Since the Virgo's won't help me out.

Have any of you scorpio men lost your Virgo and successfully got her back?

Thanks, but how do I recover from the damage I've caused with all my games and tests? She sees right through my Scorpio tricks and thinks I'm a manipulator!

Virgo Lady here!!! And, I'm not certain what games and tricks you've played but... What I can say is that Nuerotoxin is 100% right!! If she hasn't already decided that she is done... Go back to her.. Be honest with her!! ADMIT that you where playing games... Tell her why you where playing games and testing her... Because OH, she WILL want to know why... The key to a virgo woman is being 200% honest and genuine... Don't just tell her.. Show her!! Like Nuero said... Your actions must match your words... That is a MUST.

Once you explain to her everything you did and admit that you know she knew the whole time what you where up to... Tell her what you want and don't hesitate to follow up with what you say... If she tells you she is no longer into it... Accept it... Because us virgo's say what we mean and mean what we say. We don't take kindly to games and manipulation or lies... Because we view that as insulting our intelliegence. Never... I mean NEVER lie to her and think she has bought if... Even if she accepts it... Deep down she can spot a lie like a black cloud in a blue sky... Lmao!!!

Just keep it real and tell here how you feel... Be sure what you want, don't switch up on her as it takes a very looooooong time for us to build trust. And, once that trust is broken... It's next to impossible to gain it back!!!

Good Luck because once you have her!! She will be yours forever if it's REAL!!

The manipulation was to control the relationship, not to hurt her. I was upfront and honest with my intentions. The tests were to see if she could be trusted. My actions were all out of fear. I wonder if she will ever give me another chance. All I can hold onto is that she still communicates with me.

Say it to her just like that and it will melt her heart.. Not the control thing... But the fear part will show her you feared her departure... Virgo's are very understanding... However we cannot be controlled... We don't need to be... Because we are loyal to a fault!! We will follow our lover to the depths if hell if it is REAL love or something real... The key is if its early in the romance take it slow and keep it real... No games. Because games will make us question you as in your entire being or character... Virgo's take all that into account!!!

Hey Virgo lady thanks for your input. What set me off from the beginning was her hesitance to agree to a committed relationship. I had never been in a relationship with a Virgo until her. I had no idea how slow you Virgo's moved. Us scorpios are fast and often impatient. I took this hesitance as she was interested in someone else and my jealous suspicious side took over. I ended up invading her privacy. I looked through her phone. I didn't find any solid evidence but enough to keep me suspicious. Anyways I am an honest man and I told her that I had done that. That was how I broke her trust. She forgave me and I never did it again, but a few months later she ended things with me. She says she doesn't want a relationship or to date anyone period at the moment. I've written heartfelt apologies and have tried every thing I can think of to get her to believe in me. She never gives me straight answers. It's always you never know what are future may hold or I don't know what I want. She still talks to me. Is that a good sign? Do you think I have a shot?

That is spot on and I feel the same about my Virgo.

Omg goawd! Never knew tracking women with devices was so widespread...

Hey girls, strip yourselves from GPS and disable track location on your smartphones.!

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AND FOR GODS SAKE DO NOT GO THROUGH HER PHONE AND SHIT!!!

So I should stop paying the PI to follow her as well? What about the GPS trackers installed in her purses? Are those out too?

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Awwww! This was done to me by my ex Cap, the moment I learn about it, the more I went to those places that will drive him nuts!!!
Lmao! I know he will confront me and I was too excited for the confrontation!


Anyways OP listen to the advises here and we did help you on your post on Virgo board 😛

HAHAHAH i laughed at the topic name when i saw that most of the answers are posted by virgos here lmaooo

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Sneaky cat 😛

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Awwwwwwwwww i love that cat !!! 😄 No its very dark looking...gotta be a Scorp


haha

Cute—LOoool!!!

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Condom hunter!

Steve Irwin?

Sting?


































(Ok, maybe that was a bit harsh:/😛)

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Woah that's a lot of space wasted!!!

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Condom hunter!

Steve Irwin?

Sting?



































(Ok, maybe that was a bit harsh:/😛)

Woah that's a lot of space wasted!!!

How so?

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hahahaha,it will take us only one comment to jump up to the next page of the topic 😛

oh and sorry i ruin it the topic 😢

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oh and sorry i ruin it the topic 😢

You haven't ruined anything.

