MrScorp
@MrScorp
13 YearsScorpio
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The lonelyness
omg. scorp men are so judgemental, it really pisses me off. i'm not that way for sure but have been on the receiving end. i was seeing a scorp for a couple of months or so and on two occasions..the last being the final time...he stopped talking to me completely until i forced him to tell me why. on both occasions he said it was because he had heard something about me he didn't like and that he didn't want to be 'associated with someone like that'.
the first time, he gave me a grovelling apology and i saw him again and made him apologise another time asking him to explain fully what he'd been told and why he didn't have the decency to even discuss it with me. i told him i didn't want to be with someone who judged me based on what he heard in a fucking bar i've never even been to by someone i've never even met!!! like i say the first time, grovelled. the second time, i didn't and won't give him the chance.
it's a bad thing to be like that and spoils your chances of something really special...especially with a female scorp, cos there's an understanding between the two that doesn't exist with other sign combos.
it's a bad thing for YOU btw. as a woman on the receiving end, i personally don't give a crap what you think! your loss mister!
the first time, he gave me a grovelling apology and i saw him again and made him apologise another time asking him to explain fully what he'd been told and why he didn't have the decency to even discuss it with me. i told him i didn't want to be with someone who judged me based on what he heard in a fucking bar i've never even been to by someone i've never even met!!! like i say the first time, grovelled. the second time, i didn't and won't give him the chance.
it's a bad thing to be like that and spoils your chances of something really special...especially with a female scorp, cos there's an understanding between the two that doesn't exist with other sign combos.
it's a bad thing for YOU btw. as a woman on the receiving end, i personally don't give a crap what you think! your loss mister!
also, you don't need to feel lonely...even if you are alone. it's a state of mind and that means it's something that YOU can alter. chill out. relax. when you don't go looking, things come lookin for you.
and i fucking hope that's true for my sake too, lol.
and i fucking hope that's true for my sake too, lol.
I am judgemental yes, but this is something I am also very careful with. I am still learning about people and life and I will make mistakes but above all I do want to learn and gain experience!
Do you think Scorp/Scorp works R1go?
Feeling lonely is a state of mind yes, but I do get into the habit of it! Maybe after having a good relationship my negativity of finding someone who understands me will be less powerful.
Do you think Scorp/Scorp works R1go?
Feeling lonely is a state of mind yes, but I do get into the habit of it! Maybe after having a good relationship my negativity of finding someone who understands me will be less powerful.
well, you're already making the mistake of thinking that you will resolve your feelings of loneliness through someone else. you've got to sort your own head out. you experience what you radiate...law of attraction...whatever populist bollocks you want to call it....the fact is that if you feel lonely and can only imagine feeling lonely and without someone who really understands you...that is EXACTLY how you will remain.
scorp/scorp as with most other same sign combos have the potential to be truly wonderful. my ex husband aries is now with another aries and he's a changed man...he's nice now, lol!
but the problem with scorp/scorp is that the man is judgemental and the woman naturally secretive and the combination of the two is a total nightmare unless he can become less judgemental and she can become more open and communicative.
it's like all relationships. it's a two way street. you shouldn't be looking for someone to understand YOU. you should be looking to be IN a relationship where you understand EACHOTHER.
sorry for the words in caps btw, so very american and reminiscent of a sales letter but it's just to emphasise the words.
scorp/scorp as with most other same sign combos have the potential to be truly wonderful. my ex husband aries is now with another aries and he's a changed man...he's nice now, lol!
but the problem with scorp/scorp is that the man is judgemental and the woman naturally secretive and the combination of the two is a total nightmare unless he can become less judgemental and she can become more open and communicative.
it's like all relationships. it's a two way street. you shouldn't be looking for someone to understand YOU. you should be looking to be IN a relationship where you understand EACHOTHER.
sorry for the words in caps btw, so very american and reminiscent of a sales letter but it's just to emphasise the words.
Argh! Your right R1go! Annoyingly so too! I don't like to be told i guess?
I must come accross as quite selfish and self centred, i don't know i am doing it which is bad! If i fully understood myself then maybe i'd be less inclined to think this way?
The nail took a hit on the head when you said i should be looking for a relationship where each other are understood.
