Virgo STRONGLY attracted to Scorp. Weird

First off: Usually Im a prude. Majorly. Until this Scorp and I started chatting.
Its how he phrases things its so...necessarily erotic. I dont know. I want to throw caution to the wind but this happened:

Ok Im going to make this short. Found myself strongly attracted to a Scorp found on Tinder. Want to hang out etc etc. He does as well. Wanted to meet at a neutral location. We being joking around. Intense chemistry. He asks me out about 6/7 times; Im still in joke mode. Last night he says that he's going out of town and will be back Tuesday and wants me to hang out with him at his beach/house. I replied back with a joke, he says "you're impossible" and poof. Silence. Now I know he's busy and out of town but how should I proceed. I text him that I do want to meet him/hang out sincerely but havent heard back yet. Do you all get over things quickly? How should I proceed? I was thinking to check in with him in a couple of days...smooth things over so he's knows I sincerely want to hook up/hang out.

I could be over-thinking it as well but geesh Ive never been so into someone physically and hes not even my type. Its truly a carnal thing.

Posted by trashedbliss
he says "you're impossible" and poof.

LOL. Sorry but lol. I've heard this myself.

Scorpios match us in humor and sarcasm so we forget they're still a water sign and still emotional. And Virgo humor can come across as "I don't really give a shit" so you should make ammends. I don't like the idea with meeting up at his beach/house. I'd call him and tell him to meet up somewhere neutral. Don't go into apologies mode but maybe a "You know I only joked.." would go a long way.

Posted by trashedbliss
Its truly a carnal thing.

If it's only carnal, I don't get all the over analyzing. Why would you care if he got offended or not?

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Am I missing something?

Tinder is a hookup app, right?

So, you actually don't know this person, right?

Never seen him before, face to face?

....and instead of suggesting a neutral spot for a first meet, he suggested you come to his beach house.

Ummmmm.....no and fuck you should seem suffice.

I would agree with this but she said "It's a carnal thing" so apparently she's on board.

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
not that there is anything wrong with high school janitors...... 😐

lol@ your libra venus forever

Virgal, a prude? [nearly spewed out my drink] 😛

The lust is getting to your head, take a deep breathe and slowly let it out dear lady. Now, meeting at a beach house sounds outright dodgy, on top of that, to suddenly disappear after nagging for such an outrageous request is but dodgy, amplified. Thereby, wake up from your lust filled dream and be careful.

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Virgal, a prude? [nearly spewed out my drink] 😛

We exist 😛

fuckin tinder

Posted by Damnata

Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Virgal, a prude? [nearly spewed out my drink] 😛

We exist 😛

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You mean the infamous innocent act. 😛

Tell me this again, when you have got a few glasses of wine in me and I shall digest the possibility. 😈

Wow lol thanks guys for the comments. Regarding catfish - we did photo verify & regarding emotion I kinda want to go against the virgo and caution grain & just do it. Yes I know it'll probably be sexual but there's something about him.

My cousin is a virgo and she's with a Scorpio and gave me some advice as well.

I may just be super horny so I'm going to take and consider all options and see how I feel Sunday. I'm gonna let it simmer down lol. Thank you scorpions!

Posted by Rabbit
Virgo and Scorp?

Horrible match.

Run away.

^This.

do it. the sex is amazing.

and yeah i definitely get where you're coming from.. where you're attracted to someone and they're not even your type... and you can't explain your undeniable attraction for them. 100% of the time, it's a scorpio man for me. they repulse my virgoness with their uncouth ways but at the same time can really magnetize me to them in ways that others can't. it's definitely "weird". love/hate thing gahhh

Posted by Whatu
Sharing a bottle of wine In a beach house with a stranger with the Windows open and the curtains blowing in the sea breeze.

Sounds terrible.

I sense sarcasm.... The plan is the beach though

Posted by bloodflood
and yeah i definitely get where you're coming from.. where you're attracted to someone and they're not even your type... and you can't explain your undeniable attraction for them. 100% of the time, it's a scorpio man for me. they repulse my virgoness with their uncouth ways but at the same time can really magnetize me to them in ways that others can't. it's definitely "weird". love/hate thing gahhh

Hmm lol great. I've kind of made up my mind about it lol. I'm shocked tho that some are saying the Scorpio virgo isn't a good match when I know several couples. One long term as in decade lol anyway, it's some magnetic attraction and I like it

But I like the Scorpio/Virgo combination. 😢 It's aggravating on the Scorpio side though, when Virgo can wait and wait and be so patient and turtle-ish... about anything, really, even just planning to spend time together. Because if the planning doesn't happen then the spending time together doesn't happen, so get butt in gear and plan this thing (once in a relationship), duh! Of course on the Virgo end it'd seem Scorpio can be pushy and demanding and possibly selfish too. The vice versa's of anything, really.

I like Libra Venus too. 😉

It is definitely true that when the chips are down, Scorpio can get emo-hurt stubborn, and Virgo doesn't see the logic in that. Because there isn't any. Emotions are not logical. And logic isn't emotional. The witty satire shared between the two is hilarious. Both are the two most analytical signs of the zodiac. They see, observe, and notice E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G and then are cynical about it. Because it happened and oh-man-did-you-SEE-that-why-did-that-happen. But cynicism can be humorous when shared with the right audience. The audience that goes oh-haha-yeah-I-KNOW-right, instead of judges you for what you notice. The analyst notices the act; the analyst didn't DO the act. The cynical snicker and snort and are having a good time in good company. So if Virgo or Scorpio wants this shared with someone, they need someone with traits of either of these two signs. And, well, clones are boring, right?

The adorability of Virgo endears Scorpio, who puts on the magnetism to keep Virgo's interest. Because Virgo is critical, but harmless, and gets right under Scorpio's shield; which can be frightening but uplifting all at the same time. Scorpio is protective of whatever Scorpio loves. Too much protection can stifle some sorts, but there are enough Virgos out there who find comfort in it.