the truth behind the myth

after a couple of experiences, and some deep thinking about the so called mysterious, deep emotions, reserved and blah blah scorp nature, i seriously got to the conclusion that the raw truth its that scorps are so hard to understand cause they are little spoiled kids, that are wayyyyyyyyy to afraid of admiting their feelings (if they ever get to have them) cause thats another thing that got me thinking....are scorps able to like/love anyone other than themselves— i find it hard to believe, so what i understand is that all that reserved attitude and mind games its cause they are unable to love someone nor care for anyone elses emotions other then them...no matter what your star sign is, or what influences you have but please dont come and tell me that just cause someone that you "like" "hurts" you that you can just erase them completely from your life like they have never existed...come on....

call me a hater, but has anyone ever noticed that nothing that goes wrong its never a scorp?s fault—

I disagree.

anti..its not being dramatic, its being realistic...the only ubber dramatic ppl that i ever came across were scorps...eish...they can be such drama queens...but honestly...only when its not necessary, cause when the shit really hits the fan...they just act like...what?where?who??

cant scorps just grow up and adjust to the real world—
not everyone have to all the time bow down to them...its about giving to receive...a concept that i guess you have never heard about—?

Elena..why didnt i listen to you before....eish...what i waste of time, energy and sex positions🙂

SSP....any arguments that fundament your statement—?

Yes...I'm not like that.

"call me a hater, but has anyone ever noticed that nothing that goes wrong its never a scorp?s fault—"

It's never our fault because you people don't see it the we see it. And if you stop thinking on the surface take the time to go deep enough to understand then maybe alot of you won't have so many problems. 🙂

Slady....its not about we not looking deep enough....its about...no matter how deep we try to look its never enough for you, or you simply do NOT aloow us to even begin to understand you.....
if we open up...we are no longer a challenge,
if we dont open up, ...we have something to hide therefore we can not be trusted...
if we make love to you easily...we are cheap...
if we dont...we dont love you enough....
if we are kinky in bed and go with the flow, we are hoes and have done it with everyone else...~
if we are not...we are boring.....

Good lord, make up your freaking twisted fucked up mind!!!

"...but has anyone ever noticed that nothing that goes wrong its never a scorp?s fault—"

this is true for my scorp No Matter what Proof i have that he is wrong he will never say that i'm right.He will Always make me feel i am to blame because he has to be right.

"It's never our fault because you people don't see it the we see it. And if you stop thinking on the surface take the time to go deep enough to understand then maybe alot of you won't have so many problems"

I can go deep with my scorpio and we really have a connection in that way but then he tells me "i'm thinking too much or tryin to go too deep" so....what gives—?. Scorps can be difficult. My dad and twin brothers are scorps either you love'em or hate'em. U will never totally understand them just apperciate them for who they are.

Elena Elena....se eu comeco a contar....ai ai ....
nyways good memories to tell the grandkids😉

Probably two things that irritate quite a few Scorpios is myopic thinking and stereotyping and those are things that are rather easy to detect.

Common dxp example:

I'm in love with a Scorpio and he doesn't love me back, ergo all Scorpios are assholes.

well then you just gave me the proof that im a bit more clever than i thought!

didnt take years...mr.scorp, just called my office to talk to me while he was walking into the plane to say how much he likes me and all that shit that he was never supposed to say. i guess when you show them that you are more than just a toy and stand up for what you believe they start bending to you!
such a shame that after all theres no mistery...they just humans!
poor little kids!

"well then you just gave me the proof that im a bit more clever than i thought!"

So, did you think you were functionally retarded or something?

Haha, I saw that Yum, tsk, tsk.

"Haha, I saw that Yum, tsk, tsk."

Dude, they are right next to each other.

That's it, I'm cutting you off.

"Porque voc? ? linda....that also helps...lmao !!!"

Alright goddamnit, I'm getting tired of using the Portuguese to English translator...yes I know you don't care 😉

And don't you try to change my brooding, mysterious mind about it, either.

Top 'o the mornin' to ya, quite lovely thank you.

I guess I can cancel my order for the damn Rosetta Stone then 🙂

bling...surely have to agree with you...but theres nothing like a taurus to make your head spin....isnt it Elena...taurus know how to bend them🙂 they just havent realized it yet!!!!

"You're not mysterious Yummy Bear...I saw the baby picture...you little cutie pie...you. No room for brooding mysteriousness there....sorry"

But I...I bought a cape and everything!

