Virgo friend blocked..

Hello my fellow scorpions. Maybe i should have posted this on the virgo board but nevermind cause im here to vent. I have totally deleted a virgo friend of 7 years.

I have been the one she always ran to for advice when she was going through hell in her relationship. I have always been there when she needed a friend. The brutal honest scorpio that i am, i told her to let go of the things that made her unhappy because she was never happy and always complained about her bf and how poorly he treated her. I value my friends, i wanted her happiness so i always said the relationship was unhealthy and maybe it wasnt really working as much as she wanted it to and she agreed but still chased it. I know she loved the guy v much so long as it worked for her i would be as happy as a sister but i couldnt see him giving her what she deserved so i always kind of said if this behaviour of his continues they wouldnt last long.

Anyway.. she called me a week ago and asked how i was, she was going out and asked me whether or not what she wore last time we went out would be appropriate to wear for her bfs bday as they were going out clubbing. I said of course and to have fun.

Last night i was going through facebook and ive seen pictures of her engagement (probably was yesterday) which i didnt know of obviously not been invited to. Totally shocked me. I sent her a brief msg and said im not sure if ive said or done something which may have upset her but all was bcuz i cared for her as a friend and just wanted her happiness, told her ive seen pictures and i am happy for her and wished her happiness.

She didnt respond.. i dont know what really is wrong with her but i came to understand that trying to be a good friend makes you the bad guy. She is out of my life now forever.

Posted by seezythescorpion
Last night i was going through facebook and ive seen pictures of her engagement (probably was yesterday) which i didnt know of obviously not been invited to. Totally shocked me. I sent her a brief msg and said im not sure if ive said or done something which may have upset her but all was bcuz i cared for her as a friend and just wanted her happiness, told her ive seen pictures and i am happy for her and wished her happiness.

She didnt respond.. i dont know what really is wrong with her but i came to understand that trying to be a good friend makes you the bad guy. She is out of my life now forever.

When you say you seen pictures of her "engagement".... do you mean she got engaged to get married? If so... you say "probably yesterday" ...meaning what? You saw this yesterday or she probably got engaged yesterday?

I meant she got engaged to her boyfriend & that it probably took place yesterday.

Theres alot more to it. If your friend came up to you crying everyday, wouldnt eat for days and the guy didnt care much about what she was going through to make it better...you would.

I know her well enough. She came to me for understanding and I listened. My opinion was given when it was asked. I just felt bad for her. I didnt tell her to break up i told her to let go of the stress she was causing herself to the point where she would give up eating.

I totally understand it isnt easy to let go, i told her to breathe and relax and things would be ok, ive been the shoulder to cry on. If she had told me things were getting better, i would be the first person to congratulate her.

Have you considered you might not have been invited to the engagement because she feared you'd make a scene? Since she knows you don't approve of her boyfriend, she's keeping you away from that part of her life.

Doesn't make her a bad friend, just selective of people. It was her engagement and it's within her right to invite whoever she pleases.

I understand you are hurt over not being invited..but you could've waited and talked to her face to face or waited for that reply to the message. You just deleted her as a knee jerk reaction for no reason.

Nothing is wrong with her, and nothing is wrong with you ..you probably have different ways to look at friendship so maybe this is for the best.

But you are blocking he for the wrong reasons. .. The engagement took place yesterday so she didn't know about it. She thought she was just going for her bfs birthday party and he decided to propose. You blocked for something that is beyond her control and is less then 24 hours of her being engaged and you already making this about you.(Now I believe we are self centered) What if she's all drunk from a hangover in bed with her fiance making love to celebrate. my friends will be the last people on my mind at this time. She called you about her freaking outfit before she went out that means she loves and values you as a friend.
I wouldn't want to tell my friends especially close ones over the phone. She will come to you. Stop making and taking everything personal for once and celebrate with her.

Posted by Vanish
She came to you for understanding. Not to be told what to do. You have to let people figure it out in their own time.

Yes.

@damnata she got engaged yesterday ie wasn't even a party. That's the bad part. Not that she didn't invite her. She didn't know he was going to propose as he only proposed yesterday.... Do is still all new to the Virgo herself

@Damnata i never said i didnt approve of her bf.. its her life her choice. It was just sad seeing her killing herself slowly over a guy who didnt care about what kind of emotions she was going through and havent been there for her.

I would never make a scene im not a psyco. As i said i would be the first one to congratulate her.

