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Understanding Why Some Signs May Seem to Dislike Scorpio
Some signs may perceive Scorpio as intense or emotionally distant, leading to misunderstandings. Compatibility varies based on individual personalities and emotional needs. Building mutual understanding and communication can improve relationships with other signs. Remember that astrology offers general insights, but personal connections depend on many factors beyond sun signs.
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It's because you're all about negative energy and people have enough stress in their lives to deal with emotionally draining folks.
"virgo men are not humans"
"Sag mom is bothering me"
+ what you added in the OP of this topic.
Keeping the moaning confined to the bedroom might help.
You're already miserable so you can safely check that off your bucket list, might make a shot at not being alone (nothing wrong with being alone if you enjoy your company).
Oh, only talking about you here. Not all Scorpios, I get along with most.
Well we are loyal and what I had to learn is the people that don't stick around doesn't mean us any good. Anybody I kicked out my life or left even when I was the nicest caring person has demons that are beyond you. What's for you will be with you just thank for your blessings on rather having someone around who are equally loyal and caring no not people that take advantage of your loyality.
Don't question anything negative that walk out of your life. You are probably drawn to negative people and overlooked positive people.
Posted by Damnata
It's because you're all about negative energy and people have enough stress in their lives to deal with emotionally draining folks."virgo men are not humans"
"Sag mom is bothering me"
+ what you added in the OP of this topic.
Keeping the moaning confined to the bedroom might help.
You're already miserable so you can safely check that off your bucket list, might make a shot at not being alone (nothing wrong with being alone if you enjoy your company).
No one knows anything about how I feel about him,I hate complaining in real life,I hate to adjust someone attitude,if I dont like the way it is I leave but not after 1 or 2 month..its after a long period when I feel theres no hope,they r weird they attract you at the beginning by how nice they are then they completely change so you say for urself its ok they will get back to who they are but you wait a very long time while they neglect,hurt you,they show you to fk off so you do nothing but fking off because that's what they want..about complaining and moaning here..im trying to understand im not complaining..and I have never complained from a person in his face..I feel like they will say if you dont like the way it is go..do I dont actually complain, you took it wrong
Posted by Impulsv
Awww u just exposed urself that's courage.
no.....its not
Posted by TachiMichi
sou desu...
maybe you attract
the wrong people.
everyone does not
hate scorpios.
when it comes to it,
the sign is not
being looked at.
rather, it is the
attitude and personality.
like attracts like.
Yes, THIS!! +100
Yes, but they give us ninjas, anime, and freaky octopus sex, I think we can live with that.
Posted by KsamCancer
Scorpios just wanted to be hated, but the truth is youre not 😛
Are you trying to steal my scorpios? Huh?? HUH?! Are you?!! 😉
Posted by lololala
Why do I feel like other signs hate us?, we r not number 1 for anyone..I have always heard people complaining from us, except cancers who r too emotionally and have this weird mentality that make me the scorpio afraid and not wanna stick around..I dont know if its me or all of us guys, but I dont have many friends and the people who I love to stick around dont want me and they all tend to change after one year relationship..like virgo,libra,aries,gemini and of course aqua..they show hate,they dont wanna stick around or not amused by my personality...and im too No for water signs like cancer and Pisces they are too emotional,they know nothing but love and real closness that I dont like..also us scorpios we do not attract yes we are great friends together but cant have a love relationship together..everyone tend to leave me or make an attitude that I hate for a really long period that I say fk it I cant take it anymore they show hate so I have to leave..im afraid I ll end up alone or miserable
Just curious, lola... where's your Moon?
I don't get the feeling were hated by other signs. I think that other signs envy us... cause I know I wouldnt want to be anything but a SCORP. We're often misunderstood. Don't feel like an outcast because your circle is small... we tend to be highly perceptive and intuitive so we see things in others on sight. Positive or negative, real or fake. Call it a gift and a curse. Sometimes I can be a bit standoffish but that's because I like to observe and assess the situation or group or situation before I interact. It's ok to separate yourself and keep your circle small--period.