😢

"That's Yorkshire-ish then.....see how's she's bending to your will,SSp —"

I know, I was almost taken aback, but then I had to figure Ms. Elena's angle...keeping me away from the fish, lol 😉

Thank you Elena...nao tao linda quanto tu...hehehehhe

Alright SsP, I'm willing to forgive and forget. You suffered enough.

bling bling...if it was just the feeding and the nap...you have no clue whats in between....hehehe guess since Elena and I are already pretty busy...you will never know🙂

"Alright SsP, I'm willing to forgive and forget. You suffered enough."

Well then, I think a trip to the optician's is on order for you if you thought you saw some suffering.

"Well then, I think a trip to the optician's is on order for you if you thought you saw some suffering."

Oh, now you've done it! Now you're double-cut-off.

Feel my dark, soul-crushing rage!

"there's a *smell* joke in their somewhere,but I'll be a gent an refrain from commenting,..."

Lmao, that didn't even dawn on me when I wrote it. Sorry it's at your expense Ms. Elena but it is funny.

"Feel my dark, soul-crushing rage!"

You're only 25, I have years of psychological warfare experience on you, it just wouldn't be fair for me to even return fire. 🙂

"Yes I'm sure you're sorry MR SCORP !!!"

Hey, I just laughed, go kill the joke teller, lol

JHC, does nobody believe in truth in advertising around here...19 then, even more so my point 🙂

Yes Ms. Elena if you choose to underestimate me, so be it. I consider that an advantage.

The difference being that a Scorpio will know if he/she is really wrong whereas a Pisces or Cancer is more likely to be oblivious, which is more frustrating, lol.

"But isnt that how you like it—? You said the evasive obliviousness gets you up or something to that effect..."

Lol, yes but it can be difficult to deal with a situation when the other party isn't aware that one even exists. However it does force one to be very creative in figuring out how to deal with it, the easiest method is just to forget about it though. 😉

"They may know they are wrong but they won't admit it to the other
person nor will they ever apologize!"

That's just being catty, now apologize. 🙂

"..as in never, or 3 times per annum, if things are a little rough"

I like to fill my quota in January and get it out of the way early.

That's an assumption based on what a bull would likely do. If it's minor enough that I don't feel it's worth it to expend the energy needed to resolve it then I just let it go. Gotta choose your battles in a relationship because many of them just aren't worth fighting in the big picture view.

New York, as in city...we as Yorkshiremen should sue for slander. Upstate is quite a bit different though, but I like palm trees, beaches and bikinis better.

17 years with a bull tells me that resentment and revenge were a doozy. Obviously we're all different, just like not all Scorps are assholes...some have died at which time they cease to be assholes.😉

"They cleaned it up way before then."

Yeah, they confined the trash to Wall & Broad Streets, lol

A little trading humor in light of the recent shenanigans.

"that links for Ssp's amusement too,fwiw..."

The most recent was a fishy, although the Cancer is still in love with me. I've long since let go of the bull and all of those feelings, learned a lot from it, just making a point that sun signs only shed a limited amount of info on a person.

Lol bling, nice...would have been even better if he'd kicked the cat at the end, lol.

Now elena, that's just being sarcastic for no good reason, this entire thread and hundreds just like it are based on the puzzling belief that all __________ (fill in your fav sign to bash) suck. Like all fish for you, no?

"Tell me...how do you make that line up there ^^^ ?"

I don't even know if you're being serious or facetious with that question, lol

shift + underscore? lol

"Scorpio's hold grudges even when the rest
of the world has moved on.
really, it's not all about YOU!"

'YOU' being the man you were recently hurt by, one would assume.

Writing down how you feel is pretty healthy actually, it can be misunderstood on a forum though. Ever consider just writing in a journal or maybe even turning those feelings into verse? Can be therapeutic for some 🙂

"I don't mean to be mean, but honestly, its a cycle. The sooner you realize that, the sooner you can work to change it, for the better."

Haha, brutal honesty with sprinkles on top...now that's Pisces, lol.

moment of weakness is over.

i can see i lost some interesting exchange of opinions....TP, to be honest, i think scorps dont really want a righteous and honest person around them...SINCE they dont know what that means.
also how can you expect and demand so much from ppl around you if you dont even give them a 10th of what you ask!

well, TP...i sort of agree with you, they might not lie, but they surely omit a lot of things that are worth being said!

///you won't even know their poor little sensitive hearts got hurt in the first place until you call and then they don't answer --- so, then, you have to start beeeeeeeeegggging and wondering what is wrong. Puhleeze, who has time to deal with that immature shit??///

haha yah.... before, i texted my scorp to ask if its fine that i couldnt spend time with him...he didn't reply & i didn't feel good about it so i called that night... guess what... instead of not answering(like he always did if he was angry/upset)...he did, BUT didn't say a word.. he waited till i said hello then hung up! lol didnt want to speak to me but missed my voice? uh such a baby

"he waited till i said hello then hung up"

How childish.