I also waited for a reply for long enough to have a talk after ive seen that she has seen my msg.

@Phoenixrises

you got it wrong there. Her bfs bday party was last week when she called me to ask what to wear.

Engagement party was yesterday and It wasnt a surprise proposal it was scheduled.

@Rambunctious76

Friendship to me is a huge thing. I share with you, laugh with you, cry with you, open the doors of my house for you, cook for you, , would be there thru hell with you. If ur broke my money is urs, Ur upset, u can have my shoulder, u want me to take u somewhere?There in 5. U need a chat, i open my ears for you.

1-) of course i would have gone. Shes my friend.
2-) i would there with a huge smile on my face and congratulate them both, probably have given her a huge tight hug.
3-) i would never reject the invitation.
4-) i wouldnt regret my decision. Unfortunately, My hurt&dissappointment is as big as my love for her.

She didnt have to listen to me. Its her choice, if it makes her happy im happy. I wouldnt tell her the relationship was unhealthy if for once i heard the word" im happy " coming out of her mouth. She was in a bad state and i as a friend didnt want that for her. But that was only an opinion NOT what she must have done because i said so.

I would congratulate her no matter what. For better or for worse. I wish her all the best.

Posted by BlackMamba
Scorpio the Virgo used you for her emotional problems now she got her man she left you in the v dust

Exactly how i feel.

@Vanish

Not at all. You dont know me and thats cool, U were a quick judge without knowing the full story. Im not the type to put it all out there as i respect people privacy and i'd take whats been shared as secrets to grave with me.

My concious is clear thats all i know. I havent hurt her. I havent judged her. All i did was being a friend.

She came to me when she needed me. Now things are ok so im out of use.

Seezy, where you been—

You're making a lot of assumptions seezy.

And yes you did judge her. Pls be real about that. You judged her choice in a partner. I'm not saying it's wrong of you to have opinions but don't come with this bullshit of "I haven't judged her". If I had a nickel for every water sign who says this shit...

Also, nothing happened, other than you not being invited to her engagement. You can't take that so you assume you are "out of use". Meanwhile your Virgo ex(?)friend kept the communication open..so other than not invite you, she didn't do anything to slight you.

You're making it sound like throughout 7 years of friendship..all she did was whine to you about her boyfriend. Like there's nothing more than that. Poor you, look how much you invested in this friendship and this mean Virgo doesn't give a shit. But you have no qualms to just go ahead and block her.

Anyway, you threw a temper tantrum by blocking and now you're trying to feel better about your knee jerk reaction. I understand you're venting but put it into perspective.

A friend of 7 years to me deserves more than a text on facebook and a block. They deserve at least one discussion before we part ways.

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Posted by starlover
...and remember girls, one female friend in the hand is worth more than two blokes near the bush

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This was my reason for asking her those questions.

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I agree. But only if the understanding of the real friendship is mutual.

The problem here is not the guy. It could be anyone, nothing against this guy personally.. I only cared about my friends well being.

If you are comfortable with your decision to end the friendship over this, you're within your right.

Doesn't matter what any of us say on here or what the real life Virgo thinks/does.

@Damnata

As real as it can be, I didnt judge her choice of a partner. God why would i judge??

Please dont generalise all water signs as the same. If u look at it i said i texted her. That was to have the chat. I didnt get a response. Let me remind you, its not only my friendship of 7 years. Its hers too.

I think enough before i make a decision and i stick by it.. Thats what happens when u realise they dont value u as u value them.

Posted by AgentP911
Seezy, where you been—

Agent.. !! here i am. Just had to vent a little. How u been?

Posted by BlackMamba
If a close friend doesn't invite you to their engagement then they're not your friend.

Stop making excuses for her. That's a really shitty thing to do. Happiest moment in her life and she didn't include the chick she been whining to for 7 years.

Bad friend. User.

Thank you.

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Posted by seezythescorpion
@Damnata

As real as it can be, I didnt judge her choice of a partner. God why would i judge??

Please dont generalise all water signs as the same. If u look at it i said i texted her. That was to have the chat. I didnt get a response. Let me remind you, its not only my friendship of 7 years. Its hers too.

I think enough before i make a decision and i stick by it.. Thats what happens when u realise they dont value u as u value them.

Omg cut this manipulative bullshit out. I'm done. Thats not what you said in your first post.

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Whats wrong with you.. seriously?

Where in my post i judged her partner?