Yes, i do need to sort my own head out! I think i lack the composure and self belief in order to actually be comfortable alone, single, by my self...whatever you want to call it.
Also, i fully stand by the phrase? saying? Whatever it is...that when you stop looking you will find! If that helps at all?
Coming from the likes of me...probably not!
R1go...when you said bollocks i knew you were from the other side of the pond! haha. 🙂
I must come accross as quite selfish and self centred, i don't know i am doing it which is bad! If i fully understood myself then maybe i'd be less inclined to think this way?
The nail took a hit on the head when you said i should be looking for a relationship where each other are understood.
Yes, i do need to sort my own head out! I think i lack the composure and self belief in order to actually be comfortable alone, single, by my self...whatever you want to call it.
Also, i fully stand by the phrase? saying? Whatever it is...that when you stop looking you will find! If that helps at all?
Coming from the likes of me...probably not!
R1go...when you said bollocks i knew you were from the other side of the pond! haha. 🙂
let's face it....you just wanna get laid! the associated feelings of loneliness...they're just a bi-product of sexual frustration. you're a guy at the end of the day....you know where your thoughts are coming from and it aint the upper body 😉
Haha. R1g your so blunt!
Yes I am frustrated, but I think I am the 'feeling' kind of bloke or "pussy" as most call it and I'm worried I'll get attached.
I'll never know if I don't give it a go though, I have been proved wrong many times before and I might just surprise myself!
Yes I am frustrated, but I think I am the 'feeling' kind of bloke or "pussy" as most call it and I'm worried I'll get attached.
I'll never know if I don't give it a go though, I have been proved wrong many times before and I might just surprise myself!
I typed pu**y instead of "kitty" !!!
yeah, yeah...wussy i call it. pussy was kinda wrong and kitty even worse. get a grip man!! you can still have an 'emotional' kind of experience without having to follow through with a relationship. specially scorps. get yourself out there and shake it all about.
trust me. you'll feel fabulous for it 😛
trust me. you'll feel fabulous for it 😛
what i'm talking about is purely casual of course. you only get attached if there's a long winded attraction and build of sexual tension. i'm talking one night stands. you're in england after all. i can't tell you how famously easy english girls are considered to be in continental europe. indulge. get that load off your chest...and shoot the load.
yeah, i'm blunt btw. what's the point in being otherwise?
yeah, i'm blunt btw. what's the point in being otherwise?
I'm with R1g completely on this one, tho I am guilty of it too.
I've done the whole bit where because I'm lonely I'll try to force myself to make guy friends look good to me. Never works out in the end.
Why do you guys have to be so nit-picky tho? That's how it was with the last scorpio I was with and now look where he is... sniffing around again. I just stopped trying to know what you guys are up to and just started enjoying myself again like a sag ought to.
True understanding is key here and in any situation. That and a confidence in your own self before you go finding someone else 😉
I've done the whole bit where because I'm lonely I'll try to force myself to make guy friends look good to me. Never works out in the end.
Why do you guys have to be so nit-picky tho? That's how it was with the last scorpio I was with and now look where he is... sniffing around again. I just stopped trying to know what you guys are up to and just started enjoying myself again like a sag ought to.
True understanding is key here and in any situation. That and a confidence in your own self before you go finding someone else 😉
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
let's face it....you just wanna get laid! the associated feelings of loneliness...they're just a bi-product of sexual frustration. you're a guy at the end of the day....you know where your thoughts are coming from and it aint the upper body 😉
It's not just guys.....
I feel lonely all the time
its hard to find a person worth feeling for
its hard to find a person worth feeling for
Couldn't agree with meeow more.
what i'm talking about is purely casual of course. you only get attached if there's a long winded attraction and build of sexual tension. i'm talking one night stands. you're in england after all. i can't tell you how famously easy english girls are considered to be in continental europe. indulge. get that load off your chest...and shoot the load.
yeah, i'm blunt btw. what's the point in being otherwise?
R1g...You are a good looking woman, i am a frustrated man, talking about loads being shot doesn't help my current situation! but maybe that is your plan...making me more frustrated would pretty much force me to go out and 'shake it all about' Or have i thought about that too much?!
