Aquaqua_
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Weird vibes from Scorpio man
He would like to feel that he has you under his spell before he make any more moves.
Mind games.
They get jealous and possessive easily. Need your to chase them a little but then again some of the less developed Scorpios likes to do this to a lot of girls for validation purposes so it really depends.
Mind games.
They get jealous and possessive easily. Need your to chase them a little but then again some of the less developed Scorpios likes to do this to a lot of girls for validation purposes so it really depends.
fuck him lol
he's already exited left
he will go for you if he wants you
period
thats just how scorpios are
I think you turned him off by a) expecting constant communication
b) flirting with another guy
c) arguing
d)leaving without saying good bye
I doubt he's going to tell you he doesn't want to talk to you anymore but if you bug him enough he will lol just let it go, you are not compatible with this guy and he knows it. I would've lost interest too, too many fails too fast
he's already exited left
he will go for you if he wants you
period
thats just how scorpios are
I think you turned him off by a) expecting constant communication
b) flirting with another guy
c) arguing
d)leaving without saying good bye
I doubt he's going to tell you he doesn't want to talk to you anymore but if you bug him enough he will lol just let it go, you are not compatible with this guy and he knows it. I would've lost interest too, too many fails too fast
"I than ignored him for a couple of days, expecting him to call again, which he didn’t. So i caved in and when I did I could tell that he was so happy to hear from me and wanted to see me right away."
u playing games kind of maybe pissed him off. why didnt u get excited to hear from him?
they like that. lol
dont be coy.
so if he's not hot on ur tail. forget him.
u playing games kind of maybe pissed him off. why didnt u get excited to hear from him?
they like that. lol
dont be coy.
so if he's not hot on ur tail. forget him.
Posted by Aquaqua_For the purpose of my response, I have bolded the places where you are an idiot. All this shit in 4 weeks time.
Hi guys,
I am new to this forum and immediatly marching in with my dilemma.
I met a Scorpio man about a month ago (I am an aquarius) and he was really putting in the work. He texted me and called me a lot. But it was also a lot less than im used to because he would respond very slow. He told me it was because of his work/job that he wasn’t always glued to his phone. That, btw, was our first issue. He called me a couple of times and than we moved on from that.
A couple of days later the same thing happened. I than ignored him for a couple of days, expecting him to call again, which he didn’t. So i caved in and when I did I could tell that he was so happy to hear from me and wanted to see me right away.
We met up for the 5th time and it was a weird “date”. First he had me waiting for hours because he wasn’t finished yet and than when I told him we could’ve just met later he acted as if I was talking sh*t. Than we went out and I think I unpurposely made him jealous because I was talking to the guy standing next to me. We than got into a small argument and he kept repeating that he thought it was too soon to have this kind of arguments. That pissed me off so I left without saying goodbye.
I felt really bad about leaving so I apologized for it. We talked about it and hashed it out. I bumped into him after that at a party and everything was alright.
To make a long story short: now he’s not paying me any attention anymore. If I text him, he replies. But he isn’t the first to text. I feel that if I don’t text him I won’t hear from him ever again.
What do I do? I feel like I ruined things but I also feel like he should’ve just be honest if he didn’t feel like talking to me anymore!
First of all, not everyone likes texting all the time. You say he texted you a lot, but it still wasn't enough cause you want more. You probably nagged the shit out of him about it, but your hot to crazy ratio was still good, so he let it slide.
Then after you nag him about communication, you start keeping "who is texting who first" points. You already know he isn't tied to his phone. If you want to talk to him, you can message him. But instead, you do that stupid girl game of I WON'T MESSAGE HIM HE HAS TO. Stupid. Probably put in some passive aggressive jabs in about it too.
Then instead of realizing, even though he probably under estimated a project of his, and instead of delaying it, he wanted to actually spend time with you, you start nagging again. Dude could have cancelled, but instead wanted to spend time with you regardless of what you guys were doing. But you're gonna nag about it. But then, on top of that, he feels disrespected that you are giving another guy attention while on a date with him. And you probably didn't have a short conversation with the other guy, to piss this guy off. But instead of acting like an adult, you throw a tantrum and act like a child. Leave him there, by himself.
And after all that fucking up on YOUR part, in 4 weeks time, YOU STILL have the NERVE to demand he should be the one that initiates contact. Even though, YOU fucked up, and left the dude high and dry.
Maybe he wants to see you take initiative and act like you like him. Cause all your actions show him differently.
JFC.
Wildflower explains it best. I'm a Scorpio and that's pretty much how I'd feel if I were that guy. I'm not saying he's not without fault.
Demanding attention: No. We want to feel wanted, but we don't want to be smothered. Not a deal breaker on you, but annoying.
Ignoring: 1) Ghosting a Scorpio for multiple days is excessively disrespectful, zero stinger points for you. 2) Ghosting a Scorpio is pointless because we will see right through this game, or just not care. And we have endless patience to outlast you. And we will remember this about you forever.
