@SagChick411
14 Years1,000+ Posts
What to do............
i think to be fair, she's saying they've broken up, in which case what would be wrong with going on a date?? are you supposed to take a vow of chastity now he doesn't want you. fuck him! face or no face, who the fuck is he to tell you who you can and cannot see when you're not even together.
perhaps it's the kick up the butt he needs.
as long as you don't degrade your gesture by having sex with the blind date guy. go out with him looking great and acting with dignity and if he makes any issue of it, you have absolutely nothing to feel bad for.
scorpios have a very bad habit of putting people on the backburner while they decide if they want them or not. it's cruel and un-necessary and so don't put up with it.
oh...it was the 'as i want my scorp back...' part that gave me that impression. if i'm wrong then you are soooo right.
I was NEVER have been or WAS with my Scorp actually EVER. I was seeing him, that's how I saw it (he begs to differ as he wouldn't even class it as that) We slept together once, spoke on the phone a few times. messaged me 'as friends'.
I do NOT cheat and would not consider it, NOR do I lie darling.
It isn't against the law to go on dates, or is it?
If you read the story on the sag board you would know that I met 'that' Cap out, took his number and went on a date with him darling.
The blind date I am referring to is someone who I have never seen or met before, so before calling me a liar maybe you should read the facts. I know it must be hard containing yourself so I'm the target of your anger outburst. Maybe take a look at dealing with your 'inner' issues.
Do you need to get laid or is it the time of the month? Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezz
I'm surprised at myself for not getting so irate reading your rant dissing me. It's nice to know you're thoughts towards a situation which you have made up in your head or read wrong. Thanks for the input, good work (no seriously, thumbs UP)
Yeah you're right!!! I just needed to affirm what I already know but it's hard to take yourself out of a situation sometimes and look at it from an outsiders perspective. I miss that Scorp deeply. I just wish he hadn't pursued me initially or else I wouldn't be feeling like this now 😢
I miss my ex too but we don't talk anymore so there is nothing I can do about it. Don't feel bad for dating other people. I'm sure he is.
That is just what happens after you break-up. Don't let the worry of him stop you from living your life.
Posted by Sag89
I miss my ex too but we don't talk anymore so there is nothing I can do about it. Don't feel bad for dating other people. I'm sure he is.That is just what happens after you break-up. Don't let the worry of him stop you from living your life.
Agreed. Though if you're going to be so hung up on him maybe it's best you don't date till you get over them. Cus then you risk hurting other people. Idk, just something I'm trying. Sex is fine I guess, as guys don't take much stock in that if you're just fooling around and nothing more. That's not for me, but maybe it'll keep your mind off of scorpio
Posted by Sag89
I miss my ex too but we don't talk anymore so there is nothing I can do about it. Don't feel bad for dating other people. I'm sure he is.That is just what happens after you break-up. Don't let the worry of him stop you from living your life.
Agreed. Though if you're going to be so hung up on him maybe it's best you don't date till you get over them. Cus then you risk hurting other people. Idk, just something I'm trying. Sex is fine I guess, as guys don't take much stock in that if you're just fooling around and nothing more. That's not for me, but maybe it'll keep your mind off of scorpio
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Yea I mean you'll have moments where you miss him even though your dating people. That is normal. I mean I was with mine for 3 years. So I miss him alot sometimes but than it passes.
Posted by Sag89
I miss my ex too but we don't talk anymore so there is nothing I can do about it. Don't feel bad for dating other people. I'm sure he is.That is just what happens after you break-up. Don't let the worry of him stop you from living your life.
Agreed. Though if you're going to be so hung up on him maybe it's best you don't date till you get over them. Cus then you risk hurting other people. Idk, just something I'm trying. Sex is fine I guess, as guys don't take much stock in that if you're just fooling around and nothing more. That's not for me, but maybe it'll keep your mind off of scorpio
Yea I mean you'll have moments where you miss him even though your dating people. That is normal. I mean I was with mine for 3 years. So I miss him alot sometimes but than it passes.