Posted by seezythescorpion
Hello my fellow scorpions. Maybe i should have posted this on the virgo board but nevermind cause im here to vent. I have totally deleted a virgo friend of 7 years.

I have been the one she always ran to for advice when she was going through hell in her relationship. I have always been there when she needed a friend. The brutal honest scorpio that i am, i told her to let go of the things that made her unhappy because she was never happy and always complained about her bf and how poorly he treated her. I value my friends, i wanted her happiness so i always said the relationship was unhealthy and maybe it wasnt really working as much as she wanted it to and she agreed but still chased it. I know she loved the guy v much so long as it worked for her i would be as happy as a sister but i couldnt see him giving her what she deserved so i always kind of said if this behaviour of his continues they wouldnt last long.

Anyway.. she called me a week ago and asked how i was, she was going out and asked me whether or not what she wore last time we went out would be appropriate to wear for her bfs bday as they were going out clubbing. I said of course and to have fun.

Last night i was going through facebook and ive seen pictures of her engagement (probably was yesterday) which i didnt know of obviously not been invited to. Totally shocked me. I sent her a brief msg and said im not sure if ive said or done something which may have upset her but all was bcuz i cared for her as a friend and just wanted her happiness, told her ive seen pictures and i am happy for her and wished her happiness.

She didnt respond.. i dont know what really is wrong with her but i came to understand that trying to be a good friend makes you the bad guy. She is out of my life now forever.

So, you didn't give her time to respond to your message before flying into this "you're out of my life forever" nonsense? I'm guessing this isn't the first time you acted so extreme to a perceived slight and you felt the need to provide us with the background of how horrible this guy is to "demonstrate" how great of a person you've been right? You did her a favour by cutting her off.

Posted by seezythescorpion
@Damnata i never said i didnt approve of her bf.. its her life her choice. It was just sad seeing her killing herself slowly over a guy who didnt care about what kind of emotions she was going through and havent been there for her.

I would never make a scene im not a psyco. As i said i would be the first one to congratulate her.

I also waited for a reply for long enough to have a talk after ive seen that she has seen my msg.

Yet you ended a 7 year friendship because you were not invited to her engagement. Right. That sounds like something a rational person would do.

Posted by seezythescorpion
@Vanish

Not at all. You dont know me and thats cool, U were a quick judge without knowing the full story. Im not the type to put it all out there as i respect people privacy and i'd take whats been shared as secrets to grave with me.

My concious is clear thats all i know. I havent hurt her. I havent judged her. All i did was being a friend.

She came to me when she needed me. Now things are ok so im out of use.

You had no problem sharing the info she shared with you and about her relationship to build up the OP, so.....yeah.

I read this wrong at first.

It does seem very cold and hurtful what she did, BUT....just put yourself in her shoes for a second. You've seen her at her lowest within that relationship. She shared her most vulnerable/hurtful truths with you. Inviting you would have been equivalent to looking at that truth again everytime she glanced your way. Imo, it seems she is choosing forget the bad memories of her relationship. It may seem like she's forgetting you, or used you, which she may have, but it could also be that she didnt want to be reminded of something she may want to forget or put behind her.


If I were in her shoes Id still invite my friend, but it would definitely be hard to look at them knowing Ive cried plenty of days/nights over the guy Im now "happily" engaged to. That probably would have been hard for her, so she dif what she thought would make her feel best. You may feel a certain way, and she may have to move on from the friendship to forget, but I dont think it was personal againt you.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by seezythescorpion
Hello my fellow scorpions. Maybe i should have posted this on the virgo board but nevermind cause im here to vent. I have totally deleted a virgo friend of 7 years.

I have been the one she always ran to for advice when she was going through hell in her relationship. I have always been there when she needed a friend. The brutal honest scorpio that i am, i told her to let go of the things that made her unhappy because she was never happy and always complained about her bf and how poorly he treated her. I value my friends, i wanted her happiness so i always said the relationship was unhealthy and maybe it wasnt really working as much as she wanted it to and she agreed but still chased it. I know she loved the guy v much so long as it worked for her i would be as happy as a sister but i couldnt see him giving her what she deserved so i always kind of said if this behaviour of his continues they wouldnt last long.

Anyway.. she called me a week ago and asked how i was, she was going out and asked me whether or not what she wore last time we went out would be appropriate to wear for her bfs bday as they were going out clubbing. I said of course and to have fun.

