before—
Figures.

i'm sorry to 'drop' in like this, but you're a fine example why i can't stand male cancers. and i'm a pisces ffs! all the whining, the drama, the silly childish games...ugh! it's not that you really care about her, you just like playing the mind games. are you bored or something? find a real hobby, cuz messing with peoples emotions and mind isn't one. sheesh!

the sad thing is i know a guy that's this way. at first i wondered if it might be him posting here lol. he just sucks the life out of you once he opens his mouth. not cool

.... as my ex, albeit brief, Cancer boyfriend used to say, he's a 'lunchkit' (meaning stupid)in reference to the majority of the people he interacted with on a daily basis. I think our brief relationship lasted an extra week for the simple fact that I was dumbfounded yet fascinated by his ignorance.

Self-awareness goes a long way to ensuring you do not look like a fool. OP, your perception of things is amiss and my suggestion to you is to spend some time looking at things from a much different perspective, such as the example I have given.

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Posted by MoonArtist
I bet you say that to all the desperate and obsessed guys, whatu. 😉

Normally Id bat my eyelids and ask them to pay for the drinks.

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With the intense Scorpio eyes under the lashes, I doubt they refuse.

I guess scorpio women don't handle rejection well it is essentially what I did 14 months ago. She could have walked away and never spoke to me again. She had the chance to move in with her BF and never see me again she gave me some excuse she gave up the chance, never did tell the real reason.

I'm good at ignoring people, I ignored her she kept getting my attention. She was the one getting more friendly with me we are back to what it was like before I cut her off last year. I could have walked away but I seen she was being persistent I thought well I will give it a second chance I like her.

Really strange how a girl that says we're not friends when she treats me differently than other guys. We are back to the way we were before I "rejected" her.

I've seen her anger once already when I rejected her the first time what would she do if I did it the second time. I don't want to tree trunk with her feelings her body language doesn't lie. She doesn't hide behind her scorpio mask with me I see her emotions I see her true self. She doesn't act tough like she does with the others as I said before she is submissive with me.

I get the feeling she is lying that we are not friends why would she put so much effort into acting like one when she had her chance to walk away.

Yes she is worth it I seen her true self there is a girl with a warm heart. The guy she is with will never understand her like I will. If she truly loves this guy why does she keep pulling me back. If she loves him why would she turn down the chance to live with him.

Scorpio woman want to see if a guy will fight for them?

I'm not lying to myself she keeps coming back its been that way since we met. She knows what kind of women that come up and talk to me it makes her feel insecure. She is always trying to prove to me what she can do. I've seen her jealousy come out when I talk to women in front of her.

Women flirt with me a lot one of the guys I worked with said women sure stare at you a lot which they do. My female friends have told me I'm a very attractive guy. I'm not one of those metrosexual guy i don't dress like a hipster.

Considering she's bragging about using her bf for his money, maybe she really is that materialistic, and you can't afford her, but she likes to string you along for her own attention needs.

After reading everything he's written, I can surmise that he has never been laid or had a girl friend and he's using this as a means to "dream." No woman would approach a bitch like this. It's laughable.

Posted by Stihl46
I'm not lying to myself she keeps coming back its been that way since we met. She knows what kind of women that come up and talk to me it makes her feel insecure. She is always trying to prove to me what she can do. I've seen her jealousy come out when I talk to women in front of her.

Women flirt with me a lot one of the guys I worked with said women sure stare at you a lot which they do. My female friends have told me I'm a very attractive guy. I'm not one of those metrosexual guy i don't dress like a hipster.

The more you describe how "attractive" you are how much "women can't seem to get enough of you," the more I don't believe you. It's pathetic. Please stop.

Cancer men get gut feelings when I get those feelings they happen. I've never trusted this guy she is seeing he's told me some very disturbing stuff if I knew better I should have recorded it. He is hiding a past that would make any woman run he is tree trunking sick.

He has a severely violent temper he lets loose at a drop of a hat. That temper happens when he is feeling really insecure. My gut feelings are he's not going to be able to control his temper for much longer. He's been looking troubled for the last little while. My fear he will take his anger out on her he's bragged he will stab people with a knife. When you get warnings from other women about his violent temper it says something. Warnings to stay away from him because he is that nutty.

I always trust my intuition it never lies when I start getting the gut feelings something is going to happen it happens.

Seeing her get hurt by a man that is known to be abusive scares me.

^^This is probably the most coherent and more unselfish thing you've said.

Nothing I can do about it she doesn't believe me about his past. The more I piece things together I know he is a narcissist for sure. More I read about narcissism he is the poster boy. He was a charming man when he met her the perfect angel.

Oh Christ I just read something that gives me the shivers I just got my answer. I'm 100% sure her relationship is with an narcissist man and I hate to say it I feel her last relationship was the same.