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Yeah true, I just think she needs to get over the point where she's thinking about him when she's determining her actions. If she keeps worrying she won't be able to enjoy a date fully cuz she'll get back from the date and be wondering if he knows she was out or not. It's just not a relaxing thought
Posted by Stinger Baby
not speaking doesnt mean broken up. both of you must be at a mutual understanding that you are really over with. does he know you're broken up? or did you leave him without his knowing when you were 'not speaking?' i been with people and sometimes we argue and dont speak for a bit, but we come back to each other after deciding what we want. never do we envolve other people while we're sorting out our feelings.that is considered cheating. because if you are still 'pining' over your Scorpio, supposedly, you would be trying to figure out what you guys need to pull you closer together. it sounds like since he's went away (but scorps always come back)you decided to throw caution to the wind and see other men behind his back. even wanting to go as far to use the other men for sex.
he told you about not seeing other men because he feels you are his woman. why betray that? yet in the same breath you say you pine over him? contradictory actions.
solve your feelings first before you move on to other guys. cos if you dont, you could find yourself with someone new, but while still having feelings for scorp, end up breaking the new guy's heart cos you might end up going back to scorp.
you can date others, but only after you have truly ended things with scorpio man. or else....things can turn VERY ugly. beware a betrayed stinger.
Yep! I agree with that last part
Yea exactly kits
Yeah I think you are right about 'getting over' him. The last thing I want to do is involve other people and hurt somebody else cause that sucks!!
I just poured my heart out to my Scorp continously only for it not to be reciprocated. The way I left it was just telling him that he can't expect me to keep spiling my guts out for him not to even give me an inkling as to what's occurring. Told him I was moving on and hope he's keeps well and I'm sure I'll see him around.
I just want him to come back or this feeling to pass, it hurts bad and I'm filling the voids with meaningless dates. *sobs*
I'm an emotional wreck!! ARRGGHHH!!! I hate this!!
Posted by Let*It*Be
Funny, I call another one out and I'm again accused of not getting laid lately...I don't fuck and tell like some here do, sorry. 😉
What I got from that was not that you don't get laid, but that you accuse before you really know the situation. You go off on people without really know what's going on. You have a stick up your butt. Get it now?
Posted by SagChick411
Yeah I think you are right about 'getting over' him. The last thing I want to do is involve other people and hurt somebody else cause that sucks!!I just poured my heart out to my Scorp continously only for it not to be reciprocated. The way I left it was just telling him that he can't expect me to keep spiling my guts out for him not to even give me an inkling as to what's occurring. Told him I was moving on and hope he's keeps well and I'm sure I'll see him around.
I just want him to come back or this feeling to pass, it hurts bad and I'm filling the voids with meaningless dates. *sobs*
I'm an emotional wreck!! ARRGGHHH!!! I hate this!!
wow u got it bad.
what i learned is to let things go and if it comes back to you, its meant to be.
unfortuanely, u will end up hurting him. the natures of a scorpio and sag are soooo different. we are just so free while they cringe at our antics lol. they feel betrayal so deep, its maddening. any deviation is like a charge aganist you causing immediate ambivalence in him and ice outs.
your going to have to change who you are and to accept that leash that comes with him. aka, a relationship where he is the sole focus. if u make it about him, he will in turn make it about you..if hes on love that is.
imo, we are who we are and shouldnt have to change for anyone.
If you are "an emotional wreck", why are you dating or intending to date others? Don't take hostages, heal yourself.
Posted by BigGirlPanties
If you are "an emotional wreck", why are you dating or intending to date others? Don't take hostages, heal yourself.
I like that "don't take hostages". That's a good analogy
Posted by Let*It*Be
happykitsune...bite me.
I'm not a swinger, so no thank you 😉
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^LOL
Posted by everevolvingepithet
What ? that's usually the thing they get down with.
Or the lights go off lol, hands start making there way to places and...hey !!...hold on a sec !! is that and extra arm ?
LMFAO!!
My Scorp sis gets down like this-lol
How are you doing sag chick anyway?
wow u got it bad.
what i learned is to let things go and if it comes back to you, its meant to be.
Maybe in cases where there's still hope. IMHO, just because someone comes back doesn't mean you are "meant to be". You may not want them back.
wow u got it bad.
what i learned is to let things go and if it comes back to you, its meant to be.
Maybe in cases where there's still hope. IMHO, just because someone comes back doesn't mean you are "meant to be". You may not want them back.
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Definitely. Or maybe they're just coming back for a lil poontang
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Right I need some help??_.
So do you guys remember my A hole of a Scorp? Well??_.needless to say I am still pining for him??_.
Basically a friend of mine wants to set me up with a blind date with this guy who lives in the same town as us. The thing is I'm a little apprehensive to go purely because I feel my Scorp will find out??_.....
My Scorp once said to me that no man in our area could even dare talk to me, never mind take me out and if it did come to the then —that?? relationship would soon come to an end.
My Scorp is a —face?? if you like around our way so he WILL find out if I went on a date so should I even bother cause it could complicate things? As I want my Scorp back and I don't want anything to jeopardize that EVEN though we are not really speaking for the moment.
Thoughts please??_