Talking to another man: Why are you flirting with someone else on a date? That's rude to do to any sign, let alone Scorpio. Double plus ungood. In Scorpiospeak, this means: you are inconsiderate, unfaithful, and uninterested. Not desirable qualities for a Scorpio mate.
Leaving: This is your nail in the coffin. After all this drama, you reject, disrespect, and embarrass a Scorpio (in a public place no less) by walking out on him? Low blow. He may, quite literally, never ever forgive you. It depends on how much you hurt him.
If he has stopped pursuing you, he has lost interest. But if he replies to your texts, he has not lost interest to the point of no return. Apologizing was a good start, but he won't come around without some serious patience and effort on your part. You cannot force him.
I don't think you guys are compatible. Your schedules are not in sync. Your communication style s are different. You both want different things and aren't willing to compromise. You're vindictive when you don't get what you want.
Demanding attention: No. We want to feel wanted, but we don't want to be smothered. Not a deal breaker on you, but annoying.
Ignoring: 1) Ghosting a Scorpio for multiple days is excessively disrespectful, zero stinger points for you. 2) Ghosting a Scorpio is pointless because we will see right through this game, or just not care. And we have endless patience to outlast you. And we will remember this about you forever.
Talking to another man: Why are you flirting with someone else on a date? That's rude to do to any sign, let alone Scorpio. Double plus ungood. In Scorpiospeak, this means: you are inconsiderate, unfaithful, and uninterested. Not desirable qualities for a Scorpio mate.
Leaving: This is your nail in the coffin. After all this drama, you reject, disrespect, and embarrass a Scorpio (in a public place no less) by walking out on him? Low blow. He may, quite literally, never ever forgive you. It depends on how much you hurt him.
If he has stopped pursuing you, he has lost interest. But if he replies to your texts, he has not lost interest to the point of no return. Apologizing was a good start, but he won't come around without some serious patience and effort on your part. You cannot force him.
I don't think you guys are compatible. Your schedules are not in sync. Your communication style s are different. You both want different things and aren't willing to compromise. You're vindictive when you don't get what you want.
Posted by WittyGem88v2maybe for men lol
And this is why I say Aquas like being ignored than chased. Scorp guy didnt chase so here you are.
Anyway, I think hes done. First rule with scorps is dont make them jealous. Ever. Or they will cut you off. And you’re not even in a committed rs yet. Just move on.
and i dont know about other aqua suns,but i love to be chased (but only by the right man) lol
or else its just gross.
Posted by Venomousethx mate
Wildflower explains it best. I'm a Scorpio and that's pretty much how I'd feel if I were that guy. I'm not saying he's not without fault.
Demanding attention: No. We want to feel wanted, but we don't want to be smothered. Not a deal breaker on you, but annoying.
Ignoring: 1) Ghosting a Scorpio for multiple days is excessively disrespectful, zero stinger points for you. 2) Ghosting a Scorpio is pointless because we will see right through this game, or just not care. And we have endless patience to outlast you. And we will remember this about you forever.
Talking to another man: Why are you flirting with someone else on a date? That's rude to do to any sign, let alone Scorpio. Double plus ungood. In Scorpiospeak, this means: you are inconsiderate, unfaithful, and uninterested. Not desirable qualities for a Scorpio mate.
Leaving: This is your nail in the coffin. After all this drama, you reject, disrespect, and embarrass a Scorpio (in a public place no less) by walking out on him? Low blow. He may, quite literally, never ever forgive you. It depends on how much you hurt him.
If he has stopped pursuing you, he has lost interest. But if he replies to your texts, he has not lost interest to the point of no return. Apologizing was a good start, but he won't come around without some serious patience and effort on your part. You cannot force him.
I don't think you guys are compatible. Your schedules are not in sync. Your communication style s are different. You both want different things and aren't willing to compromise. You're vindictive when you don't get what you want.
Yea I agree with the fellow Scorpios above. Run.
I’m a Scorpio dating a Scorpio male and you did all the wrong things. Lol
Firstly, if they’re giving you boat loads of attention you’ve piqued their interest. This fun, flirty behavior is a lot of silent probing and will continue until he decides you’re worthy of his time. You guys had a run in about communication style s and he overlooked that and continued on with wanting to see you. But he played with you by making you wait. Scorpios like to make people sweat so we can see what you’re made of inside. So this means he wanted to see you but still had reservations about how demanding you were being overall.
Never, ever, ever, ignore a Scorpio man. Like said above he will outlast you in that game until his grave basically. Lol it’s the upmost disrespectful thing to do second to walking away from him. He knows what he brings to the table and will not play the game how you want him too by being immature and leaving him high and dry.
If he’s interested in you, a guy better not even look your way. They’re more intense then Scorpio women in this area. You are there to be with him and that’s where you’re attention needs to be. Sometimes it could be the most light hearted conversation with another male around and he still won’t stand for it and then make you turn around you’ll find yourself apologizing when you’re not even sure what you’re apologizing for. Lol
Point blank. He’s checked out already. I’m a little late on this forum but I’m scrolling through the scorp threads right now and it’s my first day on here. Lol 🤗
Y’all aren’t compatible anyways and would drive each other crazy if an emotional relationship started. Good luck!