Where abouts are you then? (Don't think about that too much! lol) I feel like i jumped the gun when i said 'across the pond' now.
Yes the girls are considered 'easy' here but the ones who are worth the time and effort aren't! Listen to Mr perfect over here eh! I know i know! :p
People worth feeling for do exist! My last girl was a ray of light that i needed. She restored some faith that had wandered.
Don't look for it! That's y advice, seems to go against the grain i know, but it worked for me. 🙂
yeah, i'm blunt btw. what's the point in being otherwise?
R1g...You are a good looking woman, i am a frustrated man, talking about loads being shot doesn't help my current situation! but maybe that is your plan...making me more frustrated would pretty much force me to go out and 'shake it all about' Or have i thought about that too much?!
Where abouts are you then? (Don't think about that too much! lol) I feel like i jumped the gun when i said 'across the pond' now.
Yes the girls are considered 'easy' here but the ones who are worth the time and effort aren't! Listen to Mr perfect over here eh! I know i know! :p
Posted by meeow
I feel lonely all the time
its hard to find a person worth feeling for
People worth feeling for do exist! My last girl was a ray of light that i needed. She restored some faith that had wandered.
Don't look for it! That's y advice, seems to go against the grain i know, but it worked for me. 🙂
i'm in sunny spain and believe me the english girls here are worse than the english girls there! even scarier is that the older they get, the worse they become!! it's fornication central here!! i live like a nun of course, comparatively but nevertheless others seem to want to live their lives precariously through mine by inventing the most bizaare rumours about me. if they were true i would be utterly exhausted but extremely wealthy...it's been suggested i'm a porn star...an online hooker...a gold digger (that made me LOL as i have never dated anyone rich)...oh yeah and a marriage wrecker, amongst other things. all without leaving my house! incredible! even my facebook pictures are either of me in my lounge or on my terrace or in the garden..i don't know where they get this stuff from!!
but anyway, i digress. i just think you should generally loosen up about whether you're with someone or not. you probably don't know this but after a few years into a relationship, you can sometimes forget that you're still an individual cos you end up in what i used to call 'the velvet rut' where it's all very nice and cosey but lacks a certain je ne sais quoi.
so you should embrace your single status cos you're young and spare yourself the velvet rut for a few years yet if you've got any sense!!!
i was trying to remember when i'd been to cambridge cos i know i did once. i remember now. it was a meeting at an insolvency practice when a business i had at the time went tits up. nice place..the town at least cos that's all i really saw. not as knobby as i thought it might be, lol.
but anyway, i digress. i just think you should generally loosen up about whether you're with someone or not. you probably don't know this but after a few years into a relationship, you can sometimes forget that you're still an individual cos you end up in what i used to call 'the velvet rut' where it's all very nice and cosey but lacks a certain je ne sais quoi.
so you should embrace your single status cos you're young and spare yourself the velvet rut for a few years yet if you've got any sense!!!
i was trying to remember when i'd been to cambridge cos i know i did once. i remember now. it was a meeting at an insolvency practice when a business i had at the time went tits up. nice place..the town at least cos that's all i really saw. not as knobby as i thought it might be, lol.
iamnobody - why is it nearly impossible lol
mrscorp
lucky for you i hope i find someone like that lol
all i seem to see around me is pigs and guys who arent sure of what they want,
it might just be me lol my last serious relationship kind of kicked my ass
but i just have to be patient
mrscorp
lucky for you i hope i find someone like that lol
all i seem to see around me is pigs and guys who arent sure of what they want,
it might just be me lol my last serious relationship kind of kicked my ass
but i just have to be patient
perhaps it's you who doesn't know what you want and so you are attracting these men?
I am taking the course Calling In the One by Katherine Woodward Thomas right now... I'm a die hard scorp... this class is amazing....you guys should look into it... I couldn't get over my ex... couldnt let go after more than a year after the break up saw no hope or future for love for myself after doing a lot of "inner work" on myself...but I'm finally letting go thanks to her! And I'm finally hopeful to be able to call in a true love into my life... And God Willing I am calling in my true love even right now...! I'm looking forward to meeting him and starting a great love and life together... Keep your heads up...
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