
Agentgem24
@Agentgem24
12 Years1,000+ PostsGemini
Comments: 102 · Posts: 1323 · Topics: 48




Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by KingVirgo
I doubt age has anything to do it with probably just his personality, some guys are just dick heads just like some woman are bitches in attitude wise.
why is he a dickhead? they're just incompatible, extremely so, she seems very neurotic.click to expand


Posted by Agentgem24
I broke up with my Scorpio, I decided it was the best thing to do. We dated only 3 months, and I think I stuck it out an extra 2 months just because he was so into me and sweet...I think I was trying to like him more than I did.

Posted by feby16aqua
Well yes maybe so. Also, usually when people break up they find and remember what the person said and did that bothered them over the course of the relationship. It's like their armor and gives them reinforcement and justification that their decision was the correct one, sometimes.
Do you feel badly that you could have hurt him?

Posted by robyn808
OMG he started wearing green pants on Tuesday! fuckin Tuesday man! I could understand someone might wanting to do that on a Thursday.. but Tuesday? that's fucking psychotic.

Posted by DMVPosted by Agentgem24
I broke up with my Scorpio, I decided it was the best thing to do. We dated only 3 months, and I think I stuck it out an extra 2 months just because he was so into me and sweet...I think I was trying to like him more than I did.
this is the most honest and genuine thing youve said since you started posting about ol boy. scorps called it from jump street.
you strung him along and he most likely felt that.click to expand



Posted by Agentgem24
I told him constantly....that he annoyed me all the time. He tried to stop and tone down, but it was just him and it wasnt for me.
I lost it when he thought classic rock was trashy 90s pop songs. See, this is why I usually date 4-14 years older than me...all my friends are that age and older, he was pretty much the youngest one I hung wrong and it showed. He had good qualities, he was very attentive to me. But life is far too short to waste it with someone you aren't fully happy with.
Robyn, what does that mean?

Posted by geminicandIe
Guys, go easy on Gemini girl. I believe she had the best intentions. She TRIED to fall in love and it just didn't work out.

Posted by MilkySoftPosted by WaterCup
OMG, I'm getting de ja vu just reading this because this is almost exactly how it ended with the scorp I was seeing. 3 mnths in & he also wanted a baby lol.
Interesting, the scorp guy I'm seeing has an impregnation fantasy but I think it is animalistic and kinda hot. We're not having sex yet though. As long as it's just a fantasy I'm cool with it.
Anyway, being a Gemini seems complicated.click to expand

Posted by feby16aqua
Yeah she's going to take hits because she's been way too vocal and personal about communicating her life on here and people will use it against her.
Truth is, we all have our shit. I've mentioned the OCD and the anxiety, which I think she should be aware of and work on. The issues with obsession over weight, BDD and food are just masks for deeper issues.
This is a good time to work on yourself OP.

Posted by geminicandIePosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by geminicandIe
Guys, go easy on Gemini girl. I believe she had the best intentions. She TRIED to fall in love and it just didn't work out.
This isn't a Disney movie. Shit doesn't work like that. If you aren't feeling it, you aren't feeling it. Trying to settle for someone purely because they're interested screams issues with self esteem, and our retarded ass society also pushes this mindset.
"WELL HE LIKES YOU. YOU SHOULD GIVE IT A TRY!" No. Just no.
I understand rocky, I agree. But you are an aries. It doesn't work that way with gems. Every romance starts with us as a Disney movies, only to become a horror story soon. Heh.
I only recently learned to say no and be firm and to actually have an opinion and stand for it. But I had to chanel my Leo energy.click to expand

Posted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by MilkySoftPosted by WaterCup
OMG, I'm getting de ja vu just reading this because this is almost exactly how it ended with the scorp I was seeing. 3 mnths in & he also wanted a baby lol.
Interesting, the scorp guy I'm seeing has an impregnation fantasy but I think it is animalistic and kinda hot. We're not having sex yet though. As long as it's just a fantasy I'm cool with it.
Anyway, being a Gemini seems complicated.
So...basically I need a Scorpio. Cool. Erases Taurus from list and moves Scorpio up. Put asterisk next to baby by 35 on list.click to expand
Posted by KingVirgo
lol I'm just glad everybody left the virgo's alone for a couple of days...

Posted by alohamoraPosted by geminicandIePosted by alohamora
If she didn't like him from get go, she was stringing him along.
I feel bad for the dude.
Agentgem needs to clear her mind though and maybe do some yoga. She's bouncing wall to wall and she did mention some things that are health concerns.
But I thought she said she did like him. She was smitten with him, no? He is the reason she came to the board.
Smitten doesn't mean she liked him. Stringing him along for extra two months* when she wasnt feeling it for 3 months.
It happens, but I think the main concerns are mental and emotional health here. She's unhappy single or taken with a decent guy.click to expand

Posted by Neurotoxin
I'd like to hear HIS side of the story.