Its like checking off a score card the traits of a narc and his traits.

Male cancers = emotional obsession about things they have no business being in 🙂

*I'm gonna get hate for that*

Posted by KVZZMIR11
You are jealous of the Gemini, admit it...

While you sit here typing these jealous-rage laden essays your nemesis is getting his cock sucked by every girl who's got you spinning on her pinky tip.

Of course you are mad.

I'm not jealous he doesn't know he is being used or if he does he's ignoring it. I know how much money he has spent on her all I can say is wow. It is a sore point with him when he gets teased about being used he complains now she is becoming really expensive.

The Gemini guy has the nick name loser by the girls he doesn't have a good reputation. I have said before I've been with him when he tries to flirt with them and they give him the look of back off. One of my Gemini female friends told him to Tree Trunk off she was angry he was trying to make the moves on her. My Aquarius friend she's very attractive she used to laugh when he started flirting she finally told him to tree trunk off. At a party a few years ago he was there the women ignored him he got mad and went home they wanted nothing to do with him. They were being pretty rude I have to say but they ignored him like he doesn't exist they didn't even want him there.

I make friends easily I'm a very approachable guy women have no problems coming up to me to talk. I go into the local places where women know me I can get them laughing, I used to be a contractor I delt with a lot of people a lot of widowed senior citizens. I was made foreman on jobs as I'm easy to deal with I work as a mediator. I had a guy say to me the other day boy a lot of people know you I looked at him and said ya and smiled. People that know me like talking to me I have a odd sense of humor I'm knowledgeable in many subjects, people ask me advice on how to do jobs.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
okay, I figured it out now.......

you played the....I-shall-reject-you-so-you-come-at-me-harder cancer game.

dude, that doesn't work with a scorpio woman.

she is being sincere with her actions.....she truly doesn't want you anymore. niceties are really just that, there are not any undertones.....and that is why she is enjoying her gemini so much....he *did not* play that stupid game with her.

that game is literally the kiss of death......so, next time, make sure you mean it.

Nope her original goal was to use the Gemini guy which she did she's even told me so she has no deep feelings for him. He isn't in her future plans which she's told me about if she really sees him as long term she would be talking about it the way he talks she isn't in his future plans either. You wonder who's playing who I know when she spends any length of time with him she wants to go home and be alone. She is pretty open when it comes to talking about her future plans like I said he's not included.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
can you even tell the difference between real live conversations the two of you had versus the ones you've had in your head?

When her and I talk to each other it is face to face she looks right into my eyes she smiles you wonder how her teeth don't dry out she smiles at me a lot. There are times she talks so quietly I can barely hear her the other times she can't help but giggle or just smile. She can't help not smile at me now I'm getting that dreamy look, or she stares its not out into space stare then she gives me a big smile. If she sees me while she's driving by she stares at me gives me a big toothy smile and waves her hand like crazy. We have the times together and stand close to each other in silence that's when I feel a calm rush over her and I. I find it cute when she starts giggling around me she laughs out loud around other guys I have never heard her giggle around other guys. When she smiles at me her eyes light up her pupils are starting dilate when she talking to me. She's fidgeting with her fingers I will reach over and grab her fingers or I will come up behind her and look over her shoulder and ask her what is she doing. She touches my hands I can feel her fingers are ice cold. She is a lot more nervous around me now.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
yep, you are jealous of the gem.

So damned obvious. I've noticed:

1) He talks nasty about the Gem. Tries to validate it by what other people say.
2) He shines his armour after that. Making a comparison between himself and the Gem.
3) He talks about 'moments' with the Scorp, trying to comfirm why she should be with him.
4) Rinse and repeat.

It's in all the threads he's started, this pattern.

People who aren't jealous usually don't care about the other person, they don't even care to talk about it.

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I'm not jealous but I don't want to see him get hurt either ya guys do stick up for other guys do stick together.

Omfg what is going on? This is such a soap opera now, I'm just waiting for the next episode.

Posted by Arielle83
Either you're in high school or you're one of those delusional guys who think they're nice but really the expect a whole lot in return

I don't expect anything in return just respect, ya she got me in trouble at work, never hurt a scorpios feelings or they will get revenge she wanted revenge. I learned what a scorned scorpio can do I have forgiven her for it I knew I screwed up. She's still holding a grudge over me for hurting her feelings. She will get revenge on her BF if he does something she doesn't like he's worried about that. I didn't realize her feelings for me were that strong.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
can you even tell the difference between real live conversations the two of you had versus the ones you've had in your head?

He can't even follow a simple discussion on this forum, I highly doubt he's comprehending the difference between his imaginary conversations and the real ones.

OP is playing himself.
Life is too short for this mess.