Posted by KsamCancer
Scorpios just wanted to be hated, but the truth is youre not 😛Are you trying to steal my scorpios? Huh?? HUH?! Are you?!! 😉
Lol Scorpios are my favorite 🙂 Entire family of them but I like Cancers just as much
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Gotta love how most water signs feel like home. 🙂
Posted by KsamCancer
Scorpios just wanted to be hated, but the truth is youre not 😛Are you trying to steal my scorpios? Huh?? HUH?! Are you?!! 😉
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Welllll, shucks, sheesh and golly! 😆
Posted by TachiMichi
Moonartist,
LMAO.if one cannot
have a sense of
humor, then what
is the point of
living? 😄
Exactly! If we don't laugh, we'll cry. 😛
How can anyone hate a sign that is loyal till death? (once we've put a little flame under you to see how you handle it, then just to be sure a little more flame to see if you're still there, and a little more flame to check to see why you're still there, and maybe just a bit more because we need to be sure sure, sure ... ) what's a little fire between friends anyway...pffft 😏
Posted by FixedWater
How can anyone hate a sign that is loyal till death? (once we've put a little flame under you to see how you handle it, then just to be sure a little more flame to see if you're still there, and a little more flame to check to see why you're still there, and maybe just a bit more because we need to be sure sure, sure ... ) what's a little fire between friends anyway...pffft 😏
Is that why I feel like a boiled crab 🙂 she doesn't use a little flame either. She took the flame away when I begged her to stop then I started to fight fire with fire we called truce.
lol everyone doesn't hate you. I think all signs have their fair share of love and hate.
Posted by stillwat3r
Because scorpio are manipulative, vindictive backstabbers who wouldn't be able to tell friend from foe if it hit them in the face.*blows kisses*
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Lol
Posted by AirMan
wow. and i thought Gemini is the sign known to be hated on. this a new one on me. *smh*Was just about to say the same. Gems and well probably every other Air sign... Mostly Gems though. But Scorps have a bad rep too. Gem & Scorp, probably the least understood signs of'm all, people hate what they can't understand. But I love you Scorps and all your quirks, wouldn't want to live in a world without you, even though you drive me mad from time to time as I'm sure I do the same to you. 😉
dude what is you talkin about? scorpios are strong. their not half as weak as we are. they have what i want, DOMINANCE. all it takes is for them to utilize their dominance and the world will be their oyster. Gemini on the other hand ain got that. while people hate us, people are afraid of scorpios.
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+1
Posted by DarkFire
Scorpio'sHmmm... I looked at your chart, since you said you relate to Scorps the best. Leo with scorp moon... I see.
Posted by jeannegrey
First of all, you won't be alone.Secondly, other signs don't hate us. A lot of people love us!! In fact, a lot of my pisces and cancer friends say they prefer scorps??_
Third, your astrological make-up and sun sign has absolutely no bearing whatsoever on whether you will be alone. 🙂
yeah thats what im saying why are we only loved by water signs ?..like cancer and pisces but they r scaring me, cancer is a stalker and get himself into things thats none of his business beside he takes no for an answer which bothers me and they also not all of them make you feel guilty, pisces is a cheater and he may show you endless love but you r not alone in his heart
Posted by KVZZMIR11
I don't hate you guys.
As matter of fact most my friends are Scorps IRL.
I can get along just fine even though Astrologers state something different.
whats your sign ?
Posted by Octoberbaby91
Well we are loyal and what I had to learn is the people that don't stick around doesn't mean us any good. Anybody I kicked out my life or left even when I was the nicest caring person has demons that are beyond you. What's for you will be with you just thank for your blessings on rather having someone around who are equally loyal and caring no not people that take advantage of your loyality.Don't question anything negative that walk out of your life. You are probably drawn to negative people and overlooked positive people.
when im going to find positive people ?..why in the past 15 years i hadnt felt im number 1 to someone..all i feel is shallow love in friendships and relationships
Posted by djbuck1
OP, you are the one who is dissmissive of your fellow Water Signs because they can't meet your standards. I am well aware of Scorps who relish being alone and miserable. It is not that the other signs hate you. You have chosen to shut everyone out with an inflated sense of superiority. And I assure you, with all our native love of Scorps, no Fish will accept that.Your issue is with what lies within, not with the acceptance of others.
i wont dismiss someone until he or she dismissed me or become abusive...im searching for good relationships
like a man in the desert searching for water..water signs are too emotional
Posted by stillwat3r
Because scorpio are manipulative, vindictive backstabbers who wouldn't be able to tell friend from foe if it hit them in the face.
i guess you r talking about scorpios who were born in october lol..but we have a little trust issue yes
Posted by lololala
Why do I feel like other signs hate us?You're kidding? 😱 With all the ass kissing given towards Scorpio placements online, you still feel that Scorps are hated? Astrologers especially seem to love Scorps. **Shrug**
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they know we r sht so they try to compliment us..
Posted by AirMan
wow. and i thought Gemini is the sign known to be hated on. this a new one on me. *smh*
lol no gemini is loved by everyone..i see it..i love gemini but geminis dont love me
Posted by AirMan
wow. and i thought Gemini is the sign known to be hated on. this a new one on me. *smh*Was just about to say the same. Gems and well probably every other Air sign... Mostly Gems though. But Scorps have a bad rep too. Gem & Scorp, probably the least understood signs of'm all, people hate what they can't understand. But I love you Scorps and all your quirks, wouldn't want to live in a world without you, even though you drive me mad from time to time as I'm sure I do the same to you. 😉
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true...what drives you mad from us ?
