Thanks

I learned a lot from the feed back I've gotten from you guys it was info about Narcissism that I found really interesting, when I started looking into it and for the record I'm not a narcissist.

The Gem guy that is seeing my Scorpio friend is an narcissist that scares me because he will have no qualms of hurting her. I've known this Gem guy long enough I had lots of time to observe his traits he has all the traits of a narcissistic man. It confirms what I heard he is verbally abusive to women it explains his violent temper it explains 99% of his behavior that now I put my finger on it. He thinks its okay to be verbally abusive to women, I get the feeling he's threatened girls they are scared to say something. His Narcissistic personally explains why he changed into a different man when he met my scorp friend. It is his violent temper that scares me he will hit her hell he gets mad and starts kicking walls and throwing stuff what says he won't hit her. The way he is acting now is when he can't control his temper.

I'm I going to walk away from her? NOPE, actions speak louder than words she wouldn't be acting the way she is around me if she didn't want me close. Are Cancer's protective? Yes, I'm I pyscho no, I'm I obsessive, no not really. Her and I may not be in a relationship you don't walk away from a girl that is with a guy that is hiding his true self I think she is seeing his true side now. Earlier in the year I seen bruises on her I wondered how she got them she isn't clumsy, around that same time she was with me I could tell something was wrong she wouldn't say. After I read about narcissistic men I have my answers.

I worked in one of the most dangerous professions in the world I'm not a guy you want to mess with. There won't be much left of that Gem guy if he gets physically abusive to my Scorpio friend.

Very interesting.

Posted by LetltB
Very interesting.

I learned a lot from the feed back I've gotten from you guys it was info about Narcissism that I found really interesting, when I started looking into it and for the record I'm not a narcissist.

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I worked in one of the most dangerous professions in the world I'm not a guy you want to mess with. There won't be much left of that Gem guy if he gets physically abusive to my Scorpio friend.

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Yep... interesting.

For the record, a narcissist would never realize, much less acknowledge, that they were a narcissist.

Posted by phEnyxBull876
For the record, a narcissist would never realize, much less acknowledge, that they were a narcissist.

Are you a narcissist?

Why do I get the feeling that the Gem, Scorp and Cancer are all tubbies working in the basement of windowless, government archives building.

You should get out and take more walks during your lunch break

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Posted by phEnyxBull876
For the record, a narcissist would never realize, much less acknowledge, that they were a narcissist.

Are you a narcissist?

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A square is always a rectangle, but a rectangle is never a square.

Wow. So glad you have it all figured out. This is only the 5th or 15th time you've repeated your epithany

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Bruises don't always have to mean abuse tho...

Being a Scorpio she's into aggressive sex, and Gemini is serving it to her!

Jeezus.

Lol... That was fucked up!

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Posted by phEnyxBull876
For the record, a narcissist would never realize, much less acknowledge, that they were a narcissist.

Are you a narcissist?

A square is always a rectangle, but a rectangle is never a square.

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heh heh, that answers my question.

I used to do land clearing go in and drop the trees I don't do it anymore had my life flash in front of my eyes. You do that kind of work you become strong as an ox I haven't lost my core strength from doing the work. You need be strong a power saw will injure or kill you the job itself is fatal if you make a mistake.

The bruises I seen on her were not from having fun, I asked her where they come from she would have laughed if it was from having fun no she was giving me the serious look. I know this Gem guy has serious anger issues the stuff he's described to me in vivid detail a person would be joking it would have a joking tone to it. He likes to see things die he gets a thrill out of it, he has a thirst for seeing blood it makes me think you are one sick puppy. I know why I got warned by the girls to stay away from him. The man is one sick tree trunk he hid all that from her I don't think he's told her what he's told me.

After I read about Narcissistic men I'm 99% sure he is one I've observed his traits long enough I observed his relationship it has all the traits of a woman with a Narc man. Narcissistic men are deeply insecure which he is, hell when women come up and tell you he is insecure. I read Narc relationships can turn abusive. Men that create abusive relationships doesn't fly with me any verbal or physical abuse to women makes me angry. I have stepped in between a guy yelling and being verbally abusive to a woman of course the guy gets all huffy but backs off when he doesn't intimidate me. Only weak men abuse women because they have no b*lls. I have had guys try intimidate me I seen the ones that are weak at schit they back right off.

I trust my intuition its saying don't walk away from her just yet she needs you, I always listen to my intuition it has saved my bacon many times. I get that feeling something is going to happen, he can't control his anger for much longer he's going to get abusive. If I'm still in the picture he may not get physical he knows I will beat him so bad he wouldn't be walking.