I haven't given up on life I'm having fun, enjoying feeling healthy I eliminated the stress from my life and I'm getting my body back like I used to have, life is good.

Posted by KVZZMIR11
You are jealous of the Gemini, admit it...

While you sit here typing these jealous-rage laden essays your nemesis is getting his cock sucked by every girl who's got you spinning on her pinky tip.

Of course you are mad.

The gem is probably getting some while this clown looks up narcissism in his room, convinces himself that every girl likes him and masturbates with his own tears.

Posted by Stihl46

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
can you even tell the difference between real live conversations the two of you had versus the ones you've had in your head?

When her and I talk to each other it is face to face she looks right into my eyes she smiles you wonder how her teeth don't dry out she smiles at me a lot. There are times she talks so quietly I can barely hear her the other times she can't help but giggle or just smile. She can't help not smile at me now I'm getting that dreamy look, or she stares its not out into space stare then she gives me a big smile. If she sees me while she's driving by she stares at me gives me a big toothy smile and waves her hand like crazy. We have the times together and stand close to each other in silence that's when I feel a calm rush over her and I. I find it cute when she starts giggling around me she laughs out loud around other guys I have never heard her giggle around other guys. When she smiles at me her eyes light up her pupils are starting dilate when she talking to me. She's fidgeting with her fingers I will reach over and grab her fingers or I will come up behind her and look over her shoulder and ask her what is she doing. She touches my hands I can feel her fingers are ice cold. She is a lot more nervous around me now.

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...really? Her eyes dilate when she looks at you...? As in, you're literally shining so bright you're giving off light that's causing her eyes to noticeably dilate right before your eyes? And she has hands that are "ice cold." It sounds to me like you've been reading to much Twilight. Your not girlfriend sounds a lot like Edward. Is your not girlfriend Edward?

More questions,

What's with the facade Scorpio woman use they want to appear nothing is wrong? She doesn't hide that around me she can be in a bad mood or feeling really upset. When somebody else comes around its like she can flip a switch and she's cheerful. Soon as we are alone again she flips the switch off.

Any time some body is with us she will have her mask on soon as the other people leave her mask comes of. There are times she will hide behind me and let me deal with the others.

I know when she is feeling down or upset when she gives me the look I will rub her arm or her shoulders. She hides her emotions so well from others. I will whisper in her ear and ask her if she is okay when others are around. She will look at me when she doesn't want anybody to see her face or when she feels like she is about to cry she will hide it.

When she is angry with somebody she walks away she doesn't show it she will vent around me. When she's angry with me she lets loose.

As I have said before when I first met her I pulled her back from the edge she felt life wasn't worth living. She was having some issues going on in her life.

It was the 3rd day in our friendship the scorpio mask came off and never has went back on when her and I are alone. Funny how fast she can take the mask on and off. If she is standing alone and I see her from a distance she's got the mask off soon as somebody comes around the mask is on. You can see it in her facial expression and her eyes that's how I know.

this thread is starting to look like Santa Barbara (old tv soap) 😄

Posted by Stihl46
More questions,

What's with the facade Scorpio woman use they want to appear nothing is wrong? She doesn't hide that around me she can be in a bad mood or feeling really upset. When somebody else comes around its like she can flip a switch and she's cheerful. Soon as we are alone again she flips the switch off.

Any time some body is with us she will have her mask on soon as the other people leave her mask comes of. There are times she will hide behind me and let me deal with the others.

I know when she is feeling down or upset when she gives me the look I will rub her arm or her shoulders. She hides her emotions so well from others. I will whisper in her ear and ask her if she is okay when others are around. She will look at me when she doesn't want anybody to see her face or when she feels like she is about to cry she will hide it.

When she is angry with somebody she walks away she doesn't show it she will vent around me. When she's angry with me she lets loose.

As I have said before when I first met her I pulled her back from the edge she felt life wasn't worth living. She was having some issues going on in her life.

It was the 3rd day in our friendship the scorpio mask came off and never has went back on when her and I are alone. Funny how fast she can take the mask on and off. If she is standing alone and I see her from a distance she's got the mask off soon as somebody comes around the mask is on. You can see it in her facial expression and her eyes that's how I know.

You're such a hero! #sarcasm

As a scorpio, there's nothing more offensive than a male cancer like stihl46 who has imaginary conversations in their mind about me (no im not the scorpio he's referring to thank god) but ya I toooooooooooooooooooootally love delusional and batty men.

Totally beats a gemini!

Posted by Stihl46
More questions,

What's with the facade Scorpio woman use they want to appear nothing is wrong? She doesn't hide that around me she can be in a bad mood or feeling really upset. When somebody else comes around its like she can flip a switch and she's cheerful. Soon as we are alone again she flips the switch off.

Any time some body is with us she will have her mask on soon as the other people leave her mask comes of. There are times she will hide behind me and let me deal with the others.

