@Agentgem24
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Posted by Agentgem24
What in the literal fuck!!Seriously, why so many replies?
You're joking right? You blow up the board for months with your threads about this dude and thought we would have nothing to say?
As for the rest.....yeah. Okay. Stevie Wonder could have seen this coming.
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Posted by Superseven
I worked for a small production company that was owned by a couple, the wife was a Scorpio and the husband a gemini. They have kids together and have been together 8 years when I met them. I've met others like this on a professional level.
A Gemini buddy of mines is also married to a Scorpio woman and they have two girls together. I would have ended up with a Scorpio if the timing was right but the ones have been with always want kids and I wasn't ready for that at the time.
The only Gemini and Scorpio unions that don't work are the ones that come to the Scorpio board for advice.??
But I am learning that water Gemini's are a whole different pedigree.
In real life, Nicole Kidman's chart is Sun Gemini 8th house (Scorpio link) Mars Libra in the 12th(water sign house again), and her Leo love signs/Venus & Jupiter are in Capricorn (10th) Don't know October Scorpio Keith Urban's chart, but Nicole usually goes for Water suns, with complement to her placements. It's the "connection".
Posted by robyn808
God damn leeb moons, who cares what your friend think. THEY'RE NOT FUCKING HIM!her pisces friend was definitely attracted to him.
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No not at all. The blunt one (Aries rising) has been happily married to an Aquarius for 11 years and the sensitive Pisces with the Scorp moon is married to my best male friend Gemini after 8 years together.
Posted by Agentgem24
My cancer mother and grandpa also said good riddance. My libra friend said she would destroy him into the ground for what he said to me but I actually defended him some and said he wasn't ALL that bad.I do feel bad for him...I hope he finds someone that will be okay with everything he is.
You don't have to defend yourself. What's done is done. It's your choice.
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yup
Posted by robyn808
God damn leeb moons, who cares what your friend think. THEY'RE NOT FUCKING HIM!her pisces friend was definitely attracted to him.
No not at all. The blunt one (Aries rising) has been happily married to an Aquarius for 11 years and the sensitive Pisces with the Scorp moon is married to my best male friend Gemini after 8 years together.
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Even married people can be attracted to other people AND get jealous. and the fish has a scorp moon, yeah she liked him.
Posted by Agentgem24
My cancer mother and grandpa also said good riddance. My libra friend said she would destroy him into the ground for what he said to me but I actually defended him some and said he wasn't ALL that bad.I do feel bad for him...I hope he finds someone that will be okay with everything he is.
So wait. Is he a good guy or an asshole?
Did he mistreat you or were you both just incompatible?
Did you like him or didn't you?
Did your friends play a part in this breakup or did you decide on your own?
Is he the wronged party or is he the party that wronged you?
Is there a party and does it have cupcakes?
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girl the Libra Moon feels strongly both ways.
No, she was the one that thought he was "okay" but insensitive. Stop playing signs when it comes to attraction. She wasnt intersted.
The one that HATED him was Pisces Aries rising with Aries moon...she hates me sometimes too, she tells me she wants to jerk my head against the wall, but then pat it and hug me. Honestly, she hates many ppl. I love her, but she intimidates the hell out of me.
My friends are just protective.
Posted by CluelessCancer
This thread isn't even about Cancers, yet some of you can't keep us out of the discussion.
Posted by Agentgem24
My cancer mother and grandpa also said good riddance. My libra friend said she would destroy him into the ground for what he said to me but I actually defended him some and said he wasn't ALL that bad.I do feel bad for him...I hope he finds someone that will be okay with everything he is.
So wait. Is he a good guy or an asshole?
Did he mistreat you or were you both just incompatible?
Did you like him or didn't you?
Did your friends play a part in this breakup or did you decide on your own?
Is he the wronged party or is he the party that wronged you?
Is there a party and does it have cupcakes?
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I had mixed feelings. It's both people's faults. In the end, I realized it was mainly due to incompatibility and me being very sensitive and him clashing against me. You also may be intersted to know, my Pisces friend is a dessert blogger and we went on a cupcake tour over the weekend..there were MANY cupcakes...she always has them
Posted by Agentgem24
My cancer mother and grandpa also said good riddance. My libra friend said she would destroy him into the ground for what he said to me but I actually defended him some and said he wasn't ALL that bad.I do feel bad for him...I hope he finds someone that will be okay with everything he is.
So wait. Is he a good guy or an asshole?
Did he mistreat you or were you both just incompatible?
Did you like him or didn't you?
Did your friends play a part in this breakup or did you decide on your own?