Is she a guardian angel? Hell no she is Narcissistic too I compared the traits to her she isn't as narcissistic as he is. Are they feeding off of each other? Most likely will it end up her getting hurt physically? yes.

Will I walk away? not yet, there are still feelings between her and I, a woman wouldn't act the way she does with a guy if she didn't have some feelings. She isn't faking it I've seen her flirt with other guys. I'm

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I'm not oblivious to what's going on I'm getting my answers, I'm thanking you guys for giving me the narcissist info its giving me the explanations to his and her behavior.

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Posted by phEnyxBull876
For the record, a narcissist would never realize, much less acknowledge, that they were a narcissist.

Are you a narcissist?

A square is always a rectangle, but a rectangle is never a square.

heh heh, that answers my question.

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I guess that makes you Echo! Please, tell me more.

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Where is she bruised up from?

His ego. Oh, where is SHE bruised up from? My bad.

This thread took a turn

Posted by Kim31
This thread took a turn... for the better!!!

Fixed

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Posted by Kim31
This thread took a turn... for the better!!!

Fixed

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cute

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Posted by KVZZMIR11
Where is she bruised up from?

His ego. Oh, where is SHE bruised up from? My bad.

Has anyone asked if it was on her thigh yet?

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lol I thought that thread would last forever

I'm glad I started reading about narcissistic men in relationships I have my answers I don't feel sorry for the Gem guy now he deserves what he gets. I know now why he has such a bad reputation with the woman that know him. I have an idea where his narcissism stems from he's described his child hood, I know why the girls call him a big baby. Gives me the answer why he is verbally abusive to women. I get the feeling her last boyfriend was the same type of guy a sad sack of schit, I've only heard little bits and pieces about him. I don't like guys that verbally/physically abuse woman that is weak man behavior it doesn't fly with me.

My intuition is saying don't leave her side yet I was thinking about it until I started reading about narcissistic men it changed my mind. Once she dumps this guy I will move on, I know she will be safe I don't ever want to see her hurt. Scorpios are stubborn she thinks she can handle things on her own she's not handling this on her own.

Posted by Stihl46
I'm glad I started reading about narcissistic men in relationships I have my answers I don't feel sorry for the Gem guy now he deserves what he gets. I know now why he has such a bad reputation with the woman that know him. I have an idea where his narcissism stems from he's described his child hood, I know why the girls call him a big baby. Gives me the answer why he is verbally abusive to women. I get the feeling her last boyfriend was the same type of guy a sad sack of schit, I've only heard little bits and pieces about him. I don't like guys that verbally/physically abuse woman that is weak man behavior it doesn't fly with me.

My intuition is saying don't leave her side yet I was thinking about it until I started reading about narcissistic men it changed my mind. Once she dumps this guy I will move on, I know she will be safe I don't ever want to see her hurt. Scorpios are stubborn she thinks she can handle things on her own she's not handling this on her own.

Maybe Gem and Scorp girl like kinky sex and he's giving it to her. Are you one of those guys that watch from the closet? Are you jealous of gem because you wish he'd give you sex bruises to you?

Are you a closet creeper. Do you have something called a creeper cam

Are you hating on this guy becuase you are a narcisist. After all narcissists are denial that they are narcissists and you are probably jealous becuase you want to be the only shallow self righteous person in her life.

As a scorp, I believe the creeper cam situation more than anything else I typed.

I hope all of it is ringing a bell.

BTW, its a crime to stalk chicks.

All of the posts by the OP reminds me of the cancer who is obsessed with me. He is messed up in the head to the point where it is disturbing.

Leave the girl alone. You sound delusional. You're not her keeper and she can make whatever choices she wants to without having you approve of them.

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Posted by Stihl46
I'm glad I started reading about narcissistic men in relationships I have my answers I don't feel sorry for the Gem guy now he deserves what he gets. I know now why he has such a bad reputation with the woman that know him. I have an idea where his narcissism stems from he's described his child hood, I know why the girls call him a big baby. Gives me the answer why he is verbally abusive to women. I get the feeling her last boyfriend was the same type of guy a sad sack of schit, I've only heard little bits and pieces about him. I don't like guys that verbally/physically abuse woman that is weak man behavior it doesn't fly with me.

My intuition is saying don't leave her side yet I was thinking about it until I started reading about narcissistic men it changed my mind. Once she dumps this guy I will move on, I know she will be safe I don't ever want to see her hurt. Scorpios are stubborn she thinks she can handle things on her own she's not handling this on her own.

