Virgo Man and Scorpio Woman

Hey Guys,

I've been lurking around these message boards for a while and the discussions are living and informative to say the least... I have a question for anyone willing to answer... though feedback is always appreciated and encouraged...

I just began seeing this Virgo gentleman that is a gentleman in every way, sooo not what I am use to after dating a emotional vampire Capricorn for 6 years... He is everything I'm looking for in a man...actually everything and more....

Just want to know what the potential is like for a Virgo Man and Scorpio Woman... Our birthdays are 9/22/74 (him) and 11/2/79 (me), I'm not sure how he feels about astrology so I haven't asked about his birth time but mine is 4:19 am... Any input would be great... thanks!!!

Hello Eagle!

I'm a Virgo Man married to a Scorpio Woman - celebrated our second wedding anniversary back in October! It's the second marriage for both of us - my first was a Libra, and hers was a Gemini. We're both much better matched the second time around!

Your VirGuy shares my birthday (SEP 22nd), so he's a Libra Cusp like me. I'm about 83.275% Virgo, and if I hadn't had a Virgo Dad, that percentage would probably be lower.

f_s: Find out his history and patterns with women. I would highly suggest you stay critical before you get all enchanted and your head spinning in no time.

Good advice. We're about the hardest guys to date you're ever gonna meet. My Scorp almost gave up on me before we ever got started dating. Guard your heart. But... we're super-duper quadruple cautious (some gals read that as SHY, but that's often not the case - as they find out later if they're lucky!), so if we can't read you, and know if you're interested, then we may never make a move -- and you know how secretive you Scorps are!

In short: This is a tough courtship to get started.

But, if you open up to each other (and it has to be mutual!), there's this almost immediate, deep, unspoken understanding between these two Signs. Some folks attribute it to the fact that one sign was split back in the past to create Scorpio & Virgo. Who knows? But I do know in my case that I finally found a woman who truly gets me, and I get her - sometimes four times in one day! (sorry, couldn't resist!).

Folks who know us say we're like two peas in a pod -- which is weird! She's intense & passionate about everything, and I'm cooler & more practical about everything. And yet, there's this SOMETHING that makes us seem so natural together.

I hope you have a similar experience with your VirGuy.

One more thing while I'm online: Virgo Men hate falling in love. We hate to admit that a woman has broken our splendid isolation!! Ever heard the song by Simon and Garfunkel - I am a Rock, I am an Island? That should be our anthem! My Virgo Dad used to say that my Leo Mom had him by the short hairs. We actually resent our love for you! And yet, once we do fall, we are totally devoted to you. My Dad's universe revolved around Mom. But, catching us is the hard part! Imagine storming a castle - with solid rock walls 20 feet thick - that would be child's play to winning over a grown VirGuy!

Have I discouraged you yet?

But, you Scorps can really get to us, because you get us. You'll drive us crazy, and we'll love you for it! My Scorp had me topsy-turvy before I ever asked her out. In fact, I got so desperate to understand her and my feelings for her that I Googled "Scorpio Women" and found DXP - way back in March 2006.

Thanks for your replies guys...

There definitely seems to be an easy going communication between eachother, which we've both commented is actually very rare for us... We're both guarded people and don't feel comfortable expressing our emotions to others, but that doesn't seem to be a big issue between us... I think it's more of a timing thing more than anything else... He's still going through a divorce and I just came out of a six year relationship...

We haven't consummated our courtship and it feels good to take our time, I think we're both comfortable with that for the moment... If anything, the connection was almost instantanious, as if we've known eachother for decades... It's disarming for the both of us... Scary stuff really...

As far as it being difficult to get the relations off the blocks it is slow going... You think getting to know a Virgo is difficult, try a Capricorn... That was years and years of push and pull, misunderstandings left and right... The Cappy taught me alot about what I want and how to be upfront about my feelings, I know better now and try not to be so secretive with the Virgo, that's made easy because he has been honest so far... Seems as if we trust eachother though we both know there is the potential to be hurt... Scary, scary stuff... But in a good way... : )

Dy, your posts are always quite intriguing and seem to be similar to my experience with the Virgo so far, invaluable to say the least, so I thank you... Scorpioinlaw, your insight has also given me a hope of things working out down the road...