Proceed as you were.

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excuse me 😭

As a Virgo female... I can say once we're done, we're done. No going back. Games and manipulation? Not cool. I'd rather someone say "I dont trust easily so I might test you".. that'd be just fine with me. But, most people aren't like that.

It's all about what's in her head. I'll bet she's already decided if you're getting another chance or not.

In reality, the Virgos gave you valuable information ..... but, you refuse to accept this, apparently, since you came over here and lied.

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I knew almost instantly that this woman is who I want to spend my life with. I fell hard and fast. Once I started to express this she started to pull away. I finally got my way and got her to commit to a relationship.

She was still talking to other guys and I became very jealous and made accusations and assumptions. I kept testing her loyalty and kept questioning her about a this guy who was constantly texting her. Needless to say I drove her nuts.

I finally gave up and promised to drop this behavior. Then things got really good. I felt secure, felt I could trust her. I couldn't be happier.

A few months go by and then over night she's ice cold. She was stressed out and depressed about a lot of things in her life.

Then she had a breakdown one day. I couldn't cheer her up like I normally can. I am frustrated and worried at this point and gave her a hard time for not meeting my needs.

She then breaks up with me.

I spent a good month trying to convince her to stay with me. Then another month blaming her for all the pain I was feeling over this.

You're a terrible boyfriend ... it's doubtful that any woman, of any sign would put up with you for long

Wow that's a little harsh. First off I didn't lie about anything. Secondly most of my exes would disagree with that statement. Yes I have some serious trust issues after being cheated on 3 relationships in a row. The third being my wife of 8 years. Now I had never dated a Virgo before this woman. I had no clue at how slow they move. I move very fast. A couple of the Virgals have given me some great advice and I am paying attention to them!

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Wow that's a little harsh. First off I didn't lie about anything.

Yes, you did, you came over here and said you didn't get any help on the Virgo board.

that's a lie

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Yes I have some serious trust issues ....

and that makes you a terrible boyfriend .... you then go on to state that these issues come from past relationships, while the other side of your mouth is trying to state that those relations would testify that you're a good boyfriend.

that's talking out of both sides of your mouth

You had prior relationship issues and now using how those didn't turn out regarding trust (being cheated on) as a justification to project onto this new girl YOUR trust issues.

She didn't do anything .... you projected YOUR trust issues onto her anyway, and then proceeded to accuse her of being untrustworthy.

That's fucked up ..... and any woman should probably run the fuck away from a man like you ... and I hope they do for their own sake.

P-angel, when I posted over here the Virgo's hadn't given much response. They've since been helpful. Yes the trust issues don't make me a good boyfriend. I do have a lot of other qualities that do. I have been reading books on these issues and speaking to a therapist. I do not like the way it makes me feel nor the behaviors that come with it. I was upfront about these issues with my Virgo and expressed the fears I had in getting close to her. Fear has a lot of power over me and is hard to overcome. I don't think this makes me a bad man. I won't give up on her. I just need to learn to do things differently.

I didn't say you were a bad man .... I said you were a bad boyfriend

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I was upfront about these issues with my Virgo and expressed the fears I had in getting close to her.

What was the reason for you to tell her that?

Were you attempting to relieve yourself from any responsibility? Because if she had taken this in gracefully, then what would be your incentive to fix yourself?

that's like saying to a new guy ..... I've fucked 47 men, just so you know, a couple when I was married to my second husband


Do you think me telling him that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is going to set well? do you think that if he says okie dokie, then I'll stop being so free with my pussy?


The only reason you would tell a new girlfriend that you have a trust issue .... is so that when you project onto her this problem you have, you will be expecting her to accept it.


Bullshit .... the Scorpio Trust issue is extreme, and they don't seem to mind that they fuck people up with it. I got into a short conversation just the other day with a female Scorpion in dxp and she denied this was present ...


... but, it's present ... front and center in nearly all of their relationships.


The fact that YOU have an issue isn't her responsibility to accept/tolerate so you can feel better about yourself. If you want to be that Man, then fix yourself without having a crutch of another person to carry your feelings for you.

This is why Pisces cannot relate well with Scorpions as partners ... we simply cannot handle a person NOT being emotionally strong.