Posted by NeurotoxinPosted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by MilkySoftPosted by WaterCup
OMG, I'm getting de ja vu just reading this because this is almost exactly how it ended with the scorp I was seeing. 3 mnths in & he also wanted a baby lol.
Interesting, the scorp guy I'm seeing has an impregnation fantasy but I think it is animalistic and kinda hot. We're not having sex yet though. As long as it's just a fantasy I'm cool with it.
Anyway, being a Gemini seems complicated.
So...basically I need a Scorpio. Cool. Erases Taurus from list and moves Scorpio up. Put asterisk next to baby by 35 on list.
The Impregnation fantasy thing is more a cancer thing, I believe.click to expand

Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by geminicandIePosted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by geminicandIe
Guys, go easy on Gemini girl. I believe she had the best intentions. She TRIED to fall in love and it just didn't work out.
This isn't a Disney movie. Shit doesn't work like that. If you aren't feeling it, you aren't feeling it. Trying to settle for someone purely because they're interested screams issues with self esteem, and our retarded ass society also pushes this mindset.
"WELL HE LIKES YOU. YOU SHOULD GIVE IT A TRY!" No. Just no.
I understand rocky, I agree. But you are an aries. It doesn't work that way with gems. Every romance starts with us as a Disney movies, only to become a horror story soon. Heh.
I only recently learned to say no and be firm and to actually have an opinion and stand for it. But I had to chanel my Leo energy.
You guys and Libras are fuck ups in dating, I've noticed. When both are immature, good lord, holy terrors. Stringing along, cock teases, fucking around with others' emotions to save face value- all for very selfish reasons. Stay the hell away from the general population until some basic level of maturity is reached. Then you can celebrate a quincinera of sorts- coming of age and becoming a rational human being. Besides, almost everyone loves a good excuse for cake.click to expand

Posted by ellessque
well, I hope you are absolutely sure, most don't get any "take backs".
if he does take you back, it will only be so he can dump you. 😄

Posted by Neurotoxin
I'd let the human race die out if I was the last man on earth and a Gemini was the last woman.


Posted by DMVPosted by Agentgem24
I broke up with my Scorpio, I decided it was the best thing to do. We dated only 3 months, and I think I stuck it out an extra 2 months just because he was so into me and sweet...I think I was trying to like him more than I did.
this is the most honest and genuine thing youve said since you started posting about ol boy. scorps called it from jump street.
you strung him along and he most likely felt that.click to expand


Posted by DMVPosted by Agentgem24
I broke up with my Scorpio, I decided it was the best thing to do. We dated only 3 months, and I think I stuck it out an extra 2 months just because he was so into me and sweet...I think I was trying to like him more than I did.
this is the most honest and genuine thing youve said since you started posting about ol boy. scorps called it from jump street.
you strung him along and he most likely felt that.click to expand

Posted by NeurotoxinPosted by alohamora
So much hate.
I'd prefer to be celibate than to subject myself to a Gemini personality in any manner other than friendly/platonic.
It's best for everyone that way.click to expand

Posted by Neurotoxin
I'd like to hear HIS side of the story.

Posted by MilkySoftPosted by DMVPosted by NeurotoxinPosted by PiscVirgAquaFishPosted by MilkySoftPosted by WaterCup
OMG, I'm getting de ja vu just reading this because this is almost exactly how it ended with the scorp I was seeing. 3 mnths in & he also wanted a baby lol.
Interesting, the scorp guy I'm seeing has an impregnation fantasy but I think it is animalistic and kinda hot. We're not having sex yet though. As long as it's just a fantasy I'm cool with it.
Anyway, being a Gemini seems complicated.
So...basically I need a Scorpio. Cool. Erases Taurus from list and moves Scorpio up. Put asterisk next to baby by 35 on list.
The Impregnation fantasy thing is more a cancer thing, I believe.
moon/mars in synastry
His mars is only .30 degrees into Sagittarius, so it's kind of a Sag/Scorpio cusp. If we consider it a Scorpio mars it would conjunct my scorp moon. Anyway, thanks for that bit of insight!click to expand

Posted by ScorpvenusPosted by Neurotoxin
I'd like to hear HIS side of the story.
1+.
I'd also like to hear what made him enter a 'relationship' with her and stay for over a month.
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Posted by MellyMel909Posted by ellessquePosted by DMVPosted by ScorpvenusPosted by Neurotoxin
I'd like to hear HIS side of the story.
1+.
I'd also like to hear what made him enter a 'relationship' with her and stay for over a month.
her ex scorp is a venus in capricorn, if he stayed, he was really into her and LOYAL or he felt it was his duty to stay and see it to the end. Since they were only 3 months in, he was surely into her.
sucks 2. He would been her ROCK.
venus in cancer needs alot of affection and hugs, to be loved. thats not how venus in caps love. were tangible. which is why she had cold feet because he probably wasnt as forthcoming with affection which can raise doubt in our partners.
+1
she broke his heart.
Awwwh no! That makes me wonder about the Cappy Venus I dated earlier this year... I ended things cause I thought he had changed his mind about wanting to date me, but perhaps me and my Venus in Leo overreacted 😢click to expand

Posted by Superseven
I worked for a small production company that was owned by a couple, the wife was a Scorpio and the husband a gemini. They have kids together and have been together 8 years when I met them. I've met others like this on a professional level.
A Gemini buddy of mines is also married to a Scorpio woman and they have two girls together. I would have ended up with a Scorpio if the timing was right but the ones have been with always want kids and I wasn't ready for that at the time.
The only Gemini and Scorpio unions that don't work are the ones that come to the Scorpio board for advice.??
I think it's the power of of "suggestion" that becomes a self fulfilling prophecy because when you all give your advice, you say it with such confidence that it makes the receiver think you've considered every possible avenue, so they abandon their good judgement.
The real crime here is others acting like they know your duty in life better than you do, just because of your sign.??
But I am learning that water Gemini's are a whole different pedigree.

