My double Scorpio and i have been in a relationship for almost 3 years,.He has told me in the past that he is not the jealous type. I am more jealous than my Scorpio. I have never given him ANY reason to be jealous of me but he has given me plenty. He always says he puts his true in me and that is all that he can do. When he doesnt show it sometimes i think that he doesn't care about me. I Know he loves me but it feels good sometimes for your man to react sometimes. He says he's proud that other men admire me but not cause for him to get jealous.
Okay, a guy was trying to talk to me in a store oneday,.he asked me why was i not married and giving me compliments. I lift weights sometimes so he asked me if my arms were natural, i told him yes. He asked me if he could touch my arm,.i told him it was fine. Nothing serious we were both jokin around. He says to tell my boyfriend he should go ahead a marry me before someone takes me away.
Scorpio and I talk talk alot or we can get into deep conversations,..so I told Scorpio what the other man said and I told him he touched my arm. Well,..Scorpio asked me why did i let him touch my arm? I tols Scorp it was nothing. So I'm thinkin OK! he is jealous in his own way.
Scorp went to the club onenite with the fellas, he said he danced a fast dance with two females. I asked him Did you touch them?? He said yes, only to escort them to the dance floor. I told him their was no need for this, I'm sure the females knew their way to the dance floor. He says "Baby it was NOTHING Why are you being so jealous? I tell him WELL what about when the guy touched my arm and you got jealous and didn't like it?? Guess wat My Scorpio said,."I faked being jealous I only told you what you wanted to hear because you want me to be jealous about you. That hurt.
But you know what payback is a motherfreakinfrigginfrigginfreakin well u get my point because this weekend I'm goin to the male review by myself with the sexiest outfit i can find and I told him this so now he's upset with me.
The sad part for me is now i dont know if he's being real or just faking. Sorry so long
"the fukk did that weirdo mean by "are your arms natural?"
Thats a good question CP I definitely don't take steroids, Im a shortie 5'2 and by body is very toned my arms arent muscular but people do admire them for some reaason, But this guy probably just wanted a quick feel.
Blue, if you try to make him jealous again, he'll retaliate..AGAIN (and then some, probably). Then it's just a big vicious cycle that will never end, and you'll both be miserable.
Yeah, I'd avoid playing this game if I were you. His story of faking it sounds like an act to preserve his supposed aloofness. Scorps get jealous, they just don't want anyone to know it, jmho of course.
"Yeah, I'd avoid playing this game if I were you. His story of faking it sounds like an act to preserve his supposed aloofness. Scorps get jealous, they just don't want anyone to know it, jmho of course."
Mayb its a male thing combined with him being a Scorpio but I feel as if he can learn how to come off that not admitting he's jealous, it only makes me feel like he doesnt care. I know he loves me with all his heart as he has stated but I have expressed this issue to him but he's determined not to break and I just can't back down this time,.I have done this many ,many times but now he has to bend alittle. What's the whole point of not showing this?? Does he feel like it makes him less of a man?? When i told him about I'm going to male review this weekend, Guess what he said? I want you to have fun, enjoy yourself.
Aquamoon, I'll learn when he can step off the "Pride" and show his trueness.
I feel you, BlueAqua. Let me say this, listen to SS. Don't start the cycle. Scorpseeks is right, scorpio men are jealous, and I'll add very possessive and have a serious double-standard. Not fair, no, but true. Unless you want to lose some of the level of respect and trust he has for you, don't play that game with him. As an Aqua myself, we don't hold grudges and will forget stuff, but scorps remember sh1t damn near for-friggin'-ever.
MD, I am sooooo late but Congratulation, She is so Beautiful🙂🙂
The way he looks at other women it's not respecting me at all, especially when we're together, when i confront him with it he says he doesn't remember the female he was looking at. MD, you said ur Scorpio denies being jealous,.Ok you Know he's jealous but wouldn't you want him to just admit it for once? To show it sometimes? Thats all i want from my Scorp is just to Show this and admit.
Admitting that he is jealous would be admitting a lack of emotional control, and yes, to them to lose control over anything is a weakness. He's most likely looking at other women to incite your jealousy, because that's how they know you care. How do they know? Because when they're jealous, that's how *they* know they care about someone.
"it wasn't directed at you blue-it was directed at scorp men in general. it's sad their pride gets them in so much trouble isn't it. but c'est la vie."
Oh my apologies Aquamoon🙂 Oh yes that pride i imagine has ruined alot of Scorpio relationships.
"The way he looks at other women it's not respecting me at all, especially when we're together, when i confront him with it he says he doesn't remember the female he was looking at."
That is disrespectful. Mine doesn't do that, at least I haven't caught him. You can't let this get to you BlueAqua, as long as he knows it bothers you he will keep doing this anytime he wants to manipulate you.