Posted by KVZZMIR11
I don't care if people hate me.If I sense hate or any disrespect I just show them the door.
GET OUT! No disrespect intended.
on long term you will end up alone just like me
Posted by AirMan
wow. and i thought Gemini is the sign known to be hated on. this a new one on me. *smh*Was just about to say the same. Gems and well probably every other Air sign... Mostly Gems though. But Scorps have a bad rep too. Gem & Scorp, probably the least understood signs of'm all, people hate what they can't understand. But I love you Scorps and all your quirks, wouldn't want to live in a world without you, even though you drive me mad from time to time as I'm sure I do the same to you. 😉
dude what is you talkin about? scorpios are strong. their not half as weak as we are. they have what i want, DOMINANCE. all it takes is for them to utilize their dominance and the world will be their oyster. Gemini on the other hand ain got that. while people hate us, people are afraid of scorpios.
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why do they get afraid ? we r like the cutest sign ever who wont do a thing
Posted by KVZZMIR11
Why does this thread exist?Because LOLaaaa is bored, and he/she wants to strike controversy.
It is a Fixed Sign thing.
We make our own Rules, and if people won't adhere by them we feel "hated."
im not bored im searching for answers..i wanna be normal..last line you wrote is perfectly true
Posted by Impulsv
Most people irl don't know my sign n they love me lol
Some fear me it's ok. But if a stranger hears I'm A scorp they literally crossed the finger in a cross as if I was a vampire. Silly it's ignorance my dear.
i can relate
Posted by scorchedearth
aqua, if you talk a bunch of shit and are always negative people aren't going to want to be nice to you. no one likes a drama queen. the thing is though if you fight a lot or make trouble you need to be able to handle the consequences of that and not victimize yourself. you start a bunch of shit then you don't need to cry about how everyones mean to you and doesn't understand you.
scorpios are not drama queens..every bad sht we own in our personality is hidden.. we must show people we r gods
but still they dont like us
Posted by TachiMichi
sou desu...
maybe you attract
the wrong people.
everyone does not
hate scorpios.
when it comes to it,
the sign is not
being looked at.
rather, it is the
attitude and personality.
like attracts like.
its not that simple..
Posted by KsamCancer
Scorpios just wanted to be hated, but the truth is youre not 😛
i guess we are only loved by cancers
Posted by eight67530nine
I like most of the scorps
whats your sign ?
Posted by lololala
Why do I feel like other signs hate us?, we r not number 1 for anyone..I have always heard people complaining from us, except cancers who r too emotionally and have this weird mentality that make me the scorpio afraid and not wanna stick around..I dont know if its me or all of us guys, but I dont have many friends and the people who I love to stick around dont want me and they all tend to change after one year relationship..like virgo,libra,aries,gemini and of course aqua..they show hate,they dont wanna stick around or not amused by my personality...and im too No for water signs like cancer and Pisces they are too emotional,they know nothing but love and real closness that I dont like..also us scorpios we do not attract yes we are great friends together but cant have a love relationship together..everyone tend to leave me or make an attitude that I hate for a really long period that I say fk it I cant take it anymore they show hate so I have to leave..im afraid I ll end up alone or miserableJust curious, lola... where's your Moon?
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moon in libra
Posted by SCORPIOGYRL
I don't get the feeling were hated by other signs. I think that other signs envy us... cause I know I wouldnt want to be anything but a SCORP. We're often misunderstood. Don't feel like an outcast because your circle is small... we tend to be highly perceptive and intuitive so we see things in others on sight. Positive or negative, real or fake. Call it a gift and a curse. Sometimes I can be a bit standoffish but that's because I like to observe and assess the situation or group or situation before I interact. It's ok to separate yourself and keep your circle small--period.
i know all of these are blessings to know who really loves and hate you but im sure that not a single sign except cancer wanna spend the rest of his life with us without having regrets tht he could have been with someone better
Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
I feel like that too sometimes. But I don't think it's a Scorp thing...more of an individual thing. Sometimes I feel loved and sometimes I feel like an outcast. Depends on the day.
me too, still if you told me who will stand with you in bad times or who will still be with you after 10 years from now..i will tell you no one
Posted by FixedWater
How can anyone hate a sign that is loyal till death? (once we've put a little flame under you to see how you handle it, then just to be sure a little more flame to see if you're still there, and a little more flame to check to see why you're still there, and maybe just a bit more because we need to be sure sure, sure ... ) what's a little fire between friends anyway...pffft 😏
i tried to be loyal to a libra..friendship loyalty he is a guy..what i got is he didnt respond my calls or ask about me for 2 month..so i cut him out of my life..not just him but also a scorpio guy..i feel like most of the signs wait till we get weak so they can hurt us with no mercy
Posted by fishinamaize
lol scorpios are such silly creatures. one of my long lost scorpihos returned to me tonight. as they tend to do when they get drunk and realize they've been missing their fishy 😛so we're going on skydiving-followed-by-beer-date in 2 weeks.
whats your sign ? i tried going back to friends they refused by not responding
Posted by DarkFire
Scorpio's
we are everywhere
Posted by Mscorp
Those who hate you don't hate them back,
just torture them,skin them,give them slow painful death.
