@missscorps
14 Years
Turn me ons/turn me offs.....
What Turns Scorpios On and Off in Relationships
Scorpios are attracted to honesty and depth but are turned off by dishonesty and superficiality. They value emotional intensity and loyalty and tend to be most attracted to signs that match their passionate nature. Understanding Scorpio preferences can improve relationship compatibility and communication.
A sexy stride
Eye contact
Cologne
Light kisses
Prominent eyes
Height (6' preferably)
Nice hands
Good timing in conversation/making others laugh
Wit
Attentive
Intelligence
Me: Pisces
Others: Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus
The scorps I've been with have had sexy walks./strides. Such a funny thing I remember realizing when I found it so sexy. Exuding confidence in self through their walks I guess, and quite manly.
Like, yes I have a dick between my legs.
Posted by LouLore
Like, yes I have a dick between my legs.
Yes! Just give me that walk and that look.
Confidence is sexy. Period.
Turn ons:
CONFIDENCE (can't emphasize this enough)
INTELLIGENCE
analytical/critical thinking
courage
sarcastic/witty humor
sexy smile
bulging veins in forearms
sexy face
sexy eyes
sexy hair
(lol)
Turn offs:
wussiness
stupidity/slowness in thinking
SLOWNESS IN GENERAL
slouching
insecurity
overly emotional/sensitive (that's my job 😄)
aqua/scorp. I like intelligence, humour and a good heart. I despies boastfulness, rudeness, lies and sex talks (if a guy haven't humped me yet, if they have, keeping it minimal helps- i really hate it). Also men who are always naked around the house, complete turn off. Im unuttracted to anybody who possesses the traits i dislike regardless of sign. I have a thing for libra men though.
SCORP GIRL.....
Turn-Ons
Confidence...Confidence...Confidence
*MUST* Masculine...I need to know im safe when I'm with him
Intelligent conversationalist...someone who can talk about everything/anything with me...his intelligence turns me on
Mannerisms-How he carries himself
Verbiage-How he speaks around others...
Cologne-Mmmm
Opinionated in his own beliefs that cannot be swayedManly man
So many little details can turn me on, I could go on forever...
Turn-offs
Rudeness
Someone who drinks like a fish & cannot handle their alcohol
Bad Hygiene
Poor behavior/mannerisms
Laziness...
too many big things....hahaha!
Oh, yea!
*Presentation is everything
Posted by LouLore
The scorps I've been with have had sexy walks./strides. Such a funny thing I remember realizing when I found it so sexy. Exuding confidence in self through their walks I guess, and quite manly.or their underpants were too tight/small hehe
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LOL!! I call that The Monkey Walk. Where I come from it's considered tacky, not sexy. Sometimes I think my walk resembles a lazy cat. 😄
Haha! About the walk....maybe we are picturing a swagger!! Lmao
Posted by LouLore
The scorps I've been with have had sexy walks./strides. Such a funny thing I remember realizing when I found it so sexy. Exuding confidence in self through their walks I guess, and quite manly.or their underpants were too tight/small hehe
LOL!! I call that The Monkey Walk. Where I come from it's considered tacky, not sexy. Sometimes I think my walk resembles a lazy cat. 😄
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Bwaha.
Well, I don't think I was referring to any sorta monkey walk myself hahah.
Lazy cat sounds good! As long as it isn't sluggish =)
Posted by LouLore
The scorps I've been with have had sexy walks./strides. Such a funny thing I remember realizing when I found it so sexy. Exuding confidence in self through their walks I guess, and quite manly.or their underpants were too tight/small hehe
LOL!! I call that The Monkey Walk. Where I come from it's considered tacky, not sexy. Sometimes I think my walk resembles a lazy cat. 😄
😉
lolol
lol @ Nemesis 😄 Not quite, though the panther is a much better analogy. Mickey Rourke has the lazy cat-walk... at least when he's required to walk slow. Oh and Marlon Brando in "A Streetcar Named Desire". But it's hard to define exactly....
Ladies and gents, the monkey walk!!! Ewwww. That's not confidence, that's having a dick so big that it's swirled its way into your own asshole! :O
I'm LIbra with Scorp moon and venus
Turn ons...