PS. if he's an unevolved type and doesn't respect you as he should, then what are you doing with him anyways— Just leave and walk away while you still can coz he'd never change his behavior!
BlueAqua I know how you feel tho. My scorp is the same way, he isnt even a double scorp, moon in leo instead. He use to get jealous but not really anymore. If I didnt text him back for a long while or something he would get jealous. and lately if i dont text back it seems like he could care less. and its so true too, i liked when he got jealous, I never did stuff on purpose tho. But it just makes you feel like they really care. And like yours we get into deep conversations and he's told me he truely loves me, but he just really doesnt do anything to really show me. lol I read all this stuff about scorps, and mine just doesnt really fit the part. He said he use to be clingy with all his ex's but he's not with me 😢 it hurts. I just feel uncared for alot now ðŸ˜
"They never forget anything like that it will be 20 years later and they will still remember.."
lol They also never forget your phone number, your email addy or where you live. Apparently, some of them also think that just because they have a different car, you won't recognize them "casually" cruising through your neighborhood, either.
I think Scorpio men/women are very jealous but they only show it when THEY THINK they should! I wouldn't however, want to go looking for ways to entice his passionate rage or jealousy coz that could have very serious repercussions and I think that should be avoided at all costs ( with ANY man 😉 )
If you want him to show appreciation and care, there are millions of ways to get him to show that! Just use some brains and he'd be showing affection. A trick to play with Scorpios is to pretend that you aren't jealous either and see his reaction! However, be careful, show that your not jealous but do display affection and concern towards him at the same time. They like that!
Pathfinder, you brought tears to my eyes because u "understand", SS and Everyone thank you guys for your advice.
Scorp-n-law, I didnt want or dont want a jealous ourburst or near violent reaction from him, I just want to see his hummanistic ways when in love. I have seen and heard the outburst and it wasnt pretty I guess this is why he HATES to argue or debate. Mayb this is why he Hates arguing because he knows he has a temper.
Guys I did go out saturday. But I can't believe what u said. No one said take a Stand.U wanted me to back down and accept his actions. Mayb he will retalliate but i got my point across to him. What would that say about me and what I will accept from him or Any man? Now, my Scorpio says he will try harder to take me out more and express himself. I did notice the other day I got a text from my friendgirl and he asked me who was it. Any other time he would not have asked,he probably would have Wanted to know but played the role and kept this to himself. I just want him to learn how to express himself,express whatever he's feeling.
MD, I am sooooo late but Congratulation, She is so Beautiful
Thank you. She's so damn big now.
The way he looks at other women it's not respecting me at all, especially when we're together, when i confront him with it he says he doesn't remember the female he was looking at. MD, you said ur Scorpio denies being jealous,.Ok you Know he's jealous but wouldn't you want him to just admit it for once? To show it sometimes? Thats all i want from my Scorp is just to Show this and admit.
BlueAqua,
Yes I know what you mean. His jealousy does come out I have seen it but he still claims he isn't the jealous type. LOL
Are u sure he is looking at other women that way or are you just the very jealous type?
I can be the very jealous type myself. I am more open with it though. I will start a scene if I have to.
I have never given him ANY reason to be jealous of me but he has given me plenty. He always says he puts his true in me and that is all that he can do. When he doesnt show it sometimes i think that he doesn't care about me. I Know he loves me but it feels good sometimes for your man to react sometimes.
He says he's proud that other men admire me but not cause for him to get jealous.
Okay, a guy was trying to talk to me in a store oneday,.he asked me why was i not married and giving me compliments. I lift weights sometimes so he asked me if my arms were natural, i told him yes. He asked me if he could touch my arm,.i told him it was fine. Nothing serious we were both jokin around. He says to tell my boyfriend he should go ahead a marry me before someone takes me away.
Scorpio and I talk talk alot or we can get into deep conversations,..so I told Scorpio what the other man said and I told him he touched my arm. Well,..Scorpio asked me why did i let him touch my arm? I tols Scorp it was nothing. So I'm thinkin OK! he is jealous in his own way.
Scorp went to the club onenite with the fellas, he said he danced a fast dance with two females. I asked him Did you touch them?? He said yes, only to escort them to the dance floor. I told him their was no need for this, I'm sure the females knew their way to the dance floor. He says "Baby it was NOTHING Why are you being so jealous? I tell him WELL what about when the guy touched my arm and you got jealous and didn't like it?? Guess wat My Scorpio said,."I faked being jealous I only told you what you wanted to hear because you want me to be jealous about you. That hurt.
But you know what payback is a motherfreakinfrigginfrigginfreakin well u get my point because this weekend I'm goin to the male review by myself with the sexiest outfit i can find and I told him this so now he's upset with me.
The sad part for me is now i dont know if he's being real or just faking. Sorry so long