😄 😉
i do that by going away but i think they like it lol
Posted by lololala
Why do I feel like other signs hate us?, we r not number 1 for anyone..I have always heard people complaining from us, except cancers who r too emotionally and have this weird mentality that make me the scorpio afraid and not wanna stick around..I dont know if its me or all of us guys, but I dont have many friends and the people who I love to stick around dont want me and they all tend to change after one year relationship..like virgo,libra,aries,gemini and of course aqua..they show hate,they dont wanna stick around or not amused by my personality...and im too No for water signs like cancer and Pisces they are too emotional,they know nothing but love and real closness that I dont like..also us scorpios we do not attract yes we are great friends together but cant have a love relationship together..everyone tend to leave me or make an attitude that I hate for a really long period that I say fk it I cant take it anymore they show hate so I have to leave..im afraid I ll end up alone or miserablei fucking hate you! you fucking loser.
happy now?
self-fullfilling-prophecies....they take you by surprise even when you're like kind of expecting them....
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scorpios only feel happy when they have 😉
Posted by ScorpioStarGazer
I feel like that too sometimes. But I don't think it's a Scorp thing...more of an individual thing. Sometimes I feel loved and sometimes I feel like an outcast. Depends on the day.me too, still if you told me who will stand with you in bad times or who will still be with you after 10 years from now..i will tell you no one
we are built to *need* no one.
having someone is a bonus....it's not an entitlement.
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but i need one..is that because of my libra moon ?
Posted by FixedWater
How can anyone hate a sign that is loyal till death? (once we've put a little flame under you to see how you handle it, then just to be sure a little more flame to see if you're still there, and a little more flame to check to see why you're still there, and maybe just a bit more because we need to be sure sure, sure ... ) what's a little fire between friends anyway...pffft 😏i tried to be loyal to a libra..friendship loyalty he is a guy..what i got is he didnt respond my calls or ask about me for 2 month..so i cut him out of my life..not just him but also a scorpio guy..i feel like most of the signs wait till we get weak so they can hurt us with no mercy
I think you need to check your ego.
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they think they hurt us but that doesnt mean we get hurt by the degree they are thinking of..
i dont check my emotional needs until its too late that im going through depression..thats when i am falling apart and all the scorpio ego and god rules falls a little and i begin to show love for those who hate me..after calculations that i wont make myself look like a btch..i dont do things spontaneously
Posted by lololala
Why do I feel like other signs hate us?
Cause they do.
Posted by djbuck1
OP, you are the one who is dissmissive of your fellow Water Signs because they can't meet your standards. I am well aware of Scorps who relish being alone and miserable. It is not that the other signs hate you. You have chosen to shut everyone out with an inflated sense of superiority. And I assure you, with all our native love of Scorps, no Fish will accept that.Your issue is with what lies within, not with the acceptance of others.
Impressive answer. I like that.
Posted by stillwat3r
Because scorpio are manipulative, vindictive backstabbers who wouldn't be able to tell friend from foe if it hit them in the face.
If someone hits me in the face, I tend to lean more towards foe, personally.
Posted by FixedWater
How can anyone hate a sign that is loyal till death? (once we've put a little flame under you to see how you handle it, then just to be sure a little more flame to see if you're still there, and a little more flame to check to see why you're still there, and maybe just a bit more because we need to be sure sure, sure ... ) what's a little fire between friends anyway...pffft 😏
That explains all the warm fuzzies 😆
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Why do I feel like other signs hate us?, we r not number 1 for anyone..I have always heard people complaining from us, except cancers who r too emotionally and have this weird mentality that make me the scorpio afraid and not wanna stick around..I dont know if its me or all of us guys, but I dont have many friends and the people who I love to stick around dont want me and they all tend to change after one year relationship..like virgo,libra,aries,gemini and of course aqua..they show hate,they dont wanna stick around or not amused by my personality...and im too No for water signs like cancer and Pisces they are too emotional,they know nothing but love and real closness that I dont like..also us scorpios we do not attract yes we are great friends together but cant have a love relationship together..everyone tend to leave me or make an attitude that I hate for a really long period that I say fk it I cant take it anymore they show hate so I have to leave..im afraid I ll end up alone or miserable