Maybe Gem and Scorp girl like kinky sex and he's giving it to her. Are you one of those guys that watch from the closet? Are you jealous of gem because you wish he'd give you sex bruises to you?

Are you a closet creeper. Do you have something called a creeper cam

Are you hating on this guy becuase you are a narcisist. After all narcissists are denial that they are narcissists and you are probably jealous becuase you want to be the only shallow self righteous person in her life.

As a scorp, I believe the creeper cam situation more than anything else I typed.

I hope all of it is ringing a bell.

BTW, its a crime to stalk chicks.

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No I dislike this guy because he's verbally abused my other female friends, he's got a bad reputation if I was a little more aware he wouldn't be employed, he's said things that could get him in big trouble. Kinky sex I doubt he probably can't even get it up pretty sure he has some blood pressure issues some days he looks like hell.

I care about her I couldn't give a schit about him I don't want to see her get hurt I'm watching out for a friend. Cancer men have good intuition when I get bad gut feelings from a person I know something is wrong I don't trust him.

Posted by Scenic
All of the posts by the OP reminds me of the cancer who is obsessed with me. He is messed up in the head to the point where it is disturbing.

Leave the girl alone. You sound delusional. You're not her keeper and she can make whatever choices she wants to without having you approve of them.

I'm not delusional I don't trust the guy she is with especially now the way he is acting the man's insecurities are acting up when they do he starts losing his temper. This man has anger issues he loves killing things. When you have man that has described killing things in vivid detail its not normal I know many people that hunt he's beyond that. He says the sight of something dying excites him. I get gut feelings from people when they start acting differently than normal I notice it. My gut feelings and intuition are pretty accurate when I feel something bad is going to happen it happens.

Posted by Whatu
Cancer men are pussys.

I'm not a pussy and I never will be, the guy my Scorpio friend is seeing is scared of me funny thought he was tough flexing his muscles then I flexed mine. I like shaking his hand I can hear his dainty little fingers cracking.

Saying you're not delusional would not make anyone believe contrary, especially since delusional people don't know that they're being delusional. They have a strong belief and they'll stick with it despite any evidence against it. Would you believe the girl if you asked her where her bruises came from and she had a different answer than abuse? I would think not. You appear to have a strong emotional attachment to this girl. I would suggest putting up some boundaries. As I said before, you do not have control over her choices. If you don't like them, you need to respect her wishes. It appears from your posts that she is on a different frequency than you in regards to guys as shown by your statement that she has dated guys you didn't like in the past, as well. Not only does this mean you two want different things in a relationship (meaning, you are not right and she is not wrong), this furthers my belief that you're delusional. If that comment bothers you, maybe you should try to actually talk to this girl. Ask her what she likes and dislikes about the guy. Preferably with her mentioning the dislikes first, so you can attempt to pay attention and remember the good things instead of discarding them since they don't fit your own beliefs of the guy. The purpose of this is to see if there's any signs that he may be abusive. If she says he throws things around when he's angry or gets really violent (not angry), then that may be an issue. Hear it from her. Remember, behind closed doors, people usually act a bit differently and more open. Also, say that you're worried and want to know where her bruises came from. Do this after you ask about his personality. If, in her answers, everything seems fine, leave it at that. Stop obsessing over her and her decisions. As I said, what you say has an uncanny resemblance to another delusional and mentally unstable man I know. If that doesn't make you pause at all, then that is a problem. Anywho, you seem to truly believe he's abusive and since you're not attempting to get any answers from her and instead living in your own hatred and ideas about him, things could get ugly down the road. What if one day something he does sets you off? You talk about your muscles like you're ready to use them. With all the dislike you have for him and negative assumptions, I can see you beating the guy half to death, or worse. Jail time sounds like a worse option than talking to her and getting her professional help if she needs it. If you're tr

If you're truly worried about her safety and not your own selfish desires and beliefs, then one of those would stand out as the obvious best road to go and it's not the first one. Either way, you should get this out of the way and get rid of whatever emotional attachment you have that says you can make her decisions for her because that's fucked up.

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Posted by Whatu
Cancer men are pussys.

I'm not a pussy and I never will be, the guy my Scorpio friend is seeing is scared of me funny thought he was tough flexing his muscles then I flexed mine. I like shaking his hand I can hear his dainty little fingers cracking.

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Yes you are.

Cancer men who stalk scorpio women are pussies

heh heh 🙂

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Posted by Whatu
Cancer men are pussys.

