Virgo Girl Scorpio Guy

I am a Virgo girl, 22 years. I am sort of beginning to have a crush on this scorpio guy. I was in a relationship for the last 3 years, but I broke up with my bf because we had no future and things were not working out. I did not break up because of the scorpio guy but he was sort of flirting with me before the relationship ended. After breakup I told him that I need some time to get over it and he was fine with it. He kept on texting me a lot ... despite being busy. Once we met and he took all initiatives to meet me alone and talk to me in person. He made me feel special ... and I did get that 'scorpio stare'. We like used to talk a lot, and I had this feeling that he liked me, and because he was really sweet I started falling for him.

Now its been a month and he is ignoring me. He tells me he is busy. I find it hard to believe ... because he always used to make time for me despite being busy. This is crazy because I am falling for him more and more because he is ignoring me ... I find it hard to focus on other things ... I always end up thinking about him. It is hard to believe because guys generally do not do this to me, I mean I am hardly ignored by anyone. He replies to my messages in 2-3 words and really late. He has stopped texting me. I text him sporadically(once in 2-3 days), and he has apologized for not being able to talk to me because he has been busy. However I get a feeling that he has time for all the useless things in life ... and how can he be busy doing the same things so much so that he says I can't think of anything else. This guy kind of liked me in d beginning and that is what made me fall for him. Now I am confused ... should I move on ... should I wait - shall I keep texting him or shall I stop texting him.

Thanks for your help.

I get the feeling after reading it again that you were either an ego boost for him or he just flaked on you because someone else caught his interest or isn't interested enough in you.

Posted by VirgoRagini
However I get a feeling that he has time for all the useless things in life ...

^^You should probably check the ego trip you're on.

You fell for him but he didn't actually do anything substantial to make it look like he was interested. There were a lot of assumptions on your part.

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Posted by Damnata
I get the feeling after reading it again that you were either an ego boost for him or he just flaked on you because someone else caught his interest or isn't interested enough in you.

He totally missed out on Virgo awesomeness.

Poor guy...

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Not sure, chick seems to be a bit delusional/egotistical.

Which is why I prefer men with Sun in Sane to men with Sun in Scorpio 😛

And no, nothing anyone ever does can trigger smthg that wasn't already in you.

See in the light of the small penis thread, I get why you folks do this though.

Triggering mental illness in women..at least that if not good sex 😛

Posted by Rabbit
I'm lost.

You scorpio moons are so cute.

It's my weird humor..nvm.

See you were joking about triggering mental illnesses in women..and I said..well at least you do this thing right if (allegedly) your lot has a small penis. I mean you need to give something in a relationship..be it a mental illness or good sex.

I was basically outtrolling your trolling comment 😄

What is this delusion you call Virgo awesomeness Rabbit? Honest question.

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Posted by Damnata
What is this delusion you call Virgo awesomeness Rabbit? Honest question.

Stop trolling for compliments 😛

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ahahaha

You fish a lot IRL if I remember well 😄

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Posted by Damnata
I get the feeling after reading it again that you were either an ego boost for him or he just flaked on you because someone else caught his interest or isn't interested enough in you.

He totally missed out on Virgo awesomeness.

Poor guy...

Not sure, chick seems to be a bit delusional/egotistical.

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Oh, Virgos.. This sometimes seems to be a theme with us, sadly. :/

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Posted by Damnata
I get the feeling after reading it again that you were either an ego boost for him or he just flaked on you because someone else caught his interest or isn't interested enough in you.

He totally missed out on Virgo awesomeness.

Poor guy...

Not sure, chick seems to be a bit delusional/egotistical.

Oh, Virgos.. This sometimes seems to be a theme with us, sadly. :/

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Pretty much.

Awww Rabbit 😄

Martyr complex.

Posted by Rabbit
Now for the negatives...

*opens Excel spreadsheet*

Yesss.

Seriously it's the negatives I am concerned with..so it can help me grow if any apply to my awesomeness.

Fire away.

Posted by Andalusia
Martyr complex.

pffft this is lightweight. bring on the heavy stuff.

All your 1 card? lol.

I played UNO on a train ride in a TGV in France a lot of years back with my mom and whoever we met on the train. Owned all the French people lol.

^^^Hence why I brought the train topic 😄

people .. i am delusional maybe ... but not an egoist.
Help me what to do ... shall i just forget him ... i still have a feeling he likes me. n he flirted a lot. we live in different cities so it's not possible fr him to stalk me.
Should I stop texting him or continue ?

I'd say pull back for a bit and see what happens.

Not as a power play, just to regain perspective.