Is he the wronged party or is he the party that wronged you?
Is there a party and does it have cupcakes?
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Ain't Gems fun? They are neither here nor there.
Posted by Agentgem24
No, she was the one that thought he was "okay" but insensitive. Stop playing signs when it comes to attraction. She wasnt intersted.The one that HATED him was Pisces Aries rising with Aries moon...she hates me sometimes too, she tells me she wants to jerk my head against the wall, but then pat it and hug me. Honestly, she hates many ppl. I love her, but she intimidates the hell out of me.
My friends are just protective.
i am 2 and initially i ALWAYS have a problem with my friends' mates. im just jealous that their men are taking them away from me.
protective and possessive are your friends, but be careful they dont become road blocks.
Posted by Superseven
I worked for a small production company that was owned by a couple, the wife was a Scorpio and the husband a gemini. They have kids together and have been together 8 years when I met them. I've met others like this on a professional level.
A Gemini buddy of mines is also married to a Scorpio woman and they have two girls together. I would have ended up with a Scorpio if the timing was right but the ones have been with always want kids and I wasn't ready for that at the time.
The only Gemini and Scorpio unions that don't work are the ones that come to the Scorpio board for advice.??
But I am learning that water Gemini's are a whole different pedigree.In real life, Nicole Kidman's chart is Sun Gemini 8th house (Scorpio link) Mars Libra in the 12th(water sign house again), and her Leo love signs/Venus & Jupiter are in Capricorn (10th) Don't know October Scorpio Keith Urban's chart, but Nicole usually goes for Water suns, with complement to her placements. It's the "connection".
For those of us with a heavy Earth or Water chart, it's hard to fit into a cookie cutter Air relationship. I can't put up with the half-hearted games and playing it cool, but it's true that Water and Earth people definitely are overwhelming.
But I feel like I have more to learn from Water people than Air people. I know how my own mind works already.
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what's to learn? Astrology is already good for learning. If you haven't been brought up with a Water/Earth family, it's not as overwhelming as you think. You already understand that anything too light is just not going to do for you. It's more of a "comfort" zone. Hard to explain.
Good morning everyone- Neuro, Elle, M&M??s and Necroblitz in fine (if odd) form!
I'd love a cupcake for breakfast Melly??_?!!!
Poor thing AgentGem??_ I agree with earlier sentiments, she is very young and we all made a bucket load of mistakes at her age! It's not the end of the world for either of them- just another lesson.
AG- there are some pearls of wisdom amongst the cupcakes, namely
1. You need to get a handle on yourself; with the OCD and as DMV suggested body issues and while you have to expend all this energy on your emotional, mental and physical wellbeing there is little point in being with someone else.
2. In fact it could be very damaging- perhaps steer clear of a relationship with anyone for a little while. Until you have the above issues sorted and as Elle mentioned there seems to be unresolved issues with your Leo ex??_?
3. You need to own your age. There is no point in claiming to be mature as you are not there yet. The reason you find it easy to date older people is that they are more indulgent and probably wryly smile at your antics. Someone your own age will call you on it and go to battle! You seem very intelligent, articulate, funny and very sweet, but I'm yet to see the maturity you speak of. This is not a bad thing- simply where you are at in the game of life.
4. If you post??_ expect replies & cupcakes
But also, kudos to you for calling time on it. There is no point dragging it out if you are not there. 3 months is a blink of an eye- a fun, steamy blink of an eye!
I'm very sensitive and like that emotional closeness and communication.
But I also like a hint of light. I felt an uncomfortable serious overly deep vibe with Scorpio and it made me uncomfortable....it also didn't make it feel as special when he had to compliment me a thousand times a day
I love sarcasm and jokes. I like banter, friendly. But his was mean and jerky. Especially when they want to do a follow up pap because they are worried my cells came back abnormal and I was having intense pelvic cramps. He would say "ahaha what if you have cancer?" Not cool. Then when he saw I was upset he would be "jk...I would stay with you"
I almost threw up when he told me one of his clients told him what a great speaking voice he had and that he could be the president and he was so great. And when he would come over he would immediately flex and fix his hair in the mirror and eat all my food and I am brooooke.
He insulted all of my friends. Calling them too pale, they should tan, fat etc. yet try to think everything was fixed by saying "jkkkk"
Also, one of are biggest fights was him telling me I couldn't do my dream I've had since I was 16 because I'm a girl and I would get hurt.
I need good natured bickering not lingering heavy aura and I need partner to support me
Hint honey, this thread is not what you need.