By the way Dy, Scorpios are the same when it comes to falling in love... WE HATE IT!! lol Reminds us how vulnerable we are and how extremely sensitive our hearts are... I'm surrounded by Scorps and we react quite strongly to feelings of love and it never seats well when we realize we're in love... I think, how the f did this person get to me? LOL So we completely understand the resentment of love many Virgos feel, us Scorps share the same sentiment... But once we feel it and accept it (the key being accepting it, since we know we're hard people to love) we are totally devoted to that special someone... We're fervertly protective, loving and devoted and will do anything to put a smile on the face of our beloved... We are just very very selective about whom we choose to focus our intensity and passion upon, hence the reason many people think us to be cold and unemotional... LOL... Yea, we Scorpios get a bad rap... lol

Dy is right. Tread very carefully with this one. Do not come on too strong with him. Don't try to make him talk about his feelings or where is this relationship going too soon. Always have a nice, but "Whatever" attitude with him to keep him coming forward. My experience with Virgo is that they think way too much and can talk themselves right out of a relationship before it ever gets started because the love feelings scare the heck out of them. They can be very critical of you also so you have to keep him thinking that you are the prize to be won not the other way around.

Lol.. that's kinda how I've been approaching this relationship...

S-I-L: See, I can't articulate it either! We can talk about it and all around it, but that ?Something? defies simple expression.

Truth, I actually promised my Scorp that I wouldn't over-analyze that SOMETHING, and so far I've kept my word. I don't want to destroy the magic of it by having a Virgo explanation for it...

Thanks, S-I-L! And a very Merry Christmas! to you & yours.

Uh, there's no escaping the "Scorpion influence" in this house - except up on the rooftop with Ole Saint Nick!

Hey Guys,

Just wanted to give an update on me and my Virgo friend... We went out on our first date this Saturday and all I have to say is OMG!!!! IT WAS THE BEST DATE EVER!!!

Sorry for the overabundance of exclamation points but I'm over the moon and it very very very scary!! The connection was immediate and we both didn't expect it nor have we ever experience it with other people we've dated in the past... It's as if you've known eachother for decades... There were no awkward moments just a connection that I can't really put into words... I always raised a cynical eye to those virgo/scorpio couples on dxp that have written about this kind of connection, my apologizes since I now understand completely what your speaking of... AMAZING!!

I was worried about everything leading up to the date and as soon as I saw his face and looked in his eyes, all doubt seemed to dissipate... A part of me is wondering whether or not it actually happened, as if I can't deal.. i dunno but I'll just enjoy it for what it is and see where it goes...

It's as if you've known eachother for decades...

Yes, but wait...

There were no awkward moments just a connection that I can't really put into words...

Odds are, there will be; and ironically, just when you're really starting to open up to each other!

A part of me is wondering whether or not it actually happened, as if I can't deal..

Virgo honesty gets to you, doesn't it?? In a world of fakers & losers, meeting the Real Deal can seem like a fantasy...

Speaking as a Virgo Male: The emotional connection with a Scorpio Female is the thing we can't quite believe - even after we validate it through experience after experience...

Here's something my Scorp said to me on our first date that I'll never forget: "I feel I can tell you anything - like you're a friend I've known my whole life!"

Dy: "Odds are, there will be; and ironically, just when you're really starting to open up to each other!"

DY, I think a bit of that happened last night while we were on the phone with eachother, but I wasn't very talkative last night so that could be what it was...

Dy: A part of me is wondering whether or not it actually happened, as if I can't deal..


Virgo honesty gets to you, doesn't it?? In a world of fakers & losers, meeting the Real Deal can seem like a fantasy...

Speaking as a Virgo Male: The emotional connection with a Scorpio Female is the thing we can't quite believe - even after we validate it through experience after experience..."

Just much so.. I've said to him a couple of times... What pod did you hatch from? In a twist of irony he asked me.. "Where did you come from? I wasn't looking for anything and you came in my life like a tornado!" The sentiment is completely mutual... I didn't expect him, wasn't looking for anyone and he just came in like a mack truck... lol... It does have this fantasy kind of element to me and it scares me since the realist in me is saying... hold on don't get too excited cause its just too good to be true... I think Virgo feels the same way... quite confusing...

This is my first Virgo relationship. I'm a Scorpio female who was introduced to a Virgo guy by a mutual friend of ours. The attraction and connection was instantaneous for both of us and as strange as it seems to us 6-weeks later, we are just amazed & baffled by it all! Surging Eagle's experience(s) are darn near identical to mine. It was on our 2nd date that he assured me he loved me--I thought he was joking with me. Well, 6-weeks later he still professes his love to me. He is very affectionate with me (contradictary to what's been written about Virgos) and he tells me everything. As a Scorpio I'm still apprehensive but he's quite patient with me and is persistant until he gets me to open up to him. I can't say that I've ever trusted anybody like I do him. However, if he "intentionally" betrays me --he's "toast" that's just how I'm wired, I won't hurt him but he won't forget that he betrayed me. He is EVERYTHING, so far, that I've ever wanted or needed in a man. I was married to a Taurus guy for over 15-years and have not been "intimate" with anyone, since my separation & divorce, over 5-years ago. This Virgo guy comes along and when he and I are together, no one else even exists. How long this will last remains to be seen & is a mystery to me, but I'm going to enjoy every hour/minute/second of it!