Clean
Likes to talk but also interested in my opinions
Kind to cute puppies and little kittens (lol)
Intelligent
Some pride in appearance but not more stylish than me!
Similar life values
Turn offs
Smokes, drinks to excess, drugs etc
No job
Smelly
Racists/sexist/biased
Lazy and watches sport on tv all the time
Turn ons:
eye contact...you know "the look"
When he takes my hand in big crowds on "protection mode"
When he leads and hes so manly....I let him!
Turn offs:
Loud/obnoxious
(libRose)That smoking thing....yuck
Bad-breath
Unrealiabe-flake
Did I just pin a leo to a T?! Never dated a leo
Omg! MoonMan strikes again!.....lol
........
Love your avi missscorps ... is it your 'mini me' from your previous avi? And is that you in your previous? Both are so dang cute 🙂
Thx ocean, this one is not......we just share the same look!
Posted by missscorps
Thx ocean, this one is not......we just share the same look!
Ah ha. Wasnt sure if you have an app that takes photos and made it into children, etc.
Try a light switch.
Mm....yes you did! A lil crab humor....=)Ocndeep, now wouldn't that be funnn!
I take it *let it be* is joking?
Turn me on: a very intelligent sense of humor, kindness to animals, success in any give field.
Turn me off.: liar, whiner, someone who makes excuses.
*given.
The rest is accurate.
Add kindness to some one who cannot advance him in any material way.
Turn Ons:
A man that is over 6 ft tall***
Has to be very manly(masculine)*****
Has to be smart***
Must be confident(not cauky)***
Dominant****
Must have a good heart and like to help others*****
Has to have courage****
Must have humor***
Big arms so he can keep me safe***
He must like SEX****
Turn Offs:
A drunk (i don't drink)****
A lazy man***
Bad hygene*******
A man that is too metro sexual******
A coward****
A Submissive man (yuk)*******
Heartless****
Liar***********
Posted by Let*It*Be
Turn on: Virgo males..everything about themTurn offs: Those whose behavior is opposite of Virgo :-)
What she said^^^^^^^^^^^^
Posted by Let*It*Be
Turn on: Virgo males..everything about themTurn offs: Those whose behavior is opposite of Virgo :-)
What she said^^^^^^^^^^^^
What they said ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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We got some Virgo loving women here😉
Me: Scorpio male
Attracted to: Scorpio females
Traits I like:
femininity
Sexy
intelligent
sweet voice (really love if she could sing)
kind-hearted
affectionate
wants to work together to achieve mutual goals
spiritual
knows how to use a firearm
Traits I dislike:
Obnoxious
lack of manners
possessed by Satan
spouts crazy political and religious nonsense
unfaithful
liar
undependable
has 50 cats
just plain stupid
Never met a Scorpio female that had any of these negative traits.
Me - Scorpio
Most attracted to - Taurus
Turn-Ons
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Confidence
Intelligence
Smells nice
Clean hands and nails
Prolonged eye contact
Strong personality
Ability to make me feel safe and protected
Strong sex drive
Reliability
"Some" hairyness - NOT Chubacca hairy though!!
Turn-Offs
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Grungy hands/nails
Shyness
Push-overs
Inability to make a decision
P-whipped
Undependable
Smarmy men
RedS....your turnoffs...too funny! Not the catlady!! Possessed by satan....reaching! But hilarious!
Turn on: Take charge type of guy with confidence while doibg so
Turn off: someone who wont own up to their f!#@ ups, but would rather deny them instead of taking responsibility
Posted by missscorps
RedS....your turnoffs...too funny! Not the catlady!! Possessed by satan....reaching! But hilarious!
The sad thing is that in my turnoffs I'm actually describing a real person. Be afraid, be very afraid. 🙂
Then that could be scary! Remember the scorp cutoff thread?.....haha! Lol! This is where that should apply!
Posted by missscorps
Then that could be scary! Remember the scorp cutoff thread?.....haha! Lol! This is where that should apply!
So very true. But even so, there's something about this blue-eyed succubus that torments me endlessly. Apparently she hasn't sucked enough of my life away for me to learn my lesson. I find that it's easy to put your legs into the devil's pool but so very hard to remove them.