Last night i was going through facebook and ive seen pictures of her engagement (probably was yesterday) which i didnt know of obviously not been invited to. Totally shocked me. I sent her a brief msg and said im not sure if ive said or done something which may have upset her but all was bcuz i cared for her as a friend and just wanted her happiness, told her ive seen pictures and i am happy for her and wished her happiness.

She didnt respond.. i dont know what really is wrong with her but i came to understand that trying to be a good friend makes you the bad guy. She is out of my life now forever.

So, you didn't give her time to respond to your message before flying into this "you're out of my life forever" nonsense? I'm guessing this isn't the first time you acted so extreme to a perceived slight and you felt the need to provide us with the background of how horrible this guy is to "demonstrate" how great of a person you've been right? You did her a favour by cutting her off.

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It actually amazes me how quick some of u are to judge.I did give the time. If u notice i havent bitched about anyone on here. I was hurt and i came to share. u all know nothing so do me a favour and please dont comment.

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Posted by seezythescorpion
@Vanish

Not at all. You dont know me and thats cool, U were a quick judge without knowing the full story. Im not the type to put it all out there as i respect people privacy and i'd take whats been shared as secrets to grave with me.

My concious is clear thats all i know. I havent hurt her. I havent judged her. All i did was being a friend.

She came to me when she needed me. Now things are ok so im out of use.

You had no problem sharing the info she shared with you and about her relationship to build up the OP, so.....yeah.

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Did i go into details? What do u know about her life on here? All said was a unhealthy relationship making a friend unhappy. Just like everyone else that comes on here for advice.??

Here's the thing about Virgos and I don't expect to be taken seriously by Virgos because they don't see this about themselves.

1. They are secretive about things that actually matter. She was all fine and dandy confiding in you about her bf because she was venting about her man and you told her what she needed to hear in the moment: bash her bf because she was mad at him. The moment she got engaged (which is definitely worthy of knowing), she didn't tell you.

2. They are the types to abandon their friends when there is a lover in their life. They are super needy and clingy in love. I've noticed that with Virgos. They put up a front like they could care less about their SO, but they are not above stalking and begging their partner to stay with them.

3. Virgos are pure whiners. All they do is cry, cry and cry some more about the woes in their life, which is why they often end up with cancers. Another reason they end up with cancers is because they can use all that intelligence of theirs to successfully manipulate the nicest of all signs, cancers. No other sign will get emotionally manipulated like cancer and that's why those poor suckers get held.

As my mom and bro says: no sign but a Capri or a cancer will put up with a Virgo. Capri's infamous patience and cancer's super accommodating nature enables them.

I don't blame the Op for feeling used. You are not a bad friend for telling her to leave her bf who she is always complaining about.

I had a Virgo friend who consistently whined about her player, lousy bf. I started feeling like her therapist. I listened to her shit like 5-6 times and then I finally snapped and said to her "if he's such a fucking player and you're not happy with him, then leave him! Why are you with him? You have nothing nice to say about him and he has no redeeming qualities. I'm tired of hearing your same old rants. Leave me alone", and then I stopped being her friend because she was insane and now she was driving me insane. I will not be driven insane by some emotional leech.

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Posted by AgentP911
Seezy, where you been—

Agent.. !! here i am. Just had to vent a little. How u been?

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Yeah all good here. I read the vent. Seems like half are with you and half are against. Some good points made by a few.

Someone already said she may not have invited you due to her interpreting your advice for not liking her bloke. Equally, I'd probably hold off on the blocking as no one wants to be the bad guy. There's usually a simple explanation for things but we are not always open to it initially. Unblock her, let it cool down, and just ask her why she didn't invite. Judge the response and then hang her if you feel it warranted.

BM made an observation I agree with from my experience of virgos. Can't recall what it was now but I tend to find they don't always deal well with other people's issues and are not there in return when you need them preferring to let you get on with it. I read that on here too, posted by a Virgo I think. Certainly my Virgo ex was not able to support me in the way I needed but he was there in other ways. I just don't think they do well with emotions or depth or they have their own idea of emotions and depth.

I find Damnata's post quite good as they are very 'virgo' and things are seen from a different angle which can be enlightening even if you don't agree.

I've not read all the other pages on here so I may have missed some crucial info.

Posted by aquarius09
Here's the thing about Virgos and I don't expect to be taken seriously by Virgos because they don't see this about themselves.