Posted by MellyMel909Posted by ellessque
Well damn! That sucks cause I really liked him. Although, in my case, he WAS forthcoming in the beginning. Expressed a lot of affection, both verbally and physically. But then he went from communicating with me everyday and wanting to see me twice a week to no contact - either initiating or responding - for over a week. Consistency is big with me, so I just assumed he lost interest and ended up sending a "well this was fun while it lasted" type text.
^^^^^^^ I think once they get comfortable, they are just working (cap) towards a future, I think that is how they show affection. I could be wrong, but that's just logical for me. He was looking forward....maybe too much. Usually if a cap venus isn't interested....they don't even bother pursuing, no efforts go wasted. Eye is always on the prize.
He was also younger than me.. Only 19 about to turn 20.. So maybe that played into it as well?click to expand

Posted by geminicandIePosted by Wynter
Most of the Gems here remind me of mosquitoes.
Me too. Sags remind me of overweight horses >.>click to expand


Posted by NeurotoxinPosted by tw1nk1e
What the hell with all this Gemini hate?
I don't see any hate...click to expand


Posted by Agentgem24
What in the literal fuck!!
Seriously, why so many replies?
I did like him, don't get me wrong. I wasnt stringing him on or leading him on intentionally. He was sweet to me and seemed very into me, I liked him and wanted to give it a try. I always complimented him on his patience etc. it just got to the point where I really couldn't be around him, I felt at odds and irritated. I apologized for snapping but I couldn't help it. My Taurus room mate thought he was an "okay guy" but not for me...he said, "that man is NOT smart. He just thinks he is" my Leo best friend thought he was genuine when she met him. Cancer best friend thought he was ok at first...then got really annoyed. My Pisces best friend HATED him.
I really do feel bad. He told me he really did love me and was going to tell me he loved me after his cruise...I told him when he went on it to lessen the blow...I was trying to be as nice as possible. Pisces friend says no time for little boys, (she is very much like me and could not stand his mannerisms) and my cancer friend says I was being too nice and I had to be blunt. He was begging, said he would drop his female best friend for me and he was an idiot for saying all those stupid jokes and not respecting my body and he was being a selfish ass and to PLEASE come back to him and he needed to see me. Pisces friend, "ew no...I know what type of man that is, a begger. Pathetic. Don't you dare go see him to talk, be an adult, grow some balls, and cut it off dry"
Told gem best male friend he wanted to see me to say good bye and he goes, "Dude, RUN!"
Both Pisces females found him very rude and insensitive and total dude bro. Even the kids I nannied (10 and 12) met him and said, "does he say, -the situation has arrived- when he walks in a room?" In reference to jersey shore.
Very few of my friends actually liked him. And honestly, he seemed like the perfect bf and I WANTED to like him more really hard....I tried! Until I just couldn't. I hate hurting ppl (hello, libra moon and cancer venus/mars) he said I changed him and made him a better person and even ppl at work (his work) told me thank you because since me he wasnt such a self absorbed ass. It made me feel good, I felt guilty for having those leaving thoughts and wanted to try and make it work...for him. But in the end I realized I was sacrificing my own happiness and I couldn't do it, I w

Posted by Agentgem24
What in the literal fuck!!
Seriously, why so many replies?

Posted by robyn808
God damn leeb moons, who cares what your friend think. THEY'RE NOT FUCKING HIM!

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But towards the end, I was getting increasingly irritated. Our personalities clashed, I was embarrassed around him in public...his whole demeanor annoyed me. Especially his voice (bothered my room mate too). He was a pretty decent guy, he certaintly was heart broken when I told him and was begging to know end. But there were a number of reasons why it ended...1, because I'm not happy should be all i need...but some final straws:
He was very catholic. He was already picking out kids names after a month. His jokes were very sexist and rude. He would put me down and pull the "you're a woman" card, and insult my intelligence. He was way too self obsessed. He came across as an arrogant ass to others. Here is a BIG one; I was a day late on my period...I never have been in 4+ years on pill so I asked him to pull out from then on to be extra safe. He pitched a fit, said things like "maybe I will maybe I won't" joked, "what if 1 drop gets you pregnant? I would laugh". NO sir. Not to mention he would call me inferior and weak...said "bad genes" because I was born a few weeks early! He bragged about being 8 lbs and full term, yet his family had all the health issues. No thanks. It got to the point where I couldn't stand to be around him (really quick). That's why we bickered so much. I feel so much better, and free now!!