I laugh when people say, "It's better to have loved and lost than to have never have loved." My response? "Go screw yourself. You're not a Scorpio and have no idea how lost love tortures us."
What does a mortal know about us demi-gods? 🙂
RedScorp: This too...unfortunately is very true....when we love, its deeply its for better, for worse....the good and the BAD haha! And it dont go away over nite....even IF its the devils spawn!!! The go screw yourself part I can relate to however choose NOT to! If you fall 7 times....pick yourself up 8....we are also known as determined & driven......just fools in love!.......shhhhhh!
Liking letting the cards fall & nosey .....uuuugh!
Posted by missscorps
The go screw yourself part I can relate to however choose NOT to!
I know that may have come across as harsh but I hate that saying because it sounds so flippant and generalized. Not everyone should fall in love. It's just not for everyone. There's a reason people kill themselves over lost love. The pain can sometimes be too much for someone to handle. I prefer this saying (paraphrasing): Caution should be exercised in matters of the heart. Especially for our kind.
Red.....when its the "Right" one.....we have nothing to fear.....EVEN our kind!
A man who does not fear sharing his emitional side.....you know you have one!
Seven o clubs?!! Evol— I like the *must chk chart first part! Haha! Lol.....
I believe that all signs are eventually manifested in everyone so my likes/dislikes are generally just common traits that appeal to me overall
Intelligent and Smarts
Family Oriented with strong ties to some sort of traditions
Stable but not too regimented....some spontaneity is a MUST
Generous in ALL ways
Well-Mannered exhibiting strong upbringing and knowledge of appropriate behavior in all situations
Dress Nice.....not too trendy....well balanced wardrobe to fit all occasions like me
Very Affectionate and Attentive To me and things that really matter
Great Kisser, Lover and Willingness to try different things, into foreplay
Hate Selfish lovers
No Complainers....Must be a DOER who can figure out how to get from point A to B
Must Be Health Conscious and Care About Health
Turn on: A man true to his word.
Someone who has their own thing going on besides keeping tabs on me
Turn off: Excuses
Turn Ons: tragedy, originality, cleverness, humanitarianism, digger
Turn Offs: fart and butt jokes, superficiality, bad smells
Trajedy? A turn on?...really .....
Turn off: Whinner, complainer, nags, negativity
Hmmm...Me: Scorpio female
Attracted to: Gems, Virgos...Pisces
Traits I like/Turn on:
Assertive
Effortless sex appeal
Intelligent
Romantic
Affectionate
Loyal (I know, but it is a huge turn on...if you show me it I am hooked)
Creative
Spontaneous
Family oriented
Think in terms of "we"
Respectful
Polite
Treats me as a equal partner
Always honest regardless of the "perceived" consquences
Traits I dislike/turn offs:
Obnoxious
Rude
Basic "Sh*t Disturbers" that have nothing to contribute, but want to just be seen or heard
Controlling
unfaithful
Liars/Dishonest
Smokes
Drinks heavily
Immature
Ratchet/Ghetto behaviour
Owns a Dog(s)
Lacks Manners
Nasty/Unclean/Unkempt
Lacks self discipline or self control
Lazy, Lazy LAZY
Spews religious doctrine without listening to other perspectives
Close minded
Stubborn
Thinks in terms of "I"
Vague
Doesn't get to the f*cking point
Slow talkers
Complainers
TURN ON - quiet, smart, funnny, type of guy.......
TURN OFF - obnoxious, knows hes smart kinda guy , bad kisser,
Turn ons: lips, hair, cute face, INTELLIGENCE, crazy/random, fairness, all that with a bit of shyness, hard to get, in a relationship.
Turn offs: asskissers, stupidity, arrogance, uglyness, no hair style , ugly and doesnt know how to use makeup, ppl who use too much makeup, shietty clothes without style , non matching shoes, BAD BREATH, clingy, curious in everything i have to tell, not annoyed at everything and everyone, mental period 24/7/365, showoff, prostitutes, stupid tattooes, cheaters and etc. F you
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To all you scorps & any other sign....we wanna know! What traits do it for you? What are your turn ons & what can turn you completely off? List your sign and the signs you have found yourself most attracted too....