venus in scorpio

Do you find that the description of having secret lovers and obsession as true? If so, are you ever willing to commit and stay loyal and why the obsession- stalkerish or just more of a mental over thinking?

Lmao, amorous surveillance! Love it! Ligeia, what kind of tests are you talking about? Straight up fuck with your head or more subtle?

Not a stalker but I do over analyze, I'm very committed in a relationship, not really one for secret lovers

Do you find that the description of having secret lovers and obsession as true?

It's not "secret", it's just sex and not worthy of mentioning to anyone i am trying to establish something concrete with.
i also need sex to live, so, if i cannot get it from someone i am not fully committed to yet, i will need backup.

If so, are you ever willing to commit and stay loyal?

I am loyal only to those that do not leave me guessing on our status after i have made it clear that i need clarification.

and why the obsession- stalkerish or just more of a mental over thinking?

i need to get all up in my target.
by nature, anything i am interested in, i need to know thoroughly.
i don't like being caught off guard or looking like a fool.
this is a precaution that i need as i am liable to jump in things head first with no helmet.
before i get in too deep, i have to figure out what i am in.

lockquote>Posted by Infinity

"why the obsession" Is it so bad to focus on and appreciate my interest? Most people enjoy someone that is willing to put in 100% or even 110% ! If the person can't handle it, stop wasting my time..

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Thanks everyone for the responses. When I read secret lovers my mind automatically went to cheating. So your answers definitely gave me a different perspective.

What are these tests of yours?