I know when she is feeling down or upset when she gives me the look I will rub her arm or her shoulders. She hides her emotions so well from others. I will whisper in her ear and ask her if she is okay when others are around. She will look at me when she doesn't want anybody to see her face or when she feels like she is about to cry she will hide it.

When she is angry with somebody she walks away she doesn't show it she will vent around me. When she's angry with me she lets loose.

As I have said before when I first met her I pulled her back from the edge she felt life wasn't worth living. She was having some issues going on in her life.

It was the 3rd day in our friendship the scorpio mask came off and never has went back on when her and I are alone. Funny how fast she can take the mask on and off. If she is standing alone and I see her from a distance she's got the mask off soon as somebody comes around the mask is on. You can see it in her facial expression and her eyes that's how I know.

Sounds like you and her have some pretty good girl time together. Cute.

LOL @ shurikan.

Nice one 🙂

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Posted by Hotbeefy

GIFSoup

THERE.

LMAO!!! SMH, so wrong... wrong wrong wrong...

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Lmao! And here I thought the butter was going to be for popcorn! The door's open guys, this movie is too good to watch alone.

PS I love how Stihl's met ONE Scorpio and thinks he can write the book on them...but then immediately follows the statements with "I had no idea..."

"Which way did he go, George, which way did he go?"

Posted by IAmMystified
LOL @ shurikan.

Nice one 🙂

🙂

Stihl, meet SCORIOGYRL. SCORPIOGYRL, meet Stihl. I think you would be a great match

Posted by Lovable
Stihl, meet SCORIOGYRL. SCORPIOGYRL, meet Stihl. I think you would be a great match

HAHAHA yes!

Her chart is

Moon Virgo
Mars Libra
Pluto scorpio
Saturn scorpio
Venus Libra
Mercury Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Jupiter Aquarius
Rising Capricorn

Me
Moon Taurus
Mars Leo
Pluto libra
Saturn Leo
Venus Cancer
Mercury gemini
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Jupiter Taurus
Rising Aquarius

TachiMichi must be on the rag lol

Posted by Stihl46
Her chart is

Moon Virgo
Mars Libra
Pluto scorpio
Saturn scorpio
Venus Libra
Mercury Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Jupiter Aquarius
Rising Capricorn

Me
Moon Taurus
Mars Leo
Pluto libra
Saturn Leo
Venus Cancer
Mercury gemini
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Jupiter Taurus
Rising Aquarius

1. Libra parts: she just want to be nice and fair to all.
2. Earth parts: she does not want to throw things away. They may serve one day.

wow, you still standing in the storm.

You may be known for your strength and stamina. Then again we have something called time.

Posted by Stihl46
Her chart is

Moon Virgo
Mars Libra
Pluto scorpio
Saturn scorpio
Venus Libra
Mercury Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Jupiter Aquarius
Rising Capricorn

Me
Moon Taurus
Mars Leo
Pluto libra
Saturn Leo
Venus Cancer
Mercury Gemini
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Jupiter Taurus
Rising Aquarius

@Steel, it could be helpful to check the degrees of your Mercury and Neptune. They may build an opposition.

If so then google a little on "Mercury neptune Opposition natal". Here I have some lines from
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/mercuryneptuneaspects.html for you:

Mercury square or opposition Neptune
... Your thinking is exceptionally imaginative, intuitive, and creative. Stretching the truth, whether done consciously or not (or a bit of both), is associated with this position. Bored with anything dull, routine, or lifeless, you often dramatize or connect higher meaning to ordinary events and situations... you resist being pinned down to any one opinion or stance. This is partly due to your ability to see so many different points of view and perspectives. Logical, detail-oriented work and studies are not designed for your way of thinking and learning. Creative presentations, ripe with images and imagery, are what grab your attention and interest. Your style of communication, or possibly thinking, is often self-defeating, and you should consciously avoid a tendency to give up on projects or plans before they even get off the ground. Planning ahead is not a preference, as you prefer to move along running on the fuel of inspiration and intuition.
...
As a child, you enjoyed daydreaming, fantasizing, pretending, and probably lived in "your own little world" a good deal.
Communication with others is difficult for you because you often find words frustrating and inadequate to express your experiences and perceptions. Also, you may purposefully mystify or deceive others... However, you must learn to discriminate between a true psychic perception and your imagination...

Some Famous People with the Mercury in Hard Aspect to Neptune: Bob Dylan, Jack London, Christian Dior.

@Steel, have you seen the movie "Into the Wild"? That guy Christopher McCandless had this square. Nept/Sc/26?? and Merc/Aqua/29??.

Posted by Whatu
Sthil bro how many times a day do you jerk off?

He'll answer you when he's done jerking it and reading about narcissism through his tears.