The mental merry-go round needs a break, and this forum is at full revolution ATM! 🙂
You don't need to point out his flaws to us.
You just need to get some space, a big deep breath and get to the centre of you (sorry for sounding like a hippy)
Close the thread, go out for coffee with a girlfriend and enjoy the autumn leaves x
I don't think astro had shit to do with the breakup.
+1
Neuro wins the Crystal Ball Gazing prize- and the wontons! Or spring rolls... Or Pad Thai...
Posted by LilliLou
Good morning everyone- Neuro, Elle, M&M??s and Necroblitz in fine (if odd) form!
I'd love a cupcake for breakfast Melly??_?!!!Poor thing AgentGem??_ I agree with earlier sentiments, she is very young and we all made a bucket load of mistakes at her age! It's not the end of the world for either of them- just another lesson.
AG- there are some pearls of wisdom amongst the cupcakes, namely
1. You need to get a handle on yourself; with the OCD and as DMV suggested body issues and while you have to expend all this energy on your emotional, mental and physical wellbeing there is little point in being with someone else.
2. In fact it could be very damaging- perhaps steer clear of a relationship with anyone for a little while. Until you have the above issues sorted and as Elle mentioned there seems to be unresolved issues with your Leo ex??_?
3. You need to own your age. There is no point in claiming to be mature as you are not there yet. The reason you find it easy to date older people is that they are more indulgent and probably wryly smile at your antics. Someone your own age will call you on it and go to battle! You seem very intelligent, articulate, funny and very sweet, but I'm yet to see the maturity you speak of. This is not a bad thing- simply where you are at in the game of life.
4. If you post??_ expect replies & cupcakesBut also, kudos to you for calling time on it. There is no point dragging it out if you are not there. 3 months is a blink of an eye- a fun, steamy blink of an eye!
Thank you...I do know my flaws, I am trying my best to work on them. There is someone that has an eye on but seeing as I just got out of a relationship (even if my heart wasnt fully invested) I needed to do soul searching for awhile and he and I could only be friends for now, even though I see him 5-6x days a week. But I will not rebound or do any of that.
Posted by LilliLou
Hint honey, this thread is not what you need....Close the thread, go out for coffee with a girlfriend and enjoy the autumn leaves
+1
I need room to breathe on my own
I like the autumn idea..
I'm supposed to go to the fair Friday, then for drinks with my Leo friend, then staying the night with my female Scorpy to cook and watch movies.
Well the "new guy" is a friend. I'm only seeing him as a friend. He's my personal trainer (although there is no money between us) so I kinda need to see him to maintain my fitness. His work outs are helping me.
I didn't say I was! I said HE was intersteted in me and I told him I needed soul searching time and friends was all we could be...at least for awhile.
I don't want to think about dating. I feel FREE!!!
-flaps arms and aimlessly spins in a circle-
Wats the new guys sign?
He's Leo/cancer cusp.
But ANYWAYS...I do not. He's just my trainer, fitness has become a huge part of my life and honestly I would not be able to go this often and push myself this hard if he wasnt making me. I actually feel better phyicslky and mentally,
I'm doing this for ME. Not him. Even if I eventually have feelings I can suppress them. They get in the way anyhow
I owe a huge thanks to all my friends actually. They are helping me out so much. Espec my Taurus room mate, he has been so supportive and keeping my spirits up
I NEED someone to push me. Plus when I reach my fitness goal I will feel better about myself physically. You know where I would be if I didn't have someone to push me?
Taking a nap every day after work and getting FAT! -runs and cries- I've lost 3 lbs so far and this makes me happy.
My self confidence is improving and I feel tight and sore, espec in the ass
What is your pic twinkle, I can't see
I forgot!!! I'll get to it soon VS. send me your birthdate too. And time and place of birth
He knows that will not happen. I won't give in and be easy.
He's quite a bit older too. Stick to the gym stuff and results
Oh you meant my room mate?? Nooooooo. Just noooooo.
I am over my Leo ex. He started seeing someone else anyways. And I didn't say I was going to see this guy! I don't want to see anyone right now.
Calling shenanigans ....
Again...not dating this guy. Not dating anyone. Me time and tons of friend time.
Hahahaha
I don't want my libra moon anymore....someone take it.
Posted by Agentgem24
He was begging, said he would drop his female best friend for me and he was an idiot for saying all those stupid jokes and not respecting my body and he was being a selfish ass and to PLEASE come back to him and he needed to see me. Pisces friend, "ew no...I know what type of man that is, a begger. Pathetic. Don't you dare go see him to talk, be an adult, grow some balls, and cut it off dry"
lol. Go figure. They fuck around and manipulate, only to turn into a total whiny dick because shit got real and it came back to bite them in the ass.