He started messaging me ... n though I am not someone who indulges in all this ... i continued it as a distraction to get over my ex bf ... now that he is ignoring me ... i feel kind of weird n there is lot of empty time in my life because he texted me all day ... n i don't feel like doing anything after breakup ...so i am missing talking to him ... n falling for him 😢

There shouldn't be empty time in your life because someone isn't messaging you. You managed to live your life just fine until now, right?

If it's just a distraction to get over your ex bf, then you're not being honest to yourself. You don't really care about the Scorpio but the attention he gave you made you feel special so now you're going off on that.

I'm a Virgo though, hope some Scorps get in here and reply better than I did.

http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

^^Put here your dates of birth and for every one of you a table will appear. Post the things you see "Sun in Virgo", "Moon in X", "Mercury in Y" here..so we can take a look at the charts.

I am really curious.

Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Libra
Venus Libra
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Sagittarius

for me

Sun Scorpio
Moon Aries
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Libra
Mars Scorpio
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Capricorn
Asc node Capricorn

for him

I was sure I'd see some Cancer there 😐. Melly get in here.

Both Venus Libra? This is going nowhere fast.

so moon and mars in cancer is not good :\

It's not good or bad, it's about tendencies you need to see.

Cancer placements will hold unto connections and the moment they feel a connection..everything goes out of the window. You need to realize not everything will be proven truth and pace your feels a little.

Virgo chick there's someone who has that chart in here...hope she'll twirl into this thread and tell us some shit 😄

ohkk there is someone out there who is as crazy as me .. good to know

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Posted by VirgoRagini
we live in different cities so it's not possible fr him to stalk me.

LOL

Where did THAT come from?

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Rabbit's message.

But I will take it that you DO believe it's possible to stalk even an ocean away lol. Right on. My Venus in the 8th approves.

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Posted by VirgoRagini
we live in different cities so it's not possible fr him to stalk me.

LOL

Where did THAT come from?

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that was for the first person who replied to this post

scorched I wanted to message elle too lol but I thought you'd be first and we'd freak her Libra out.

Posted by Damnata
I was sure I'd see some Cancer there 😐. Melly get in here.

LOL, I know a thing or two about being a Virgo with a Cancer moon. However, I'm not qualified to speak about the other metric fuck-ton of Cardinal energy in her chart.

elle please help me .. where ever you are .. help me sort out this mess

Posted by Rabbit
It is always possible to stalk someone

-_-

YES.

One of my favorite quotes "Some call it stalking. I call it love" LOL

**Amorous surveillance

Is there any way to see if a Scorpio is into you, other than him/her clubbing you over the head or stalking the hell out of you?

Posted by Rabbit
Stop listening to all these crazy women.

Tell yourself "This jerk is missing out", then go out and find someone better than some miserable Scorpio guy.

+1

Although this only satisfies the ego and brings no self-awareness whatsoever.

And Virgos need to overanalyze to the point of insanity so that moving on shit coupled with the Cancer placements...ain't happening.

Melly 😄
what do u think abt d two of us together ?

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
You are not going to like what I'm going to say 😢

He's lost interest, sweetness. I know it is really wrong but that is similar to what I do. I can go in really strong at first and then suddenly realise that it's not for me, I'll do silly things like try to disappear or become really aloof. It's that freakish libra venus.

It usually happens within the first three months....never longer than that....if I stick around after that timestamp, I'm in it for the long haul.

It could be something very petty that set him off and more than likely really irrational. There is no point to wait for him or try to get him to change his mind....that never works.

If he was into you and then suddenly isn't....that isn't a good sign. not a good sign at all.

strawberry ... any way to get him back ... since i think we will be really good together ... any way to tell him to stop freaking out ...before trying something new (he has never been in a relationship before) ... i know he is freaking out ... but i do not want to run away ... is it possible if somebody stays and tries ... you can change ur mind about them ?

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Even if I'm busy.....if I'm into someone....they are the first thing I think about when I wake up and the last thing I think about when I go to bed...and I *make* time for them regardless.

the fact he is using the excuse that he's busy......is lame. he just doesn't have the courage to break your heart.

I know it's totally a cowardice move....I'm sorry 😢

strawberry ... i was the first thing he thought about when he woke up and before he slept ... he even asked me to stay awake with him while he did his work ... because he used to say i give him the 'motivation'.
I have tried asking him what went wrong ... all he says is that he is busy and can not think of anything else at the moment.
Something tells me I should not let him go ... he made me feel really special .. n i should not leave him just because he is freaking out.
Tell me what can i do that can get him back

Posted by VirgoRagini
Melly 😄
what do u think abt d two of us together ?

