Scopio's What do you on your birthday?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by chococream on Thursday, November 6, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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@chococream
13 YearsScorpio

I just dont know what to do with my birthday nextweek. Being alone in the world and doesnt have relatives in the same country anymore. Most of the friends have moved to other side of the world.

Feels like not wanting to stay in doors on this day? what do you do on your birthdays?

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@wagtail
13 Years5,000+ Posts

I love all those ideas CC!
And choco, cool idea I got from this Scorp board just a little while ago- day spaaaaa!!
Facial, massage, pedi and then take yourself OUT! Pamper yourself if you can afford it 🙂 hair done, nails done, new outfit x
And happy birthday sweets

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@insertyourquarters
13 Years

I'm not doing anything myself (9 nov) after the 3 week horrible holiday I had.

CC has the right idea just do something for yourself. Whatever that makes you happy or feel like you. You have life that is worth celebrating.

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@chococream
13 YearsScorpio

Just feels lonely actually... Last 2 years was hazing having someone with u now I'd just be alone. I'll think about the spa day whole day though.

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Same goes for holidays. You treat it like any other day. Perhaps just visit a rest home. Awful lot
of elderly who are in that same circumstance, forgotten by their families, if they ever had one
of their own. Pretty sad.

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I WILL have to warn against "doing for yourself" - what can happen is you slowly sink into
a state of selfishness you become unable to see that you are in. - You blame the world, you
isolate, you go solitary. The ultimate expression of "FREEDOM" is life smothering BLACK loneliness.

I know. I've been there. No fun. Potentially deadly.

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@chococream
13 YearsScorpio

Posted by MrFirebird
I WILL have to warn against "doing for yourself" - what can happen is you slowly sink into
a state of selfishness you become unable to see that you are in. - You blame the world, you
isolate, you go solitary. The ultimate expression of "FREEDOM" is life smothering BLACK loneliness.

I know. I've been there. No fun. Potentially deadly.

I think I'm already in the dark side at the moment... Been 3 weeks really... Waiting to finish getting out yet.

Still not happy on my birthday and its my favourite day of the year 😄