I love Scorpio Women....it's like I 'click' with them. The Jealous streak is something to behold though..lol

Hi, Is there anyone here that can give some advise on Virgo men? I am a scorpio woman (Nov. 13) He is a Virgo man (Sept.9). We have been great friends for about 4 years now. We met through my last relationship, which he was very supportive and has been a great freind through my healing process when the relationship ended. The thing is I have feelings for him. I have never felt this way about another man before. I simply adore him in every way. He is everything I want in a man, but I never new it until I met him. I suspect I suspect he has feeling for me as well. He has commented several times about how connected he feels with me. He feels very comfortable around me. It's like we knew each other before we met. My feelings for him scare me, and I almost hate him sometimes because he knows me better than I do at times. It seems like we are both waiting for the other to break the wall down and give in to our feelings. I am ready to but don't want to freak him out. How do I do this without losing our friendship?

Heyyy he shares my birthday!

Nothing we can do to help the friendship line because thats up to him after you tell him.

Don't smash your feelings onto his face like a clown would with pie. Or randomly out of no where. He'll just get flustered and may not take you seriously, or freeze. Like I did.



After reading about your situation I like the idea of a whole monologue somewhere private that has meaning (like the place you always meet at) about how he's always been their for you and how your feelings grew and blah blah blah.

That would melt me the right way.

But I doubt the virgo man in your life is like me so just wait for more insight.

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Composite chart etc.

You’ll know a lot! Good luck!

Posted by Sal_Manilla

The Disrespect has to stop!

Libra was not an afterthought. There was no Virgo, Libra, and Scorpio as 1 sign. There was no split. Libra was included, and depicted on the OLDEST KNOWN astrology related artifacts including the Dendera zodiac. The Sumerians, the earliest known practitioners fo astrology, included Virgo, Libra, and Scorpio in their zodiac.

"But, the scales are to balance out virgo and scorpio". No, no it isn't. Libra is depicted as scales due to the fact that it is the sign that falls on the Autumnal Equinox, where darkness and light are equal, a perfect balance between light and darkness. You following? Did we lose you anywhere?

The only thing that could possibly cause this abomination of YouTube mythology is the fact that Virgo and Scorpio both have an 'M' shape in their symbols.. Well, case closed, the 'M', what else do you need? But, let's look at what is included with that 'M' for Scorpio the tail on the M represents both the stinger of a scorpion and symbol for Mars- the ruler of Scorpio. For Virgo, the loop symbolizes an ear of grain. Virgo has always been known as the sign of the harvest, even in Sumerian astrology Virgo was known as "The Furrow". The centrepoint star of the Virgo constellation is called Spica, in Latin the words "Spicum" or "Spica" translates to "Ear of Grain" because of the star Spica in the constellation of Virgo. Besides all that, the Greeks are not the creators of astrology, they added those symbols several hundred years after astrology was established, but Ptolemy even included Libra in the Tetrabiblos.

Egyptian astrology depicts Virgo as Isis, Scorpio as Set (as depicted by all the scorpions that adorn him), Libra as Anubis (as evident by the scales he carries) some 2000 BC.

On the other hand, if symbols looking similar is really what sways your thinking, look into the reason why the symbol for Mercury is the symbol for Venus with the symbol for taurus on top.

Now, stop acting like Libra is just some bastard afterthought, it isnt, it has a rich history in astrology. If you're a virgo or a scorpio and you just like the romance and mystery surrounding all the nonsensical modern Blogstrology mumbo jumbo, fine, but stop passing it on like its actually true. Really, an 'M'? Arent you 2 signs supposed to be the "seekers of truth" & "Dig deep". An 'M' gotcha? That's why Trump won.

There is more evidence showing that Libra has always been a part of the zodiac, than backs up the nonsense that it hasn't. An 'M' lol, and Capricorn only has an 'N' and a sea goat tail, that must mean Capricorn was once Scorpio before Saturn's legs we bitten off by an actual sea goat.

Can you vocaroo this...I can't read. Kthanks!