1. They are secretive about things that actually matter. She was all fine and dandy confiding in you about her bf because she was venting about her man and you told her what she needed to hear in the moment: bash her bf because she was mad at him. The moment she got engaged (which is definitely worthy of knowing), she didn't tell you.

2. They are the types to abandon their friends when there is a lover in their life. They are super needy and clingy in love. I've noticed that with Virgos. They put up a front like they could care less about their SO, but they are not above stalking and begging their partner to stay with them.

3. Virgos are pure whiners. All they do is cry, cry and cry some more about the woes in their life, which is why they often end up with cancers. Another reason they end up with cancers is because they can use all that intelligence of theirs to successfully manipulate the nicest of all signs, cancers. No other sign will get emotionally manipulated like cancer and that's why those poor suckers get held.

As my mom and bro says: no sign but a Capri or a cancer will put up with a Virgo. Capri's infamous patience and cancer's super accommodating nature enables them.

Agree with no1!! Can't comment on 2 and 3 but can see the point.

Posted by aquarius09
Here's the thing about Virgos and I don't expect to be taken seriously by Virgos because they don't see this about themselves.

1. They are secretive about things that actually matter. She was all fine and dandy confiding in you about her bf because she was venting about her man and you told her what she needed to hear in the moment: bash her bf because she was mad at him. The moment she got engaged (which is definitely worthy of knowing), she didn't tell you.

2. They are the types to abandon their friends when there is a lover in their life. They are super needy and clingy in love. I've noticed that with Virgos. They put up a front like they could care less about their SO, but they are not above stalking and begging their partner to stay with them.

3. Virgos are pure whiners. All they do is cry, cry and cry some more about the woes in their life, which is why they often end up with cancers. Another reason they end up with cancers is because they can use all that intelligence of theirs to successfully manipulate the nicest of all signs, cancers. No other sign will get emotionally manipulated like cancer and that's why those poor suckers get held.

As my mom and bro says: no sign but a Capri or a cancer will put up with a Virgo. Capri's infamous patience and cancer's super accommodating nature enables them.

I could see all those 3 points you made above in her. I was still willing to be there and listen. I still congratulated her and wished her all the happiness eventho i was dissapointed she didnt invite me.. My duty in her life is over. I dont feel bad about my decision of cutting her off.

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Posted by aquarius09
I don't blame the Op for feeling used. You are not a bad friend for telling her to leave her bf who she is always complaining about.

I had a Virgo friend who consistently whined about her player, lousy bf. I started feeling like her therapist. I listened to her shit like 5-6 times and then I finally snapped and said to her "if he's such a fucking player and you're not happy with him, then leave him! Why are you with him? You have nothing nice to say about him and he has no redeeming qualities. I'm tired of hearing your same old rants. Leave me alone", and then I stopped being her friend because she was insane and now she was driving me insane. I will not be driven insane by some emotional leech.

Anyone that puts a friend through that isn't a respectful person. It's selfish and yes she was treating you like a therapist. Had you carried on enabling her, she would have gone around in circles and drained you and not done anything to help herself. The native American people were allowed to raise the same issue thrice and after that the tribe would turn their back on them......the message being go and sort out your issues instead of repeatedly bringing them up

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You are a wise soul, star. I always like reading your responses. You're absolutely right when you say that one isn't being a good friend/boyfriend or girlfriend if they're treating their partner/friend as a therapist over the same issue. I'm gonna apply the Native American rule to my life now of restricting same rants to 3.

Posted by seezythescorpion

Posted by aquarius09
Here's the thing about Virgos and I don't expect to be taken seriously by Virgos because they don't see this about themselves.

1. They are secretive about things that actually matter. She was all fine and dandy confiding in you about her bf because she was venting about her man and you told her what she needed to hear in the moment: bash her bf because she was mad at him. The moment she got engaged (which is definitely worthy of knowing), she didn't tell you.

2. They are the types to abandon their friends when there is a lover in their life. They are super needy and clingy in love. I've noticed that with Virgos. They put up a front like they could care less about their SO, but they are not above stalking and begging their partner to stay with them.

3. Virgos are pure whiners. All they do is cry, cry and cry some more about the woes in their life, which is why they often end up with cancers. Another reason they end up with cancers is because they can use all that intelligence of theirs to successfully manipulate the nicest of all signs, cancers. No other sign will get emotionally manipulated like cancer and that's why those poor suckers get held.