Also, YOU'RE incredibly naive if you think "trying" is something you should be doing in the early dating phases. You shouldn't have to do anything. If it's supposed to work, it happens naturally. None of this "HUR I TRIED TO LIKE HIM." If you weren't feeling it in the beginning and only felt luke warm, you should treat it as such. Trying to force something to happen is just fucking stupid. Reread that- Fucking. Stupid.
Whether it's intentional or not, you were emotionally selfish here and behaved incredibly immaturely. Quit this shit about bragging about preference of older men. You are not any more mature than the immature guys your age. Sorry.
Go try to be single for awhile and get your shit together. I mean that in all seriousness. You cannot grow as a person if you continually are in fly by relationships.
Also, stop trying to back up your actions with the "friends and family hated him too" approach. It doesn't matter. Regardless, kudos to you for ending it finally, but you aren't any more innocent because you're the one who created this situation by doing some stupid things. Learn from this experience and maybe think more about the other person next time instead of how you feel, because that's ultimately what happened- you weren't concerned about hurting him, you were concerned about how bad it would make YOU feel for hurting him, so you strung him along for months on end. Not cool, chica.
Posted by Agentgem24
I don't want my libra moon anymore....someone take it.lol, you kinda already do that, giving your decisions up to everyone around you.
Ouch.
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It's true. Gotta love those who choose to be doormats.
Those who relationship hop cannot be taken seriously in being emotionally stable.
Posted by Agentgem24
He's Leo/cancer cusp.But ANYWAYS...I do not. He's just my trainer, fitness has become a huge part of my life and honestly I would not be able to go this often and push myself this hard if he wasnt making me. I actually feel better phyicslky and mentally,
I'm doing this for ME. Not him. Even if I eventually have feelings I can suppress them. They get in the way anyhow
Lol. You're just full of jokes today aren't you? You, who have been all over the place emotionally can suppress your emotions now?
I do enjoy Gems and their sense of humour.
Posted by Agentgem24
My self confidence is improving and I feel tight and sore, espec in the ass
Sorry, I had to.....
Working out is good. It will clear your head and help you focus.
Posted by MellyMel909
Bobbin' and weavin'... Scuttlin' and side steppin'...Damn. Must be a mutable sign thing. That Gemini sun with a Cancer Venus must be a bitch.. Don't wanna get too close but wanting the closeness of a man at the same time.. Monkey barring from one relationship to the other so fast that your feet barely have time to bit the ground..
Please, do your fellow sisters a favor and do not date (ESPECIALLY a water sign man!!) until you have a come-to-Jesus sit down with yourself.
Sincerely,
All the women that have to date after you
Posted by Agentgem24
I don't want my libra moon anymore....someone take it.lol, you kinda already do that, giving your decisions up to everyone around you.
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This.
Posted by Agentgem24
I don't want my libra moon anymore....someone take it.lol, you kinda already do that, giving your decisions up to everyone around you.
Ouch.
It's true. Gotta love those who choose to be doormats.
Those who relationship hop cannot be taken seriously in being emotionally stable.
Never said I disagreed.
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Never said you were? Just elaborating on the point made.
Posted by Agentgem24
Hahahaha
lol
I'm not gonna let you punk ass bitches blame this on her libra moon.
My conclusion is she enjoys attention like many early 20's females and if one attention falters she figures to go to whoever is giving better attention. smh.
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Many times air signs spend zero effort trying to truly understand water signs on a deeper level. It's all superficial with the air. And, if the water does not conform to the air's idea of how one should act, it's put on the water as a deficiency or an annoyance.On the water sign side-- we understand you completely and spend the majority of the relationship hoping that someday you'll finally get what your water is all about.
This day rarely comes and sooner or later water pulls it all back and leaves emotionally even if they are in your presence. We are loyal. 🙂
My two cents
excuse me, you don't understand *anyone* completely except for urself. Are u them?
I don't mean to sound defensive, but I can't stand the arrogant stereotypical water sign attitude that they can just figure anyone out so easily.
especially air signs, because we're obviously walking textbooks open for ur reading pleasure, right??
(Yea I need food...so grouchy right now lol)
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Understatement of the decade!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My cancer mother and grandpa also said good riddance. My libra friend said she would destroy him into the ground for what he said to me but I actually defended him some and said he wasn't ALL that bad.
I do feel bad for him...I hope he finds someone that will be okay with everything he is.