Well. It depends.

I have some thoughts, but I will need some background information before I give my opinion on the question you asked above.

For starters:

- How did you and your ex come to be together? Who pursued who?

- At what point did you realize the relationship with your ex, as you said, "wasn't going anywhere"?

- What were your thoughts and feelings towards your ex before you started dating? What were they while you were dating? What are they now?

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I broke a virgo's heart once 😭

He was very sweet.....

what set me off?

1) he sang a song from the cartoon south park into my voicemail....something about goats and babies, I was so freaked out I couldn't really understand what he was saying. I hate that cartoon, so as soon as he started explaining himself my eyes glazed over. I told him to never do that again, as I didn't find any humour in it at all.

2) he wore white tennis shoes with black socks and dress pants on our first official date. 😐 I'm not superficial (lol...I'm lying a little bit *libra venus* 🍹)....I just couldn't stop staring at his shoes.

3) he put me on a three way phone call with one of his best male friends and then jumped off the line....I felt I was being interviewed or something. the guy wasn't out of line or anything....there was just a lot of awkward silence.

Yes....very petty, very superficial....very......irrational on my end but it just set off a switch in my head of......just no.

we had been getting to know each other for two months and those three things (three strikes you are OUT) drove the nails in the coffin.

he stalked ME for two months....constant text messages asking me "whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy—!!!!"....it was sad 😢

Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Virgo merc
Venus leo
Mars in I don't remember what

Oh God. It was probably Leo as well. :/

Virgo chick, at this point I will cosign with scorched and tell you that you never actually had him so there is no getting him back.

However I feel your chart is a tough one and maybe I can pinpoint why. Don't take it as gospel though.

Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Libra
Venus Libra
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Sagittarius

You have literally NO fire in it, so whatever happens you will never go "FUCK THIS SHIT I AM OUT"

Sun in Virgo: Hmm I am picky and I met someone who touches on that? What is this guy about really? He intrigues me

Moon in Cancer: OMG WE HAVE A CONNECTION. SOULMATE VIBE. THIS IS IT (it's at this point where you need to back off and look at stuff again)

Mercury Libra: Hmm..so he's being reticent but...maybe he has work to do..maybe it's the distance..maybe it's the fact that I recently broke up with my ex..who knows..life is full of posibilities

Venus in Libra: Ugh, I am crushing on him..but everything seems so nice, so out of the ordinary, so fairytale like. Maybe if I wait a little longer...I can stare at this for days at a time.

Mars in Cancer: I WILL get him back. Surely he felt this connection and for whatever reason he cannot pursue it now. I will make him see it.

IMO it's the Moon/Mars Cancer with the Venus in Libra who have you seeing things in a blurry way.

Revert back to your Virgo sun.

okay strawberry i get it ... no more texts from my side ... and no more delusions ... m on my own now ... will forget this jerk and move on ... i understand what you are saying ...
thanks a lot for your help dear ... u r really sweet ...n yea white shoes with black socks on a date, i would hv felt the same 😛
though its sad .. i will move on 🙂

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
hug yourself!

ummmmmm....she has cancer placements, she'll pinch herself more likely.

Posted by Damnata
Virgo chick, at this point I will cosign with scorched and tell you that you never actually had him so there is no getting him back.

However I feel your chart is a tough one and maybe I can pinpoint why. Don't take it as gospel though.

Sun Virgo
Moon Cancer
Mercury Libra
Venus Libra
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Sagittarius

You have literally NO fire in it, so whatever happens you will never go "FUCK THIS SHIT I AM OUT"

Sun in Virgo: Hmm I am picky and I met someone who touches on that? What is this guy about really? He intrigues me

Moon in Cancer: OMG WE HAVE A CONNECTION. SOULMATE VIBE. THIS IS IT (it's at this point where you need to back off and look at stuff again)

Mercury Libra: Hmm..so he's being reticent but...maybe he has work to do..maybe it's the distance..maybe it's the fact that I recently broke up with my ex..who knows..life is full of posibilities

Venus in Libra: Ugh, I am crushing on him..but everything seems so nice, so out of the ordinary, so fairytale like. Maybe if I wait a little longer...I can stare at this for days at a time.

Mars in Cancer: I WILL get him back. Surely he felt this connection and for whatever reason he cannot pursue it now. I will make him see it.

IMO it's the Moon/Mars Cancer with the Venus in Libra who have you seeing things in a blurry way.

Revert back to your Virgo sun.

That is so me ... i am going back to being the virgo ... no more confusion ... m only focusing on the virgo now 😄 thank u so much ... u really helped