I'm not a pussy and I never will be, the guy my Scorpio friend is seeing is scared of me funny thought he was tough flexing his muscles then I flexed mine. I like shaking his hand I can hear his dainty little fingers cracking.

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So, you guys stand in front of each other and flex and then you tightly hold hands. So... you're a pussy and you're gay. Check.

Maybe he really likes the Gem guy since he's talking about him alot!

Guys like being guys when he was flexing his muscles he thinks he's tough it makes him feel good. I have a good explanation of his behavior, I wouldn't hit him I don't believe in violence, I've been taught self defence thou.

I'm a happy man I have my health back I'm getting my body back I once had, life is good. As for my Scorpio friend she can follow me if she wants I go on my own I keep pushing forward she's going to realize the guy she will never be happy with an insecure man.

Still wondering why she came back she could have walked away from me and never talked to me again she had her chance of never seeing me again and moving in with her BF. She sure has strange behavior for a girl that has a BF.

Posted by Stihl46
Guys like being guys when he was flexing his muscles he thinks he's tough it makes him feel good. I have a good explanation of his behavior, I wouldn't hit him I don't believe in violence, I've been taught self defence thou.

I'm a happy man I have my health back I'm getting my body back I once had, life is good. As for my Scorpio friend she can follow me if she wants I go on my own I keep pushing forward she's going to realize the guy she will never be happy with an insecure man.

Still wondering why she came back she could have walked away from me and never talked to me again she had her chance of never seeing me again and moving in with her BF. She sure has strange behavior for a girl that has a BF.

I think you are just hurt. Admit it. Accept it. Embrace it. then be healed.

pain is just temporary.

Posted by Stihl46
Guys like being guys when he was flexing his muscles he thinks he's tough it makes him feel good. I have a good explanation of his behavior, I wouldn't hit him I don't believe in violence, I've been taught self defence thou.

I'm a happy man I have my health back I'm getting my body back I once had, life is good. As for my Scorpio friend she can follow me if she wants I go on my own I keep pushing forward she's going to realize the guy she will never be happy with an insecure man.

Still wondering why she came back she could have walked away from me and never talked to me again she had her chance of never seeing me again and moving in with her BF. She sure has strange behavior for a girl that has a BF.

~rolls eyes~ You just keep telling yourself that.

I was hurt when she started seeing this guy that was over a year ago then I realized he's getting used that's when I tried going my separate ways then she turned vindictive. I probably should have cut her off completely when I seen her come back.

I've got my revenge she knows I'm a more attractive guy that the guy she is seeing he's changed since she met him, his looks have changed, his confidence is gone he's totally changed his whole image was a fa?ade. Women probably look at her and think what does she see in him she's very pretty and attractive and he's not. He wasn't bad looking when he first met her he was doing something to keep himself healthy and in shape now he's given up.

Women can see if a man is confident he doesn't exude confidence walking with hunched shoulders and head down. When he talks its so fast you can barely understand what he is saying. When he met her he hid all this insecurities, hid his former self everything I seen when I met him he hid from her.

Its my revenge she is dating a guy that is totally fake, pretty sure she is seeing it now 😄

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
is this the normal protocol when cancers break up with someone and their ex-partner (seemingly happily) moves on?

NO! This is the protocol of a delusional person who is not capable of moving on. Also, he's obsessed, stuck on himself, and annoyingly redundant. I'm officially revoking his Cancer card. He has to pick another sign. We don't want him. In fact, I'm making him an honorary Virgo.

I will always be a cancer man 🙂

If she was truly happy with her BF she wouldn't be acting the way she is with me. I don't think he is that happy either. I may talk about walking out of her life I won't I know there is still feelings between us.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
is this the normal protocol when cancers break up with someone and their ex-partner (seemingly happily) moves on?

NO! This is the protocol of a delusional person who is not capable of moving on. Also, he's obsessed, stuck on himself, and annoyingly redundant. I'm officially revoking his Cancer card. He has to pick another sign. We don't want him. In fact, I'm making him an honorary Virgo.

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+1000000000

Either A. you want to be a Cancer so you can psych yourself into thinking youre compatible with her, and youre bipolar. B. Non of this is real and youre stuck in the Matrix. C. Youre writing a fictional book and you want to see if it would interest people, so youre making dxp members the test victims. or D. ALL THE ABOVE.......GOT DAMMIT MAN WAKE THE FUCK UP GO TORTURE ANOTHER GROUP! I hate I read any of your threads, now Im stuck in hopes that you will STOP and talk about something new. Geeessshhh

My mother is a Virgo but that really doesn't count I don't really know any Virgo males to compare myself too, I know I'm getting roasted about something I don't know about 🙂

I'm a Cancer man my feelings run deep, I'm not a sissy like Cancer men are portrayed it maybe because of my Taurus moon.