I’m a Scorpio dating a Scorpio male and you did all the wrong things. Lol
Firstly, if they’re giving you boat loads of attention you’ve piqued their interest. This fun, flirty behavior is a lot of silent probing and will continue until he decides you’re worthy of his time. You guys had a run in about communication style s and he overlooked that and continued on with wanting to see you. But he played with you by making you wait. Scorpios like to make people sweat so we can see what you’re made of inside. So this means he wanted to see you but still had reservations about how demanding you were being overall.
Never, ever, ever, ignore a Scorpio man. Like said above he will outlast you in that game until his grave basically. Lol it’s the upmost disrespectful thing to do second to walking away from him. He knows what he brings to the table and will not play the game how you want him too by being immature and leaving him high and dry.
If he’s interested in you, a guy better not even look your way. They’re more intense then Scorpio women in this area. You are there to be with him and that’s where you’re attention needs to be. Sometimes it could be the most light hearted conversation with another male around and he still won’t stand for it and then make you turn around you’ll find yourself apologizing when you’re not even sure what you’re apologizing for. Lol
Point blank. He’s checked out already. I’m a little late on this forum but I’m scrolling through the scorp threads right now and it’s my first day on here. Lol 🤗
Y’all aren’t compatible anyways and would drive each other crazy if an emotional relationship started. Good luck!
I think you’re being too hard on yourself. Stop overanalysing and thinking you made a mistake. He definitely playing mind games. I also disagree with most of the posts here because basically you are the lady and he is the guy. So he should do the initial chasing or you’ve lost it anyway.
When you say you don’t think he will message you again if you don’t message first. Then you have to leave it. Maybe he will, maybe he won’t. Your end game here is to build attraction, not just simply get a message from him, you can’t get him to like you by messaging him, you must wait, even if he never does again. Think of it this way, if he doesn’t message, then I know it’s hard, but he’s done you a favour, because you can’t let yourself waste time with someone not interested.
And omg lol you think you should apologise, why? I don’t think you should have, what were you doing that required an apology? He must think it something really bad now if you apologised. I’d just put this to experience, you don’t apologise even if you think you were wrong, move on.
He left you waiting... so this is his mistake, he should apologise lol it’s crazy that people here think it’s your fault? Anyway who knows, but he should apologise to you, and if he doesn’t, if there wasn’t clear communication that he was going to be late, then I think he’s not really interested in a relationship, and going forward, he won’t be reliable. Look at it that way.
But I’m not a Scorpio so who knows. And I’m not from the US either, I think sometimes the culture is so different with dating in the US. Men don’t have to make an effort do they? ..and work is always the priority, which is why the rule is that it’s acceptable to keep a lady waiting and not apologise if you have work to finish?
When you say you don’t think he will message you again if you don’t message first. Then you have to leave it. Maybe he will, maybe he won’t. Your end game here is to build attraction, not just simply get a message from him, you can’t get him to like you by messaging him, you must wait, even if he never does again. Think of it this way, if he doesn’t message, then I know it’s hard, but he’s done you a favour, because you can’t let yourself waste time with someone not interested.
And omg lol you think you should apologise, why? I don’t think you should have, what were you doing that required an apology? He must think it something really bad now if you apologised. I’d just put this to experience, you don’t apologise even if you think you were wrong, move on.
He left you waiting... so this is his mistake, he should apologise lol it’s crazy that people here think it’s your fault? Anyway who knows, but he should apologise to you, and if he doesn’t, if there wasn’t clear communication that he was going to be late, then I think he’s not really interested in a relationship, and going forward, he won’t be reliable. Look at it that way.
But I’m not a Scorpio so who knows. And I’m not from the US either, I think sometimes the culture is so different with dating in the US. Men don’t have to make an effort do they? ..and work is always the priority, which is why the rule is that it’s acceptable to keep a lady waiting and not apologise if you have work to finish?
Posted by WeetzieBatlol
These Scorpios sure do take up for their snake-kind. Wow.
You're not compatible because you have a spine and he's looking for a doormat who will act like she's from the 18th century and avert her gaze when there's another man. Do you really want anything to do with that nonsense? Just move on.
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I met a Scorpio man about a month ago (I am an aquarius) and he was really putting in the work. He texted me and called me a lot. But it was also a lot less than im used to because he would respond very slow. He told me it was because of his work/job that he wasn’t always glued to his phone. That, btw, was our first issue. He called me a couple of times and than we moved on from that.
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I felt really bad about leaving so I apologized for it. We talked about it and hashed it out. I bumped into him after that at a party and everything was alright.
To make a long story short: now he’s not paying me any attention anymore. If I text him, he replies. But he isn’t the first to text. I feel that if I don’t text him I won’t hear from him ever again.
What do I do? I feel like I ruined things but I also feel like he should’ve just be honest if he didn’t feel like talking to me anymore!