As my mom and bro says: no sign but a Capri or a cancer will put up with a Virgo. Capri's infamous patience and cancer's super accommodating nature enables them.

I could see all those 3 points you made above in her. I was still willing to be there and listen. I still congratulated her and wished her all the happiness eventho i was dissapointed she didnt invite me.. My duty in her life is over. I dont feel bad about my decision of cutting her off.

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Yeah, cutting her out is the best thing you did for yourself. People like that are just looking for psychotherapist, not a friend.

What if the Virgo isn't a marker and just plays the blame game for the problems they cause in the relationship. She sounds very manipulative emotionally and just wanted you to always take her side. If he is really a marker then that would explain their nature to like people with problems because they rather help them then help themselves. Focusing on the other person issues to not have to face their own flaws which is a common trait.

She was using you for her problems but she will pop up on on you when you least suspect it to pretend like nothing ever happen. She know what she did and she's avoiding a argument they like to run away they hate confrontation. As a fellow Scorpio I had to understand that no one will ever be as loyal of a friend as you. Sadly you have to keep majority of your friendships at arms length because you will feel betrayed by them in some way. You cut her off because we have a great third eye to see through people's bs and facade. I don't think you should cut her out forever though. Just make sure you confront her and make her face what she did and she will apologize when you call her out on her but try behavior. It's easier said then done because I cut people off quick too.

Good luck on what ever decision you make.

I mean the Virgo boyfriend isn't a marker in the first sentence. Sorry I'm typing on my phone.

Posted by seezythescorpion
I meant she got engaged to her boyfriend & that it probably took place yesterday.

Ok...so that was a Saturday. For all you know they got engaged on Friday, and last minute were only able to afford friends and a small handful of friends to celebrate it. You are the one who is assuming here, and what's sad, is you have no clue as to what's taken place.

Regardless, I'm the type of person to give close friends, family and close relationships the benefit of the doubt. Also the only time I'd close the door on ANY of them would be a severe breach in trust or being deliberately screwed over. I've had many damp sleeves on my shirts from friends crying, and great ears for listening when one needs to vent. I also have the brains and common sense to realize, people ultimately will make their own choices, no matter how forward and direct I've been when asked about my opinion. Some people have to walk that walk to figure shit out whether they fall or rise with the outcome.

Doesn't make me resentful at all, because friends aren't resentful of their friends. In your case... it wreaks of resentment. Why is that?

My first response went ~poof~? So if it shows up here, you will simply see the same view..different words/same meaning.

I have seen and done enough before i made my decision. Theres alot more to this than i have mentioned on here. Im not an immature person, it takes me along time to give up on people BUT im wise enough to know when its time to cut chains and stop giving to someone that doesnt value me enough.

You can trust i have given it enough thought before i took action.. It was a butterty thing to do and i don't really need much excuse for this.

None of whats been said about the way i offer my friendship has affected me. I know im true to myself and those around me and i know how much i have given to her.

Only if she had responded i would have given her the benefit of the doubt. Yet again she prooved she was not worthy.

Its not my sensitivity here. Its the reality.

Posted by seezythescorpion
I have seen and done enough before i made my decision. Theres alot more to this than i have mentioned on here. Im not an immature person, it takes me along time to give up on people BUT im wise enough to know when its time to cut chains and stop giving to someone that doesnt value me enough.

You can trust i have given it enough thought before i took action.. It was a butterty thing to do and i don't really need much excuse for this.

None of whats been said about the way i offer my friendship has affected me. I know im true to myself and those around me and i know how much i have given to her.

Only if she had responded i would have given her the benefit of the doubt. Yet again she prooved she was not worthy.

Its not my sensitivity here. Its the reality.

I'm gonna call this response ^^^ bullshit. You say you "have seen and done enough before I made my decision"... if that were true, you would NOT have sent this message and I will bold the area that doesn't jive:

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I sent her a brief msg and said im not sure if ive said or done something which may have upset her but all was bcuz i cared for her as a friend and just wanted her happiness, told her ive seen pictures and i am happy for her and wished her happiness.

She didnt respond.. i dont know what really is wrong with her but i came to understand that trying to be a good friend makes you the bad guy. She is out of my life now forever.





It hasn't even been 24 hours for her to respond has it? However, it doesn't matter, because if I were her and the way you are behaving, I wouldn't want to be bothered with you. You've actually spared her unneeded bullshit in her HAPPY life. You both are better off without each other.