Have to laugh I was in a local restaurant today the waitress is flirting with me ya I know they are after tips. Its not un-common for waitresses to flirt with me I observe them with other guys my age the waitress isn't flirting. I'm pretty direct when I speak it probably catches women off guard, I usually have in mind what I want to eat.

I want you guys to keep in mind I will never be cruel to my Scorpio friend, she's still a little bitter about me hurting her feeling in 2013 I guess when they say Scorpios never let go of a grudge its true.

Posted by Stihl46
I will always be a cancer man 🙂

If she was truly happy with her BF she wouldn't be acting the way she is with me. I don't think he is that happy either. I may talk about walking out of her life I won't I know there is still feelings between us.

Nope, your card has been revoked, and a different sign has been issued. I, Pirate Sun Goddess do decree it so. So it shall be. We've also taken the crab shell back, and you get this hand mirror, instead.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
is this the normal protocol when cancers break up with someone and their ex-partner (seemingly happily) moves on?

NO! This is the protocol of a delusional person who is not capable of moving on. Also, he's obsessed, stuck on himself, and annoyingly redundant. I'm officially revoking his Cancer card. He has to pick another sign. We don't want him. In fact, I'm making him an honorary Virgo.

Poor Virgos 😢

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I think the Virgos can do something with or to him.

Posted by Stihl46
My mother is a Virgo but that really doesn't count I don't really know any Virgo males to compare myself too, I know I'm getting roasted about something I don't know about 🙂

I'm a Cancer man my feelings run deep, I'm not a sissy like Cancer men are portrayed it maybe because of my Taurus moon.

Have to laugh I was in a local restaurant today the waitress is flirting with me ya I know they are after tips. Its not un-common for waitresses to flirt with me I observe them with other guys my age the waitress isn't flirting. I'm pretty direct when I speak it probably catches women off guard, I usually have in mind what I want to eat.

I want you guys to keep in mind I will never be cruel to my Scorpio friend, she's still a little bitter about me hurting her feeling in 2013 I guess when they say Scorpios never let go of a grudge its true.

You have a cow heart....that explains much. I'll still give you to the Virgos. No crabs for you!

Posted by Stihl46
My mother is a Virgo but that really doesn't count I don't really know any Virgo males to compare myself too, I know I'm getting roasted about something I don't know about 🙂

I'm a Cancer man my feelings run deep, I'm not a sissy like Cancer men are portrayed it maybe because of my Taurus moon.

Have to laugh I was in a local restaurant today the waitress is flirting with me ya I know they are after tips. Its not un-common for waitresses to flirt with me I observe them with other guys my age the waitress isn't flirting. I'm pretty direct when I speak it probably catches women off guard, I usually have in mind what I want to eat.

I want you guys to keep in mind I will never be cruel to my Scorpio friend, she's still a little bitter about me hurting her feeling in 2013 I guess when they say Scorpios never let go of a grudge its true.

Stihl46,

That's your taurus moon. You have a hard time to let go even you know it's over and you accept it.

because if you don't accept you still have time to reconcile it before you drag yourself this way.

Taurus moon can't talk their feelings out. I am sick also to this kind. My ex has a taurus moon. lol.

Posted by Whatu
I want to kill you.

Don't hold back now! Tell us how you really feel.

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Posted by Kim31

Posted by Whatu
I want to kill you.

Don't hold back now! Tell us how you really feel.

And you!

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😢

Posted by TachiMichi
I.I.I.I.
me. me. me.
I.I.I.I.
me.me. me.
SHUT
THE F# $ K
UP.

hey there, BabyMama

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can we move this
heap of trash off
of the scorpio page?
our board is not about
him. where are the mods?

put it on the cancer
page. far at the end.
bury it so it can die
already.

whoa, wait a minute! Not one to argue with pregnant women but there's no way this motherfucker is coming to crab board with his shit. Nope. Not happening.

Awww poor little guy! Yeah, we can't have this bastard upsetting the little boomer!
He can say he's a crab all he wants but he's still not coming. Ask Firebird to start a Boiling Pot petition.

Pull out the Old Bay and throw his ass in.

He has a taurus moon? Wow. That may help explain the similarities between him and the crazy guy I mentioned. Cancer/taurus seems to be a problematic combo.